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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Lovely people of Fab

What are your thoughts on mixed sex changing rooms at clubs. Ladies and couples changing room?

IMO it should be just two changing rooms, ladies and gents.

Why should I be expected to get changed in front of a man I haven’t chosen to see me undressed/naked? Before anyone says to wait until the room is empty, that may not be possible.....

No negative posts please, I’m only wanting your thoughts, it’s not a have a go thread. I’m just keen to know what you think that’s all.

Bhubaysi x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It doesn't bother me. I've mostly found that where they are mixed there are usually toilet cubicles as well.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I agree with you OP. I prefer single sex changing rooms too. If just the Male half of a couple is there and me on my own I feel uncomfortable

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not been an issue for me, but I can see how it might be.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I agree. Much as I like being around ladies changing into underwear.

Its awkward and I bet it doesn’t feel relaxed. All I have to do is chuck my stuff in a locker wrap the towel round me and off I go.

I also been on the end of the bum bump! If you know you know.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Actually a great thread, as I generally have kept to clubs in which they have a place for Tgirls to change, for example Club Sx, if I don't arrive dressed.

The one time I did change in a club I was happy that I'd turned up.early and was out before anyone came in.

I've never yet, ever had any problems using the ladies whilst dressed, however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree... In fact I felt terribly shy and hid round a corner... Until I'd had a few to drink then I didn't care lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It's never been an issue for me

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Most clubs I go to have separate Tgirl/ladies and mens changing rooms. Even I don't like it if a man suddenly pops his head in or just wanders in confused!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually never thought this an issue. As at some point we gonna see the woman naked or even worse never knew it mattered. But very good point.

On the flipside you get to see people and decide ohh I am gonna say hi to that couple later.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

This is interesting ..why is this an issue with ladies yet not with men

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Never a problem for us, we frequented Chams twice a week, sometimes more for a fair few years and couples always got changed in the same room. Our local club didn’t have changing rooms as such, so my wife would get changed in a vacant play room.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"This is interesting ..why is this an issue with ladies yet not with men"

I have occasionally come across men in club changing rooms who try to take the piss because I'm (un)dressing right there. It might well have been an issue if other people hadn't been around.

Maybe that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is interesting ..why is this an issue with ladies yet not with men

I have occasionally come across men in club changing rooms who try to take the piss because I'm (un)dressing right there. It might well have been an issue if other people hadn't been around.

Maybe that? "

I've experienced this too. Even worse, at one club the changing room was just full of creepy leering men.

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"This is interesting ..why is this an issue with ladies yet not with men

I have occasionally come across men in club changing rooms who try to take the piss because I'm (un)dressing right there. It might well have been an issue if other people hadn't been around.

Maybe that?

I've experienced this too. Even worse, at one club the changing room was just full of creepy leering men. "

This is exactly the reason I don’t like it. I feel it’s an invasion of my privacy!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Ok I know I’m going to sound dumb here, as a club virgin, but why wouldn’t the ladies put on their desired lingerie or clothing under other clothes before going to the club. Then when arrive just take off the unnecessary layers ?

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

I’m happy for it to be mixed means we only have to take one bag etc

But I can see your point as a single female especially if you’ve had a night full of wanking dead following you around the last thing you want is to have to go and get changed in front of them

MrsB

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ok I know I’m going to sound dumb here, as a club virgin, but why wouldn’t the ladies put on their desired lingerie or clothing under other clothes before going to the club. Then when arrive just take off the unnecessary layers ? "

Sometimes it depends on what you're wearing over the top. I often do.

But sometimes they're right there and even, say, when you've got lingerie on and you're struggling into or out of a dress... It's a vulnerable position. Where in my head normal changing room etiquette should apply, you know?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Ok I know I’m going to sound dumb here, as a club virgin, but why wouldn’t the ladies put on their desired lingerie or clothing under other clothes before going to the club. Then when arrive just take off the unnecessary layers ?

Sometimes it depends on what you're wearing over the top. I often do.

But sometimes they're right there and even, say, when you've got lingerie on and you're struggling into or out of a dress... It's a vulnerable position. Where in my head normal changing room etiquette should apply, you know? "

Thanks Swing

Yes makes perfect sense and can totally see where you are coming from

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I visited club f. One thing I didn’t like was the shared changing rooms.

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