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"I’m unsure how I feel...I haven’t met in over a year. One man I slept with for a year and we never kissed. Another I met with a handful of times, and we kissed. But I always got the giggles. I agree - it is very intimate. But I don’t have ‘meaningless’ sex on here. " That being said, someone sent me a message last night describing a kiss, and I want it | |||
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?" For me sexy isn’t meaningless. I’m enjoying the person I’m with at that moment and want it to be amazing for both of us. Kissing definitely is part of that. | |||
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"I only kiss asses " Damn shame you don't lick. Jo.Xx | |||
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"Kissing is wonderful. Why not do it?" Because it’s really intimate and some people don’t feel comfortable doing it with anyone other than their partner/someone they love | |||
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"I only kiss asses Damn shame you don't lick. Jo.Xx " I have bloody principles ! | |||
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"Kissing is wonderful. Why not do it? Because it’s really intimate and some people don’t feel comfortable doing it with anyone other than their partner/someone they love" Fair enough. | |||
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"I can't do meaningless sex anyway " Sexit means sexit | |||
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?" no kiss no excalibur | |||
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?no kiss no excalibur " haha .. Excalibur | |||
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet? For me sexy isn’t meaningless. I’m enjoying the person I’m with at that moment and want it to be amazing for both of us. Kissing definitely is part of that. " | |||
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"I only kiss asses Damn shame you don't lick. Jo.Xx I have bloody principles ! " Typical! Jo.Xx | |||
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"Love kissing I think it's a big turn on xx" Kissing arouses the senses. Others can feel the effect without the need to be naked | |||
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"Love it, biting on a woman's bottom lip oh yes please " I wouldn't enjoy my bottom lip being bitten. Would you ? | |||
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"Love it, biting on a woman's bottom lip oh yes please I wouldn't enjoy my bottom lip being bitten. Would you ?" Long Smooch before bite?? | |||
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"Love it, biting on a woman's bottom lip oh yes please I wouldn't enjoy my bottom lip being bitten. Would you ?" Yeh I'm quite into it | |||
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"Kissing can send a beat through my solar plexus , ping my nipples and sloosh my moosh ..... If it doesn't then there's no fucking. Kissing isn't kids play..... it's tells you a lot about someone and your compatability. It is your passion. It's your sex signature. " | |||
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?" For me, kissing is indeed sensual and without doubt the catalyst to explore more. Can also further heighten the sexual tension at other moments. I wouldn't kiss anyone early on unless there is a hint of tension. xx | |||
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"We enjoyed well over a thousand meets on here over the years. Everything from dogging, clubs, one to one, home meets, pubs, hotels, parties, last minute, you name it we did it! But if someone said they preferred not to kiss we wouldn’t meet them. We may have had loads of meets, and we probably epitomise nsa sex, but if there’s no kissing it’s a cold and totally meaningless experience for us." Agree 100% without kissing we’d not be in to it and we’d be concerned about what hang ups these people have | |||
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"We enjoyed well over a thousand meets on here over the years. Everything from dogging, clubs, one to one, home meets, pubs, hotels, parties, last minute, you name it we did it! But if someone said they preferred not to kiss we wouldn’t meet them. We may have had loads of meets, and we probably epitomise nsa sex, but if there’s no kissing it’s a cold and totally meaningless experience for us. Agree 100% without kissing we’d not be in to it and we’d be concerned about what hang ups these people have " Absolutely none. Well none in connection with kissing. What hang ups do you think not wanting to kiss might be a symptom of? | |||
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"Why does kissing make casual sex more meaningful than not kissing? " I don't think it does or has to - just for me personally it's a part of the whole experience and is a major aphrodisiac but I totally appreciate and respect that may not be the case for others | |||
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"Why does kissing make casual sex more meaningful than not kissing? I don't think it does or has to - just for me personally it's a part of the whole experience and is a major aphrodisiac but I totally appreciate and respect that may not be the case for others" Yes, I know you don't think that way but many others do. | |||
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"Kissing is very important, no kissing no meet " My rule as well, I wouldn't be able to get really turned on and enjoy the meet without that intimacy. It would be like giving oral sex by just putting it in my mouth | |||
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?" I never have ‘meaningless sex’! I won’t drop my knickers unless I’m pretty sure the sex is going to be fucking awesome! Kissing is a vital ‘litmus test’! If the kissing is great - then equally great sex will usually follow! | |||
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"I like to kiss. A lot." Guilty pleasure x | |||
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet? I never have ‘meaningless sex’! I won’t drop my knickers unless I’m pretty sure the sex is going to be fucking awesome! Kissing is a vital ‘litmus test’! If the kissing is great - then equally great sex will usually follow! " ditto for this!! Just gotta kiss!! | |||
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet? I never have ‘meaningless sex’! I won’t drop my knickers unless I’m pretty sure the sex is going to be fucking awesome! Kissing is a vital ‘litmus test’! If the kissing is great - then equally great sex will usually follow! ditto for this!! Just gotta kiss!!" We never have meaningless sex (whatever that is). Kissing doesn't make sex more meaningful. Respect for each others feelings and boundaries does that. | |||
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"Kissing can send a beat through my solar plexus , ping my nipples and sloosh my moosh ..... If it doesn't then there's no fucking. Kissing isn't kids play..... it's tells you a lot about someone and your compatability. It is your passion. It's your sex signature. " I agree You can tall a lot about somebody by how they kiss. | |||
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"A waste of time.... I want to get to the meaningless sex" . | |||
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"Kissing can send a beat through my solar plexus , ping my nipples and sloosh my moosh ..... If it doesn't then there's no fucking. Kissing isn't kids play..... it's tells you a lot about someone and your compatability. It is your passion. It's your sex signature. I agree You can tall a lot about somebody by how they kiss. " Well I’m a shite kisser but a 10/10 with blowjobs | |||
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"A waste of time.... I want to get to the meaningless sex" Each to their own. But I quite enjoy kissing a women | |||
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"A waste of time.... I want to get to the meaningless sex Each to their own. But I quite enjoy kissing a women" Meh | |||
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"It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people " Ha ha exactly! | |||
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"It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people Ha ha exactly! " I get we are all different but it totally boggles my mind that some people say it's too intimate yet are happy taking a cock they dont know | |||
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"I can't imagine not kissing it's the first point of contact after a built up anticipation through message. And leads to mind blowing sex. Jo.Xx " This | |||
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?" kissing very important to me, also meeting regularly, I'd get a rubber female otherwise | |||
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess." surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it | |||
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it " ffs erection is a word how does spell check override it. | |||
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it " I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. | |||
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. " omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge | |||
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. " intimate means cherished, constant, familiar, chummy,pally I'd constantly stick my penis in her vag and cherish that action in a pally chummy way and once I was familiar with what she enjoyed do it some more | |||
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge " Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. | |||
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. " walk naked? | |||
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. walk naked? " Naked hand in hand. | |||
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. walk naked? Naked hand in hand. " kissing? | |||
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"It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people " Totally agree and well oral is way more intimate than kissing | |||
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"It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people Totally agree and well oral is way more intimate than kissing " Agreed | |||
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"It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people Totally agree and well oral is way more intimate than kissing " talking you mean yes I agree | |||
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. walk naked? Naked hand in hand. kissing? " If it was Mr N yes | |||
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