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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I like to kiss. A lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m unsure how I feel...I haven’t met in over a year. One man I slept with for a year and we never kissed. Another I met with a handful of times, and we kissed. But I always got the giggles.

I agree - it is very intimate.

But I don’t have ‘meaningless’ sex on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essential for me

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Kissing is pretty damn essential, I've met people who don't and I've left feeling a little disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m unsure how I feel...I haven’t met in over a year. One man I slept with for a year and we never kissed. Another I met with a handful of times, and we kissed. But I always got the giggles.

I agree - it is very intimate.

But I don’t have ‘meaningless’ sex on here. "

That being said, someone sent me a message last night describing a kiss, and I want it

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Yes , i love kissing

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I can't imagine not kissing it's the first point of contact after a built up anticipation through message.

And leads to mind blowing sex.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have meaningless sex, I love kissing.

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By *usicman1980Man
over a year ago

malvern

Kissing is vital. Won t bother if no kissing

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Sex without kissing would feel unnatural and strange to me. I can't imagine not kissing someone I meet.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Kissing is a definite positive for me and whilst i respect any woman who choses to exclude it from meets i do find it makes a meet far more passionate.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Absolutely love it... Won't go on I've posted on the feelings thread by floro about kissing but you can't beat an amazing kiss

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

If it's meaningless, what's the problem with kissing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion, kissing is ignition to start the engine, don't get me wrong sex is not machine neither I am mechanic, just an example to simplify the kissing subject

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We like kissing, weather its slow and passionate on hard and rough. For many people on here it's a lifestyle, about making new friendships to some people that's just on here for a quick fuck kissing may not be your thing but other people's want different sexual experiences not just a fuck and chuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both absolutely adore long sensual kissing, and couldn't think of sex without it!

x Niki

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I can take it or leave it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only kiss asses

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I get some people believe kissing is tooo intimate but for me I'm afraid kissing is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?"

For me sexy isn’t meaningless. I’m enjoying the person I’m with at that moment and want it to be amazing for both of us. Kissing definitely is part of that.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Essential for me I'm afraid.

A lot of sensual turn ons occur through a simple passionate kiss

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I only kiss asses "

Damn shame you don't lick.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is wonderful. Why not do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is wonderful. Why not do it?"

Because it’s really intimate and some people don’t feel comfortable doing it with anyone other than their partner/someone they love

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish

We love it....

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Very..it's been proven to be the number one turn on for ladies..all I'll say is if you don't kiss bring your own lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only kiss asses

Damn shame you don't lick.

Jo.Xx "

I have bloody principles !

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We enjoyed well over a thousand meets on here over the years. Everything from dogging, clubs, one to one, home meets, pubs, hotels, parties, last minute, you name it we did it!

But if someone said they preferred not to kiss we wouldn’t meet them.

We may have had loads of meets, and we probably epitomise nsa sex, but if there’s no kissing it’s a cold and totally meaningless experience for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mind blowing kiss only session is better than a mindless fuck without kissing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I do. To each their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't do meaningless sex anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is wonderful. Why not do it?

Because it’s really intimate and some people don’t feel comfortable doing it with anyone other than their partner/someone they love"

Fair enough.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I can't do meaningless sex anyway "

Sexit means sexit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, no meet. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?"
no kiss no excalibur

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?no kiss no excalibur "
haha .. Excalibur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the start of an experience..... why would I not want a guy to kiss me when I’m going to get to know his intimate parts pretty soon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meaningless sex !!!! Not for us we do need a connection and isn't sex itself the ultimate intimate act ? Kissing is all part of the build up and adds to the erotism of the moment for us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?

For me sexy isn’t meaningless. I’m enjoying the person I’m with at that moment and want it to be amazing for both of us. Kissing definitely is part of that. "

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

If you're going to be bumping uglies why not kiss the pretties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloody love kissing. If I do meet I want lots of kissing action.

I don't think it's anymore intimate than sex but I can understand why some people like to keep it between the couple only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wont meet without kissing..

Wont have meaningless sex either..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don’t get me wrong I like to kiss but prefer to kiss someone who it means something with , and when I say meaningless sex I mean not with someone I love , and I’m certainly not going make love on here lol x it’s just sex lol thanks for everyone’s feedback I find it interesting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't have sex without kissing. I need that level of intimacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very picky with who I meet,

I'm very picky with who I kiss

and I don't do meaningless sex.

If we have that connection I am going to kiss you

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

Love kissing I think it's a big turn on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing. It’s my favourite thing.

I’m probably the best kisser you’ll never meet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he is not a good kisser, meet is not gonna get any further.

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Foreplay is probably my favourite part of sex & kissing is a massive part of fireplay, so if there's none it's cutting the pleasure significantly. It's like a more complicated wank.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I only kiss asses

Damn shame you don't lick.

Jo.Xx

I have bloody principles ! "

Typical!

Jo.Xx

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Have to go with kissing on this one.

Could only have sex with someone I'm attracted to and when im attracted to someone i want to kiss them let alone more intimate acts

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Kissing is a wonderful thing, I wouldn’t meet anyone who wouldn’t want to kiss me, I count myself lucky that I have been thoroughly well kissed over the years

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I adore kissing, I'd find it hard turning up for sex with no kissing involved, just wouldn't feel natural

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By *illiamMeetsMan
over a year ago

sunnyside


"Love kissing I think it's a big turn on xx"

Kissing arouses the senses. Others can feel the effect without the need to be naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it, biting on a woman's bottom lip oh yes please

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Love it, biting on a woman's bottom lip oh yes please "

I wouldn't enjoy my bottom lip being bitten. Would you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it, biting on a woman's bottom lip oh yes please

I wouldn't enjoy my bottom lip being bitten. Would you ?"

Long Smooch before bite??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i meet someone id definitly want to kiss, i love it personally

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's very important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant see myself having fun without kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, No meeting unless we had only planned a social

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nothing beats that initial first touch of the lips...the tongue, some can send a shiver down my spine and make my toes curl.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Like so many on here I wouldn't have sex with someone without kissing first. It's the kiss that lets us know if we have chemistry a slow sensual kiss that deepens into a deep passionate kiss is such a turn on. I can't imagine having sex and no kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn't feel I could kiss the other person then I couldn't have sex with them either. Kissing can be as good as sex and is absultely essential on a meet. You can tell so much from a kiss and it's the only way to start a "meet", imo

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By *inja 636Man
over a year ago

Grays

I've only ever has one situation where I didn't kiss the ladies choice and it felt flat kissing is very sexually stimulating I feel slow and soft or rough and frantic depending on the scene x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing, find it very sensual and intimate.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Kissing can send a beat through my solar plexus , ping my nipples and sloosh my moosh .....

If it doesn't then there's no fucking.

Kissing isn't kids play..... it's tells you a lot about someone and your compatability.

It is your passion. It's your sex signature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it, biting on a woman's bottom lip oh yes please

I wouldn't enjoy my bottom lip being bitten. Would you ?"

Yeh I'm quite into it

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne

I love kissing ....

Is kissing someone from here any different from kissing someone on a dating site?

I've yet to meet anyone off here so I don't have anything to compare it with?

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By *easide funMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire Coast

If prefer not to meet if there’s no kissing!!!

Love it xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must I’ve been told I’m a very passionate kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential for me too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss our casual sex partners. We respect them and our encounters aren't meaningless we just don't want to kiss them. We obviously don't invest kissing with the same importance other people do.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Scribble , Cross , Scribble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing can send a beat through my solar plexus , ping my nipples and sloosh my moosh .....

If it doesn't then there's no fucking.

Kissing isn't kids play..... it's tells you a lot about someone and your compatability.

It is your passion. It's your sex signature. "

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?"

For me, kissing is indeed sensual and without doubt the catalyst to explore more. Can also further heighten the sexual tension at other moments. I wouldn't kiss anyone early on unless there is a hint of tension. xx

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I love being held tight as a man kisses me passionately xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We enjoyed well over a thousand meets on here over the years. Everything from dogging, clubs, one to one, home meets, pubs, hotels, parties, last minute, you name it we did it!

But if someone said they preferred not to kiss we wouldn’t meet them.

We may have had loads of meets, and we probably epitomise nsa sex, but if there’s no kissing it’s a cold and totally meaningless experience for us."

Agree 100% without kissing we’d not be in to it and we’d be concerned about what hang ups these people have

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We enjoyed well over a thousand meets on here over the years. Everything from dogging, clubs, one to one, home meets, pubs, hotels, parties, last minute, you name it we did it!

But if someone said they preferred not to kiss we wouldn’t meet them.

We may have had loads of meets, and we probably epitomise nsa sex, but if there’s no kissing it’s a cold and totally meaningless experience for us.

Agree 100% without kissing we’d not be in to it and we’d be concerned about what hang ups these people have "

Absolutely none. Well none in connection with kissing. What hang ups do you think not wanting to kiss might be a symptom of?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You can't beat a good kiss.

I don't have meaningless sex, no point imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a big turn on for me and im an expert kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing...

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Always do it but I am a total slut.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Why does kissing make casual sex more meaningful than not kissing?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Totally respect the preference of those that don't kiss the same as I would any other preference or boundary they may have.

However, would find it very difficult to meet anyone that didn't kiss as personally I adore kissing, it's the perfect starter, main course accompaniment and dessert to any sexual meal - from those initial soft and tender brushes of the lips that grow in intensity as lips part and tongues search, through to full on mouths wide passionate snogs that you just lose yourself in and the world around you blurs into insignificance.

And that's before I even start on soft and wet kisses that trail a path over the skin in search of other delights

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Why does kissing make casual sex more meaningful than not kissing? "

I don't think it does or has to - just for me personally it's a part of the whole experience and is a major aphrodisiac but I totally appreciate and respect that may not be the case for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing I think for me it's more just fucking but I can understand why a lot don't do it on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why does kissing make casual sex more meaningful than not kissing?

I don't think it does or has to - just for me personally it's a part of the whole experience and is a major aphrodisiac but I totally appreciate and respect that may not be the case for others"

Yes, I know you don't think that way but many others do.

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By *rchid0103Woman
over a year ago

Southport

Kissing is essential for me , if you can’t kiss then it’s a no from me , gets my juices flowing xx

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I’m definitely a kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't have sex without kissing , kissing is a massive turn on in fact a good snog is better than sex

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Kissing is very important, no kissing no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is very important, no kissing no meet "

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Kissing is very important, no kissing no meet "

My rule as well, I wouldn't be able to get really turned on and enjoy the meet without that intimacy. It would be like giving oral sex by just putting it in my mouth

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?"

I never have ‘meaningless sex’! I won’t drop my knickers unless I’m pretty sure the sex is going to be fucking awesome!

Kissing is a vital ‘litmus test’! If the kissing is great - then equally great sex will usually follow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential for me. That’s what arouses me.

Also, I really wouldn’t call it meaningless sex on here. Not for me anyway.

You develop friendships and it’s just a bonus that you’re both sexual and like each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is my biggest most wonderful turn on

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By *lloverkisserMan
over a year ago

preston


"I like to kiss. A lot."

Guilty pleasure x

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Kissing is very important to me. I love kissing. To me kissing is a great part of foreplay. Kissing is very erotic. Sometimes I could just kiss and do nothing else for a long while. Kissing and cuddling is great fun. Especially on a cold winter night in front of the fire.

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By *arry_UkMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Defo need kissing... the build up is great...

But do

Agree it’s very intimate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all part of the sensual aspect of sex is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?

I never have ‘meaningless sex’! I won’t drop my knickers unless I’m pretty sure the sex is going to be fucking awesome!

Kissing is a vital ‘litmus test’! If the kissing is great - then equally great sex will usually follow! "

ditto for this!! Just gotta kiss!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?

I never have ‘meaningless sex’! I won’t drop my knickers unless I’m pretty sure the sex is going to be fucking awesome!

Kissing is a vital ‘litmus test’! If the kissing is great - then equally great sex will usually follow! ditto for this!! Just gotta kiss!!"

We never have meaningless sex (whatever that is). Kissing doesn't make sex more meaningful. Respect for each others feelings and boundaries does that.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Kissing can send a beat through my solar plexus , ping my nipples and sloosh my moosh .....

If it doesn't then there's no fucking.

Kissing isn't kids play..... it's tells you a lot about someone and your compatability.

It is your passion. It's your sex signature. "

I agree

You can tall a lot about somebody by how they kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A waste of time.... I want to get to the meaningless sex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"A waste of time.... I want to get to the meaningless sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing can send a beat through my solar plexus , ping my nipples and sloosh my moosh .....

If it doesn't then there's no fucking.

Kissing isn't kids play..... it's tells you a lot about someone and your compatability.

It is your passion. It's your sex signature.

I agree

You can tall a lot about somebody by how they kiss. "

Well I’m a shite kisser but a 10/10 with blowjobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A waste of time.... I want to get to the meaningless sex"

Each to their own. But I quite enjoy kissing a women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A waste of time.... I want to get to the meaningless sex

Each to their own. But I quite enjoy kissing a women"

Meh

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London

I need the kissing! A good passionate snog gets the heart racing & juices flowing!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people "

Ha ha exactly!

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

love to kiss, slowly and for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you have sex without kissing some one?

That sounds pretty cold to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he didn't kiss I wouldn't meet

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

With people we know well I'm comfortable kissing but not in clubs. We all feel different about it I guess.

Mx

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people

Ha ha exactly! "

I get we are all different but it totally boggles my mind that some people say it's too intimate yet are happy taking a cock they dont know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well personally I couldn't have sex without kissing that really would be the definition of meaningless sex to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think kissing is a big part of meeting up and getting intermate plus I'm a big fan of kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no meet its that simple for us we can’t have sex without kissing we love it too much

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By *EBCAMandKNICKERSMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Having sex without kissing?? I don’t think I’ve ever done that before! Kissing is lush and essential for me, it’s all part of the build up and sexy for me ??

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Kissing is very important to us. The fact that it's very personal is exactly why we would want it included in a meet. It's not sharing if we don't kiss.

Besides, we don't do meaningless sex. We want to do this with people we really get on with and it's and extension of a friendship. How many of us don't have friends that we find attractive? Kissing and more is a way of letting that out and enjoying it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

If people insist on kissing we won't meet, it's that simple. We mention it on our profile so that anybody who needs that illusion of intimacy can avoid us.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

One of the things we like the idea of is a kissing threesome. It wouldn't have to involve taking clothes off or having sex. Just lots of kissing between us an another lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't imagine not kissing it's the first point of contact after a built up anticipation through message.

And leads to mind blowing sex.

Jo.Xx "

This

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By *ralGuy77Man
over a year ago

Oldbury

I wouldn’t not meet if the lady says no kissing because that’s her boundaries and I’d have to kiss her somewhere else, but I do love a long kiss and tongue session to start things moving...

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Kissing is a must for me. Builds up the tension and leads to great sex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t kiss others either. We understand this limits the amount of people we meet on here.

That said, we’re surprised at how many single guys here say they won’t meet if no kissing. Yet 2 of you have messaged us previously wanting a meet and stating it’s not an issue.

Amazing what people will do when desperate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?"
kissing very important to me, also meeting regularly, I'd get a rubber female otherwise

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Everybody is different but without a long slow song i can't get to the point of wanting anything more. It literally is my turn on Switch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a given for us. We don’t find it too intimate ...there are other things that are in the “partner only” list, but kissing isn’t one of them ..

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

kissi g is agood way to stimulate the mind and body, but alot ofpeopme are bad kissers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess."
surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it "
ffs erection is a word how does spell check override it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it "

I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's about individual comfort and desire, and whether individuals can find common ground. As with any meet here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it

I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. "

omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it

I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. "

intimate means cherished, constant, familiar, chummy,pally I'd constantly stick my penis in her vag and cherish that action in a pally chummy way and once I was familiar with what she enjoyed do it some more

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it

I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge "

Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it

I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge

Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. "

walk naked?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it

I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge

Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. walk naked? "

Naked hand in hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it

I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge

Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. walk naked?

Naked hand in hand. "

kissing?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people "

Totally agree and well oral is way more intimate than kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is sex no intimate? I love kissing and can’t imagine having sex without kissing plus I would never have meaningless sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first started meeting James one of the many rules his gf set was no kissing....Im allowed to now but it was impossible not to try and kiss during sex....It's part of sex in my head so I would have to try and stop myself doing as a natural reaction during sex....It's like toast without butter or cornflakes without milk or eating a pot noodle without water lol

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people

Totally agree and well oral is way more intimate than kissing "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never had meaningless sex on here. To me, kissing is the most enjoyable but i wouldnt class it as overly intimate in comparison to oral and penetration. I had no problem kissing someone on a first meet, if we fancied each other, but sex was for another time as i found that far more more intimate than a sneaky snog

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people

Totally agree and well oral is way more intimate than kissing "

talking you mean yes I agree

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Long passionate kissing is essential for me. I like to get lost in a good kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meet without kissing is like going to a sandless beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love to kiss when we meet the right couple x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it

I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge

Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. walk naked?

Naked hand in hand. kissing? "

If it was Mr N yes

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