FabSwingers.com forum: How far would you go?

By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

Interested to know, from a chap who lives somewhere relatively quiet (not a city), how far would you travel, or accept a man travelling, for a meet?

The town I’m in isn’t dead at all but it’s also about 25-45 min drive to the larger urban area depending on which side one needs to get to.

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By *ifetoshareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We've travelled 3hrs for some fun. Stayed in a nice hotel and made a weekend of it.

If someone isn't willing to travel 45mins for a night of fun with us we wouldn't want to meet them anyway but then we're not into the fuck and go kind of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had guy come down from Scotland once

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

"We had guy come down from Scotland once

I’m not surprised! To be fair, I’ve seen your photos!

Seriously though, I think you guys are in the minority.

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By *erfectly Average CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Wouldn’t travel far for meet but if we were travelling already we’d maybe try find a meet before hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far enough if it is for a naked social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like them and feel there is a good connection. Then I'd meet.

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

"We've travelled 3hrs for some fun. Stayed in a nice hotel and made a weekend of it.

If someone isn't willing to travel 45mins for a night of fun with us we wouldn't want to meet them anyway but then we're not into the fuck and go kind of meets.

Xx"

I agree about not being willing!

It’s slightly different as a couple perhaps? Rather than a single bloke meeting up with a single woman? Or maybe not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are talking to people a few hours away prepared to travel x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

How far I'd travel? I quite like to make weekends of it so there's not a particular set distance. It depends on how much I like the person I guess.

How far I'd be happy for the other to travel on a first meet? It depends again. What they would feel comfortable with, if I have worries about pressure perceived or given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to only meet at clubs these days, and my partner and I travel pretty far for some, we make a weekend of it and thoroughly enjoy ourselves!

On the rare occasions we meet elsewhere, we're happy to travel, and I only meet locally for socials as I don't drive.

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

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"How far I'd travel? I quite like to make weekends of it so there's not a particular set distance. It depends on how much I like the person I guess.

How far I'd be happy for the other to travel on a first meet? It depends again. What they would feel comfortable with, if I have worries about pressure perceived or given."

Seems like there are some people with common sense in the forums! Makes perfect sense.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"How far I'd travel? I quite like to make weekends of it so there's not a particular set distance. It depends on how much I like the person I guess.

How far I'd be happy for the other to travel on a first meet? It depends again. What they would feel comfortable with, if I have worries about pressure perceived or given.

Seems like there are some people with common sense in the forums! Makes perfect sense.

There's no end to my amazingness.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

For the right person I would happily travel almost anywhere especially if its overnight or longer

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

For 10 or 12 mins of fun??..being realistic! About 20 mins away probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interested to know, from a chap who lives somewhere relatively quiet (not a city), how far would you travel, or accept a man travelling, for a meet?

The town I’m in isn’t dead at all but it’s also about 25-45 min drive to the larger urban area depending on which side one needs to get to. "

Try living in West Cornwall in the middle of nowhere

Luckily I love travel and an adventure!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

About 20 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've travelled 3hrs for some fun. Stayed in a nice hotel and made a weekend of it.

If someone isn't willing to travel 45mins for a night of fun with us we wouldn't want to meet them anyway but then we're not into the fuck and go kind of meets.

Xx"

I won't meet people who won't travel anymore! For similar reasons ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sick of saying now tbh

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

I would travel as far as the second star to the right and then straight on until morning.

That's about 42 miles.

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

"How far I'd travel? I quite like to make weekends of it so there's not a particular set distance. It depends on how much I like the person I guess.

How far I'd be happy for the other to travel on a first meet? It depends again. What they would feel comfortable with, if I have worries about pressure perceived or given.

Seems like there are some people with common sense in the forums! Makes perfect sense.

There's no end to my amazingness."

I can tell!

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

"I would travel as far as the second star to the right and then straight on until morning.

That's about 42 miles.

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

"We've travelled 3hrs for some fun. Stayed in a nice hotel and made a weekend of it.

If someone isn't willing to travel 45mins for a night of fun with us we wouldn't want to meet them anyway but then we're not into the fuck and go kind of meets.

I won't meet people who won't travel anymore! For similar reasons ... "

I’d travel...especially if you were at my destination!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Distance means nothing for the right person. As my meets tend to be overnighters or longer, it is irrelevant

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

"Distance means nothing for the right person. As my meets tend to be overnighters or longer, it is irrelevant "

Aww you should’ve said, I could have come to you or vice verse on 1st June?

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

No limit if I liked them - those who use distance as an excuse are messers in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more than about one hour, so around 30 - 35 miles distance or our home own to say Leeds or Nottingham. We've had too many no shows in the past to be burned again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No more than about one hour, so around 30 - 35 miles distance or our home own to say Leeds or Nottingham. We've had too many no shows in the past to be burned again.

Oh I meet somewhere I've never been before, more a mini adventure ... anything else is a bonus!

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

"For 10 or 12 mins of fun??..being realistic! About 20 mins away probably "

Lol a whole 10 -12 minutes

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

"For 10 or 12 mins of fun??..being realistic! About 20 mins away probably "

Have a feeling you may be the only person getting anything out of your meets

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Could be rephrased as... How much of your time and how much money would you be prepared to spend on travell for a meet?

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By *illiamMeetsMan
over a year ago

sunnyside

"No more than about one hour, so around 30 - 35 miles distance or our home own to say Leeds or Nottingham. We've had too many no shows in the past to be burned again.

Oh I meet somewhere I've never been before, more a mini adventure ... anything else is a bonus! "

Me too. Prefer to travel a bit, enjoy a nice hotel and see somewhere new. No expectations but fond memories if fun had

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By *usicman1980Man
over a year ago

malvern

I'm going to travel hours and have zero issues for the lady in question. It's just down to how much you want to meet them. Some May call.it desperate so may call it determined.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Having seen and chatted to some of the ladies in the lounge .....quite a distance I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For 10 or 12 mins of fun??..being realistic! About 20 mins away probably "

really logical, unless night halt no point of travelling more then 50 miles and travel back after 1 hour

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

For a first meet I keep to an hour but if its someone more regular then I wouldn't really set a distance

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Don’t mind driving so an hour or two is ok.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Hours typically 3 is my max however have went further. 600 miles actually. Contemplating 6000 miles for a repeat

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By *cottish30Man
over a year ago

aberdeen

I would travel anywhere in UK as there is always an airport close by but I would really need to trust the person or people I was meeting and know that they are going to be there when I travel,I've had females say oh no you cant travel here that's more than an hour away,dont understand the issue if the person I'd happy to travel?

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

We would travel anywhere in the UK for a good Club and make a weekend of it

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

1.5 hours max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hours typically 3 is my max however have went further. 600 miles actually. Contemplating 6000 miles for a repeat "

6000 or 600

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always find a halfway meeting point and book an air bnb..that way it's fair to everyone. We have stayed in some great properties and had lots of extended fun.Nothng is rushed and its very relaxed.

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

"Hours typically 3 is my max however have went further. 600 miles actually. Contemplating 6000 miles for a repeat

6000 or 600

Think Darlo was saying she’s already done 600 before but since then the person she’s visited has moved so is thinking of travelling 6000 for another meet.

Fair play..! x

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"We've travelled 3hrs for some fun. Stayed in a nice hotel and made a weekend of it.

If someone isn't willing to travel 45mins for a night of fun with us we wouldn't want to meet them anyway but then we're not into the fuck and go kind of meets.

Xx"
This is so true.

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

I’ve always had...”you’re too far” as an excuse for not meeting (30 mins plus), this thread tells me I’m not worth it

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By *illiamMeetsMan
over a year ago

sunnyside

"Hours typically 3 is my max however have went further. 600 miles actually. Contemplating 6000 miles for a repeat "

About 250 miles or four hours. Did once fly to LA for week long meet...after months of chat many years ago. Started well, then bit awkward, then all good at end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to travel all over london back in the days, but not so much nowadays, now it is more local

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

"Hours typically 3 is my max however have went further. 600 miles actually. Contemplating 6000 miles for a repeat

About 250 miles or four hours. Did once fly to LA for week long meet...after months of chat many years ago. Started well, then bit awkward, then all good at end. "

LA? Fantastic! Impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like anyone travelling miles to see me for a social as that implies other things and even when arranging a social only, the majority of guys seem to still hope it's going to turn steamy!

Either I make a day of it or meet halfway for a social.

After that, as said before, travel is all part of the adventure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hours typically 3 is my max however have went further. 600 miles actually. Contemplating 6000 miles for a repeat

6000 or 600

Think Darlo was saying she’s already done 600 before but since then the person she’s visited has moved so is thinking of travelling 6000 for another meet.

Fair play..! x"

thanks, I thought 6000 is too far

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By *onderstuff73m OP Man
over a year ago

Brum

"I don't like anyone travelling miles to see me for a social as that implies other things and even when arranging a social only, the majority of guys seem to still hope it's going to turn steamy!

Either I make a day of it or meet halfway for a social.

After that, as said before, travel is all part of the adventure! "

Love to travel!!!

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