FabSwingers.com forum: Scars

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all. I've recently had a major operation and its left me with a big scar... straight line from groin to breastbone. Its made me a little self conscious.

Question is, would seeing a scar like this turn you off?

Ben x

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’d find it something that makes you unique and you. Sexy as hell.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

Be proud of your scars, they show the battles you've won.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d find it something that makes you unique and you. Sexy as hell. "

Good to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not at all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be proud of your scars, they show the battles you've won."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. If you have concerns about rejection based on that scar, just pop it on your profile so people who may be squeamish would know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. If you have concerns about rejection based on that scar, just pop it on your profile so people who may be squeamish would know

Funny enough, I've just done that x

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Scars are like tattoos, they each tell a tale about a particular point in someones life, i often find myself intrigued about their origins (both scars and tattoos). They always make me more interested in knowing a person, definately not the other way round!

Wear it with pride, and enjoy its story!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Be proud of your scars, they show the battles you've won."

Hell yes

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I’d find it something that makes you unique and you. Sexy as hell. "

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. If you have concerns about rejection based on that scar, just pop it on your profile so people who may be squeamish would know

Funny enough, I've just done that x"

I wrote my other reply btw without looking at your profile or knowing you had tattoos, i only checked when you put the pic of the scar up and saw you had the tattoos! How coincidental!

It defo shouldnt reduce your confidence, thats an epic one too!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just feel proud and happy you're still around for shenanigans .. because of that scar

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. If you have concerns about rejection based on that scar, just pop it on your profile so people who may be squeamish would know

Funny enough, I've just done that x

I wrote my other reply btw without looking at your profile or knowing you had tattoos, i only checked when you put the pic of the scar up and saw you had the tattoos! How coincidental!

It defo shouldnt reduce your confidence, thats an epic one too! "

It is a beauty. I was thinking about a tattoo to cover it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. If you have concerns about rejection based on that scar, just pop it on your profile so people who may be squeamish would know

Funny enough, I've just done that x"

I can't see it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. If you have concerns about rejection based on that scar, just pop it on your profile so people who may be squeamish would know

Funny enough, I've just done that x

I can't see it ?"

Ah, a photo, I was looming for text

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. If you have concerns about rejection based on that scar, just pop it on your profile so people who may be squeamish would know

Funny enough, I've just done that x

I can't see it ?"

Cant see the photo, or the scar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. If you have concerns about rejection based on that scar, just pop it on your profile so people who may be squeamish would know

Funny enough, I've just done that x

I can't see it ?

Ah, a photo, I was looming for text

*looking* even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no

I don’t mind anything like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep inventing different epic adventure stories around the scar! Great fun ... it's what I do with mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all. I've recently had a major operation and its left me with a big scar... straight line from groin to breastbone. Its made me a little self conscious.

Question is, would seeing a scar like this turn you off?

Ben x"

No, not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bit like Frankenstein with the number of op’s I’ve had from injuries through playing rugby & football. They define my journey so far and I’m not bothered about them nor do I care what other people think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Epic scar!!! Wear it with pride

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. If you have concerns about rejection based on that scar, just pop it on your profile so people who may be squeamish would know

Funny enough, I've just done that x

I wrote my other reply btw without looking at your profile or knowing you had tattoos, i only checked when you put the pic of the scar up and saw you had the tattoos! How coincidental!

It defo shouldnt reduce your confidence, thats an epic one too!

It is a beauty. I was thinking about a tattoo to cover it

Is it wromg that the first thing that came to mind was a guy sitting at the top of it fishing and the scar was his line, it would even have live bait on the hook haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all, scars are intriguing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are cool on women i love the small individual thing small imperfections are ace

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Hi all. I've recently had a major operation and its left me with a big scar... straight line from groin to breastbone. Its made me a little self conscious.

Question is, would seeing a scar like this turn you off?

Ben x"

Hi Ben

So 2 years ago I had stomach surgery left me with a 3-4” scar which I hate, last year I had a peg implant, this had left me with a small button hole (sealed) similar to another belly button but higher up..

These are the life scars and are as much of me as my arms or legs..

I have issues which cannot be seen, my spine has a problem which makes life uncomfortable

But hey I look at like this, scars or not, cancer or not, I’m still here And surviving !!!!!

All the best..

Always available to chat to on here

Stella

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find scars pretty sexy tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chicks dig scars

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"No"

Just saw the pic...it look like that line of hair that goes down a mans stomach that I always want to see where it ends

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

That's an impressive scar.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

The vast majority of adults have scars. If you let it bother you, it will bother others.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

No , not turned off at all. Behind every scar on a person is a story

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

No Ben. Shit in a straight line from your arse crack to your shoulder blades might ..... but new skin ...... nah.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Ive just had a peep and I reserve the right to draw a daisy at the top n some leaves down the stalk ....... x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Scars now up for show and scar pride thread started, join in here or there if you fancy it.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It wouldn't put me off at all.

Have to say that's quite impressive, they put you back together well. It looks very straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My scars run deeper than the physical ones, the physical ones are nothing to the mental scars they left.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Are you in the N.W.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to all. Making me feel better about it. My first ever big scar, so it's all a little new to me!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am really really struggling to not ask what it is for....honest, I won't ask

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"I am really really struggling to not ask what it is for....honest, I won't ask

O.M.G Ruggers..... See that slight of hand there......

She won't ask okay... She won't ,she won't she won't...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Are you asking Gwannie? Go one, so it don't look like I am nosey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am really really struggling to not ask what it is for....honest, I won't ask

I had a issue with my colon. They removed 60cm of it and replumbed me. 500 odd internal stitches and a nice super glued exterior wound and here's the result

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Are you asking Gwannie? Go one, so it don't look like I am nosey"

I was gunna ...... but I'm trying to be a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am really really struggling to not ask what it is for....honest, I won't ask

I had a issue with my colon. They removed 60cm of it and replumbed me. 500 odd internal stitches and a nice super glued exterior wound and here's the result

The alternative story is being attacked by a Mexican drug lord with a machete

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I am really really struggling to not ask what it is for....honest, I won't ask

I had a issue with my colon. They removed 60cm of it and replumbed me. 500 odd internal stitches and a nice super glued exterior wound and here's the result

Blimey....they sure had their work cut out...although they did a great job looking at the scar.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Are you asking Gwannie? Go one, so it don't look like I am nosey

I was gunna ...... but I'm trying to be a lady

It worked, he came

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a large scar from belly button to pubic bone and then 2 others in groin area. If u didnt gave then i wouldnt be here. I'm conscience of it but no one else is.

You learn to live with them.

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

"Be proud of your scars, they show the battles you've won."

Absolutely this!! Survived cancer 2 years ago and have the physical scars to prove it and for me there a reminder of kicking ass!! Anyone has a problem with them then its toodaloo motherfucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely wouldn't put me off, each scar tells a story, and stories are what makes us who we are.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

My inbox has exploded with some awesome scars!

#ScarPride

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I've had a large scar all of my life ...growing up and in my early adult years I was very self conscious about it but having been on the scene and meeting some lovely ladies I have now accepted it's part of me and nobody seems to bother about it in fact a few ladies actually liked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't put me off (Hev) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d find it something that makes you unique and you. Sexy as hell. "

Yup, this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bio oil good for scars..

Keep scar out of sun if less than 12m old.. better healing.

Need a good back story.. wrestled with a tiger...

Scars make us unique.

Doesn't phase most folk

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

No.

That said, if you're self conscious it doesn't matter what anyone says it will affect you and those around you.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I have a huge 18" long scar on my leg as the result of a accident many years ago. I get self conscious of it at time but most times people don't notice. Only had one case where someone was put off by it but that was her loss not mine. We all have scars they are part of us and they tell a story.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Hi all. I've recently had a major operation and its left me with a big scar... straight line from groin to breastbone. Its made me a little self conscious.

Question is, would seeing a scar like this turn you off?

Ben x"

So good to see you posting about this. You know it wouldn't put me off, at all. Plus, I can run my finger from the top to... the tip.

A family member had the same op (years ago) and the scar has never held him back.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I am really really struggling to not ask what it is for....honest, I won't ask

I had a issue with my colon. They removed 60cm of it and replumbed me. 500 odd internal stitches and a nice super glued exterior wound and here's the result

The alternative story is being attacked by a Mexican drug lord with a machete

What happened to the bear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am really really struggling to not ask what it is for....honest, I won't ask

I had a issue with my colon. They removed 60cm of it and replumbed me. 500 odd internal stitches and a nice super glued exterior wound and here's the result

The alternative story is being attacked by a Mexican drug lord with a machete

What happened to the bear?

That depends who I'm talking too. Mention bears backs on here and you get ostracized

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I am really really struggling to not ask what it is for....honest, I won't ask

I had a issue with my colon. They removed 60cm of it and replumbed me. 500 odd internal stitches and a nice super glued exterior wound and here's the result

The alternative story is being attacked by a Mexican drug lord with a machete

What happened to the bear?

That depends who I'm talking too. Mention bears backs on here and you get ostracized

I'm surprised the drug lord hasn't had the same result.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am really really struggling to not ask what it is for....honest, I won't ask

I had a issue with my colon. They removed 60cm of it and replumbed me. 500 odd internal stitches and a nice super glued exterior wound and here's the result

The alternative story is being attacked by a Mexican drug lord with a machete

What happened to the bear?

That depends who I'm talking too. Mention bears backs on here and you get ostracized

I'm surprised the drug lord hasn't had the same result.

Its flushed out all the 420 fans!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not! Our scars, external or internal, are what make us all unique. Be proud of it, not ashamed or self conscious.

All the best

Niki x

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Hi all. I've recently had a major operation and its left me with a big scar... straight line from groin to breastbone. Its made me a little self conscious.

Question is, would seeing a scar like this turn you off?

Ben x"

I think you've the best thing which is to show it. It's nothing to be afraid of then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars absolutely do not phase me. There was a great song that summed my thoughts up exactly...

"If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other..."

The only thing that ever puts me off is deep insecurity; being comfortable with who you are is sexy as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars tell a story. They are part of you and the journey you've been on. They don't define you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t bother us in the slightest, we all have our own scars and marks on our bodies that can tell a story x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me, scars are interesting.

I am facing heart surgery in the future, so will be scarred. Not bothered

I already have two 6" scars on my ankle from an internal fixation, love them.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I love scars they tell a story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That wouldn’t put me off - Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love scars they tell a story"

Is that just surgeon scars? or self made?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My scars are inside! Full hysterectomy which left me feeling like i wasnt a woman! I know no one walks around going "nice uterus " but mentally it damaged me not having my womb! But ssshhh don't tell anyone xx

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Hey OP, hows the recovery going?

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

"I love scars they tell a story"

Agree wholeheartedly

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

"Be proud of your scars, they show the battles you've won."

Was going to say the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My scars are inside! Full hysterectomy which left me feeling like i wasnt a woman! I know no one walks around going "nice uterus " but mentally it damaged me not having my womb! But ssshhh don't tell anyone xx"

Ditto.

I know exactly what you mean.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all. I've recently had a major operation and its left me with a big scar... straight line from groin to breastbone. Its made me a little self conscious.

Question is, would seeing a scar like this turn you off?

Ben x"

Absolutely not. You should see the huge one down my back - mole removal - it's huge and jagged and I love it. Scars are interesting and beautiful! You should post a pic

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

It wouldn't put me off at all, everyone has a story.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

That's really sad, I had a hysterectomy a year ago tomorrow and it's changed my life for the better. Sorry yours didn't do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffer from keyloid scarring. Have a scar on my neck and my belly button is just a scar now. It's part of who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had a hysterectomy but (I think!) I get where you are coming from. It's been suggested due to some gyne issues I've had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's really sad, I had a hysterectomy a year ago tomorrow and it's changed my life for the better. Sorry yours didn't do the same

Im better now, but it did chip away at me and it makes me feel different. It was my best choice at the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a hole in my head, several scars on my torso and back, I used to get precious about people talking to my hole lol, so I had a plate put in to make it less deep, just looks like an axe fight injury now, ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just got a new one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a hole in my head, several scars on my torso and back, I used to get precious about people talking to my hole lol, so I had a plate put in to make it less deep, just looks like an axe fight injury now, ha "

I really wouldn't be looking at a hole in your head if i was in the room with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope because it's the map of someone's life and what they ve gone thru

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

That's really sad, I had a hysterectomy a year ago tomorrow and it's changed my life for the better. Sorry yours didn't do the same

Im better now, but it did chip away at me and it makes me feel different. It was my best choice at the time x"

Yeah, I feel different, I'm so glad I had it done though, the issues I was having before it were really starting to impact me severely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's really sad, I had a hysterectomy a year ago tomorrow and it's changed my life for the better. Sorry yours didn't do the same

Im better now, but it did chip away at me and it makes me feel different. It was my best choice at the time x

Yeah, I feel different, I'm so glad I had it done though, the issues I was having before it were really starting to impact me severely. "

Yes deffo glad the pain has gone now x

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