FabSwingers.com forum: Is it just me thinking this..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they don't

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

How do you draw that conclusion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're probably not the only one but sweeping generalisations like that are always wrong, it's called the sweep paradox

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No I don't think so. A small minority probably do, just as a minority of men think they can have any woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only assume I can turn down any man on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No they don't "
You should as you probably could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don't think so. A small minority probably do, just as a minority of men think they can have any woman. "

That's exactly my thinking too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

Women are as insecure and lack confidence as do men..... there are not that many over confident people here in my opinion

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I don’t

Got to have illusions of grandeur if you think that

Right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There may be a minority. Just like a small amount of men are so arrogant, they think they can get any women. Most though? I highly doubt that

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I definitely don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There may be a minority. Just like a small amount of men are so arrogant, they think they can get any women. Most though? I highly doubt that

Holly"

And when you ASSUME , you make an ASS out of U & ME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure there some women that feel they can.

I’m equally as sure a lot of women look at men’s profile and have the same insecure reservations about meeting as some men do with women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab.

Women are as insecure and lack confidence as do men..... there are not that many over confident people here in my opinion

Just saying "

I’m confident

However I doubt many women believe they can have any man they want.

I’m confident, and I’m confident I couldn’t have any man I want. In fact, I know I can’t.

Some people like to think this because they aren’t successful...instead of looking at why, they blame those around them. (Not saying that’s the case with you OP).

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Nope!! Whenever single men message us I (K) never believe them when they say I'm beautiful or whatever.

I definitely couldn't have any man I wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."
iv come across a few that do the conversation didnt last long with most once they realised i wouldnt kiss there arse but most women iv met or spoken to havnt been that way as always with anything theres always the odd numpty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope!! Whenever single men message us I (K) never believe them when they say I'm beautiful or whatever.

I definitely couldn't have any man I wanted "

I love the ‘you’re the hottest woman on the site’ type message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you work that one out op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

Why would they think that?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Nope!! Whenever single men message us I (K) never believe them when they say I'm beautiful or whatever.

I definitely couldn't have any man I wanted

I love the ‘you’re the hottest woman on the site’ type message

Wait, I thought Mrs was the hottest woman on the site? I’m so very confused by these messages now

Mr.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

And a 1, 2, 3, 4...

Some girls will, some girls won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope!! Whenever single men message us I (K) never believe them when they say I'm beautiful or whatever.

I definitely couldn't have any man I wanted

I love the ‘you’re the hottest woman on the site’ type message

Wait, I thought Mrs was the hottest woman on the site? I’m so very confused by these messages now

Mr. "

We’re all the hottest women, apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab.

Women are as insecure and lack confidence as do men..... there are not that many over confident people here in my opinion

Just saying

I’m confident

However I doubt many women believe they can have any man they want.

I’m confident, and I’m confident I couldn’t have any man I want. In fact, I know I can’t.

Some people like to think this because they aren’t successful...instead of looking at why, they blame those around them. (Not saying that’s the case with you OP). "

Respect , I still don’t believe that there are many extremely confident people in alll aspects of life outside those that are narcissistic and arrogant....

I’m very confident in many respect but hugely shy and self doubt myself too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not. I’ve seen people on here that I doubt I’d have any chance with. I just admire from afar.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some so but I can assure you that most don't especially me most are out of my league

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Nope.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Nope!! Whenever single men message us I (K) never believe them when they say I'm beautiful or whatever.

I definitely couldn't have any man I wanted

I love the ‘you’re the hottest woman on the site’ type message

Wait, I thought Mrs was the hottest woman on the site? I’m so very confused by these messages now

Mr.

We’re all the hottest women, apparently

Ah, gotcha. That’s lucky isn’t it? Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not. I’ve seen people on here that I doubt I’d have any chance with. I just admire from afar."

Me toooooooo from a long long way afar lol

Plus I’m old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league. "

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

Not if they have any self respect and standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......"

Don’t remember you messaging me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......

Don’t remember you messaging me lol

I haven’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......

Don’t remember you messaging me lol

I haven’t

I know , I’m joking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably not just you thinking it but those people would be wrong too.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I only assume I can turn down any man on Fab

Yup

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

There are very few men say no if offered sex now let's be honest here.

I find it hard to believe that if every women on this thread sent 5 messages instigating interest you wouldn't get 5 replies.

So on here I would say yes.

However if we were talking real life that's different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......"

I often say this to some of the guys I speak to, they’re also the ones I’ll least likely to meet because I’m convinced they got it wrong aha.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I know I'm not all that. I'm astonished by some of the people who seem interested in me. And no one is ever going to be everyone's cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are very few men say no if offered sex now let's be honest here.

I find it hard to believe that if every women on this thread sent 5 messages instigating interest you wouldn't get 5 replies.

So on here I would say yes.

However if we were talking real life that's different.

Quite possibly true but I’m a fussy fooker at my age .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now on the other hand theres not a woman alive could resist my magic powers

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope, if a guy looks exceptionally attractive (I mean like model material) then I'm often sceptical about if the profile is even real and if it is why he's messaging me.

I also get the paranoia that even though I think my pictures quite accurately show that I'm not slim and have curves that someone will meet me and decide I'm too fat so I try and gauge in conversation before meeting if they'll say they're actually into curvier girls.

Most often the guys i get most excited to meet end up cancelling on me anyway

. So I definitely can't have anyone I want!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I don't assume or think I can ' have ' anyone on Fab or the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......

I often say this to some of the guys I speak to, they’re also the ones I’ll least likely to meet because I’m convinced they got it wrong aha."

I was the same with LJ. I couldnt imagine him being interested. Worried time and time again, convinced he wouldnt like me in the flesh. Even kept telling him, if he didnt fancy me, just to let me know as i wouldn't be offended

Holly

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I know I'm not all that. I'm astonished by some of the people who seem interested in me. And no one is ever going to be everyone's cup of tea. "

I'm the same.... I usually say they need an urgent Specsavers appointment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......

I often say this to some of the guys I speak to, they’re also the ones I’ll least likely to meet because I’m convinced they got it wrong aha.

Holly"
big dope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......

I often say this to some of the guys I speak to, they’re also the ones I’ll least likely to meet because I’m convinced they got it wrong aha.

Hollybig dope

I know. I stressed you out many a time, going on and on and worrying

Holly

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"There are very few men say no if offered sex now let's be honest here.

I find it hard to believe that if every women on this thread sent 5 messages instigating interest you wouldn't get 5 replies.

Really? I know lots of men who turn down women and don't take the sex offered to them by some women. I think the idea that men don't say no and women always fuck who they want is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, if a guy looks exceptionally attractive (I mean like model material) then I'm often sceptical about if the profile is even real and if it is why he's messaging me.

Most often the guys i get most excited to meet end up cancelling on me anyway

. So I definitely can't have anyone I want!"

Sad thing is you look incredibly beautiful in your profile, yet seem insecure, but that is humbling in my opinion .... own your beauty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......

I often say this to some of the guys I speak to, they’re also the ones I’ll least likely to meet because I’m convinced they got it wrong aha.

Hollybig dope

I know. I stressed you out many a time, going on and on and worrying

Holly"
its a good job i have that phone recording saying

Yeah yeah i know yeah hmmm maybe haha yeah yeah

kidding you wernt that bad really hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know I'm not all that. I'm astonished by some of the people who seem interested in me. And no one is ever going to be everyone's cup of tea. "

I think you are all that. You seem to put yourself down a lot.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I know I'm not all that. I'm astonished by some of the people who seem interested in me. And no one is ever going to be everyone's cup of tea.

I think you are all that. You seem to put yourself down a lot.

I'm not a supermodel who has guys chasing her in public (usually

). I'm not hideous, I have things going for me, but I'm incredibly amazing either. I'm not putting myself down, I'm just realistic.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I know I'm not all that. I'm astonished by some of the people who seem interested in me. And no one is ever going to be everyone's cup of tea.

I think you are all that. You seem to put yourself down a lot.

I'm not a supermodel who has guys chasing her in public (usually

). I'm not hideous, I have things going for me, but I'm incredibly amazing either. I'm not putting myself down, I'm just realistic. "

* not incredibly amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......

I often say this to some of the guys I speak to, they’re also the ones I’ll least likely to meet because I’m convinced they got it wrong aha.

Hollybig dope

I know. I stressed you out many a time, going on and on and worrying

Hollyits a good job i have that phone recording saying

Yeah yeah i know yeah hmmm maybe haha yeah yeah

kidding you wernt that bad really hahaha"

Hahaha you twat

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are very few men say no if offered sex now let's be honest here.

I find it hard to believe that if every women on this thread sent 5 messages instigating interest you wouldn't get 5 replies.

So on here I would say yes.

However if we were talking real life that's different.

No no nooooo

I will 100 say now i have no interest in putting my willy in any woman on fab baring 1

I actively avoid messaging threads so not to give the wrong impression and tell them no matter what im not available in any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don't think so. A small minority probably do, just as a minority of men think they can have any woman. "

I am with the majority on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......

I often say this to some of the guys I speak to, they’re also the ones I’ll least likely to meet because I’m convinced they got it wrong aha.

Hollybig dope

I know. I stressed you out many a time, going on and on and worrying

Hollyits a good job i have that phone recording saying

Yeah yeah i know yeah hmmm maybe haha yeah yeah

kidding you wernt that bad really hahaha

Hahaha you twat

Holly"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are very few men say no if offered sex now let's be honest here.

I find it hard to believe that if every women on this thread sent 5 messages instigating interest you wouldn't get 5 replies.

Really? I know lots of men who turn down women and don't take the sex offered to them by some women. I think the idea that men don't say no and women always fuck who they want is wrong. "
im with ya _eli on that one

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Nope, if a guy looks exceptionally attractive (I mean like model material) then I'm often sceptical about if the profile is even real and if it is why he's messaging me.

Most often the guys i get most excited to meet end up cancelling on me anyway

. So I definitely can't have anyone I want!

Sad thing is you look incredibly beautiful in your profile, yet seem insecure, but that is humbling in my opinion .... own your beauty "

I wouldn't say I'm insecure. I'm just realistic. I don't think I'm unattractive but I couldn't make money just from my face either so that's why I'm sceptical about the model look-a-likes.

I also personally prefer being curvier but I know it doesn't fit everyone's tastes so just prefer to make sure someone is under no illusions before meeting me. And believe me it's happened. I've had messages on a different site from someone who's profile said they weren't into women over a size 10 yet I'm a 12/14.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, if a guy looks exceptionally attractive (I mean like model material) then I'm often sceptical about if the profile is even real and if it is why he's messaging me.

Most often the guys i get most excited to meet end up cancelling on me anyway

. So I definitely can't have anyone I want!

Sad thing is you look incredibly beautiful in your profile, yet seem insecure, but that is humbling in my opinion .... own your beauty

I wouldn't say I'm insecure. I'm just realistic. I don't think I'm unattractive but I couldn't make money just from my face either so that's why I'm sceptical about the model look-a-likes.

Apologies if I offended, just seemed insecure in some respects which I think is normal ...

Most men are into 12/14 I think .... maybe I’m wrong....

I’ve not seen your face but your profile which I looked at is gorgeous

Namaste

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"There are very few men say no if offered sex now let's be honest here.

I find it hard to believe that if every women on this thread sent 5 messages instigating interest you wouldn't get 5 replies.

Really? I know lots of men who turn down women and don't take the sex offered to them by some women. I think the idea that men don't say no and women always fuck who they want is wrong. "

Yes I think so. Few men do of course say no but it is a few. I have no idea if women fuck who they want as I personally dont get into conversations even very often as I'm not interested for many reasons. So I dont know if I could or not and have no wish to try.

But I still think 5 messages sent would get 5 replies and it goes from there in whatever direct the women chooses. I'm only going on what I see on here.

But yep I could be very wrong always happy to hold my hands up if I am. Tie me to the cross

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Nope, if a guy looks exceptionally attractive (I mean like model material) then I'm often sceptical about if the profile is even real and if it is why he's messaging me.

Most often the guys i get most excited to meet end up cancelling on me anyway

. So I definitely can't have anyone I want!

Sad thing is you look incredibly beautiful in your profile, yet seem insecure, but that is humbling in my opinion .... own your beauty

I wouldn't say I'm insecure. I'm just realistic. I don't think I'm unattractive but I couldn't make money just from my face either so that's why I'm sceptical about the model look-a-likes.

Apologies if I offended, just seemed insecure in some respects which I think is normal ...

Most men are into 12/14 I think .... maybe I’m wrong....

I’ve not seen your face but your profile which I looked at is gorgeous

Namaste "

No offense taken

*shrugs* From what I've seen different men like women of all sorts of variations. It just means there's people out there for everyone.

Thank you very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are very few men say no if offered sex now let's be honest here.

I find it hard to believe that if every women on this thread sent 5 messages instigating interest you wouldn't get 5 replies.

Really? I know lots of men who turn down women and don't take the sex offered to them by some women. I think the idea that men don't say no and women always fuck who they want is wrong.

But I still think 5 messages sent would get 5 replies and it goes from there in whatever direct the women chooses. I'm only going on what I see on here.

But yep I could be very wrong always happy to hold my hands up if I am. Tie me to the cross

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pm i probly agree but thats down to boredom for me but i wont let them ride excalibur

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"There are very few men say no if offered sex now let's be honest here.

I find it hard to believe that if every women on this thread sent 5 messages instigating interest you wouldn't get 5 replies.

Really? I know lots of men who turn down women and don't take the sex offered to them by some women. I think the idea that men don't say no and women always fuck who they want is wrong. "

Me and Meli agreeing? Whatever next?!

But we do - OP as ever your sweeping generalisations are very wide of the mark and actually show a lack of understanding of not only how this site, but women generally work.

Yes there will be *some* women who may think they can have the pick of who they want, but like the men that think all they have to do is sign up to get a shag, they'd be seriously deluded.

And Spiderwoman my dear friend - without wanting to sound like I'm blowing my own trumpet, I can assure you I've said no to my fair share in my time, and I know I'm not alone amongst my gender, although agree there are *some* that probably wouldn't

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"There are very few men say no if offered sex now let's be honest here.

I find it hard to believe that if every women on this thread sent 5 messages instigating interest you wouldn't get 5 replies.

Really? I know lots of men who turn down women and don't take the sex offered to them by some women. I think the idea that men don't say no and women always fuck who they want is wrong.

Me and Meli agreeing? Whatever next?!

But we do - OP as ever your sweeping generalisations are very wide of the mark and actually show a lack of understanding of not only how this site, but women generally work.

Yes there will be *some* women who may think they can have the pick of who they want, but like the men that think all they have to do is sign up to get a shag, they'd be seriously deluded.

The wise one has spoken hah. My obversational skills have failed me. Get the rope out ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, if a guy looks exceptionally attractive (I mean like model material) then I'm often sceptical about if the profile is even real and if it is why he's messaging me.

Most often the guys i get most excited to meet end up cancelling on me anyway

. So I definitely can't have anyone I want!

Sad thing is you look incredibly beautiful in your profile, yet seem insecure, but that is humbling in my opinion .... own your beauty

I wouldn't say I'm insecure. I'm just realistic. I don't think I'm unattractive but I couldn't make money just from my face either so that's why I'm sceptical about the model look-a-likes.

Apologies if I offended, just seemed insecure in some respects which I think is normal ...

Most men are into 12/14 I think .... maybe I’m wrong....

I’ve not seen your face but your profile which I looked at is gorgeous

Namaste

No offense taken

*shrugs* From what I've seen different men like women of all sorts of variations. It just means there's people out there for everyone.

Thank you very much."

Cheers

Oh to be 15 years younger lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The wise one has spoken hah. My obversational skills have failed me. Get the rope out ouch

I thought you were being all dominant today..oh wait that's a ball gag in your other hand...now hold on just a min....*sound of muffled words*

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I've said no probably more times that I have said yes on this site. Sometimes that has been followed up with a very rude message, but as all do, i just block that person.

Sometimes I say no based on my preferences, but more often than not, it is because I envisage a clash of personalities, or that it "just wouldn't work" for reasons that are generally centred around whether I would feel comfortable with that/those person/people.

OP it is my experience of talking to women on Fab that many of them are not as confident as your statement would make them out to be, most don't feel they could have whoever they want. More often than not ,after being bombarded with dick pics and "fuck now" messages they know what it is they truly don't want and thus minimise their choices, as we all do.

Somehow you may believe that through making this choice that this is women believing they can have "who they want", but it isn't, it is simply them stating who they don't want and what their preferred options are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

Ach Mickey, you have such a talent for starting shite threads. Sigh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldn't exactly say no to a woman who offers me sex, not to hurt her feelings.

Instead I would just pass it off.

And I would reply to any women who messages me, because I would feel ignorant otherwise.

Doesn't mean I want sex.

It's just exciting to get a message

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab.

Ach Mickey, you have such a talent for starting shite threads. Sigh. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab.

Ach Mickey, you have such a talent for starting shite threads. Sigh.

Now don’t go pretending that you’re shocked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab.

Ach Mickey, you have such a talent for starting shite threads. Sigh.

Now don’t go pretending that you’re shocked."

in my defence I've been drinking tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab.

Ach Mickey, you have such a talent for starting shite threads. Sigh.

Now don’t go pretending that you’re shocked.

in my defence I've been drinking tonight. "

So had I. No excuse.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......

I often say this to some of the guys I speak to, they’re also the ones I’ll least likely to meet because I’m convinced they got it wrong aha.

Hollybig dope

I know. I stressed you out many a time, going on and on and worrying

Hollyits a good job i have that phone recording saying

Yeah yeah i know yeah hmmm maybe haha yeah yeah

kidding you wernt that bad really hahaha"

I can quite believe Holly was that bad as she can be a real worrier sometimes!!

Loo was right when he told you that i was going to love you as I didn’t want to leave.....that’s why you built me a cage to make sure I don’t!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Err no! I wouldn’t want most of them!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Me and Meli agreeing? Whatever next?!

This has made me sooo happy!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not sure which it is, OP. Am I arrogant enough to think that I can have anyone on here? Or am I down on myself for being aware that I'm not God's gift? I'm not sure both can exist at the same time in the same person.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm not sure which it is, OP. Am I arrogant enough to think that I can have anyone on here? Or am I down on myself for being aware that I'm not God's gift? I'm not sure both can exist at the same time in the same person. "

Schrödinger‘s twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t be God’s gift, I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

Is this just another veiled attempt at saying women shouldn’t get above themselves here ?

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over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Schrödinger‘s twat.

I like the double entendre in twat there.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Most of them can't have me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want virtually any man on fab tbh! Life is way to much fun ...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

The ones that don't kiss can't have me for a start ..then there's the smoking ones ...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Then there's the I'm not meeting.. only putting up sexy photos ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then there's the I'm not meeting.. only putting up sexy photos ones"
sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You obviously haven't read the many threads started by women saying they turn men down because they think they're out of their league.

I’m speaking to a guy at the moment and I genuinely just messaged him saying I’m surprised he’s interested. Cause he’s so bloody hot

I don’t believe in ‘leagues’ or whatever, but still......

I often say this to some of the guys I speak to, they’re also the ones I’ll least likely to meet because I’m convinced they got it wrong aha.

Hollybig dope

I know. I stressed you out many a time, going on and on and worrying

Hollyits a good job i have that phone recording saying

Yeah yeah i know yeah hmmm maybe haha yeah yeah

kidding you wernt that bad really hahaha

I can quite believe Holly was that bad as she can be a real worrier sometimes!!

Loo was right when he told you that i was going to love you as I didn’t want to leave.....that’s why you built me a cage to make sure I don’t!!!

LJ"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Then there's the I'm not meeting.. only putting up sexy photos onessorry

"
not even the Excalibur ones

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

Umm, nah that's just your mysoginy.

#itsnotmeitsyou

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over a year ago

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I quite like the cookbook ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only want the one man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only want the one man

"
greedy cow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like the cookbook ones"

My cookbook photos? If so, thank you!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I quite like the cookbook ones

My cookbook photos? If so, thank you! "

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

Genuinely thought it was the other way round that most men think that because a women’s on here that her legs will open as soon as he asks

At least that’s the way lots of messages read

MrsB

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Genuinely thought it was the other way round that most men think that because a women’s on here that her legs will open as soon as he asks

At least that’s the way lots of messages read

MrsB"

Standards? How dare we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, being arrogant to have anyone you want might be a Chimera, but being confident isn't a bad attitude. Is a positive thing to accept rejection

. I can't have any woman I want but I can surely walk with my head up and confident that I'm good and noone can take me down if rejected, cause there are plentyyyyyyyyof women in here lol and vice versa! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know there's certain men and women out of my league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like the cookbook ones

My cookbook photos? If so, thank you!

I've changed it back! I guess it's still the weekend so the challenge hasn't ended yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know there's certain men and women out of my league"

Tbh, i dont think thats true. Isnt about leagues...can t a royal fall in love with an actress that isnt a royal itself? Just did an important example as normally, only royal were allowed to marry other royal families. anyone can have anyone. But not everyone is perfect for everyone. As simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know there's certain men and women out of my league"

You may think that and they may think that they are, but guess what we are all in the same league. We are on here

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Only want the one man

Who the hell said that

You must live near me

I cant be that one man but maybe a social butterfly friend

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

Do they ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Nope

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Think your wrong there, it's not right to tar everyone with the same brush, some probably but not generally for sure.

Jo x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I certainly don't I'm fairly sure not 'every' man on here is desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far from it. I don't think I've come across any female that has given that impression. As for me, I don't assume I can have any male. Even the 1 that is smitten

I still have to keep him on his toes guessing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

"Far from it. I don't think I've come across any female that has given that impression. As for me, I don't assume I can have any male. Even the 1 that is smitten

I still have to keep him on his toes guessing.

On my toes always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only want the one man

Who the hell said that

You must live near me

I cant be that one man but maybe a social butterfly friend

We do seem to live near!

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over a year ago

"Far from it. I don't think I've come across any female that has given that impression. As for me, I don't assume I can have any male. Even the 1 that is smitten

I still have to keep him on his toes guessing.

I am smitten

In reply to the OP - ive not come across women that think they can have any guy... the truth is most guys arnt picky...most women are, so its not a even playing field women generally will be picky, and its their right to be.

You may be interested in sleeping with 99% of the women on here... the 1% of the women will maybe entertain you- thats fab life.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think every guy on Fab thinks he's original and God's gift to women. If I hear anymore of the same shit I'll scream (clean, genuine, discreet, bollox bollox bollox...) Lol.

Soooooooo boring.

And no, definitely not every woman thinks she can get any guy on Fab. Obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope....would be extremely arrogant to think so.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"There are very few men say no if offered sex now let's be honest here.

I find it hard to believe that if every women on this thread sent 5 messages instigating interest you wouldn't get 5 replies.

So on here I would say yes.

However if we were talking real life that's different.

Getting replies is a whole lot different to getting people to turn up.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think some guys assume that because a woman doesn't want them, that she thinks she can do better.

Sometimes the options aren't average (or bad) sex and great sex, they're average/bad or getting an early night. Sometimes the early night is the preferable option.

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By *tag and HellcatCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby

My default position is that it's probable that I'm not most men's cup of tea ... always a pleasant surprise if anyone shows interest .

M$.H

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Just you, yes.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

Not most, but I'm sure there are a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women weigh up their options and their chances better than a lot of men

I think they exercise more discretion in their choices

Their playing field is the same size as the mens, but they do have a wider choice of squad

They do therefore seem to exercise more caution

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

It’s not true but fab is skewed towards more males less females. Plus most try to live out fantasies so will be picky.

I can see where the generalization stems from.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think women weigh up their options and their chances better than a lot of men

I think they exercise more discretion in their choices

Their playing field is the same size as the mens, but they do have a wider choice of squad

They do therefore seem to exercise more caution "

Yes. Caution isn't the same as arrogance.

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By *entula malarkeyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm generalising of course but I imagine that most ladies on here are probably choosier and more fussier than guys, but that could also be because of the ratio of guys to gals...

Whilst most men, and I mean myself as well, when thinking with there dick, rather than their head would shag the crack of dawn...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

It was just you thinking this.

But now it's lots of other people thinking this also.

Most of them will be thinking, Nah.

Me too.

Never met a woman on here who thought she could have any man on fab.

To be honest, in my experience, most women on here would NOT have any man on fab.

Hope that helps

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

I would not be so arrogant to assume I could have every man on the site and notwithstanding I wouldn’t want 75% of them anyway.

We don’t all have aspirations to become the FAB bike! I’m sure I am not the only female here who’s values include integrity ....

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

You know, almost every one of you threads is blaming women for something, seriously, give your head a wobble.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I'm generalising of course but I imagine that most ladies on here are probably choosier and more fussier than guys, but that could also be because of the ratio of guys to gals...

Whilst most men, and I mean myself as well, when thinking with there dick, rather than their head would shag the crack of dawn... "

Where’s this dawn, I’ll have a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow really lol? Why would we even want to anyway? We have standards lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About time someone had the balls to post this. Well done OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest, in my experience, most women on here would NOT have any man on fab."

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

That sounds like you dont have much luck..

Unfortunately we are not in the yr 1928 when kitchens, mops, dinner and tea was all they had.

Even if there were the odd few you may have come accross like that can we as men even begin to have that opinion when since the dawn of time we have dominated, expected, taken what we we thought was ours to have?

We walk round thinking we can bang the the daylights out of any femake we can when in reality we couldnt so the more fuckwitted of men thought that rejection through the choice of the lady having made meant they could have them anyway and you know where im goin here dont you...??

Alot of historical awful crimes started with a "Look at her, she thinks she can anyone she wants" and if we honest 70% of men ifapproached by that lady would be lucky and they would fucky fucky and thedn after be all like fucked her, shes a *** or ***...

You are 100% seeing this for whatever reason you have but ive never had that feeling..

Take the hit of rejection, Accept she has a preference that 99.9% isnt you or i..

JUST SAYING LIKE..

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

made me laugh this thread, really? You think we,d want most of em?.....well there's a few who have but that makes it easier for us with a bit of self respect to filter out the *bike* riders from the ones with a bit of brain matter......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't think we think we can have any man on fab....I think the problem is most men on here think it's instant shag....So when they get rejected they think it's due to arrogance....They don't understand the sexual and mental attraction has to be there before you even consider meeting someone....So I wouldn't say most women on here think they can have anyone....It's just that most men on here think that most women on here must have sex with them....They they don't understand when someone's not interested in them....It's like they deflect there rejection hurt by thinking that were arrogant and that's not the case

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

".. or do most of the women on this site assume that they can have any man on fab."

However; paradoxically, there are a considerable number of men here on fab who believe they can have any woman they chose - most of them suffer delusional tendencies

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