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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Feeling so crap right now

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Sending hugs. What’s up op? Xx

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Feel love not crap

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

What's up.xxx

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Life is kicking my ass and I have these feelings and thoughts like

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By *he Devil rides outMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's always good to talk even to a complete stranger. Sometimes just saying it out loud can make things seem better x

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Hi OP; feeling down is tough and more common then you’d imagine, you’re not alone and talking helps. X

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By *lim Jim 68Man
over a year ago

Guernsey

Just talk to someone, anyone..even expressings your frustrations out loud can help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to many of us. Best thing I find, is to go out. Get some fresh air, a walk along the river or a nice park. Meet up with some friends or even just enjoy your own company with a book.

You’ll get through it OP

The sun will be out again soon.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I'm always alone and I try not to be bit when all your friends have bfs and kids dont really leave any time you like and my mother ain't talking to me and people on here dont understand so you just feel trapped

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"What's up.xxx "
feeling ending it all I serve no purpose in this life

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By *he Devil rides outMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Some people on here do and will understand as they are in similar situations or have been. I've struggled with feelings of loneliness my self on and off my whole life. Your not alone xx

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Some people on here do and will understand as they are in similar situations or have been. I've struggled with feelings of loneliness my self on and off my whole life. Your not alone xx"
that's good I'm not alone all I want is a friend like to get some food with etc and people now days just dont have time and I'm wondering why I'm here to feel so rubbish

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By *he Devil rides outMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

How much free time do you have in the evenings etc? What do you like to do?

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"How much free time do you have in the evenings etc? What do you like to do?"
I have a lot of free time and I mostly just cook try and listen to audiobook watch some telly etc I just wanna give up

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Hi OP; feeling down is tough and more common then you’d imagine, you’re not alone and talking helps. X"
could really use a friend but all mine so called friends are busy and I like I'm bothering them

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What's up.xxx feeling ending it all I serve no purpose in this life "

If you ever want to talk just drop me a message x

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By *he Devil rides outMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

What kind of interests do you have. You said audio books. Are there any book clubs/swaps around you?

Maybe extending your circle of friends could help

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"What's up.xxx feeling ending it all I serve no purpose in this life

If you ever want to talk just drop me a message x"
thank you feel very rubbish sit here crying like a fool x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's up.xxx feeling ending it all I serve no purpose in this life "

Please do not think like that, of course you do. And see it you may not but believe me, you do xx

Just be kind to yourself.

A friend of mine jumped off a bridge last week. None of us had any inkling he would do that, he seemed so happy and upbeat

Please talk to someone, anyone. Me if you feel it can help.

Sending hugs to you xx

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"What's up.xxx feeling ending it all I serve no purpose in this life "

That's not true everybody has a purpose, if that's how you're feeling go and speak to your GP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont feel like that tho..

Think all the good things you have ..i guess thats enoughto put a smile on your face and make you feel betfer

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What's up.xxx feeling ending it all I serve no purpose in this life

If you ever want to talk just drop me a message x thank you feel very rubbish sit here crying like a fool x"

Nothing wrong with crying, it can help. Been there many a time and it's not nice xx

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"What kind of interests do you have. You said audio books. Are there any book clubs/swaps around you?

Maybe extending your circle of friends could help"
I'm not a swinger nor do I plan on being one and my audio book are mostly funny romance ones etc and I'm tying to finding friends

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"What's up.xxx feeling ending it all I serve no purpose in this life

If you ever want to talk just drop me a message x thank you feel very rubbish sit here crying like a fool x

Nothing wrong with crying, it can help. Been there many a time and it's not nice xx"
it's so crap I feel so trapped like I cant get away x

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Dont feel like that tho..

Think all the good things you have ..i guess thats enoughto put a smile on your face and make you feel betfer"
what do I have

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"What's up.xxx feeling ending it all I serve no purpose in this life

That's not true everybody has a purpose, if that's how you're feeling go and speak to your GP."
been there done that didn't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a berroca

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always alone and I try not to be bit when all your friends have bfs and kids dont really leave any time you like and my mother ain't talking to me and people on here dont understand so you just feel trapped"

Being alone is an awful feeling, I have felt that pain all my life, people will understand how you feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont feel like that tho..

Think all the good things you have ..i guess thats enoughto put a smile on your face and make you feel betfer what do I have "
well your beautiful healthy and you seem to be a great person..if you need to chat feel free to drop a message.

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By *he Devil rides outMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Go back and shout louder if you are feeling that bad ask to speak tothe crisis team

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"What's up.xxx feeling ending it all I serve no purpose in this life

Please do not think like that, of course you do. And see it you may not but believe me, you do xx

Just be kind to yourself.

A friend of mine jumped off a bridge last week. None of us had any inkling he would do that, he seemed so happy and upbeat

Please talk to someone, anyone. Me if you feel it can help.

Sending hugs to you xx"
I'm sorry to hear about your friend and not gonna lie I'm feeling like to do that at the moment x

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By *he Devil rides outMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Here are some numbers to help locally https://www.wolverhamptonhealthyminds.nhs.uk/helping-you-to-help-yourself/if-you-are-in-crisis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending hope, and hugs. This is a moment. It’s not going to last forever. Remember your record for getting through hard times so far is 100% because you’re still right here. Strangers are all saying you matter. If you need some links that could help with reaching out, message me ( H-female half). You are not alone.

Make a list of all the things you need to do, water plants, feed pets, wash dishes, etc

And things you’ve not done yet in life

And things and people you need to live for.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP sorry you're feeling like you are - and I know how hard it all must seem right now, but try and focus on the positives, things to look forward to and not dwell on the negatives.

Find others to talk to, there have been some lovely and genuine offers here if there is no-one else, or if you really want to just talk then call Samaritans - they're there for *anyone* that needs an ear, are not judgemental and sometimes just talking to a friendly voice and pouring out your troubles is all it needs to help you make sense of them.

I hope you're feeling better soon

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Sending hope, and hugs. This is a moment. It’s not going to last forever. Remember your record for getting through hard times so far is 100% because you’re still right here. Strangers are all saying you matter. If you need some links that could help with reaching out, message me ( H-female half). You are not alone.

Make a list of all the things you need to do, water plants, feed pets, wash dishes, etc

And things you’ve not done yet in life

And things and people you need to live for. "
I have been to healthy mind didn't work even had counselling worked for a lil bit the support never last long enough x

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By *he Devil rides outMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Go back and ask for more help. They will listen to you xx

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By *he Devil rides outMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

As others have said if you talk to the Samaritans they will have contact numbers for you

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Dont feel like that tho..

Think all the good things you have ..i guess thats enoughto put a smile on your face and make you feel betfer what do I have "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I moved here with work and have been alone an awful lot

One or two friends is all you need

There’s things I would like or things I see that other people have but I try to take pleasure in the small things in life and hopefully I’m on the right path

Send me a message if you want to chat x

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Dont feel like that tho..

Think all the good things you have ..i guess thats enoughto put a smile on your face and make you feel betfer what do I have

Sometimes it helps to write down a list of all the things you have, that maybe don't seem like much to you. You have your health, a roof over your head, eyesight to enjoy the world around you, the ability to get out and about and enjoy the outdoors, think of your favourite foods, books, music and films that you can enjoy."
thank you all so much for taking the time to talk to me and I will definitely take on bored all your suggestions I was just feeling overwhelmed with life at the moment x

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I moved here with work and have been alone an awful lot

One or two friends is all you need

There’s things I would like or things I see that other people have but I try to take pleasure in the small things in life and hopefully I’m on the right path

Send me a message if you want to chat x"
thank you and I love a friend to just get a drink etc and just chat but all to busy

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By *ilentnoiseMan
over a year ago

Belfast

OP ending things doesn't end the pain, it just transfers it to someone else.

It's awful being in a really dark place a the moment. The immediate priority is to reach out to someone, anyone, to resist any urge to put yourself in any danger. I'm glad you are talking about how you feel here on the forum - it's not gonna make everything better, but you are best getting out how you feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I moved here with work and have been alone an awful lot

One or two friends is all you need

There’s things I would like or things I see that other people have but I try to take pleasure in the small things in life and hopefully I’m on the right path

Send me a message if you want to chat x thank you and I love a friend to just get a drink etc and just chat but all to busy "

That’s a problem these days most people are too busy

However there are a lot of lonely people about including elderly people who can be good company

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By *he Devil rides outMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"thank you all so much for taking the time to talk to me and I will definitely take on bored all your suggestions I was just feeling overwhelmed with life at the moment x"

That's what we are here for to talk and listen. It's not just who can I screw tonight. take care and be kind to yourself xx

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"OP ending things doesn't end the pain, it just transfers it to someone else.

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it has helped a lil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats very sad news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I've been there. You're not alone, you do have a purpose even if you're unsure of it atm.

Try and remind yourself that so far you've got yourself through 100% of what life has thrown at you, and you can get through this too. It won't last forever, you know that.

I'm sending you love and strength!

If you need a friendly ear, feel free to message me. I'm always happy to talk and offer advice if i can!

Goes for anyone else struggling too.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"OP, I've been there. You're not alone, you do have a purpose even if you're unsure of it atm.

Try and remind yourself that so far you've got yourself through 100% of what life has thrown at you, and you can get through this too. It won't last forever, you know that.

I'm sending you love and strength!

If you need a friendly ear, feel free to message me. I'm always happy to talk and offer advice if i can!

Goes for anyone else struggling too.

"
thank you very much for you kind words and I will take you up on your offer x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Tomorrow is another day which I hope brings you more positivity.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Tomorrow is another day which I hope brings you more positivity. "
hope so hate that I'm always alone when I feel so crap I dont have any one to turn to oh its life I guess

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sorry to hear, hug of support to you

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Sorry to hear, hug of support to you "
thank you so much x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Tomorrow is another day which I hope brings you more positivity. hope so hate that I'm always alone when I feel so crap I dont have any one to turn to oh its life I guess"

It is,I find it hard to reach out when I'm feeling like that. I do have family but no-one that lives close by.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Tomorrow is another day which I hope brings you more positivity. hope so hate that I'm always alone when I feel so crap I dont have any one to turn to oh its life I guess

It is,I find it hard to reach out when I'm feeling like that. I do have family but no-one that lives close by."
at least you have family I cant all mine think I'm bring silly when I feel like this as my evil mother says Just go take your happy pills she dont get it nor does my sister

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Wow .. it's trite to say chin up ..or anything less than you're worth being here there's so much life on front of you to live ..XXX big hugs

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

There are some lovely people on this site as well as unthinking fools. Unfortunately, the trouble is when feeling the way you do, you may take more credence to the negative ones.

Maybe taking a break from the site or hiding your profile may help.

Hugs to you and hope you can see the good in life sooner than later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried the Meetup site? Local groups in something you're interested in and you might make new friends.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Tomorrow is another day which I hope brings you more positivity. hope so hate that I'm always alone when I feel so crap I dont have any one to turn to oh its life I guess

It is,I find it hard to reach out when I'm feeling like that. I do have family but no-one that lives close by. at least you have family I cant all mine think I'm bring silly when I feel like this as my evil mother says Just go take your happy pills she dont get it nor does my sister "

I'm sorry to hear that we're supposed to be able to rely on our family for support at time's of need aren't we.

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

You're never alone on the forums. What you're feeling isn't uncommon. I'm nowhere near where you live i know, but i'm here to chat. Just pm me if you feel the need x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Hugs xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

please get in touch with trained services immediately x

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

OP, I've been where you are too, more than once.

Have you told your friends how you feel?

I'm sure if they knew they would drop stuff to help you.

You have had some great advice here already.

What about workmates? Is there anyone you could pal up with, even starting with lunch in your lunch hour?

I hope you feel brighter soon but maybe its worth considering speaking to your gp regarding some meds just to help you get into a better place.

Good luck lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tomorrow is another day which I hope brings you more positivity. hope so hate that I'm always alone when I feel so crap I dont have any one to turn to oh its life I guess

Don't tell your mum anything if that's how she behaves. Also be careful which friends you tell. If you pick an unsympathetic one it could push you over the edge. X

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Tomorrow is another day which I hope brings you more positivity. hope so hate that I'm always alone when I feel so crap I dont have any one to turn to oh its life I guess

I'm sorry to hear that we're supposed to be able to rely on our family for support at time's of need aren't we."
yeah that's what they are for right not mine my mother would rather me not be alive

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Tomorrow is another day which I hope brings you more positivity. hope so hate that I'm always alone when I feel so crap I dont have any one to turn to oh its life I guess

Don't tell your mum anything if that's how she behaves. Also be careful which friends you tell. If you pick an unsympathetic one it could push you over the edge. X"
I dont tell any one any thing as I dont have any one just me trying work though my feelings

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Try to read another thread and say something amusing on it ..even if it's a phwoar on the phwoar thread .. just might give you a bit of a boost

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"OP, I've been where you are too, more than once.

Have you told your friends how you feel?

I'm sure if they knew they would drop stuff to help you.

You have had some great advice here already.

What about workmates? Is there anyone you could pal up with, even starting with lunch in your lunch hour?

I hope you feel brighter soon but maybe its worth considering speaking to your gp regarding some meds just to help you get into a better place.

Good luck lovely xx"
I did have work friends but recently got let go so been trying to find something new and I have try meds just made me feel worse x

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

Speaking from personal experience you have to talk.

Get it out of your head and your system. The more you think about it the worse it gets in your head but not necessarily in reality.

Its hard to start to open up. But it gets easier once you start I'm sometimes depressed and often lonely and I freely admit it now.

One of the previous posters is correct. Find someone you can trust even if that involves paying a private specialist. It's worth it.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Speaking from personal experience you have to talk.

Get it out of your head and your system. The more you think about it the worse it gets in your head but not necessarily in reality.

Its hard to start to open up. But it gets easier once you start I'm sometimes depressed and often lonely and I freely admit it now.

One of the previous posters is correct. Find someone you can trust even if that involves paying a private specialist. It's worth it. "
no one wants to listen to me moan how I feel once again busy with life and which they are very entitled to

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Speaking from personal experience you have to talk.

Get it out of your head and your system. The more you think about it the worse it gets in your head but not necessarily in reality.

Its hard to start to open up. But it gets easier once you start I'm sometimes depressed and often lonely and I freely admit it now.

One of the previous posters is correct. Find someone you can trust even if that involves paying a private specialist. It's worth it. no one wants to listen to me moan how I feel once again busy with life and which they are very entitled to"

I'd be willing to listen, if it were to be of help. I have been in low points and just talking helps as a release. A lot of people on here would be willing to listen.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Speaking from personal experience you have to talk.

Get it out of your head and your system. The more you think about it the worse it gets in your head but not necessarily in reality.

Its hard to start to open up. But it gets easier once you start I'm sometimes depressed and often lonely and I freely admit it now.

I'd be willing to listen, if it were to be of help. I have been in low points and just talking helps as a release. A lot of people on here would be willing to listen. "
I know they are and it's very very nice of them to give up they time like that but I'm nothing special for them to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP! If you ever want to say hi and have a chat I’m normally about, but will always get back to you if I’m not.

You are special!

We all are, in our own unique way.

Connie

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Hey OP! If you ever want to say hi and have a chat I’m normally about, but will always get back to you if I’m not.

You are special!

We all are, in our own unique way.

Connie

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thank you very much x

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"OP, I've been where you are too, more than once.

Have you told your friends how you feel?

I'm sure if they knew they would drop stuff to help you.

You have had some great advice here already.

What about workmates? Is there anyone you could pal up with, even starting with lunch in your lunch hour?

I hope you feel brighter soon but maybe its worth considering speaking to your gp regarding some meds just to help you get into a better place.

Good luck lovely xx I did have work friends but recently got let go so been trying to find something new and I have try meds just made me feel worse x"

You will feel worse before better yes, but they will help, you wouldn't have to take them forever xx

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Speaking from personal experience you have to talk.

Get it out of your head and your system. The more you think about it the worse it gets in your head but not necessarily in reality.

Its hard to start to open up. But it gets easier once you start I'm sometimes depressed and often lonely and I freely admit it now.

I'd be willing to listen, if it were to be of help. I have been in low points and just talking helps as a release. A lot of people on here would be willing to listen. I know they are and it's very very nice of them to give up they time like that but I'm nothing special for them to do that "

People will listen. I volunteer with a national mental health charity, I listen to people a lot, reach out a lot, when you have been low yourself you understand and the need is there to give back.

Drop me a message anytime ok

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