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Do you speak your mind?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or hold back on certain subjects? I try to say what I want on things, if I have a opinion on it, there is a fun saying and it goes like this, dont talk about politics or religion lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's something I'm really passionate about, I'll definitely speak my mind and the OH often has to signal for me to cool it down.

But I won't engage in any conversation that seems to be provoking controversy for the sake of it, or for the sake of attention. I can't be asked.

Niki x

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

If I spoke the random things that go through my mind then I would be taken away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hold back too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no. I hold back. Sometimes there’s blood on my tongue from biting it so much! Especially on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always, most people are snowflakes that cant handle an opinion thats not theres...i think thats why politics fails haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always, most people are snowflakes that cant handle an opinion thats not theres...i think thats why politics fails haha"

Omg you used the S word! Prepare for battle!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

If I have a negative opinion on something I'll generally just say nothing ...unless it's something personal against me or my family then I won't hold back

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By *il FiskMan
over a year ago

sefton

If i spoke what was going through my mind, Id be sectioned for my own safety!!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I roll my eyes a lot on here from the lack of actual knowledge cited on real research and the perpetuation of “my bubble” experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here? I tend to avoid the heated discussions, more because I know the type of people they bring out and I can't be bothered engaging with them.

In real life I'll say my piece when I think it's appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no. I’d spend my whole life arguing.

The ‘smile and nod’ combo gets me through life just fine.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I hold back, especially in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or hold back on certain subjects? I try to say what I want on things, if I have a opinion on it, there is a fun saying and it goes like this, dont talk about politics or religion lol "

Don't talk about Politics or Religion that's good advice, especially where I live.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Some subjects I keep my opinion to myself, otherwise I'd spend far more time in the basement

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes i do. I dont know why its seen as a negative thing. I will say what ive got to say. Sometimes its negative but more often its positive. So if i have something positive to say to someone i say it. I think its only wrong to speak your mind when you do it in a negative way and never a positive way

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

I have to self censor to avoid getting yet another forum ban . #snowflakeadmins #ersorryimeanbestadminsintheworldeveriloveyoupleasedontbanme

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"Or hold back on certain subjects? I try to say what I want on things, if I have a opinion on it, there is a fun saying and it goes like this, dont talk about politics or religion lol

Don't talk about Politics or Religion that's good advice, especially where I live. "

That’s not just good advice, it’s a matter of life and death

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very open and do speak my mind. I don't think it's worth it sometimes though so I'll hold back at times. But if I'm passionate about something, I will happily use my voice even if other people disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always speak my mind, maybe too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... Often gets me into trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the subject and the company. Some things I am very passionate about, but I may not care what the company thinks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I talk about things I know nothing about and insist I’m right, even though I have no facts to back up my misinformed opinions. But I refuse to back down even when the other person is clearly better educated and better informed on the subject, a subject I clearly know very little about.

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

I would love to be able to speak my mind. But the voices in my head speak Latin and Ancient Greek. And I don't

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I always speak my mind, maybe too much."
Dont you dare stop either , I like your opinions

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Yes I do. And I've received several periods on the naughty step for it

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes. Thats why i get so many forum bans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More in real life and with those few on here i actually care about. Otherwise i can't be arsed.

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how I think it’ll be received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Thats why i get so many forum bans."

ditto

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

It depends on what the subject is. I definitely don't get involved in any political or religious debates

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Depends how important it is to me.

On here I'd rather chat random buffoonery.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *il FiskMan
over a year ago

sefton


"Depends how important it is to me.

On here I'd rather chat random buffoonery.

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Same here, I come here as a release from all of the insanity of the real world!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to shut up if I have strong opinions. I try to avoid “real” subjects on here as this site is about escapism and fun for me.

I do love a rant about politics, religion and all sorts of things, and a debate unless someone is too ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Depends how important it is to me.

On here I'd rather chat random buffoonery.

Same here, I come here as a release from all of the insanity of the real world!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stay clear of politics and religious chats they gave no interest with me too many wars have been started over religious reasons so I'm out

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm respectful and speak my mind appropriately, including religion and politics.

Many things don't need to be said, just because they are thought of

But I am a prolific debater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well speaking for myself, it beats speaking anyone else's!

As for P, no definitely not. She keeps her opinions to herself for fear of upsetting others, despite my always telling her she should speak out more. But no, she keeps her own council as she prefers the sea to be calm, unrippled and still.

B

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Not always. I did before but now I tend to avoid saying certain things.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes, it irritates me to hell if I don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still on the learning path of keeping my mouth shut

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

I do speak my mind. Sometimes spontaneously.

I think it's important to say what you think. However restraint is useful at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or hold back on certain subjects? I try to say what I want on things, if I have a opinion on it, there is a fun saying and it goes like this, dont talk about politics or religion lol "

I always think honesty is the best policy...if you don't want an honest answer don't ask me the question...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly speak my mind, however I do sensor it in places and try to be as diplomatic as possible.

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Hmmm speak my mind when I shouldn't.

Keep my gob shut when I should speak my mind.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always I don’t sugar coat anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my mouth doesn’t say it, my face definitely will. It’s a blessing and a cure

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I don’t always speak my mind. In many cases I choose to not say anything at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always . Wether it gets me into trouble or not. To thine own self be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when it is necessary to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things fly out of my mouth before I engage my brain sometimes

Age hasn't brought me wisdom it has brought me indifference whether people like me or not

I try to be kind and I try to walk away from the people that make my blood boil - it's better than having an opinion.

No one cares really - most people are waiting for their turn to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes. Most of the time I told my eyes knowing it’s not even worth my effort

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over a year ago


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over a year ago


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over a year ago


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try really hard to be diplomatic and not say anything but if I let shoot I really do.

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over a year ago


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over a year ago


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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

People that have no self control, no filter, worry me. It’s all very ego driven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't, not enough anyway, getting better though

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over a year ago


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hold back most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hold back on some things. If I let myself go in forums, I would probably get blocked by a few.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

At times I have a blooded tongue..as I've gotten older I'm less tolerant and have no filter anymore,so say things straight from the shoulder..what you see is what you get no apologies..

J x

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

It all depends who it is, you just know with some people it's their way and not open to suggestions and/or opinions so not really worth the breath it takes to say it.

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over a year ago

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

I, Mr, have in the past not been too vocal when I should have spoken up, repressed childhood saw to that.

In the past year in particular, with life changing events going on, I'm less likely to let things pass me by nor do I give time to the nonsense that I would have the benefit of the doubt to before.

Life is short and I am living it to the max. I don't have enemies, but if they aren't into us, then they just have no space in our lives. The friends we have are great, so will defend them to the hilt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or hold back on certain subjects? I try to say what I want on things, if I have a opinion on it, there is a fun saying and it goes like this, dont talk about politics or religion lol

I always think honesty is the best policy...if you don't want an honest answer don't ask me the question... "
That is right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It all depends who it is, you just know with some people it's their way and not open to suggestions and/or opinions so not really worth the breath it takes to say it."
That is right and I have also noticed that, that it depends of who is commenting, as they cant accept other views or opinions other then theirs.

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