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"Conversation is important,if I can't get a feel for who you are I find it incredibly frustrating." Truth | |||
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"No. Its a HUGE bonus if they look like Gerard Butler but there has to be some sort of conversation. Unless I'm in a club then I don't really converse much x" I’m just a chatter I reckon Penis and boobs are an amazing bonus | |||
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"People are so much more than how they look. Yes, people are attracted to what they like to see ... but if that's all there is ... Personally ... there has to be something between the ears and the ability to converse is important" Yes indeedy | |||
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"I’m very good at showing my appreciation for a gorgeous lady or man ... however Conversation is essential You can be Gerard Butlers double , if you don’t converse with me in a way that tingles me , I’ll not continue. My question is ( you’re waiting with baited breath - I know) Do you require a good conversationalist, or are you happy with seeing a face or body that pleases you and you arrange a meeting ?? " Conversation is def important, need to find that connection plus when the chats good and you get to know them makes play much more fun xx | |||
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"I’m very good at showing my appreciation for a gorgeous lady or man ... however Conversation is essential You can be Gerard Butlers double , if you don’t converse with me in a way that tingles me , I’ll not continue. My question is ( you’re waiting with baited breath - I know) Do you require a good conversationalist, or are you happy with seeing a face or body that pleases you and you arrange a meeting ?? Conversation is def important, need to find that connection plus when the chats good and you get to know them makes play much more fun xx" Makes the sex more fun ? Play is banned from my posts | |||
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"I need to feel a connection. I don’t just want to meet anyone. I don’t really like quick fuck and go type of meetings, longer meetings mean there’s plenty of time for talking, so I like to meet women that I can have proper conversation with and a laugh. Laughing is very important. " Truth | |||
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"I can talk for England so it’s not just how much they say. I quite like the witty ones and of course the voice and accent has a huuuuuggggge impact " Oh yes the voice | |||
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"I can talk for England so it’s not just how much they say. I quite like the witty ones and of course the voice and accent has a huuuuuggggge impact " | |||
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"I need the conversation. Chemistry is so important. I need someone to stimulate my mind before I'll let them near my body." Some don’t get it .. sad times | |||
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"Totally agree OP - we’ve got to be able to chat and laugh. " I don’t laugh ... I’m a miserable bitch | |||
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"No. Its a HUGE bonus if they look like Gerard Butler but there has to be some sort of conversation. Unless I'm in a club then I don't really converse much x" You maybe a bit preoccupied to be worried about conversation with the right person though but I deffo don’t look like that Butler fella you speak of though | |||
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"Totally agree OP - we’ve got to be able to chat and laugh. I don’t laugh ... I’m a miserable bitch " Truth | |||
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"I can talk for England so it’s not just how much they say. I quite like the witty ones and of course the voice and accent has a huuuuuggggge impact " I agree with this lady | |||
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"Totally agree OP - we’ve got to be able to chat and laugh. I don’t laugh ... I’m a miserable bitch Truth " You’re not a liar | |||
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"Physical and mental attraction are key. But it doesn't need to be one to one chat. I like the forums because you get a good feel for how people interact and whether or not they are the witty and fun types or boring, dull types. " Interesting ... | |||
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"I’m very good at showing my appreciation for a gorgeous lady or man ... however Conversation is essential You can be Gerard Butlers double , if you don’t converse with me in a way that tingles me , I’ll not continue. My question is ( you’re waiting with baited breath - I know) Do you require a good conversationalist, or are you happy with seeing a face or body that pleases you and you arrange a meeting ?? " Like you, I can appreciate and love the way a lady looks but I do want the person I'm spending time to be chatty. I like listening to other people's life stories | |||
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"No. Its a HUGE bonus if they look like Gerard Butler but there has to be some sort of conversation. Unless I'm in a club then I don't really converse much x You maybe a bit preoccupied to be worried about conversation with the right person though but I deffo don’t look like that Butler fella you speak of though " You are a hottie though | |||
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"No. Its a HUGE bonus if they look like Gerard Butler but there has to be some sort of conversation. Unless I'm in a club then I don't really converse much x You maybe a bit preoccupied to be worried about conversation with the right person though but I deffo don’t look like that Butler fella you speak of though " You're easy on the eyes though so all good x | |||
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"I’m very good at showing my appreciation for a gorgeous lady or man ... however Conversation is essential You can be Gerard Butlers double , if you don’t converse with me in a way that tingles me , I’ll not continue. My question is ( you’re waiting with baited breath - I know) Do you require a good conversationalist, or are you happy with seeing a face or body that pleases you and you arrange a meeting ?? " I'm slightly deaf thats why text does it for me | |||
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"No. Its a HUGE bonus if they look like Gerard Butler but there has to be some sort of conversation. Unless I'm in a club then I don't really converse much x You maybe a bit preoccupied to be worried about conversation with the right person though but I deffo don’t look like that Butler fella you speak of though You're easy on the eyes though so all good x " But can he talk the talk ?? | |||
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"I definitely need the conversation. The learning about each other through chats is vital if I don't feel we can have a laugh and connect I won't want to please you. Jo.Xx " Absolutely | |||
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"I’ve chatted to people on here without finding their face pics particularly my type but then got on so well with them I’ve met them and it has turned out they are attractive just rubbish at taking selfies. When you sit and talk to someone you already like and you see them laughing and animated and that twinkle in their eyes it can make all the difference. I’ve only met one guy that I was drooling over his pics before I even started to talk to. That worked out pretty well for me too though as the personality matched the pics and we have rather a lovely connection " That’s lovely Precious - treasure each other | |||
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"No. Its a HUGE bonus if they look like Gerard Butler but there has to be some sort of conversation. Unless I'm in a club then I don't really converse much x You maybe a bit preoccupied to be worried about conversation with the right person though but I deffo don’t look like that Butler fella you speak of though You're easy on the eyes though so all good x But can he talk the talk ?? " So far, yes x | |||
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"No. Its a HUGE bonus if they look like Gerard Butler but there has to be some sort of conversation. Unless I'm in a club then I don't really converse much x You maybe a bit preoccupied to be worried about conversation with the right person though but I deffo don’t look like that Butler fella you speak of though You're easy on the eyes though so all good x But can he talk the talk ?? So far, yes x" | |||
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"Conversation is important,if I can't get a feel for who you are I find it incredibly frustrating." Yup this, and I need to get it from the profile before I will chat normally. | |||
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"Good conversation leads to a connection and chemistry which leads to feeling comfortable and relaxed enough to meet someone - no matter how physically attractive someone might be I couldn't meet them right off the bat without having established that connection and chemistry. When you find someone on the same wavelength as you it makes the experience infinitely better " Yup | |||
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"Totally agree OP - we’ve got to be able to chat and laugh. I don’t laugh ... I’m a miserable bitch " Not even at them?! Cruelly and sadistically? | |||
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"I could never meet unless I have that.. I rarely meet as it is. Anyone can fuck... What makes it mind blowing is when you have that connection.. The best times for me are when I've meet someone and you can talk and laugh with them as well as fancy the fuck out of the other person...I need that mental stimulation too, that just builds the whole anticipation, excitement, lust and desire. I won't meet unless it's there. That's what I want! " We won’t settle for less | |||
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"Totally agree OP - we’ve got to be able to chat and laugh. I don’t laugh ... I’m a miserable bitch Not even at them?! Cruelly and sadistically? " Gosh no .... I’m a nice, miserable bitch | |||
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"I can talk for England so it’s not just how much they say. I quite like the witty ones and of course the voice and accent has a huuuuuggggge impact " What kind of accent? | |||
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"No. I can't stand talking. People talk far too much and forget we're on a sex site. " Stone cold | |||
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"I could never meet unless I have that.. I rarely meet as it is. Anyone can fuck... What makes it mind blowing is when you have that connection.. The best times for me are when I've meet someone and you can talk and laugh with them as well as fancy the fuck out of the other person...I need that mental stimulation too, that just builds the whole anticipation, excitement, lust and desire. I won't meet unless it's there. That's what I want! We won’t settle for less " Dam right | |||
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"No. I can't stand talking. People talk far too much and forget we're on a sex site. Stone cold " FAF | |||
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"No. I can't stand talking. People talk far too much and forget we're on a sex site. Stone cold FAF " Both of us ? | |||
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"No women want to 'converse' wit me. My inbox never turns yellow. " Your cock is staring right at us | |||
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"No women want to 'converse' wit me. My inbox never turns yellow. Your cock is staring right at us " | |||
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"No. I can't stand talking. People talk far too much and forget we're on a sex site. Stone cold FAF Both of us ? " Oooft | |||
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" We need the attraction to be there, to start a conversation in the first place. A little banter, witty replies, eventually leading to more tantalising messages. They are both equal to forming a connection and igniting that spark. No spark - no social. No social - no sex. Niki x" Nice | |||
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"No women want to 'converse' wit me. My inbox never turns yellow. Your cock is staring right at us " | |||
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"Absolutely essential. If we can't hold a conversation I'm not interested. The more random the conversation the better usually " Yup | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! " Really ? Ok | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! Really ? Ok " You don't appear convinced!! | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! Really ? Ok You don't appear convinced!! " She doesn't.... Hmmm... | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! Really ? Ok You don't appear convinced!! " You chat ... | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! Really ? Ok You don't appear convinced!! She doesn't.... Hmmm... " | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! " It actually is..... | |||
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"No women want to 'converse' wit me. My inbox never turns yellow. Your cock is staring right at us " Face photos of myself on request. Ladies need to inbox me though. | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! Really ? Ok You don't appear convinced!! You chat ... " Are you saying I talk, or have you mistyped 'chav'? - bugger, is it the adidas hoody?!... | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... " OK, now I'm convinced! If this girl says it, then it must be! xx Niki | |||
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"Absolutely need good conversation. We like to chat, laugh and put the world to rights. We really dislike text speak and has put us off from getting to know people. I don’t know whether that makes us shallow, but just cannot bring ourselves to respond to ‘wud b gr8 2 get 2 no u’" Me either | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! Really ? Ok You don't appear convinced!! You chat ... Are you saying I talk, or have you mistyped 'chav'? - bugger, is it the adidas hoody?!..." No words ... | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... " Yay! Verification | |||
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"I’m very good at showing my appreciation for a gorgeous lady or man ... however Conversation is essential You can be Gerard Butlers double , if you don’t converse with me in a way that tingles me , I’ll not continue. My question is ( you’re waiting with baited breath - I know) Do you require a good conversationalist, or are you happy with seeing a face or body that pleases you and you arrange a meeting ?? " 100% i like someone who can talk, otherwise it gets boring fast | |||
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"I like to talk. Not sexy talk, I’m rubbish at that. I mean general stuff, It’s better when you know some one. " Haha I’m useless too | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... Yay! Verification " Ahhh duly noted I must not be worthy of the proper chat then | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... Yay! Verification Ahhh duly noted I must not be worthy of the proper chat then " I'm particularly good at conversation over a nice home cooked paella... | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... " It's really subjective isn't it? What someone finds a good conversationalist another will find as dull as fuck. And vice versa. | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... OK, now I'm convinced! If this girl says it, then it must be! xx Niki" | |||
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"Has to be good conversation, understanding and connection for me. Aswell as the physical attraction. Have to know someone well before I meet as I'm one who likes the intimacy of it. I need mental stimulation aswell as physical " You’re gorgeous too Good conversation when you’re not feeling frisky | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... It's really subjective isn't it? What someone finds a good conversationalist another will find as dull as fuck. And vice versa." Don't worry, you'll see Meli ... | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... It's really subjective isn't it? What someone finds a good conversationalist another will find as dull as fuck. And vice versa." Wow! Harsh..... | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... It's really subjective isn't it? What someone finds a good conversationalist another will find as dull as fuck. And vice versa." Truth | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... It's really subjective isn't it? What someone finds a good conversationalist another will find as dull as fuck. And vice versa. Wow! Harsh....." It’s true xx We all find different types of conversation either stimulating or not Not a criticism at all - just truth | |||
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"Has to be good conversation, understanding and connection for me. Aswell as the physical attraction. Have to know someone well before I meet as I'm one who likes the intimacy of it. I need mental stimulation aswell as physical You’re gorgeous too Good conversation when you’re not feeling frisky " Thank you floro. Hope you are well. Not spoke for ages | |||
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"Sex without conversation and humour is sex. Sex with a natter and a laugh is shenanigans and mullarkey " Shenanigans Dear lord One is too ‘classy’ for such goings on | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... It's really subjective isn't it? What someone finds a good conversationalist another will find as dull as fuck. And vice versa. Wow! Harsh..... It’s true xx We all find different types of conversation either stimulating or not Not a criticism at all - just truth " Bluntly put, possibly? Meh! | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... It's really subjective isn't it? What someone finds a good conversationalist another will find as dull as fuck. And vice versa. Wow! Harsh..... It’s true xx We all find different types of conversation either stimulating or not Not a criticism at all - just truth " Yes of course.... I must have just read that wrongly | |||
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"Has to be good conversation, understanding and connection for me. Aswell as the physical attraction. Have to know someone well before I meet as I'm one who likes the intimacy of it. I need mental stimulation aswell as physical You’re gorgeous too Good conversation when you’re not feeling frisky Thank you floro. Hope you are well. Not spoke for ages " I’m well It’s the truth - lovely chatting but you’re too ‘horny’ for me | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... It's really subjective isn't it? What someone finds a good conversationalist another will find as dull as fuck. And vice versa. Wow! Harsh..... It’s true xx We all find different types of conversation either stimulating or not Not a criticism at all - just truth Bluntly put, possibly? Meh!" I wouldn’t expect it any other way babe | |||
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"The art of conversation and rapport building is my speciality! It actually is..... It's really subjective isn't it? What someone finds a good conversationalist another will find as dull as fuck. And vice versa. Wow! Harsh..... It’s true xx We all find different types of conversation either stimulating or not Not a criticism at all - just truth Yes of course.... I must have just read that wrongly " I do it ALL the time It’s all alright | |||
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"A little less conversation, a little more action please. All this aggravation ain't satisfactionin' me A little more bite and a little less bark A little less fight and a little more spark Close your mouth and open up your heart and baby satisfy me Satisfy me baby. Just eyes filled with lust, lips made for kissing and a bod made for sinning will do " | |||
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"Sex without conversation and humour is sex. Sex with a natter and a laugh is shenanigans and mullarkey Shenanigans Dear lord One is too ‘classy’ for such goings on " So was Kate Winslet until she ended up romping in the back of car in the cargo hold of the Titanic With a 'steerage' class upstart no less | |||
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"Old folk always say looks arent always important. Thats experience for you. Ive been out with a number of stunners who were dull, dull, dull. Really boring lethargic in the bedroom too. My fav ever was 7/10 and funny as fook, and pushed me on everything, really really miss her. " Your favourite you rate 7/10 Seriously | |||
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"Sex without conversation and humour is sex. Sex with a natter and a laugh is shenanigans and mullarkey Shenanigans Dear lord One is too ‘classy’ for such goings on So was Kate Winslet until she ended up romping in the back of car in the cargo hold of the Titanic With a 'steerage' class upstart no less " She had Leo for fucks sake | |||
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" Do you require a good conversationalist, or are you happy with seeing a face or body that pleases you and you arrange a meeting ?? " Without someone to talk to what’s the point. Perhaps I’m wrong. I could pay for just sex. I’d rather have a connection. | |||
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"Sex without conversation and humour is sex. Sex with a natter and a laugh is shenanigans and mullarkey Shenanigans Dear lord One is too ‘classy’ for such goings on So was Kate Winslet until she ended up romping in the back of car in the cargo hold of the Titanic With a 'steerage' class upstart no less She had Leo for fucks sake " Fair play. And the boy could dance too. Would you settle for mullarkey? | |||
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"Not at all, if there’s no click then it ain’t happening - simples!" That’s why we failed | |||
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"Sex without conversation and humour is sex. Sex with a natter and a laugh is shenanigans and mullarkey Shenanigans Dear lord One is too ‘classy’ for such goings on So was Kate Winslet until she ended up romping in the back of car in the cargo hold of the Titanic With a 'steerage' class upstart no less She had Leo for fucks sake Fair play. And the boy could dance too. Would you settle for mullarkey? " | |||
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"If the chat doesn't engage me then I lose interest quickly,no matter what they like. On the flip side, if the chat is good people can become more attractive to me as well. " Yes ... very much | |||
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"The ability to talk nonsense with me is a great plus " Me to a tee. Nonsense is my favourite subject. | |||
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"Not at all, if there’s no click then it ain’t happening - simples! That’s why we failed " I’m beyond wounded and I’m now closing down my profile | |||
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"Not at all, if there’s no click then it ain’t happening - simples! That’s why we failed I’m beyond wounded and I’m now closing down my profile " I can take rejection .... | |||
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"Not at all, if there’s no click then it ain’t happening - simples! That’s why we failed I’m beyond wounded and I’m now closing down my profile I can take rejection .... " I’ll just have a little wank over your profile then I’m outta here | |||
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"I’m very good at showing my appreciation for a gorgeous lady or man ... however Conversation is essential You can be Gerard Butlers double , if you don’t converse with me in a way that tingles me , I’ll not continue. My question is ( you’re waiting with baited breath - I know) Do you require a good conversationalist, or are you happy with seeing a face or body that pleases you and you arrange a meeting ?? " Having sex with somebody we get on well with is a much better experience than somebody we hardly know and conversation is vital to that. Having said that, if we found a woman who looked like Gerard Butler than would probably put us off a bit. | |||
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"Not at all, if there’s no click then it ain’t happening - simples! That’s why we failed I’m beyond wounded and I’m now closing down my profile I can take rejection .... I’ll just have a little wank over your profile then I’m outta here " Be my first Be my guest | |||
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"I’m very good at showing my appreciation for a gorgeous lady or man ... however Conversation is essential You can be Gerard Butlers double , if you don’t converse with me in a way that tingles me , I’ll not continue. My question is ( you’re waiting with baited breath - I know) Do you require a good conversationalist, or are you happy with seeing a face or body that pleases you and you arrange a meeting ?? " Actually a mid point Ability to converse articulately is important , however I dont quest a deep soulful connection as I cannot ccommitthe time or effort such connections deserve and as such reject some whom are utterly amazing x | |||
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"I’m very good at showing my appreciation for a gorgeous lady or man ... however Conversation is essential You can be Gerard Butlers double , if you don’t converse with me in a way that tingles me , I’ll not continue. My question is ( you’re waiting with baited breath - I know) Do you require a good conversationalist, or are you happy with seeing a face or body that pleases you and you arrange a meeting ?? Actually a mid point Ability to converse articulately is important , however I dont quest a deep soulful connection as I cannot ccommitthe time or effort such connections deserve and as such reject some whom are utterly amazing x" Ah ok | |||
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"This is my ultimate dilemma. I feel drawn to profiles, nice pics and enticing eyes... Messages come in and I have no clue how to out, yet don't have time to engage too much with everyone to find out... I'm far more attracted to an articulate conversationalist than a beau - I've probably rejected my hottest match already " Your hottest match could be the perfect articulate gent | |||
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"Physical and mental attraction are key. But it doesn't need to be one to one chat. I like the forums because you get a good feel for how people interact and whether or not they are the witty and fun types or boring, dull types. " Are you saying being that if they appear dull and not funny in a forum, then they most be dull in real life? | |||
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"This is my ultimate dilemma. I feel drawn to profiles, nice pics and enticing eyes... Messages come in and I have no clue how to out, yet don't have time to engage too much with everyone to find out... I'm far more attracted to an articulate conversationalist than a beau - I've probably rejected my hottest match already Your hottest match could be the perfect articulate gent " Exactly. Early messages can be so undisclosing, so it's tricky I find, to identify the real gems | |||
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