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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems like nowerdays theres much more equality but i do still think men more often than not tend to make the first move whether or not its expected of them

But my question is, ladies would you make the first move? And if so im curious to hear your approach

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Nope, I make the men do all the work!

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Yes I’ve made the first move, always with a message. The way I look at is I’ve got nothing to lose

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Hehhhh, wink........then run...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make the move but I’m getting tired putting work in

Think I’ll sit back now and wait

I could do with a penis Tuesday - attached to a tall, gorgeous man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Have done many times.

Generally speaking I'm just honest, say hi, tell them why I'm interested, ask if they are too, job done

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Mrs often contacts people she likes the look of. Why wait?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem on here or in real life to make the first move. Life’s too short to think ‘if only..’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

On here, yes I make the first move a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, I make the men do all the work! "

Gold star for honesty theres no rifht or wrong answer here i was just curious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happened to me "

You lucky lucky man, i hope she rocked your world!!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

On here I'd never make the 1st move. No offense to the single blokes on here but fuck I've seen some sad acts on here trying to pull and no matter what I've never been that desperate. If somebody likes me they can just as easy tell me as me them. Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Again no right or wrong answers, i hope that system is paying off for you

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I regularly wink or message first, no issue with that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I regularly wink or message first, no issue with that. "

You know i dont think ive ever had a wink here haha

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I do make the first move. Quite a lot actually. I think I'm probably more the pursuer sort? But yesterday I was very straightforward and that failed spectacularly so not doing it again.

I do think some men prefer to be the ones who take the lead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regularly wink or message first, no issue with that.

You know i dont think ive ever had a wink here haha "

That’s sad...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple, we both make contact. In a real life situation, i.e. in person, it would be me that ultimately makes the move.

Niki x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do make the first move. Quite a lot actually. I think I'm probably more the pursuer sort? But yesterday I was very straightforward and that failed spectacularly so not doing it again.

I do think some men prefer to be the ones who take the lead."

Dont let it put you off!! Some definitly do, id prefer to be approached if im honest because you know shes interested but then after that i take the reigns

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I regularly wink or message first, no issue with that.

You know i dont think ive ever had a wink here haha

That’s sad..."

I know right, im sure i will at some point

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