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Do the male half of couples totally ride on the coat tails of the woman ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or have they got there on their own merits ?

Thanks in advance, kind regards x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or have they got there on their own merits ?

Thanks in advance, kind regards x"

I'm sure it not the case with the majority,but so many are solely promoted with pics and details about the female partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or have they got there on their own merits ?

Thanks in advance, kind regards x

I'm sure it not the case with the majority,but so many are solely promoted with pics and details about the female partner."

Now we just wait for the couple backlash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like all the cock. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like cock. "

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By *jangoMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

This should be interesting.

One i'll keep an eye on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like cock. "

Say what you see.

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

I think I feel like us chaps do ride the ladies tails quite a lot but my wife insists I also draw people's attention and to a point I think that I agree however in my opinion Danni draws more attention than me! This only applies to singles though as for couples to work everyone has to be feeling it x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot do yes. I do get messages from couples and the lady tends to be the attractive one and the guy is Meh (sorry dudes just my observations)

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

My other half is on here somewhere but he pretends not to know me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charlie is better looking than me.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been told that we are an attractive couple but i think Holly is definitely the beauty to my beast.

Riding on her coat tails, I don’t think so but as we are not looking to meet it’s hard for me to say in our case.

LJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we’re pretty equal, our pics are a good mix of both but sadly a lot of couples have mainly or all pics of the ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are undoubtedly 'some' males that do

I also think that there are many that don't

As a bloke here on my own, my only niggle is with the males of couples mocking guys and viewing them as 'second class' swingers

We are all here for our own reasons and to eek out our own paths

There is really no need to give 'attitude' to those who swing differently to you

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

100% yes from our experience.

I would say I did too, but since I much preferred to see my wife having fun, and I wasn’t bothered about playing with others myself, I don’t know if that’s the case regarding this observation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My other half is on here somewhere but he pretends not to know me "

Don’t blame him!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"My other half is on here somewhere but he pretends not to know me

Don’t blame him! "

Neither do I!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Depends on their dynamic surely.

We are a couple only looking for straight men, to play with me but hubby would be there also, playing with me.

So, whilst the attraction is for me to the male and vice versa, I would always consider hubby when bringing a guy in, he has to fit in with us.

So we talk about it, discuss it. See if he fits.

Yes I generally answer the messages and make the forum posts but he still reads it all, so he's fully aware of who I'm chatting to

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been told that we are an attractive couple but i think Holly is definitely the beauty to my beast.

Riding on her coat tails, I don’t think so but as we are not looking to meet it’s hard for me to say in our case.

LJ"

You would never be riding on my coat tails lovely, even if we were meeting. You are simply scrumptuous

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been told that we are an attractive couple but i think Holly is definitely the beauty to my beast.

Riding on her coat tails, I don’t think so but as we are not looking to meet it’s hard for me to say in our case.

LJ

You would never be riding on my coat tails lovely, even if we were meeting. You are simply scrumptuous

Holly"

Why ride your coat tails when I have a much better part of you to ride!

LJ

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Depends on their dynamic surely.

We are a couple only looking for straight men, to play with me but hubby would be there also, playing with me.

So, whilst the attraction is for me to the male and vice versa, I would always consider hubby when bringing a guy in, he has to fit in with us.

So we talk about it, discuss it. See if he fits.

Yes I generally answer the messages and make the forum posts but he still reads it all, so he's fully aware of who I'm chatting to

Jo x "

What Jo said! Depends entirely on the dynamic of the couple and what they're looking for.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She isn't wearing a coat apparently it's not normal to wear them in the bath

Though I have only seen her on Skype since May so who knows what she is up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha killed the thread, see just Witter away with what comes in my head and the thread is dead...

It's hot here, what's it like there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha killed the thread, see just Witter away with what comes in my head and the thread is dead...

It's hot here, what's it like there?"

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are undoubtedly 'some' males that do

I also think that there are many that don't

As a bloke here on my own, my only niggle is with the males of couples mocking guys and viewing them as 'second class' swingers

We are all here for our own reasons and to eek out our own paths

There is really no need to give 'attitude' to those who swing differently to you "

The men in couples who slag off singles are usually in relationships where they know if their wife/ partner left them, they'd never have sex again. They are turning their hatred of themselves outward that's all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are undoubtedly 'some' males that do

I also think that there are many that don't

As a bloke here on my own, my only niggle is with the males of couples mocking guys and viewing them as 'second class' swingers

We are all here for our own reasons and to eek out our own paths

There is really no need to give 'attitude' to those who swing differently to you

The men in couples who slag off singles are usually in relationships where they know if their wife/ partner left them, they'd never have sex again. They are turning their hatred of themselves outward that's all. "

Deep.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Or have they got there on their own merits ?

Thanks in advance, kind regards x"

Have they got where?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I wouldn't say Dick rides on my coat tails, in clubs he gets far more attention than I do.

On here I get attention from being on the forums and being chatting at socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% riding H’s coat tails. I know a guys place on Fab

G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or have they got there on their own merits ?

Thanks in advance, kind regards x

Have they got where?"

Perth

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"There are undoubtedly 'some' males that do

I also think that there are many that don't

As a bloke here on my own, my only niggle is with the males of couples mocking guys and viewing them as 'second class' swingers

We are all here for our own reasons and to eek out our own paths

There is really no need to give 'attitude' to those who swing differently to you "

I completely agree with you mate, and have laid many a challenge to the male half of a couple thus; visit a swinger club you’ve never been to before, as a single male, and let us know how you get on. The conversation always goes quiet

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

When we only used our cpls profile I thought I might be but when we both added single profiles and started meeting solo as well as a cpl I quickly found out I could hold my own in the meet stakes

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Some people call me the space cowboy, some call me the gangster of love, probably should have told them my real name.

It must be a bummer, all those ugly bastards watching you fuck their wives

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Some people call me the space cowboy, some call me the gangster of love, probably should have told them my real name.

It must be a bummer, all those ugly bastards watching you fuck their wives

"

Oh thanks that's stuck in my head now!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

In clubs yes.

In a B/d or a D/s play, it is the other way round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100% riding H’s coat tails. I know a guys place on Fab

G"

H here, laughing as I was going to post about G’s merits. He’s great at riding coat tails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or have they got there on their own merits ?

Thanks in advance, kind regards x"

I'm not sure - I no longer meet couples - but when I did it was usually because I fancied them both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people call me the space cowboy, some call me the gangster of love, probably should have told them my real name.

It must be a bummer, all those ugly bastards watching you fuck their wives

"

Thanks for quoting my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or have they got there on their own merits ?

Thanks in advance, kind regards x

I'm not sure - I no longer meet couples - but when I did it was usually because I fancied them both."

Ok, that doesn’t really fit in with what I was going for, but all opinions are welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My problem is that you don't know who you are mailing if it's the female or the guy who you are talking to. Because I have spent a good bit of time mailing thinking am speaking with the female and it's the guy. Can be confusing

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"My problem is that you don't know who you are mailing if it's the female or the guy who you are talking to. Because I have spent a good bit of time mailing thinking am speaking with the female and it's the guy. Can be confusing"

Usually easiest just to ask! Lol

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We have mainly pics of me (L) on our profile but I think men are more visual generally. T does his impressing when we meet for a social...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My problem is that you don't know who you are mailing if it's the female or the guy who you are talking to. Because I have spent a good bit of time mailing thinking am speaking with the female and it's the guy. Can be confusing"

We always sign our name at the end of a message. That way, there is no confusion as we use the account equally .

Holly

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"My problem is that you don't know who you are mailing if it's the female or the guy who you are talking to. Because I have spent a good bit of time mailing thinking am speaking with the female and it's the guy. Can be confusing"

They should say, but you've got to ask. It's usually the bloke who neglects to state I find. You've got to be aware of single men posing as Couples (maybe they are ex, maybe not), who at some point says he's the guy and the wife isn't playing at the moment. This could even be true, but it's got to be all upfront or it's ridiculous.

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