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Men ONLY....... How do you want to be rejected ??

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Women infiltrators...... I CAN see you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Never happened "

That is written in my big book of factoids.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

To be told to ‘fuck off you dirty pervert’ then get blocked. I can relate to this

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"To be told to ‘fuck off you dirty pervert’ then get blocked. I can relate to this "

Is that what the nasty women say ?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"To be told to ‘fuck off you dirty pervert’ then get blocked. I can relate to this

Is that what the nasty women say ?"

Yes, I get about 12 of these a week. I really must update my copy and paste email that I send out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never happened "

Really

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

So long as it's not done with unwarranted insults - however the person chooses, whether that be a straight delete of a message or a polite "Thanks but no thanks" type reply - I prefer not to get too hung up on rejection and focus on the positives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never happened

Really

"
course not really i just dont care

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

My favoured approach is to be told thanks but no 5hanks and be given a sympathy shag to make up for the rejection. It hasn't happened yet though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it is a mans right to never be rejected? Having a penis means there should be NO rejection from ANYONE...EVER!

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"My favoured approach is to be told thanks but no 5hanks and be given a sympathy shag to make up for the rejection. It hasn't happened yet though."

You daft bugger......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favoured approach is to be told thanks but no 5hanks and be given a sympathy shag to make up for the rejection. It hasn't happened yet though."

No-one wants 5hanks involved. That's a bit too brutal, even for the women of fab!

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Surely it is a mans right to never be rejected? Having a penis means there should be NO rejection from ANYONE...EVER! "

Yes we know , we know but God gave us all the internet.

Anyway ..... how could we let you down lightly ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A no thanks is always better after all I take time to compose an essay lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for taking time to message me/us but I/We ain't interested,Have a nice day and good luck in finding what you're after bye bye apple pie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do folk care i dont get it

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

I prefer the old fashioned military method.

"All those who think they're in with a chance, one pace forwaaaard, MARCH. Not you Rooster"

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By *EBCAMandKNICKERSMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Definitely this

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"A no thanks is always better after all I take time to compose an essay lol "

Shhhhh don't tell anyone but you can cut and paste them you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it is a mans right to never be rejected? Having a penis means there should be NO rejection from ANYONE...EVER!

Yes we know , we know but God gave us all the internet.

Anyway ..... how could we let you down lightly ?"

Genuinely:

I’m happy with a “no thanks not for me/us” and that’s fine for me. Used to wonder why i was getting blocked but having spoken to a few folks it seems like it saves times potentially repeating process and coming to the same conclusion.

Realistically

If I was getting such a high volume of messages I would not bother to reply either especially when most will not bother talking properly. As a young guy on a gay/bi sites you get flooded with messages too. Never bothered to reply to them folk to be honest.

It is what it is. No one will come give you a medal for replying no thanks one million and one times.

In essence:

Nice to receive a “no thanks not for me/us” however shouldn’t cry if there is no response or a block.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I bounce off the you are too old / too male to contact this person/ couple/ bloke pretending to be a couple

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Thanks for taking time to message me/us but I/We ain't interested,Have a nice day and good luck in finding what you're after bye bye apple pie."

Well that's very fucking specific

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be honest tell me why lol

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


" Just be honest tell me why lol"

See, I think that's a killer

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Doing pretty well with the standard delete message....the odd thanks but no thanks isn't too bad either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Tell me my penis tastes too sweet and you had an allergic reaction to my aftershave when you were kissing my neck and wont be meeting for a while. Then ghost me.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Surely it is a mans right to never be rejected? Having a penis means there should be NO rejection from ANYONE...EVER!

Yes we know , we know but God gave us all the internet.

Anyway ..... how could we let you down lightly ?

Genuinely:

I’m happy with a “no thanks not for me/us” and that’s fine for me. Used to wonder why i was getting blocked but having spoken to a few folks it seems like it saves times potentially repeating process and coming to the same conclusion.

Realistically

If I was getting such a high volume of messages I would not bother to reply either especially when most will not bother talking properly. As a young guy on a gay/bi sites you get flooded with messages too. Never bothered to reply to them folk to be honest.

It is what it is. No one will come give you a medal for replying no thanks one million and one times.

In essence:

Nice to receive a “no thanks not for me/us” however shouldn’t cry if there is no response or a block. "

What a lovely man x

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Tell me my penis tastes too sweet and you had an allergic reaction to my aftershave when you were kissing my neck and wont be meeting for a while. Then ghost me."

The voice of experience ?

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I asked cos when i see that some people go ........ No thanks you are not for me / us etc..... I kind of find that very open and leaves a lot unsaid.

I wouldn't like it.

Plain old 'No thanks' without reason seems best.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Tell me my penis tastes too sweet and you had an allergic reaction to my aftershave when you were kissing my neck and wont be meeting for a while. Then ghost me.

The voice of experience ?"

Experience of being rejected in every other way. This way sounds more fun for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the style of Sir Allan Sugar after week 1 apprentice.

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By *ycombe_21Man
over a year ago

High Wycombe

[Removed by poster at 26/07/19 16:52:33]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women infiltrators...... I CAN see you. "

Op well funny post... True guys do moan about it or can't get over it and sometimes get nasty with it.

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By *easide funMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire Coast

With a pity fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked cos when i see that some people go ........ No thanks you are not for me / us etc..... I kind of find that very open and leaves a lot unsaid.

I wouldn't like it.

Plain old 'No thanks' without reason seems best. "

But Op no thanks not for me is saying no thanks its the not for me part but maybe I am wrong and it means something else. No thank you I always say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for taking time to message me/us but I/We ain't interested,Have a nice day and good luck in finding what you're after bye bye apple pie.

Well that's very fucking specific "
just a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So long as it's not done with unwarranted insults - however the person chooses, whether that be a straight delete of a message or a polite "Thanks but no thanks" type reply - I prefer not to get too hung up on rejection and focus on the positives "

Even a no thanks is what you guys never get because I hear you moaning... I send messages but they never reply or block me... No response or a block means no thank you in sign language!

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I don't ask so I don't get rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple "Thanks for your interest, but you are not for me. Happy fabbing" is always appreciated. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh find the good old time honoured fab response of ignore and delete generally gives me a clue

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Dear Sir

You have failed to appeal to my/our wanton desires.

Please do not let this rejection dispell you from further endeavors as you are clearly qualified for the position on offer, but I/we feel you would not be right for the current role at this time.

We wish you well in your lustfilled journey.

Kindest Regards.

_________________

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection blowjob please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A delete is clearly understood and perfectly OK.

A 'No thanks' is a bonus and reflects well on the sender.

Happy Fabbing

Q

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly and truthfully. Which never happens.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"A simple "Thanks for your interest, but you are not for me. Happy fabbing" is always appreciated. X"

this ..however any kind of rejection I don't give a second thought to I'm big enough n ugly enough to accept I'm not someones cup of tea ..if they were abusive and not nice in the rejection I'd thank my lucky stars I never met them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simply f#ck off you ugly git that's good for me

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Ignore,delete & block usually so polite "no thankyou " would be a huge step in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women infiltrators...... I CAN see you. "

A simple 'no thanks' is fine!

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