FabSwingers.com forum: Guys getting angry when receiving a polite rejection

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So,I know this is a sex site...But if I don't feel attracted towards somebody I don't see why I have to feel obligated to agree to meet up...When I receive a message from someone I don't feel attracted to for whatever reason,I always reply : "Thanks for the message and compliments,but unfortunately you are not my type,so sorry.Wish you all the best "...

Or something like that...

Sometimes guys are mature enough to take it and say thanks,but many times I just receive abusive messages about what I'm missing and you are disgusting and offensive stuff from people i'm trying to reject politely...

It makes me feel like really not answering to anybody...Is this normal in this site?Then guys complain that ladies don't even read and delete messages,but if that's the reaction I don't know what's worse...

Sorry for the rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy solution.

Say no thank you.

Then block that person.

No more abuse.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

If they get abusive...hit the delete and Block Buttons. ... and have a cuppa and move on...

No need to deal with them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a rant, some people are pain rude..... hey I have had more rejections than than the scruffy mutt at the dogs home

They should Suck it up and move on, it can hurt but hey it’s life and not everyone is going to love everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it's quite common.

I just reply politely and say thanks for the reply.

It's not hard to be polite really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore

Block

End

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No it's not 'normal'.

The majority of men are wunderbar.

Try - No thank you. Hope you get a meet soon. x

BLOCK: Then you don't have to read the crap.

Take control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont cry for me missgemina the truth is i dont want your bumhoooooole

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Easy solution.

Say no thank you.

Then block that person.

No more abuse. "

I guess you are right girl x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Ignore

Block

End

^^ this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately the anonymity of the internet allows some people to think that they can get abusive when things don’t go their way. This place is no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time...I try to remember to block if/when I reply so as to avoid it...

Some people are just cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So,I know this is a sex site...But if I don't feel attracted towards somebody I don't see why I have to feel obligated to agree to meet up...When I receive a message from someone I don't feel attracted to for whatever reason,I always reply : "Thanks for the message and compliments,but unfortunately you are not my type,so sorry.Wish you all the best "...

Or something like that...

Sorry for the rant

This happens a lot on here I get called alsorts and told they wouldn’t sleep with me anyway x they need to grow up as gives the site a bad name which isn’t fair for the good guys on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont cry for me missgemina the truth is i dont want your bumhoooooole

Bumhole is not included in the deal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem like such a nice person too. Just forget them sweetie, they are not worth one more thought. Block and forget xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Reply. Block. Simple

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

This was far too polite to qualify as a rant! Which definitely supports the politeness of your rejection messages.

From what the ladies on here report, this is pretty much the standard response to rejection on here. And going by what I've encountered when 'friends' of mine have attempted to charm women on the street by blowing the horn and shouting "NICE TITS" out of the window, it's the standard response in many other situations too...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ignore

Block

End

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got the usual message off a man yesterday saying-I'm the hottest lady on fab and he would love to meet me....I sent a message back saying-your not for me sorry....He then sent a message back saying-I was a little fucking ugly brat with the body of a little girl and I don't have a women's body and I repulse him as scumy little slags like me shouldn't be on here and I deserve a slap.

All that because I said sorry your not for me lol....Idiot

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

I get the feeling the guys that are joining this site nowadays just think its an automatic way if having a quick jump and thanks. They dont understand the difference between that and swinging. Its why the site has gone downhill in the last few years, not like it use to be anymore

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

It happens... There are particular times when it's more likely to happen even, so I usually filter men out completely at those times... Sunday mornings are a definite for putting shields up as the horny hangovers and repeated rejections often make men tetchy and irritable. As you said, lots of guys just accept a 'no thanks' gracefully, but just one arrogant ass taking it badly can spoil your lazy Sunday morning vibe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All that because I said sorry your not for me lol....Idiot

Crap,that's awful...Some asshole ...You look gorgeous so just block him lol...

I'll just follow everyone's advices and block people

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes I feel like I'm in a school playground instead of a site with supposed "adults"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately OP some guys just can't take rejection no matter how polite you are it must dent there ego just block they arnt worth a second thought xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had abuse. If I’m not interested. Delete, block. It’s not being mean it’s just easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All that because I said sorry your not for me lol....Idiot

Crap,that's awful...Some asshole ...You look gorgeous so just block him lol...

I'll just follow everyone's advices and block people "

Thank you and you look beautiful too....I've got a vivid imagination and all I could picture in my head was him punching his phone and smashing his room up lol....So I was to busy laughing at the angry idiot to be scared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna start sending angry rejections, let them know not to mess with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm gonna start sending angry rejections, let them know not to mess with me. "

Do me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm gonna start sending angry rejections, let them know not to mess with me.

Do me first"

Who the fuck do you think you're mailing!?! Did I say you could send me that shitty message!?!

Get back under your rock and never darken my inbox again!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I get less abuse by just deleting when I'm not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm gonna start sending angry rejections, let them know not to mess with me.

Do me first

Who the fuck do you think you're mailing!?! Did I say you could send me that shitty message!?!

Get back under your rock and never darken my inbox again! "

If only you could spit on me too I think I’d involuntarily spunk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm gonna start sending angry rejections, let them know not to mess with me.

Do me first

Who the fuck do you think you're mailing!?! Did I say you could send me that shitty message!?!

Get back under your rock and never darken my inbox again!

If only you could spit on me too I think I’d involuntarily spunk"

That's why I didn't. You don't deserve to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we have Ignore and Block out in the FAQs? Save people giving the same reply to this common question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm gonna start sending angry rejections, let them know not to mess with me.

Do me first

Who the fuck do you think you're mailing!?! Did I say you could send me that shitty message!?!

Get back under your rock and never darken my inbox again!

If only you could spit on me too I think I’d involuntarily spunk

That's why I didn't. You don't deserve to cum

Jokes on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm gonna start sending angry rejections, let them know not to mess with me.

Do me first

Who the fuck do you think you're mailing!?! Did I say you could send me that shitty message!?!

Get back under your rock and never darken my inbox again!

If only you could spit on me too I think I’d involuntarily spunk

That's why I didn't. You don't deserve to cum

Jokes on you

Sam! Go change your pants ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know why people get so angry... I'd never do such a thing myself.. if I recieve a "no thank you" I just accept it and move on ...

The rest is up to them whether or not they block or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or something like that...

Sorry for the rant

Wow! Imagine if you met them and had to tell them no in response to them doing something that you do not like! Wankers!

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