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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are we being targeted, i see someone i like, want to get to know, then come across the dreaded line. "Asians men,need not reply" i mean why is this?? Not 1 person is the same as another, so please don't paint us with the sane brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see that, but do they all think we are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see that, but do they all think we are the same"

I doubt it

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Why are we being targeted, i see someone i like, want to get to know, then come across the dreaded line. "Asians men,need not reply" i mean why is this?? Not 1 person is the same as another, so please don't paint us with the sane brush"
it’s called choice op, theirs. Put your time into messaging those that do want to meet Asians

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they don't find Asian men physically attractive?

Saves you wasting your time if you know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That typo is hilarious

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By *hePersianMan
over a year ago

Near you...


"That typo is hilarious "

I’m Asian and i’ve been painted with the sane brush

Just sayin...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What percentage have that written on their profile? Prob about the same that state any other preference or anti preference. Gentlemen. My advice, move on. For every profile that says that, there’ll be one that doesn’t.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"That typo is hilarious "

Awwwwww I was desperate to point it out and wouldn't.....

So glad you did tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do with painting with the sane brush myself x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I could do with painting with the sane brush myself x "

Haha v.funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t bother worrying about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer using a roller not a brush

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Why are we being targeted, i see someone i like, want to get to know, then come across the dreaded line. "Asians men,need not reply" i mean why is this?? Not 1 person is the same as another, so please don't paint us with the sane brush"

Why won't you meet with me ? Why are you targeting women over 50 ? I see someone I fancy and then you come across that dreaded line....... up to 50yrs. Not one woman is like another , so please paint me with the sane brush.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers mate,some one with good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are we being targeted, i see someone i like, want to get to know, then come across the dreaded line. "Asians men,need not reply" i mean why is this?? Not 1 person is the same as another, so please don't paint us with the sane brush

Why won't you meet with me ? Why are you targeting women over 50 ? I see someone I fancy and then you come across that dreaded line....... up to 50yrs. Not one woman is like another , so please paint me with the sane brush."
no danger of sanity there dementia is coming

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Why are we being targeted, i see someone i like, want to get to know, then come across the dreaded line. "Asians men,need not reply" i mean why is this?? Not 1 person is the same as another, so please don't paint us with the sane brush

Why won't you meet with me ? Why are you targeting women over 50 ? I see someone I fancy and then you come across that dreaded line....... up to 50yrs. Not one woman is like another , so please paint me with the sane brush.no danger of sanity there dementia is coming "

Awwwwwwww bless x. It does show but I make allowances for you Blake xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are we being targeted, i see someone i like, want to get to know, then come across the dreaded line. "Asians men,need not reply" i mean why is this?? Not 1 person is the same as another, so please don't paint us with the sane brush

Why won't you meet with me ? Why are you targeting women over 50 ? I see someone I fancy and then you come across that dreaded line....... up to 50yrs. Not one woman is like another , so please paint me with the sane brush.no danger of sanity there dementia is coming

Awwwwwwww bless x. It does show but I make allowances for you Blake xx "
muhahahaaaa

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Basically the majority of asians are clueless when it comes to knowing how to behave and that's me sayin it as an asian myself.

You can't woo someone with your personality over fab so it's better off going to clubs and meeting people in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically the majority of asians are clueless when it comes to knowing how to behave and that's me sayin it as an asian myself.

You can't woo someone with your personality over fab so it's better off going to clubs and meeting people in person. "

I know some lovely asian men and some really nasty white men.

I agree about clubs because it's easier meeting face to face but not everyone likes clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are we being targeted, i see someone i like, want to get to know, then come across the dreaded line. "Asians men,need not reply" i mean why is this?? Not 1 person is the same as another, so please don't paint us with the sane brush"

You're not being targeted, they just don't want to meet asian men.

What reason would you prefer them to use when they turn you down?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Problem is if you were to do a binomial distribution values chart, the mean would stereotype, it doesn’t take into account the person who live in the smaller spectrums.

Or those who do a poor me... well I suppose.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Why are we being targeted, i see someone i like, want to get to know, then come across the dreaded line. "Asians men,need not reply" i mean why is this?? Not 1 person is the same as another, so please don't paint us with the sane brush"

Bloody hell I love Asian guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t meet Asian guys. They’re too hairy for me and well...they’re guys

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"Why are we being targeted, i see someone i like, want to get to know, then come across the dreaded line. "Asians men,need not reply" i mean why is this?? Not 1 person is the same as another, so please don't paint us with the sane brush"

I like young men.

I like Asian men.

Are you fab straight, by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young - I imagine someone in their early 20's. I am not old but don't consider myself being young.

Oh and I also meet only those I fancy. Silly me for having a preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically the majority of asians are clueless when it comes to knowing how to behave and that's me sayin it as an asian myself.

You can't woo someone with your personality over fab so it's better off going to clubs and meeting people in person. "

did you get your white validation.

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By *jgittes_ukMan
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

It’s pretty obvious a lot of people on fabs have an Asian stereotype in mind. I know everyone has preferences etc but if that preference has its foundation in a stereotype then it can be called racist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s pretty obvious a lot of people on fabs have an Asian stereotype in mind. I know everyone has preferences etc but if that preference has its foundation in a stereotype then it can be called racist."

And there we have it!!! He said the 'R' word!!! You absolutely whopper!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my god... here we go again, it’s funny how the word racist only comes up when someone feels as though they aren’t getting there own way.. like Morgan Freeman says racism exists because a small minority enjoy the ability too too use it too there advantage.

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By *jgittes_ukMan
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

Not at all, not looking to have it all my own way.

It’s an observation. It’s better to discuss rather than shoot people down just because it doesn’t fit with what you think. I might be wrong, you might be wrong.

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By *F JonesMan
over a year ago

London


"Oh my god... here we go again, it’s funny how the word racist only comes up when someone feels as though they aren’t getting there own way.. like Morgan Freeman says racism exists because a small minority enjoy the ability too too use it too there advantage. "

That is not the reason why racism exists. Sorry to break it to you. And I always find certain people always use quotes from celebrities like Morgan Freeman and terry crews, which strictly support their views. Understand, they aren’t the deciding factor. It’s demeaning for all others who fall victim to racism. So stop.

(I’m not saying preference has anything to do with racism, but that “here we go again” shit frustrates me like fuck)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If people don't want to engage with you, be grateful that you don't need to invest time with them.

Should gay men be distressed in the same way op, if a man like you says 'no men'?

They have their free choices fully available to them and are honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look I don't like vino collapso but I don't go on about it.

If someone don't like a type of person who fucking cares eh .

if you don't like BBC or fuckin

BBQ deal with it don't cry because you know someone will listen and make you feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My girlfriend only used to date asian men before me preferred them

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By *rank33Man
over a year ago

London


"What percentage have that written on their profile? Prob about the same that state any other preference or anti preference. Gentlemen. My advice, move on. For every profile that says that, there’ll be one that doesn’t. "

She is right you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s personal choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to take it personally.

Use it as a filter.

Would you want to meet someone who isn't into you? I wouldn't...

Plenty of us don't give a shit what colour/race/religion you are and will decide if we want to meet you based on an attraction and connection.

They're not for you

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see Asian I think I'm asian but they probably mean Indian or Pakistani.

Ps I'm half Korean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just preferences. Ill only go with pale white english/euro women... doesnt make me racist ect its just a preference... i have a type and its that

Im sure theres plenty here that will meet asian

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Basically the majority of asians are clueless when it comes to knowing how to behave and that's me sayin it as an asian myself.

You can't woo someone with your personality over fab so it's better off going to clubs and meeting people in person. "

This is our attempt to give a little constructive feedback based on our experience.

we are Asian ourselves and on the whole for whatever reason they seem to lack communication skills in trying to understand the essence of what swinging is for and in our instance what the couple seek and our patience on the whole is tested others may not be so tolerant and dismissive tarring everyone with same brush.

So communication read and more importantly understand and have patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"pick me"

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