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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does yours change depending on who you're with?

I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.

Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just you, OP. I’m the exact same.

I’m different with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does yours change depending on who you're with?

I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.

Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? "
It's the vibe that you give out some people have that sexy animalistic vibe others have girl next door written all over them

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think every sexual "relationship" is different and unique in it's own way, and that can be dictated by many things, personal preferences, the dynamic between you, wants and needs, and indeed boundaries and limits - apart from when I'm in submissive mode though I don't think there's necessarily a conscious change between different sexual partners, but there may well be a more subtle and natural one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does yours change depending on who you're with?

I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.

Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? It's the vibe that you give out some people have that sexy animalistic vibe others have girl next door written all over them "

Can't you be both though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same with me love slow sensual sex with some people,others just want to bang the shit out of,but both great.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It doesn't just change depending on who I'm with, it also depends on that particular moment's dynamic with said person. Sometimes I want to utterly ruin someone and leave them spent and with a dorky grin on their face not quite knowing what's happened or that their body could respond in such a way. Others I want to be playfully pushed to my limits and left gasping and pleading for more. I like the dichotomy of the passionate, intimate almost "love making" sex in a meet combined with the more primal, fucking out the need to fuck, fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does yours change depending on who you're with?

I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.

Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? It's the vibe that you give out some people have that sexy animalistic vibe others have girl next door written all over them

Can't you be both though? "
yes suppose you can but people and I find that here a lot slot you into a category and can't seem to see you any other way, I think it's much easier for a sexy large breastfed woman don't you?

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Depends on the situation and the person you are with. We all change sexual persona at some point even with the same person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does yours change depending on who you're with?

I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.

Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? "

Definitely different with different people.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I respond to who i'm with at the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does yours change depending on who you're with?

I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.

Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? It's the vibe that you give out some people have that sexy animalistic vibe others have girl next door written all over them

Can't you be both though? yes suppose you can but people and I find that here a lot slot you into a category and can't seem to see you any other way, I think it's much easier for a sexy large breastfed woman don't you? "

Breastfed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abracadabra !!

Feeling sexually satisfied

Works everytime

That's my finishing move

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Does yours change depending on who you're with?

I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.

Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? It's the vibe that you give out some people have that sexy animalistic vibe others have girl next door written all over them

Can't you be both though? yes suppose you can but people and I find that here a lot slot you into a category and can't seem to see you any other way, I think it's much easier for a sexy large breastfed woman don't you? "

Only the breastfed ones? Well that sucks

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I think it's much easier for a sexy large breastfed woman don't you? "

What a way with words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its more mood based for me now anyway we tend to have full days together so a bit of everything based on things like what we discussed earlier or how long since we last saw each other but its always very passionate whether hard slow or whatever its like instict knowing what we want and when

Thats way i see it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does yours change depending on who you're with?

I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.

Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? It's the vibe that you give out some people have that sexy animalistic vibe others have girl next door written all over them

Can't you be both though? yes suppose you can but people and I find that here a lot slot you into a category and can't seem to see you any other way, I think it's much easier for a sexy large breastfed woman don't you?

Breastfed "
lol yes I bet you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes feel like a blank canvas someone can't paint their sexuality onto

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think emotions play a part?

I'm looking to meet and have sex on a very superficial level, obviously I still need to have a connection with someone but meeting for sex in a certain way keeps things on track, I'm focused on things being that way rather than allowing myself to be open and let feelings take over and rule how things go.

Whereas with a partner it's very much about living in the moment and expressing ourselves how we feel right then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think emotions play a part?

I'm looking to meet and have sex on a very superficial level, obviously I still need to have a connection with someone but meeting for sex in a certain way keeps things on track, I'm focused on things being that way rather than allowing myself to be open and let feelings take over and rule how things go.

Whereas with a partner it's very much about living in the moment and expressing ourselves how we feel right then. "
being in a certain mood in theory doesn't always work out in practice though, surely some guys you meet or want to meet will have different affects on that?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

For me it all depends on the person(s), location and mood etc

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"It doesn't just change depending on who I'm with, it also depends on that particular moment's dynamic with said person. Sometimes I want to utterly ruin someone and leave them spent and with a dorky grin on their face not quite knowing what's happened or that their body could respond in such a way. Others I want to be playfully pushed to my limits and left gasping and pleading for more. I like the dichotomy of the passionate, intimate almost "love making" sex in a meet combined with the more primal, fucking out the need to fuck, fuck.

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Definitely agree with the above. Also that the dynamic may change during the session.

I may well start off being in a submissive mode, but then I may switch and become more assertive even dominant.

There's no formula for how/when it happens either. It's a unique thing between you and the person(people) you are with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think emotions play a part?

I'm looking to meet and have sex on a very superficial level, obviously I still need to have a connection with someone but meeting for sex in a certain way keeps things on track, I'm focused on things being that way rather than allowing myself to be open and let feelings take over and rule how things go.

Whereas with a partner it's very much about living in the moment and expressing ourselves how we feel right then. being in a certain mood in theory doesn't always work out in practice though, surely some guys you meet or want to meet will have different affects on that? "

That's kinda my point, my approach to sex is quite flexible in that I'm not looking for one specific thing so different people can bring out different sides to me. It's just that once someone has ignited a specific part then I tend to focus on things being that way with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think emotions play a part?

I'm looking to meet and have sex on a very superficial level, obviously I still need to have a connection with someone but meeting for sex in a certain way keeps things on track, I'm focused on things being that way rather than allowing myself to be open and let feelings take over and rule how things go.

Whereas with a partner it's very much about living in the moment and expressing ourselves how we feel right then. "
yes i think your right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely agree with you, there are kinks and fetishes I would do with some people and wouldn't with others. Nothing to do with attraction, just the vibes you get from each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think emotions play a part?

I'm looking to meet and have sex on a very superficial level, obviously I still need to have a connection with someone but meeting for sex in a certain way keeps things on track, I'm focused on things being that way rather than allowing myself to be open and let feelings take over and rule how things go.

Whereas with a partner it's very much about living in the moment and expressing ourselves how we feel right then. being in a certain mood in theory doesn't always work out in practice though, surely some guys you meet or want to meet will have different affects on that?

That's kinda my point, my approach to sex is quite flexible in that I'm not looking for one specific thing so different people can bring out different sides to me. It's just that once someone has ignited a specific part then I tend to focus on things being that way with them. "
Ahhh ok so you pigeonhole to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does yours change depending on who you're with?

I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.

Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? "

Well here think of it this way. (this is the best example i've heard.

Think of a musical note. You can play it with another note and it sounds good, but play it with a different given note and it doesn’t. Or play it alongside a still different note, and again it sounds good, but in a different way.

The note has all the same qualities as before, but now others of its qualities become dominant— particular shades are brought to the surface while others are tamped below.

A scale may share notes with another scale, but it doesn’t share all of its notes. That’s why playing the notes of one scale when you are firmly in a different scale will sound “wrong,” at least at first.

This is like people when we clash We feel that we are not able to engage in the full spectrum of our behaviour. We feel limited by what we do that clashes with what they do. We want to resolve the dissonance.

If you look at it this way it would make sense as to why we feel like doing some things with one and other things with another. Which is why our behaviour changes depending on who we are with. if this is the case so broadly its easy to see the behaviour being replicated on a pure sexual level.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... "
and I'd be one of them lol my legs have never been round my neck except that time when my brother was inebriated had to go to hospital for that one lol

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... and I'd be one of them lol my legs have never been round my neck except that time when my brother was inebriated had to go to hospital for that one lol "

Told you what your doing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... and I'd be one of them lol my legs have never been round my neck except that time when my brother was inebriated had to go to hospital for that one lol

Told you what your doing..... "
omg I'm scared now vrooooom

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... and I'd be one of them lol my legs have never been round my neck except that time when my brother was inebriated had to go to hospital for that one lol

Told you what your doing..... omg I'm scared now vrooooom "

Start building.....

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... "

I can manage one at a time, is that good enough ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... and I'd be one of them lol my legs have never been round my neck except that time when my brother was inebriated had to go to hospital for that one lol

Told you what your doing..... omg I'm scared now vrooooom

Start building..... "
I am I've ordered bricks

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I am exactly the same with everyone, I have a routine that I like the perform to music, so timing is everything. And it’s really important to nail the dismount

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... and I'd be one of them lol my legs have never been round my neck except that time when my brother was inebriated had to go to hospital for that one lol

Told you what your doing..... omg I'm scared now vrooooom

Start building..... I am I've ordered bricks "

And glue for the hands?

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet


"Does yours change depending on who you're with?

I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.

Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? "

My sexuality absolutely changes, I find I will try new things with some people and stick to my comfort zone with others. The difference sometimes depends on the meeting and not always the person. The environment, atmosphere and such can definitely influence whether the sex will be hot a passionate or slow and sensual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... and I'd be one of them lol my legs have never been round my neck except that time when my brother was inebriated had to go to hospital for that one lol

Told you what your doing..... omg I'm scared now vrooooom

Start building..... I am I've ordered bricks

And glue for the hands? "
lol natural glue or impact adhesive?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... and I'd be one of them lol my legs have never been round my neck except that time when my brother was inebriated had to go to hospital for that one lol

Told you what your doing..... omg I'm scared now vrooooom

Start building..... I am I've ordered bricks

And glue for the hands? lol natural glue or impact adhesive? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abracadabra ...

That's another satisfied member

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I enjoy the whole spectrum from slow and sensual to the rampant and animalistic. Different people may bring out more of a tendency of one relative to other. Sometimes both in equal measure

Depends on the chemistry and interaction with that individual

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

When I was meeting I had one guy who was shy and sort of innocent, one who enjoyed the spanking sub side, one who would kiss for hours and was very passionate, one who liked outdoor sex, so yes the difference is the dynamics that people bring to the meet

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Definitely, and I can't always predict it. Some people I'm instantly in one space or another, others it'll depend on mood, still others there's compromise. I also try to read where they might be and run with that. So many variables.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think because of the relationship i build with my partner its a mix of everything... mood dependent. Ive had experiences in the past where its just been rip your clothes off sex and tbh i love it but have missed the sensual side of it also.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes most definetly. Thats why i have different gentleman friends they all fulfil something different in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't just change if im witg different people it chsnges where i am what mood im in etc

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yes most definetly. Thats why i have different gentleman friends they all fulfil something different in me"

Ooh this too. Different itches to scratch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation and the person you are with. We all change sexual persona at some point even with the same person. "

It's one of the reasons I think verifications are pointless. One person's great fuck may be another person's crap fuck.

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"It doesn't just change depending on who I'm with, it also depends on that particular moment's dynamic with said person. Sometimes I want to utterly ruin someone and leave them spent and with a dorky grin on their face not quite knowing what's happened or that their body could respond in such a way. Others I want to be playfully pushed to my limits and left gasping and pleading for more. I like the dichotomy of the passionate, intimate almost "love making" sex in a meet combined with the more primal, fucking out the need to fuck, fuck. "

Beautifully put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes most definetly. Thats why i have different gentleman friends they all fulfil something different in me

Ooh this too. Different itches to scratch "

100% different times, different needs and require different people to match with them needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation and the person you are with. We all change sexual persona at some point even with the same person.

It's one of the reasons I think verifications are pointless. One person's great fuck may be another person's crap fuck."

She is right. You know

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I find I’m different with whoever I meet. Never have a set agenda, just go with the natural flow of where the mood takes you, whether that be slow and sensual to hungry and hot .... really goes depend on the person. A second meet can be completely different from the first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find I’m different with whoever I meet. Never have a set agenda, just go with the natural flow of where the mood takes you, whether that be slow and sensual to hungry and hot .... really goes depend on the person. A second meet can be completely different from the first "
and a 25 th meet even more so

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Really depends on the partner and what they want or enjoy ...some may want slow sensual erotic ..others may want wild passionate ..just go with the flow

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I find I’m different with whoever I meet. Never have a set agenda, just go with the natural flow of where the mood takes you, whether that be slow and sensual to hungry and hot .... really goes depend on the person. A second meet can be completely different from the first and a 25 th meet even more so "

25th meet

Sounds like a life sentence to me and I could be running up those hills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find I’m different with whoever I meet. Never have a set agenda, just go with the natural flow of where the mood takes you, whether that be slow and sensual to hungry and hot .... really goes depend on the person. A second meet can be completely different from the first and a 25 th meet even more so

25th meet

Sounds like a life sentence to me and I could be running up those hills "
I'm running up those hills...... Kate bushy

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I find I’m different with whoever I meet. Never have a set agenda, just go with the natural flow of where the mood takes you, whether that be slow and sensual to hungry and hot .... really goes depend on the person. A second meet can be completely different from the first and a 25 th meet even more so

25th meet

Sounds like a life sentence to me and I could be running up those hills I'm running up those hills...... Kate bushy "

Damn you can run, ok hiding in a secret tunnel haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find I’m different with whoever I meet. Never have a set agenda, just go with the natural flow of where the mood takes you, whether that be slow and sensual to hungry and hot .... really goes depend on the person. A second meet can be completely different from the first and a 25 th meet even more so

25th meet

Sounds like a life sentence to me and I could be running up those hills I'm running up those hills...... Kate bushy

Damn you can run, ok hiding in a secret tunnel haha "
a wind tunnel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a very astute observation. Different people unlock different aspects of your personality and often, the less you know someone, the free you feel because you worry less about conforming to their preconceived opinion of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a very astute observation. Different people unlock different aspects of your personality and often, the less you know someone, the free you feel because you worry less about conforming to their preconceived opinion of you."

That's a good point. It could also help make you less self conscious if you know you'll never see them again.

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