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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all, just a quick one, I seem to get plenty of women lookin at my profile but no messages or replys in return.. wondering what is wrong with my profile, ive tried to fine tune it but im startin to thing im an ugly fucker anyone got the time to give me advice on the matter? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not ugly.

Your profile comes across quite angry though, that'd put me off.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Lose thre legal action threat ... lose the single guys comment, just user your preferences to stop them messaging you

Expand on who you are, your interests.. why people should know you

Your "unique selling point"

Oh .. and no cock pic?

The ladies live a cock pic .. from several different angles ... and one over the toilet bowl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha thanks, im not into sending cock pics as much as I try an avoid them, im sick of seein bent weird shaped willys myself haha, ill change it, im far from angry an always look after ppl around me if I can, enjoy the day

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Lose thre legal action threat ... lose the single guys comment, just user your preferences to stop them messaging you

Expand on who you are, your interests.. why people should know you

Your "unique selling point"

Oh .. and no cock pic?

The ladies live a cock pic .. from several different angles ... and one over the toilet bowl "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're not ugly.

Your profile comes across quite angry though, that'd put me off."
thanks eileen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not ugly.

Your profile comes across quite angry though, that'd put me off.thanks eileen "

Best thing you could do is look at some of the successful male profiles on here, use a similar format and include similar info just catered to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can act like king of sex when u proved yourself you cant be choosy tho until after 3 veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've fine tuned it too much, there's nothing left expect an angry rant and a bollocks legal disclaimer!

Try thinking of it like you're chatting to someone, you're your own salesman. What are your positives? What can uou offer? What is it you're looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouting at blokes for sending you messages etc ain't gonna stop them. Using your filters to stop males messaging will.

So your profile reads to me as nowt but a rant about the fact you're straight and not having your profile or pics stolen

You've got chuff all about yourself other than if you message someone it's coz you like the look of them and you're no desperado. Surely that's kinda how things would work anyway, and a desperado wouldn't admit to being desperate anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

your all right, does look a bit angry, I honestly not, anyway ive changed it, hope its a bit better now? Thanks for the comments

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Your profile is there to attract folk ..once you've done that it needs to inform them of your wants and what you offer your interests so they may see some mutuality . if you use the words and pictures well hopefully itll entice a response or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your all right, does look a bit angry, I honestly not, anyway ive changed it, hope its a bit better now? Thanks for the comments "

Ultimately it's your profile and your slice of fab. If that's you then it's perfect as it is. There's no point in changing into the to please everyone, as like you say, you're not looking to sleep around therefore it only needs to attract the regular person that's right for you, and by keeping it real it may well do that.

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

If you keep on doing the same old things......

Then you will keep on getting the same old results!

If you want to get different results, then do something different!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well lets see what happens,nice to know the advice is there when needed, made me feel a bit better thanks people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well lets see what happens,nice to know the advice is there when needed, made me feel a bit better thanks people "

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang in I'm writing this down lol

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

OK... Here's my tuppence worth OP... But please note that I speak only from my own perspective and not for all womankind..

1) You're not ugly. Fair play on having 2 face pics up... But smile!! You need to make me want to flirt with you, not rummage in my purse for change... Your earnest expression makes it look like you're making a charity appeal!

2) A few tasteful body pics to tease the imagination would be nice... Nothing obvious... But a hint of what's under those clothes

3) kik addresses and phone numbers on profiles or in status updates are a complete turn off for me. I associate that with pic hunters or those who are constantly looking for wank chat... Not with people who are serious about meeting.

4) Take the time to write out your profile text properly. Check your spelling and grammar. Make it pleasant to read.... Not a rambling sentence with little or no punctuation that people find hard to follow. It's your advert... If people can't understand it, they won't respond.

5) I don't know what your messages are like, but if I was to use your profile text as a guide... I'd make similar recommendations regarding spelling and grammar. It's 'and', not 'an' you get me?

6) Again in relation to messages, when sending an opening message to someone, make sure that it's at least 20 words long, and show that you've actually read their profile first within the first 10 words.. People like to know you took the time. Why 20 words?? Because then they have to actually open your message to fully read it. Men don't seem to realise when they send 'hi sexy xxx' that you don't even need to open the message to read it... Its right there on their mailbox home page.. No need to open, just hit delete! This is why so many men think we all delete messages without reading... We read them... We just don't have to open them to do it!

Anyway... That's my view... Other ladies may share some or all of my thoughts, others may not...

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"your all right, does look a bit angry, I honestly not, anyway ive changed it, hope its a bit better now? Thanks for the comments

Ultimately it's your profile and your slice of fab. If that's you then it's perfect as it is. There's no point in changing into the to please everyone, as like you say, you're not looking to sleep around therefore it only needs to attract the regular person that's right for you, and by keeping it real it may well do that.

P"

Spot on as always Peach!! Xx

Aim it at the kind of woman you want to attract... You've no need to please anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK... Here's my tuppence worth OP... But please note that I speak only from my own perspective and not for all womankind..

1) You're not ugly. Fair play on having 2 face pics up... But smile!! You need to make me want to flirt with you, not rummage in my purse for change... Your earnest expression makes it look like you're making a charity appeal!

2) A few tasteful body pics to tease the imagination would be nice... Nothing obvious... But a hint of what's under those clothes

3) kik addresses and phone numbers on profiles or in status updates are a complete turn off for me. I associate that with pic hunters or those who are constantly looking for wank chat... Not with people who are serious about meeting.

4) Take the time to write out your profile text properly. Check your spelling and grammar. Make it pleasant to read.... Not a rambling sentence with little or no punctuation that people find hard to follow. It's your advert... If people can't understand it, they won't respond.

5) I don't know what your messages are like, but if I was to use your profile text as a guide... I'd make similar recommendations regarding spelling and grammar. It's 'and', not 'an' you get me?

6) Again in relation to messages, when sending an opening message to someone, make sure that it's at least 20 words long, and show that you've actually read their profile first within the first 10 words.. People like to know you took the time. Why 20 words?? Because then they have to actually open your message to fully read it. Men don't seem to realise when they send 'hi sexy xxx' that you don't even need to open the message to read it... Its right there on their mailbox home page.. No need to open, just hit delete! This is why so many men think we all delete messages without reading... We read them... We just don't have to open them to do it!

Anyway... That's my view... Other ladies may share some or all of my thoughts, others may not... "

That's very interesting and excellent advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thats good advice, the grammar is mostly done by the prediction text on this phone, I will try an correct it the best I can, thank you for taking the time to check it out for me, an I just feel a bit weird smiling at a,phone ha, I will also try an sort it out, thanks

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