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By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

From different genders and demographics.

Do you give the same response's or are you more sympathetic to some than others ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It comes down to more how the question has been asked than the person asking it as to how I respond.

In the main though I'll respond the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't think of any examples of the same questions being asked.

Most people have similar experiences to those in the same category so tend to ask the same type of questions. I can be a bit harsh on men but in response to the type of threads they tend to make ie profile advice, complaining about no response or rude women.

When it comes to things where there is moral judgement ie cheating, Bareback etc then my opinion would be the same.

Everything else I just join in, no matter who the OP is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Equal ops piss take

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By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"I can't think of any examples of the same questions being asked.

When it comes to things where there is moral judgement ie cheating, Bareback etc then my opinion would be the same.

Everything else I just join in, no matter who the OP is. "

There are threads from couples and single ladies asking for profile advice you'd give those folk different advice than a guy ..ok. ?

What brought this to my mind there was a couple who started a thread saying struggling to meet, they'd been here 7 weeks had a pretty generic profile .. if a guy had been here that time he'd be told lower your expectations , its not instashag etc etc. You're one of thousands what makes you so special... Yet the couple were told by several posters its because the site is full of timewasters and various other reasons.

I thought it strange that few folk thought advice to one gender or demographic wasn't applicable to others.. what I should have remembered was on fab it's always the single guys fault.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"It comes down to more how the question has been asked than the person asking it as to how I respond.

In the main though I'll respond the same

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just checked what I advised them on that thread and yes, was very similar to what I'd tell single guys (providing they didn't come across as a total tool)

I advised them to go to a club, with single guys I advise them to get themselves to an organised social event or a club.

Difference being a couple still can have a great night even if they don't click with anyone else, and maybe a new single male on the scene would be intimidated in a club, so a social where he could find his feet and build his confidence within the lifestyle may suit him better.

Therefore sir, your theory is flawed.

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By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Just checked what I advised them on that thread and yes, was very similar to what I'd tell single guys (providing they didn't come across as a total tool)

I advised them to go to a club, with single guys I advise them to get themselves to an organised social event or a club.

Therefore sir, your theory is flawed.

Big thumbs up

for being consistent, you may be the exception that proves the rule though.

I suggest that generic advice to one is suitable for all on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just checked what I advised them on that thread and yes, was very similar to what I'd tell single guys (providing they didn't come across as a total tool)

I advised them to go to a club, with single guys I advise them to get themselves to an organised social event or a club.

Therefore sir, your theory is flawed.

Big thumbs up

for being consistent, you may be the exception that proves the rule though.

I suggest that generic advice to one is suitable for all on fab."

Don't get me wrong, I can be a mardy smart mouth too, but like I said earlier, it mainly comes down to how they ask the question. So their initial attitude and projection is what generally reflects which kind of reply they'll get from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw the thread.

I backed away from the thread.

Given the ratio of men to women / couples and the frequency of men not getting meets / where am I going wrong, the forum regulars get a bit tired of trotting out the same advice to blokes.

The harsh reality is that men are a commodity in abundance. People can be more brutal and honest with them as if they UNLOS, there are still thousands available. If he is hot / buff / etc, he wouldn't be posting about a lack of success.

With a woman or couple, people seem to be a bit more tolerant. Not forgetting the charge of the White Knight brigade who are guaranteed to say "can't see why, you are hot" etc.

I think I can only ever recall one woman being torn apart for slagging off men, complaining about the lack of quality and bemoaning the lack of suitable people. She was obnoxious though (in my opinion).

There is a gender bias. How you choose to react to it is within your own hands.

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