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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is swinging just a word to give an an excuse to be a what people see as a fuckboy or slapper or whatevef u wanna call itto make folks feel important and desired?

Or is it about something different

Im not saying it is i just been thinking is all rare i know

Hmmmm what u reckon

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

I believe it's a lifestyle choice, not just describing the act of sex with multiple partners. From my (albeit so far limited) experience, the swinging scene is almost as much about the social side as anything else - I know I'm really enjoying meeting like-minded people and enjoying the company of others who are open and honest about what they want in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something very different!

For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

People like to give things a name

It's just a name for this "thing"

Or could equally been called "sharing" ... or more recently "hot-tubbing"

Everyone likes labels

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People like to give things a name

It's just a name for this "thing"

Or could equally been called "sharing" ... or more recently "hot-tubbing"

Everyone likes labels "

Only cos they got a label maker for christmas

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"People like to give things a name

It's just a name for this "thing"

Or could equally been called "sharing" ... or more recently "hot-tubbing"

Everyone likes labels

Only cos they got a label maker for christmas"

Good old Dymo

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I believe it's a lifestyle choice, not just describing the act of sex with multiple partners. From my (albeit so far limited) experience, the swinging scene is almost as much about the social side as anything else - I know I'm really enjoying meeting like-minded people and enjoying the company of others who are open and honest about what they want in life."

This

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

No. There's nothing wrong with having and enjoying a lot of sex as long as it is done considerately, ethically and with respect for all people involved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Something very different!

For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun "
so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"No. There's nothing wrong with having and enjoying a lot of sex as long as it is done considerately, ethically and with respect for all people involved. "

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I use it as an excuse for my pub tour of the southwest. Occasionally I have to fuck people but rough with the smooth and all that

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I use it as an excuse for my pub tour of the southwest. Occasionally I have to fuck people but rough with the smooth and all that "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I believe it's a lifestyle choice, not just describing the act of sex with multiple partners. From my (albeit so far limited) experience, the swinging scene is almost as much about the social side as anything else - I know I'm really enjoying meeting like-minded people and enjoying the company of others who are open and honest about what they want in life."
so freedom then

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"No. There's nothing wrong with having and enjoying a lot of sex as long as it is done considerately, ethically and with respect for all people involved. "

Perfectly stated as well

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I tend to think of it as folk who are sexually liberal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something very different!

For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing"

Not always, sometimes.

We rarely play with others but love the social side of it all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Something very different!

For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing

Not always, sometimes.

We rarely play with others but love the social side of it all."
aaaaah so like going wmc if it was full of naked drinkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something very different!

For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing

Not always, sometimes.

We rarely play with others but love the social side of it all.aaaaah so like going wmc if it was full of naked drinkers"

Have you ever been to a club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Something very different!

For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing

Not always, sometimes.

We rarely play with others but love the social side of it all.aaaaah so like going wmc if it was full of naked drinkers

Have you ever been to a club? "
yes it was the madest experience of my life never again i still have mental scars and a dent in my forhead due to a rogue towellers penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something very different!

For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing

Not always, sometimes.

We rarely play with others but love the social side of it all.aaaaah so like going wmc if it was full of naked drinkers

Have you ever been to a club? yes it was the madest experience of my life never again i still have mental scars and a dent in my forhead due to a rogue towellers penis"

Pmsl the club's we go to aren't like that.

For the most part we just have a laugh with friends in a situation where things can get sexual if we want them to. It's all about fun. If it wasn't fun, we wouldn't do it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's just people having sex.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Something very different!

For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing"

Yep, totally this.

We fulfilled all our fantasies, and the fantasies of those we met.

Fab itself though seems to have its fair share of fantasists, and that’s a completely different kettle of fish

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I tend to think of it as folk who are sexually liberal."

Looking at some of the judgemental comments on this forum, I don't think all swingers are as sexually liberal as one might imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need an excuse now?

Really dont care about the label, i have been called much worse than slut, and often justifiably.

We are who we are. The labels and the little boxes are of no use to us.

A rose by any other name and all that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I tend to think of it as folk who are sexually liberal.

Looking at some of the judgemental comments on this forum, I don't think all swingers are as sexually liberal as one might imagine."

Yep. They don't have the monopoly open mindedness either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We need an excuse now?

Really dont care about the label, i have been called much worse than slut, and often justifiably.

We are who we are. The labels and the little boxes are of no use to us.

A rose by any other name and all that."
of corse everyone needs an excuse

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