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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm tempted to go a clubs day play session tomorrow .... But I'm in 2 minds whether to or not .... To go or not to go that is the question?..... Hmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What will you do if you don't go?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

whats stopping you

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Why wouldn't you?

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

Go! Live a little, brother. You're young. Have adventures!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

make sure its not one you have to apply in advance for membership

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

What's giving you second thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What will you do if you don't go?"
probably wank, perve, sweat,bake and moan about the heat ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a no brainer then.

Go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a no brainer then.

Go!"

Yeah, go!

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"make sure its not one you have to apply in advance for membership"
well I can't find out on their website ... I've messaged them I'll just have to wait and see... If it is a membership thing doesn't matter... It's a day out isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"make sure its not one you have to apply in advance for membership well I can't find out on their website ... I've messaged them I'll just have to wait and see... If it is a membership thing doesn't matter... It's a day out isn't it? "

Is it shhh you're looking at going to or club f ?

Shhh turn up with ID

club f call before hand to join

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's shh I've got a bank statement ready already... Don't have any other form of i.d lol... Site states it needs some form of address, utility bills and bank statements will do. I hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's shh I've got a bank statement ready already... Don't have any other form of i.d lol... Site states it needs some form of address, utility bills and bank statements will do. I hope. "

Enjoy your afternoon and keep us all updated on the fun

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Go ...you can spend the rest of your life not going if you don't like it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd definitely pull with your new haircut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd definitely pull with your new haircut "

Maybe you'd pull a barber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go but take a crash helmet for rogue penises you have fair warning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh well here we go let's see what happens and check out club life, maybe get a veri possibly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been to a club either mate. Thoughts of mass orgies were running through my head which scared me a little lol but after talking to a few friends on here that go, I feel more at ease about it and I do plan on giving one a go sometime soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I'm there now, towel only chatting to others just waiting to see if any lasses appear... Might pop into jacuzzi or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm there now, towel only chatting to others just waiting to see if any lasses appear... Might pop into jacuzzi or something "

Can you use your phone in there?

P

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

What’s the worst that can happen

I mean you are highly unlikely to find yourself talking to a nice police officer naked with a pink cowboy hat on your head, an inflatable sheep superglued to your groin, your back encrusted with dried cum and a used Jonny inexplicably stuck to your foot (no matter how hard you shake it) whilst your new found “friend” is throwing up over a bemused hedgehog and shouting “fuck me, what a night, I won’t close up for a week, I better get some tent pegs”....

Because that shit only happens to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I'm there now, towel only chatting to others just waiting to see if any lasses appear... Might pop into jacuzzi or something

Can you use your phone in there?

P"
in lounge yes. nowhere else... Just waiting in this sweltering heat haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm there now, towel only chatting to others just waiting to see if any lasses appear... Might pop into jacuzzi or something

Can you use your phone in there?

P"
thats what i was thinking maybe hes a reporter in disguise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm there now, towel only chatting to others just waiting to see if any lasses appear... Might pop into jacuzzi or something

Can you use your phone in there?

Pin lounge yes. nowhere else... Just waiting in this sweltering heat haha "
waiting for what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All I'm doing is talking to other blokes about real ales ... Waiting to see if any lasses appear to talk... I'm not expecting anything else

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool


"Well I'm there now, towel only chatting to others just waiting to see if any lasses appear... Might pop into jacuzzi or something

Can you use your phone in there?

Pin lounge yes. nowhere else... Just waiting in this sweltering heat haha waiting for what?"
For all the Women to turn up

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"All I'm doing is talking to other blokes about real ales ... Waiting to see if any lasses appear to talk... I'm not expecting anything else "

Is this some strange Camra meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm there now, towel only chatting to others just waiting to see if any lasses appear... Might pop into jacuzzi or something

Can you use your phone in there?

Pin lounge yes. nowhere else... Just waiting in this sweltering heat haha "

Haha it’s a live report

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Well I'm there now, towel only chatting to others just waiting to see if any lasses appear... Might pop into jacuzzi or something

Can you use your phone in there?

Pin lounge yes. nowhere else... Just waiting in this sweltering heat haha

Haha it’s a live report "

Is it “Cocky with a slim chance of Fooey”?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I'm there now, towel only chatting to others just waiting to see if any lasses appear... Might pop into jacuzzi or something

Can you use your phone in there?

Pin lounge yes. nowhere else... Just waiting in this sweltering heat haha

Haha it’s a live report

Is it “Cocky with a slim chance of Fooey”? "
at least it's better than doing nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm there now, towel only chatting to others just waiting to see if any lasses appear... Might pop into jacuzzi or something

Can you use your phone in there?

Pin lounge yes. nowhere else... Just waiting in this sweltering heat haha

Haha it’s a live report

Is it “Cocky with a slim chance of Fooey”? at least it's better than doing nothing "

Keep up the good work Atlas

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Well I'm there now, towel only chatting to others just waiting to see if any lasses appear... Might pop into jacuzzi or something

Can you use your phone in there?

Pin lounge yes. nowhere else... Just waiting in this sweltering heat haha

Haha it’s a live report

Is it “Cocky with a slim chance of Fooey”? at least it's better than doing nothing "

Indeed. More power to your elbow and hopefully other parts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you melted like a snowman in the sauna?

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The sauna and jacuzzi is lush .... No women yet though staying until 6 or 7 just learning different things and what to avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sauna and jacuzzi is lush .... No women yet though staying until 6 or 7 just learning different things and what to avoid "

See, like a spa where you can go and chill, meet people and make friends plus learn all kinds of stuff.

Some of the random convos that come up can be enlightening

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could be bi .... Just had a lad suck me off, thought to my self fuck it you never know unless you try it.

Unfortunately he couldn't make the magic happen

So I think more experimenting is needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be bi .... Just had a lad suck me off, thought to my self fuck it you never know unless you try it.

Unfortunately he couldn't make the magic happen

So I think more experimenting is needed "

Enjoy the experimenting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely more straight than bi ....

Having a lad want and enjoy my cock it was alright but it's just not my thing, I just don't know now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely more straight than bi ....

Having a lad want and enjoy my cock it was alright but it's just not my thing, I just don't know now. "

What don’t you know??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely more straight than bi ....

Having a lad want and enjoy my cock it was alright but it's just not my thing, I just don't know now.

What don’t you know?? "
if I want to keep trying ... See if there's more to get out of it... It was something new but I don't know if I want to pursue it there's just no attraction it was a spur of the moment try it and see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely more straight than bi ....

Having a lad want and enjoy my cock it was alright but it's just not my thing, I just don't know now.

What don’t you know?? if I want to keep trying ... See if there's more to get out of it... It was something new but I don't know if I want to pursue it there's just no attraction it was a spur of the moment try it and see."

I’m proud of you for trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you for getting out there, takes some guts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely more straight than bi ....

Having a lad want and enjoy my cock it was alright but it's just not my thing, I just don't know now.

What don’t you know?? if I want to keep trying ... See if there's more to get out of it... It was something new but I don't know if I want to pursue it there's just no attraction it was a spur of the moment try it and see."

A lot of it comes down to the situation with me.

If a male or female wanted to enjoy my minge but there was no attraction there and it was just me and them I can't say I'd enjoy it and in all honesty I'd probably not have let them near my fanjo.

However, in a situation where the vibe was right, the "scene" was right shall we say ie: I was turned on to fuck, let's say there was a bit of D/s play going on, then I would feel different about it.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww. You see it was worth going. You’ve come back knowing you’ve been infected with the mysterious ‘Fab Straight’ virus. A bit like herpes I reckon. Stays with you for life. Woohoo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Awww. You see it was worth going. You’ve come back knowing you’ve been infected with the mysterious ‘Fab Straight’ virus. A bit like herpes I reckon. Stays with you for life. Woohoo. "
oh crap ... What does the fab straight virus do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awww. You see it was worth going. You’ve come back knowing you’ve been infected with the mysterious ‘Fab Straight’ virus. A bit like herpes I reckon. Stays with you for life. Woohoo. oh crap ... What does the fab straight virus do? "

Makes you a happier person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Awww. You see it was worth going. You’ve come back knowing you’ve been infected with the mysterious ‘Fab Straight’ virus. A bit like herpes I reckon. Stays with you for life. Woohoo. oh crap ... What does the fab straight virus do?

Makes you a happier person "
does it? I'm more confused than happy how long till it takes effect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awww. You see it was worth going. You’ve come back knowing you’ve been infected with the mysterious ‘Fab Straight’ virus. A bit like herpes I reckon. Stays with you for life. Woohoo. oh crap ... What does the fab straight virus do?

Makes you a happier person does it? I'm more confused than happy how long till it takes effect?"

Oh sweetheart. Let’s say tomorrow. Think of it this way. You can now admire the gorgeous women and the gorgeous guys. Double fun and double chances

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Awww. You see it was worth going. You’ve come back knowing you’ve been infected with the mysterious ‘Fab Straight’ virus. A bit like herpes I reckon. Stays with you for life. Woohoo. oh crap ... What does the fab straight virus do?

Makes you a happier person does it? I'm more confused than happy how long till it takes effect?

Oh sweetheart. Let’s say tomorrow. Think of it this way. You can now admire the gorgeous women and the gorgeous guys. Double fun and double chances "
women yes men not so much haha ... But then again there's alot of bi couples always looking for bi lads there's that sort of thing to consider....... Hmmmmmmm what to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awww. You see it was worth going. You’ve come back knowing you’ve been infected with the mysterious ‘Fab Straight’ virus. A bit like herpes I reckon. Stays with you for life. Woohoo. oh crap ... What does the fab straight virus do?

Makes you a happier person does it? I'm more confused than happy how long till it takes effect?

Oh sweetheart. Let’s say tomorrow. Think of it this way. You can now admire the gorgeous women and the gorgeous guys. Double fun and double chances women yes men not so much haha ... But then again there's alot of bi couples always looking for bi lads there's that sort of thing to consider....... Hmmmmmmm what to do?"

Apply for the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awww. You see it was worth going. You’ve come back knowing you’ve been infected with the mysterious ‘Fab Straight’ virus. A bit like herpes I reckon. Stays with you for life. Woohoo. oh crap ... What does the fab straight virus do?

Makes you a happier person does it? I'm more confused than happy how long till it takes effect?

Oh sweetheart. Let’s say tomorrow. Think of it this way. You can now admire the gorgeous women and the gorgeous guys. Double fun and double chances women yes men not so much haha ... But then again there's alot of bi couples always looking for bi lads there's that sort of thing to consider....... Hmmmmmmm what to do?"

You go with the flow and do what comes naturally.

What you don't do though, is say that you're bi to fast-track to the poontang of the bi couples.

P

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Life to short not to go never live with ifs bite the bullet as daunting as it is and live for the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sex is a really confusing world majority of the time, trying to figure it out its just crazy...... The saying you never know unless you don't try really couldn't sound any truer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm tempted to go a clubs day play session tomorrow .... But I'm in 2 minds whether to or not .... To go or not to go that is the question?..... Hmmmmmmm "

Go for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I'm tempted to go a clubs day play session tomorrow .... But I'm in 2 minds whether to or not .... To go or not to go that is the question?..... Hmmmmmmm

Go for it. "
already been

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"Sex is a really confusing world majority of the time, trying to figure it out its just crazy...... The saying you never know unless you don't try really couldn't sound any truer. "

Sex isnt confusing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex is a really confusing world majority of the time, trying to figure it out its just crazy...... The saying you never know unless you don't try really couldn't sound any truer.

Sex isnt confusing "
yeah but im fairly new to it ... I don't get much of it to find out things I do and don't enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is a really confusing world majority of the time, trying to figure it out its just crazy...... The saying you never know unless you don't try really couldn't sound any truer.

Sex isnt confusing yeah but im fairly new to it ... I don't get much of it to find out things I do and don't enjoy.

"

You also need to realise that what you may not like with one person you may love with another

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"Sex is a really confusing world majority of the time, trying to figure it out its just crazy...... The saying you never know unless you don't try really couldn't sound any truer.

Sex isnt confusing yeah but im fairly new to it ... I don't get much of it to find out things I do and don't enjoy.

"

U must have some idea tho x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is a really confusing world majority of the time, trying to figure it out its just crazy...... The saying you never know unless you don't try really couldn't sound any truer. "

If you're honest with people, it shouldn't be the slightest bit confusing.

If you don't understand, just ask.

If you're not sure, ask.

If you'd like to know, ask.

It's when people pretend they are something they're not, start acting like someone else to attract someone else. Lying, cheating, misleading and deceiving.

When people aren't very communicative, open, honest or transparent.

That's when things get confusing.

Sex is just fiddling with someone elses naughty bits (or your own) till they start making nice moany noises and swear under their breath.

Most bodies and minds seem to react differently, though there's a lot of common ground for males and females alike.. to not have to think too far outside of the box.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Just go and grow a pair whilst you're there.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

What's the worse that can happen you dont like it and go home.

It's not all about getting laid, appreciate the social side and sexy environment. You never know you may even enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just go and grow a pair whilst you're there.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

What's the worse that can happen you dont like it and go home.

It's not all about getting laid, appreciate the social side and sexy environment. You never know you may even enjoy it"
yeah there was loads of talking too getting to know the people that go. .. was interesting today and I don't think it will be the last time I go ... It's an escape ... Speaking of pairs he was really impressed with mine how big they were ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just go and grow a pair whilst you're there.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

What's the worse that can happen you dont like it and go home.

It's not all about getting laid, appreciate the social side and sexy environment. You never know you may even enjoy ityeah there was loads of talking too getting to know the people that go. .. was interesting today and I don't think it will be the last time I go ... It's an escape ... Speaking of pairs he was really impressed with mine how big they were ... "

Glad it was a positive experience.

Usually evenings are busier, especially weekends.

But for new members I sometimes think a more quieter experience can be a good thing to calm the nerves and get the layout etc x

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Just go and grow a pair whilst you're there.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

What's the worse that can happen you dont like it and go home.

It's not all about getting laid, appreciate the social side and sexy environment. You never know you may even enjoy ityeah there was loads of talking too getting to know the people that go. .. was interesting today and I don't think it will be the last time I go ... It's an escape ... Speaking of pairs he was really impressed with mine how big they were ... "

Donkey balls it's not a great look

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just go and grow a pair whilst you're there.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

What's the worse that can happen you dont like it and go home.

It's not all about getting laid, appreciate the social side and sexy environment. You never know you may even enjoy ityeah there was loads of talking too getting to know the people that go. .. was interesting today and I don't think it will be the last time I go ... It's an escape ... Speaking of pairs he was really impressed with mine how big they were ...

Glad it was a positive experience.

Usually evenings are busier, especially weekends.

But for new members I sometimes think a more quieter experience can be a good thing to calm the nerves and get the layout etc x "
yeah club shh is like a maze at first ... I was thinking now where the hells this jacuzzi I want to try haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just go and grow a pair whilst you're there.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

What's the worse that can happen you dont like it and go home.

It's not all about getting laid, appreciate the social side and sexy environment. You never know you may even enjoy ityeah there was loads of talking too getting to know the people that go. .. was interesting today and I don't think it will be the last time I go ... It's an escape ... Speaking of pairs he was really impressed with mine how big they were ...

Glad it was a positive experience.

Usually evenings are busier, especially weekends.

But for new members I sometimes think a more quieter experience can be a good thing to calm the nerves and get the layout etc x yeah club shh is like a maze at first ... I was thinking now where the hells this jacuzzi I want to try haha"
and yeah I definitely need to go a weekend session when I've got more money to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm tempted to go a clubs day play session tomorrow .... But I'm in 2 minds whether to or not .... To go or not to go that is the question?..... Hmmmmmmm

Go for it. already been "

Hope you enjoyed

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