FabSwingers.com forum: The perfect age

By *edmark07 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

So guys n girls what would you say is the perfect age to enjoy life. I'd say 30's, pretty settled, earning decent cash, no teen angst or hang ups. What age did you find yourself and become comfortable being you ?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

About two months ago , and I'm 42

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last 2 yrs or so have been most fun with huge focus on the last 10 months

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Never

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Good wages at 30? Good wages are few and far between these days, especially in the public and private sectors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a decade of good times from around 27 - 37.

Then things went tits up

I'm hoping 45 - 55 will be better

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Good wages at 30? Good wages are few and far between these days, especially in the public and private sectors."

Indeed. Good wage these days is far from being associated with age.

The "perfect" age is pretty much when shit is at its lowest point for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still laughing at decent wage.

For me, I can't see that I'll ever be "comfortable" so the best time is when you accept your lot and realise you have to make the most of whatever your lot is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a decade of good times from around 27 - 37.

Then things went tits up

I'm hoping 45 - 55 will be better

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missionary?

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

17-24 for me another couple years and proper fun starts again 42-infinity or dead, whichever comes first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 gotta be

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By *uffinthemule69Man
over a year ago

lbirmingham

Maryfuckingpoppins after looking at your pics i would say you will have no end of offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So guys n girls what would you say is the perfect age to enjoy life. I'd say 30's, pretty settled, earning decent cash, no teen angst or hang ups. What age did you find yourself and become comfortable being you ?"

Id agree.

Work/pay wise im where i want to be & doing what i want to & very happy in my job.

Im at the point where im most happy/confident with my body.

My work life balance is good.

Ive moved/build/sold houses to live where i want to be and in the house i want to be in.

Ive learnt sticks and stones..

I know and accept whats truly important in life and whats not

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m very happy with my life now, so much more than in my twenties and thirties.

Happily single, four wonderful children and two grandsons who I adore.

Redundancy is on the horizon for me but even that doesn’t worry me I’ll always try to change a negative into a positive

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By *edmark07 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"I'm still laughing at decent wage.

For me, I can't see that I'll ever be "comfortable" so the best time is when you accept your lot and realise you have to make the most of whatever your lot is

I can only speak for myself but by 34 I'd done my degree, had a cpl of jobs for experience and started to earn what I'd call decent money. Nurrrr

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m 32 and still waiting to be settled. I’ve started life over again, career change and back to uni for the second time. I’m desperate for freedom x

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By *edmark07 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"I’m 32 and still waiting to be settled. I’ve started life over again, career change and back to uni for the second time. I’m desperate for freedom x"

You've made a start. I wish you luck

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

40- 55 was my hey days loads of cock but it's all down hill from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you are healthy any age isn't a barrier, the benefit of experience does help for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with now

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By *edmark07 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"I'm happy with now

Not giving much away rubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience of 30 is much different to yours OP

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By *edmark07 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"My experience of 30 is much different to yours OP

sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm happy with now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still laughing at decent wage.

For me, I can't see that I'll ever be "comfortable" so the best time is when you accept your lot and realise you have to make the most of whatever your lot is

I can only speak for myself but by 34 I'd done my degree, had a cpl of jobs for experience and started to earn what I'd call decent money. Nurrrr"

Well done.

Had I followed my heart and not done as I was told I had to do to continue living at home at age 18 then I dare say I'd be pretty sorted financially provided I stuck with my choice and didn't flake out.

Unfortunately my mum decided she I had to take a job in a petrol garage as a cashier on minimum wage so I could pay her board for the food she didn't cook and the electeic I barely used instead of accepting the offer I was given to enrol on an embalming course and have a well paid job for life.

Those are the breaks hey.

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By *edmark07 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"I'm still laughing at decent wage.

For me, I can't see that I'll ever be "comfortable" so the best time is when you accept your lot and realise you have to make the most of whatever your lot is

I can only speak for myself but by 34 I'd done my degree, had a cpl of jobs for experience and started to earn what I'd call decent money. Nurrrr

Well done.

Those are the breaks hey.

Like I say only commenting on mine. I'm not going into my life's details to justify my post though. Good day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

27 to now have been pretty good! Although I am looking forward to my 30s!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Interesting subject but unless you’re happy with your lot (a rare gift) then the answers will either be a bit smug or dredge up the kind of turmoil that needs 18 months of therapy to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The perfect age is my age as of today. Every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still laughing at decent wage.

For me, I can't see that I'll ever be "comfortable" so the best time is when you accept your lot and realise you have to make the most of whatever your lot is

I can only speak for myself but by 34 I'd done my degree, had a cpl of jobs for experience and started to earn what I'd call decent money. Nurrrr

Well done.

Those are the breaks hey.

Like I say only commenting on mine. I'm not going into my life's details to justify my post though. Good day"

I'm not asking or expecting you to! I was saying good for you and giving a snippet of my own life. Nobody has to justify anything, I was simply saying how different my life could have been is all. I wouldn't have had my son, as I met his dad whilst I worked at the petrol garage. Swings n roundabouts ain't it.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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I think it's really important to try to enjoy every moment of your life, I've had many different times in my life where I've had no cash to splurge on anything. I've always found a way to enjoy my situation. I think it's always really important to do your best to focus and improve the situation you are in and find happiness and joy in every day.

Life is very fleeting and you never know what's round the corner, I try to enjoy every bit of it that I can.

I can't point out a significantly happier it more trying period as I really have tried to always enjoy each day.

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By *edmark07 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"I think it's really important to try to enjoy every moment of your life, I've had many different times in my life where I've had no cash to splurge on anything. I've always found a way to enjoy my situation. I think it's always really important to do your best to focus and improve the situation you are in and find happiness and joy in every day.

Life is very fleeting and you never know what's round the corner, I try to enjoy every bit of it that I can.

I can't point out a significantly happier it more trying period as I really have tried to always enjoy each day. "

I like this lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still laughing at decent wage.

For me, I can't see that I'll ever be "comfortable" so the best time is when you accept your lot and realise you have to make the most of whatever your lot is

I can only speak for myself but by 34 I'd done my degree, had a cpl of jobs for experience and started to earn what I'd call decent money. Nurrrr

Well done.

Those are the breaks hey.

Could you do it as a mature student? Any grants you could apply for?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Doesnt really matter does it

You have to live for the here and now moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesnt really matter does it

You have to live for the here and now moment"
say 50 just for the hell of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every year from being 16 to now has been an improvement on the last.

Every year before 16 never happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Round about now. I'm 40, and quite comfortable on the line where relative youth and relative maturity currently blend. I'm comfortable in most areas, and have probably more freedom than most.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Well it's been a hell of a life. I am a great point in my life in terms of personal awareness and feeling totally comfortable in my own skin. I earn well and have accumulated wealth and have great provisions for the future. Unfortunately the family life of a single parent with young kids, projects and work commitments gets in the way of many of the adventures I could have. But Im massively confident of the future. I'm 35 now (and healthy) and project far more freedom in my 50s as the kids grow up. So I'm going to predict late 40s/early 50s will be a golden time for me and my partner.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Doesnt really matter does it

You have to live for the here and now momentsay 50 just for the hell of it

50 just for the hell of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 26 now and I'm happy this age. I can do anything I want and I have a good head on my shoulders. I wish I could stay young forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good wages at 30? Good wages are few and far between these days, especially in the public and private sectors."

Are there more sectors?

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Always enjoyed my life from childhood to now, no hang ups, no financial worry’s and always had fun so consider myself to be very lucky, just hoping it continues

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Now

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'm still laughing at decent wage.

For me, I can't see that I'll ever be "comfortable" so the best time is when you accept your lot and realise you have to make the most of whatever your lot is

I can only speak for myself but by 34 I'd done my degree, had a cpl of jobs for experience and started to earn what I'd call decent money. Nurrrr"

and single without kids or jobless and in good health.

I had a family and so until they were well and truly baked I wasn't settled. I'd say about mid fifties

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

and even then im still helping family with illnesses , money , divorce , housing etc.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still waiting ....

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By *ayman343Man
over a year ago

Maidenhead

40 was good for me. Had more contact with the ladies than ever before. Felt confident and at ease with myself.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

50s .... mortgage free kids grown up and left just one to go ... freedom to travel and do what I want .... no one to answer too ... perfect

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