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I've been discussing this today with a friend. Hormones make you a fucking mess don't they? I had a little cry earlier and I know I am due in the next day or so. My irrational side always comes out when it doesn't exist most of the time.  | |||
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"You make me smile. Hope tomommors a better day for you Peach "Should be, have a works meal tomorrow coz we won £500 for something, only have to pay for our own drinks apparently and I'm sure tap water is free no matter where you go. I might just fashion an extendable straw to pilfer peoples drinks when they aren't looking 
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"You make me smile. Hope tomommors a better day for you Peach
Should be, have a works meal tomorrow coz we won £500 for something, only have to pay for our own drinks apparently and I'm sure tap water is free no matter where you go. I might just fashion an extendable straw to pilfer peoples drinks when they aren't looking
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"Oh P.
I've been discussing this today with a friend. Hormones make you a fucking mess don't they? I had a little cry earlier and I know I am due in the next day or so. My irrational side always comes out when it doesn't exist most of the time. "They really do. I remember pondering just under a year ago whether it was fair of me at this time of life to get into a relationship. I don't think I'm gonna be that long before the menopause strikes and well, there's every chance I won't be "me" for quite a while. I'll be hormonal me, and hormonal me is a pain in the fucking arse. P | |||
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"You make me smile. Hope tomommors a better day for you Peach
Should be, have a works meal tomorrow coz we won £500 for something, only have to pay for our own drinks apparently and I'm sure tap water is free no matter where you go. I might just fashion an extendable straw to pilfer peoples drinks when they aren't looking
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I can just image you with a halo "I'll cry into their cocktails, that should do the trick
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"Oh P.
I've been discussing this today with a friend. Hormones make you a fucking mess don't they? I had a little cry earlier and I know I am due in the next day or so. My irrational side always comes out when it doesn't exist most of the time.
They really do.
I remember pondering just under a year ago whether it was fair of me at this time of life to get into a relationship. I don't think I'm gonna be that long before the menopause strikes and well, there's every chance I won't be "me" for quite a while. I'll be hormonal me, and hormonal me is a pain in the fucking arse.
P"Hormonal you needs calming and love and understanding. And chocolate. You'll still be you when menopausal. Find some cathartic films/music to channel them into. | |||
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"Hormones are a nightmare. I recently cried because there was a button missing on my duvet cover "Thank you for sharing my child. May the demon be gone from this day forward. P | |||
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"Oh P.
I've been discussing this today with a friend. Hormones make you a fucking mess don't they? I had a little cry earlier and I know I am due in the next day or so. My irrational side always comes out when it doesn't exist most of the time.
They really do.
I remember pondering just under a year ago whether it was fair of me at this time of life to get into a relationship. I don't think I'm gonna be that long before the menopause strikes and well, there's every chance I won't be "me" for quite a while. I'll be hormonal me, and hormonal me is a pain in the fucking arse.
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Hormonal you needs calming and love and understanding. And chocolate. You'll still be you when menopausal. Find some cathartic films/music to channel them into. "This is true, hormonal me also needs a tumble drier and unlimited electricity supply for when the sun goes in 
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"What are some of the really non-sad things that have set you off? I worked the late shift last night followed by the early shift today. Super tired and have womb doom of dread, you know that dull aching reminder that you're gonna come on... maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow but soon. I appear to have a corn in between my pinkie toe and the next one which feels like I'm being stabbed and my wrist decided it was tired of carrying heavy things and randomly bruised a bruise that looks like I've not washed in 2 months. Anywhoo, got home from work, did a load of washing and whilst putting it on the line the sun went in. This created a sense of disappointment and injustice in me that made my eye leak a diddy bit. Lasted about 6 seconds til the sun came back out and all was well again. I dread to think what I'm gonna be like during the menopause
P"I just rub my HRT patch and take a deep breath. Hope you've got the day off tomorrow or soon. And there's alway the birmingham social as a cheery thought. I see that you are going...Something to look forward to eh x | |||
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"It reminds me of when my daughter was pregnant. I pretended to steal her Yorkshire pudding, she broke down in floods of tears! " You are one bad papa! Does she laugh about it now? Honestly, hormones can be evil swines that have the ability to melt the iciest of ice queens and make em look a right tit. Bastards. P | |||
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"What are some of the really non-sad things that have set you off? I worked the late shift last night followed by the early shift today. Super tired and have womb doom of dread, you know that dull aching reminder that you're gonna come on... maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow but soon. I appear to have a corn in between my pinkie toe and the next one which feels like I'm being stabbed and my wrist decided it was tired of carrying heavy things and randomly bruised a bruise that looks like I've not washed in 2 months. Anywhoo, got home from work, did a load of washing and whilst putting it on the line the sun went in. This created a sense of disappointment and injustice in me that made my eye leak a diddy bit. Lasted about 6 seconds til the sun came back out and all was well again. I dread to think what I'm gonna be like during the menopause
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I just rub my HRT patch and take a deep breath.
Hope you've got the day off tomorrow or soon. And there's alway the birmingham social as a cheery thought. I see that you are going...Something to look forward to eh x"I'm still regular so haven't been to see anyone yet, although I have a new set of broom bristles sprouting from my chin on a daily basis
To be fair I'm still due my "hey, you turned 40 let's give you an MOT" and I'm 42 in 4 months.
We're still not certain about the social as it will come down to work so may not know until the evening before which is a shitter. Hopeful though. X
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"What are some of the really non-sad things that have set you off? I worked the late shift last night followed by the early shift today. Super tired and have womb doom of dread, you know that dull aching reminder that you're gonna come on... maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow but soon. I appear to have a corn in between my pinkie toe and the next one which feels like I'm being stabbed and my wrist decided it was tired of carrying heavy things and randomly bruised a bruise that looks like I've not washed in 2 months. Anywhoo, got home from work, did a load of washing and whilst putting it on the line the sun went in. This created a sense of disappointment and injustice in me that made my eye leak a diddy bit. Lasted about 6 seconds til the sun came back out and all was well again. I dread to think what I'm gonna be like during the menopause
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I just rub my HRT patch and take a deep breath.
Hope you've got the day off tomorrow or soon. And there's alway the birmingham social as a cheery thought. I see that you are going...Something to look forward to eh x
I'm still regular so haven't been to see anyone yet, although I have a new set of broom bristles sprouting from my chin on a daily basis
To be fair I'm still due my "hey, you turned 40 let's give you an MOT" and I'm 42 in 4 months.
We're still not certain about the social as it will come down to work so may not know until the evening before which is a shitter. Hopeful though. X
P"Ahh the broom bristles they are a curse..now I nearly cried at them, now I just pluck them. Its strangely satisfying to get them out. Get that mot it's important. Hope you make the social I'll give you a shout if I see you x | |||
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"What are some of the really non-sad things that have set you off? I worked the late shift last night followed by the early shift today. Super tired and have womb doom of dread, you know that dull aching reminder that you're gonna come on... maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow but soon. I appear to have a corn in between my pinkie toe and the next one which feels like I'm being stabbed and my wrist decided it was tired of carrying heavy things and randomly bruised a bruise that looks like I've not washed in 2 months. Anywhoo, got home from work, did a load of washing and whilst putting it on the line the sun went in. This created a sense of disappointment and injustice in me that made my eye leak a diddy bit. Lasted about 6 seconds til the sun came back out and all was well again. I dread to think what I'm gonna be like during the menopause
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I just rub my HRT patch and take a deep breath.
Hope you've got the day off tomorrow or soon. And there's alway the birmingham social as a cheery thought. I see that you are going...Something to look forward to eh x
I'm still regular so haven't been to see anyone yet, although I have a new set of broom bristles sprouting from my chin on a daily basis
To be fair I'm still due my "hey, you turned 40 let's give you an MOT" and I'm 42 in 4 months.
We're still not certain about the social as it will come down to work so may not know until the evening before which is a shitter. Hopeful though. X
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Ahh the broom bristles they are a curse..now I nearly cried at them, now I just pluck them. Its strangely satisfying to get them out.
Get that mot it's important.
Hope you make the social I'll give you a shout if I see you x"I got my magnifying mirror and tweezers on hand at all times 
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"I only cry when about something specific. An extraordinary act of human kindness, or ordinary act of cruelty." You've clearly never had the sun hide behind the clouds whilst hanging out your washing 
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"I'm a mess at the moment bloody menopause. " I hope this heat isn't compounding things x | |||
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"I'm currently having one of those days where I'm trying hard not to cry. Anything could set me off . Currently it's the fact I am trying hard to stay on plan with the diet and I'm not able to face plant a cake " Just diet until 8pm. It's only an hour. Have a cup of tea at 8 then just diet till 9pm. An hour is manageable. Then just diet till 10..... x | |||
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"Hormones are a nightmare. I recently cried because there was a button missing on my duvet cover
Perhaps I shouldn't say my duvet cover doesn't do up at all"Get some velcro P | |||
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"Sending massive hugs op . I have been crying at everything lately ...too much time thinking " | |||
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"I'm currently having one of those days where I'm trying hard not to cry. Anything could set me off . Currently it's the fact I am trying hard to stay on plan with the diet and I'm not able to face plant a cake Just diet until 8pm. It's only an hour. Have a cup of tea at 8 then just diet till 9pm. An hour is manageable. Then just diet till 10..... x" That is great ad advice ..one step at a time and it works  | |||
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"I'm currently having one of those days where I'm trying hard not to cry. Anything could set me off . Currently it's the fact I am trying hard to stay on plan with the diet and I'm not able to face plant a cake " Ok I have a plan, invite piece of cake to yours, it won't be an actual face plant or an actual cake, more like a headbutt but it may make you feel better
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"A milkshake A thread on here A tennis ball No hormones as an excuse either. "Those tennis balls are tricksy buggers tho P | |||
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"Sometimes everything makes me cry! I saw a video of a puppy earlier....I sobbed... "Cuteness overload. Do not watch Marley and me.... EVER P | |||
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"I'm currently having one of those days where I'm trying hard not to cry. Anything could set me off . Currently it's the fact I am trying hard to stay on plan with the diet and I'm not able to face plant a cake Just diet until 8pm. It's only an hour. Have a cup of tea at 8 then just diet till 9pm. An hour is manageable. Then just diet till 10..... x" Oooo I like that a lot. Small wins for the win. P | |||
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"Sending massive hugs op . I have been crying at everything lately ...too much time thinking " Thinking is the devil. I try not to think. I fail. That's a really wanky reply and I'm sorry I'm being shit at advising on how to "be kind to yourself" but I've no fucking clue how to do it myself P | |||
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"I cried Friday when hubby bought a new t shirt...bit of a back story, he’s recently been diagnosed with cancer, he’s totally ok with it and so am I (I think). His dark twisted sense of humour is working wonders for us both. But this t shirt pushed me over the edge. So he binned it, we both cried. Then he bought me chips ... "I am so sorry to hear the diagnosis xx This just brought back memories that I really could cry over. My husband was diagnosed with cancer, it was xmas time and I was buying a fake tree thinking will he get to see this the following year it broke my heart. I'm sorry if that's to much information. I really wish you both well xx | |||
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"I cried Friday when hubby bought a new t shirt...bit of a back story, he’s recently been diagnosed with cancer, he’s totally ok with it and so am I (I think). His dark twisted sense of humour is working wonders for us both. But this t shirt pushed me over the edge. So he binned it, we both cried. Then he bought me chips ... "Yeah but come on, that's an understandable cry right there. Steelheels cried over a tennis ball and I cried over the sun going in. You both shared a moment that nobody can take from you.
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"Annabelle, really sorry it brought back memories for you. Honestly, it’s fine, he’s fine, I’m fine. Just crying over his stupid t shirt...the Macmillan nurses think he’s “an inspiration”. He may be many things, but an inspiration isn’t one of them. I think “twat” would be closer to the mark. "Aww thank you that's really appreciated. I admire both of yours sense of humour. To me he sounds inspirational, you both do xx | |||
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"I'm a mess at the moment bloody menopause. I hope this heat isn't compounding things x" I'm melting more than normal,if only I'd loose weight while I melt! | |||
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"Sometimes everything makes me cry! I saw a video of a puppy earlier....I sobbed...
Cuteness overload.
Do not watch Marley and me.... EVER
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"I cried Friday when hubby bought a new t shirt...bit of a back story, he’s recently been diagnosed with cancer, he’s totally ok with it and so am I (I think). His dark twisted sense of humour is working wonders for us both. But this t shirt pushed me over the edge. So he binned it, we both cried. Then he bought me chips ... "That makes my cry over a tennis ball seem a bit shit. Tell hubby he wins. Xx | |||
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"I cried Friday when hubby bought a new t shirt...bit of a back story, he’s recently been diagnosed with cancer, he’s totally ok with it and so am I (I think). His dark twisted sense of humour is working wonders for us both. But this t shirt pushed me over the edge. So he binned it, we both cried. Then he bought me chips ... "Bless you, it sucks to be told a loved one has cancer, Dick was diagnosed this year. We are both fine with it now but you have every right to shed a tear, mine was over the dog not eating his dinner when I put it down for him, like he knew something was wrong. Big hugs to you both x | |||
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"Oh poo balls ...why do we feel Like we’ve crashed the thread ? Quick, some One say something funny " Cockwomble! Always makes me smile. | |||
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"Oh poo balls ...why do we feel Like we’ve crashed the thread ? Quick, some One say something funny " Honestly you haven't. I was having a little moment there myself where I'm hungry and tired but want to sleep, I'm snappy and don't know what to do for the best. I feel like I'm in my own way if that even makes sense! So no, you definitely haven't crashed the thread
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"Oh poo balls ...why do we feel Like we’ve crashed the thread ? Quick, some One say something funny Honestly you haven't. I was having a little moment there myself where I'm hungry and tired but want to sleep, I'm snappy and don't know what to do for the best. I feel like I'm in my own way if that even makes sense! So no, you definitely haven't crashed the thread
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"Oh poo balls ...why do we feel Like we’ve crashed the thread ? Quick, some One say something funny Cockwomble! Always makes me smile. " That is a great word ... Cockwomble cockwomble | |||
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"Oh poo balls ...why do we feel Like we’ve crashed the thread ? Quick, some One say something funny Honestly you haven't. I was having a little moment there myself where I'm hungry and tired but want to sleep, I'm snappy and don't know what to do for the best. I feel like I'm in my own way if that even makes sense! So no, you definitely haven't crashed the thread
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Have a bath. Then I'll make you some toast and stroke your hair till you fall asleep.
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"Oh poo balls ...why do we feel Like we’ve crashed the thread ? Quick, some One say something funny Honestly you haven't. I was having a little moment there myself where I'm hungry and tired but want to sleep, I'm snappy and don't know what to do for the best. I feel like I'm in my own way if that even makes sense! So no, you definitely haven't crashed the thread
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Have a bath. Then I'll make you some toast and stroke your hair till you fall asleep.
Did you forget on purpose I only have a crappy shower
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"Oh poo balls ...why do we feel Like we’ve crashed the thread ? Quick, some One say something funny Honestly you haven't. I was having a little moment there myself where I'm hungry and tired but want to sleep, I'm snappy and don't know what to do for the best. I feel like I'm in my own way if that even makes sense! So no, you definitely haven't crashed the thread
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Have a bath. Then I'll make you some toast and stroke your hair till you fall asleep.
Did you forget on purpose I only have a crappy shower
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Thank fuck for that! I already ate your toast.
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I forgive ya. Just.
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"By the power invested in me by .....er.....me ......cock Womble wins !! Until of course I reveal the t shirt slogan ...cue many people sucking through teeth and not knowing if it’s ok to laugh (clue: it really is) " Thank you x and do tell the t shirt. I wore wigs and ride around in wheelchairs while going through my cancer treatments.. It was frowned upon in the hospital. | |||
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"By the power invested in me by .....er.....me ......cock Womble wins !! Until of course I reveal the t shirt slogan ...cue many people sucking through teeth and not knowing if it’s ok to laugh (clue: it really is) Thank you x and do tell the t shirt. I wore wigs and ride around in wheelchairs while going through my cancer treatments.. It was frowned upon in the hospital. " Did you tell suggest they "turn their frown upside down"? I'm also interested in the t-shirt. And thank you btw, for sharing with us P | |||
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"He has two t shirts ...please please note this is his sick sense of humour not mine. One reads “eat sleep chemo repeat “ The other (he’s lost two stone in as many months “ CANCER. Putting the Die in Diet... I cringe at just telling you that ...that’s the one I told him to bin. I mean really? His total argument is “a black guy can make black guy jokes...I’ve got cancer,I’m allowed to make cancer jokes " And he's not wrong
We all laugh at times to lighten the mood and ease our way through stuff. I can understand why you binned the second one, but it did give me a naughty chuckle as in all honesty, it's definitely something I'd struggle not to buy if I was in the same boat.
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"It’s him all over ...shock value ...thankfully it doesn’t look like it’s awarded us a ban " If we can laugh about stuff it takes some of its power away. I know we don't know each other but I have a sense of pride for you both reading it. I take my hat of to the pair of you. P | |||
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"It’s him all over ...shock value ...thankfully it doesn’t look like it’s awarded us a ban If we can laugh about stuff it takes some of its power away. I know we don't know each other but I have a sense of pride for you both reading it. I take my hat of to the pair of you. P " Thank you, but honestly, that’s just the way we (he!!!!!) is/are. Shit happens...winging/moaning about it won’t change the outcome. Might as well have a laugh. Head down crack on | |||
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"He has two t shirts ...please please note this is his sick sense of humour not mine. One reads “eat sleep chemo repeat “ The other (he’s lost two stone in as many months “ CANCER. Putting the Die in Diet... I cringe at just telling you that ...that’s the one I told him to bin. I mean really? His total argument is “a black guy can make black guy jokes...I’ve got cancer,I’m allowed to make cancer jokes " They are amazing I love them don't loose your humour ever x x | |||
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"It’s him all over ...shock value ...thankfully it doesn’t look like it’s awarded us a ban If we can laugh about stuff it takes some of its power away. I know we don't know each other but I have a sense of pride for you both reading it. I take my hat of to the pair of you. P Thank you, but honestly, that’s just the way we (he!!!!!) is/are. Shit happens...winging/moaning about it won’t change the outcome. Might as well have a laugh. Head down crack on " Well I ain't drawing a smiley face on my corny thing. Can't reach the bastard for starters
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