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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

There is an item on sky news about a new chair that stops manspreading and micro aggression. Is it not also about the size of the person. Is it a sexist word. Surely some women are manspreaders...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it something that spikes them in the bollocks if their legs get too wide?

Women put their bags on the seat next to them.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?"

Yes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What's micro aggression?

I swear there's a government department making up phrases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's micro aggression?

I swear there's a government department making up phrases"

Haha. Its like that power pose thing.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Certain people get a bee in their bonnet over this, God knows why. It's almost as if they have nothing better to do with their time. But not attempting to gradually change attitudes over a long period time, no that's too much effort.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Hey. If fat people are fair game for taking up too much room so are guys who like to do the splits on the tube!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well hopefully they don't get implemented everywhere.... I hate sitting on my nuts or having them constricted because of lack of dangle room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey. If fat people are fair game for taking up too much room so are guys who like to do the splits on the tube!"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes. "

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Certain people get a bee in their bonnet over this, God knows why. It's almost as if they have nothing better to do with their time. But not attempting to gradually change attitudes over a long period time, no that's too much effort."

Because for a woman especially a young girl it can be intimidating do you not get that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!"

Worse if they have a kilt on!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

Worse if they have a kilt on! "

They'd get pinged by my fly swot!

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Certain people get a bee in their bonnet over this, God knows why. It's almost as if they have nothing better to do with their time. But not attempting to gradually change attitudes over a long period time, no that's too much effort.

Because for a woman especially a young girl it can be intimidating do you not get that?"

No, not really...!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Well hopefully they don't get implemented everywhere.... I hate sitting on my nuts or having them constricted because of lack of dangle room."

Just sit considerately. Some guys practically do the splits!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Certain people get a bee in their bonnet over this, God knows why. It's almost as if they have nothing better to do with their time. But not attempting to gradually change attitudes over a long period time, no that's too much effort.

Because for a woman especially a young girl it can be intimidating do you not get that?

No, not really...!!"

Then you are part of the problem. Not the solution. Just because you aren't intimidated by it, doesn't mean others aren't.

I'm not intimidated by it. I fight spread with spread.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I do not see myself as "a problem"...!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Certain people get a bee in their bonnet over this, God knows why. It's almost as if they have nothing better to do with their time. But not attempting to gradually change attitudes over a long period time, no that's too much effort.

Because for a woman especially a young girl it can be intimidating do you not get that?

No, not really...!!"

Good job I wasn't talking to you then.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I do not see myself as "a problem"...!!"

Do you sit wide legged on a train? You know....legs akimbo?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!"

https://youtu.be/vGMfkyhe6kE

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I do not see myself as "a problem"...!!"

It's all about showing a bit of respect and consideration. Would you like a man sitting opposite your young daughter with his legs wide open (if you have one).

This is my space that's your space,don't bloody invade my little bit of space!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!"

What about when women are in tight clothing that you can basically see what they’ve had for dinner. For example gym leggings .... is that womansplaining?

You don’t realise how uncomfortable it actually is to have a dick and a set of balls to try and sit with your legs closed.

People are offended by absolutely anything

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

https://youtu.be/vGMfkyhe6kE

"

Nar

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Certain people get a bee in their bonnet over this, God knows why. It's almost as if they have nothing better to do with their time. But not attempting to gradually change attitudes over a long period time, no that's too much effort."

How do you change attitudes over a long period of time without bringing up the subject in the first place?

There's going to be a lot of 'this doesn't effect me so you're silly to care about it' in this thread, isn't there.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

What about when women are in tight clothing that you can basically see what they’ve had for dinner. For example gym leggings .... is that womansplaining?

You don’t realise how uncomfortable it actually is to have a dick and a set of balls to try and sit with your legs closed.

People are offended by absolutely anything "

I ain't saying you have to clamp them shut,but the way some open their legs you'd think they had the dick of a donkey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is an item on sky news about a new chair that stops manspreading and micro aggression. Is it not also about the size of the person. Is it a sexist word. Surely some women are manspreaders..."

It's like breastfeeding. If a woman does this in public it's fine. If I do it I get social services on my back. You can't win!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

What about when women are in tight clothing that you can basically see what they’ve had for dinner. For example gym leggings .... is that womansplaining?

You don’t realise how uncomfortable it actually is to have a dick and a set of balls to try and sit with your legs closed.

People are offended by absolutely anything "

So that give people the right to encroach on other people's space?

I'm fat and I do everything I can not to get in other people's space when sitting next to them. It's just polite.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

What about when women are in tight clothing that you can basically see what they’ve had for dinner. For example gym leggings .... is that womansplaining?

You don’t realise how uncomfortable it actually is to have a dick and a set of balls to try and sit with your legs closed.

People are offended by absolutely anything

I ain't saying you have to clamp them shut,but the way some open their legs you'd think they had the dick of a donkey!"
Maybe some wish they had haha

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

What about when women are in tight clothing that you can basically see what they’ve had for dinner. For example gym leggings .... is that womansplaining?

You don’t realise how uncomfortable it actually is to have a dick and a set of balls to try and sit with your legs closed.

People are offended by absolutely anything

I ain't saying you have to clamp them shut,but the way some open their legs you'd think they had the dick of a donkey!Maybe some wish they had haha "

Or like to give the impression they do

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

What about when women are in tight clothing that you can basically see what they’ve had for dinner. For example gym leggings .... is that womansplaining?

You don’t realise how uncomfortable it actually is to have a dick and a set of balls to try and sit with your legs closed.

People are offended by absolutely anything

I ain't saying you have to clamp them shut,but the way some open their legs you'd think they had the dick of a donkey!Maybe some wish they had haha

Or like to give the impression they do "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

What about when women are in tight clothing that you can basically see what they’ve had for dinner. For example gym leggings .... is that womansplaining?

You don’t realise how uncomfortable it actually is to have a dick and a set of balls to try and sit with your legs closed.

People are offended by absolutely anything

So that give people the right to encroach on other people's space?

I'm fat and I do everything I can not to get in other people's space when sitting next to them. It's just polite. "

If you think it’s just men that are encroaching in your space the you’re wrong and you think I it because they want to exert some sort of power and dominance over you then your absolutely mad.

Another man bashing thread .... yawwn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are countries where manspreading is such an issue on public transport that providers have had to issue (male) passengers with instructions of how to sit on a bus so as not to take up all the space and intimidate women, this was in direct response to women complaining. It’s horrible, have some manners and don’t do it boys!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

What about when women are in tight clothing that you can basically see what they’ve had for dinner. For example gym leggings .... is that womansplaining?

You don’t realise how uncomfortable it actually is to have a dick and a set of balls to try and sit with your legs closed.

People are offended by absolutely anything

So that give people the right to encroach on other people's space?

I'm fat and I do everything I can not to get in other people's space when sitting next to them. It's just polite.

If you think it’s just men that are encroaching in your space the you’re wrong and you think I it because they want to exert some sort of power and dominance over you then your absolutely mad.

Another man bashing thread .... yawwn "

You do know it was a man that started the thread,it's not man bashing anyway all I'm personally asking is to show some consideration and not encroach in my space and close your legs more,but no let's use the man bashing card shall we

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/892494

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

What about when women are in tight clothing that you can basically see what they’ve had for dinner. For example gym leggings .... is that womansplaining?

You don’t realise how uncomfortable it actually is to have a dick and a set of balls to try and sit with your legs closed.

People are offended by absolutely anything

So that give people the right to encroach on other people's space?

I'm fat and I do everything I can not to get in other people's space when sitting next to them. It's just polite.

If you think it’s just men that are encroaching in your space the you’re wrong and you think I it because they want to exert some sort of power and dominance over you then your absolutely mad.

Another man bashing thread .... yawwn

You do know it was a man that started the thread,it's not man bashing anyway all I'm personally asking is to show some consideration and not encroach in my space and close your legs more,but no let's use the man bashing card shall we "

If you take all the bells and whistles away what started with “are women responsible as well” turned quickly into “I don’t wanna see the outline of your ballsack you’re intimidating me and young women ” etc etc

Again if you think 99.9% of men are doing this purposely, are aware they may be doin this horrendous act or any more to blame than what women do in their own particular way then you I don’t really know what to say back.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"Manspreadimng

If you think it’s just men that are encroaching in your space the you’re wrong and you think I it because they want to exert some sort of power and dominance over you then your absolutely mad.

"

Sitting with your legs spread out, Placing bags on the next to you etc,

Its just ignorant people nothing at all to do with Men,

As well as making a chair to keep Men's legs closed the she also created a chair to help Women spread their legs while sitting

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Manspreadimng

If you think it’s just men that are encroaching in your space the you’re wrong and you think I it because they want to exert some sort of power and dominance over you then your absolutely mad.

Sitting with your legs spread out, Placing bags on the next to you etc,

Its just ignorant people nothing at all to do with Men,

As well as making a chair to keep Men's legs closed the she also created a chair to help Women spread their legs while sitting "

Creepy

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

What about when women are in tight clothing that you can basically see what they’ve had for dinner. For example gym leggings .... is that womansplaining?

You don’t realise how uncomfortable it actually is to have a dick and a set of balls to try and sit with your legs closed.

People are offended by absolutely anything

So that give people the right to encroach on other people's space?

I'm fat and I do everything I can not to get in other people's space when sitting next to them. It's just polite.

If you think it’s just men that are encroaching in your space the you’re wrong and you think I it because they want to exert some sort of power and dominance over you then your absolutely mad.

Another man bashing thread .... yawwn "

Get off your fucking trampoline for Christ's sake. I'm female and fat and have specifically referenced fat people encroaching, including myself. Not once have I said it was to assert dominance but some people do find it intimidating.

You poor victim.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

What about when women are in tight clothing that you can basically see what they’ve had for dinner. For example gym leggings .... is that womansplaining?

You don’t realise how uncomfortable it actually is to have a dick and a set of balls to try and sit with your legs closed.

People are offended by absolutely anything

So that give people the right to encroach on other people's space?

I'm fat and I do everything I can not to get in other people's space when sitting next to them. It's just polite.

If you think it’s just men that are encroaching in your space the you’re wrong and you think I it because they want to exert some sort of power and dominance over you then your absolutely mad.

Another man bashing thread .... yawwn

You do know it was a man that started the thread,it's not man bashing anyway all I'm personally asking is to show some consideration and not encroach in my space and close your legs more,but no let's use the man bashing card shall we

If you take all the bells and whistles away what started with “are women responsible as well” turned quickly into “I don’t wanna see the outline of your ballsack you’re intimidating me and young women ” etc etc

Again if you think 99.9% of men are doing this purposely, are aware they may be doin this horrendous act or any more to blame than what women do in their own particular way then you I don’t really know what to say back."

No I don't think men are doing it purposely why would they?! Don't get all defensive because I'm trying to explain how it makes me as a woman feel.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Manspreadimng is that where a guy sits with his legs wide open?

Yes.

Right yeah I hate that especially when you're sat opposite them on the tram,pretty intimidating and annoying. Just close your bloody legs when you're sat opposite a woman I don't want to see the outline of your ball sack!

https://youtu.be/vGMfkyhe6kE

Nar"

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I thought it was more about hogging the arm rests on a flight

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I was womanspreading today...needed air on my hot gusset

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What's micro aggression?

I swear there's a government department making up phrases"

How very passive assertive micro aggressive of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was womanspreading today...needed air on my hot gusset

"

It was a warm one. The weather I mean. Not your gusset, I don’t know about that!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"There is an item on sky news about a new chair that stops manspreading and micro aggression. Is it not also about the size of the person. Is it a sexist word. Surely some women are manspreaders..."

Surely they'd be womanspreaders......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember this topic, it was a heated one

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"There is an item on sky news about a new chair that stops manspreading and micro aggression. Is it not also about the size of the person. Is it a sexist word. Surely some women are manspreaders..."

The chair is an artists impression of on a theme. It is not meant as a practical chair. It's like looking at Picasso's work and asking 'any woman look like this?'

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