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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet." What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....  | |||
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"Women cheat too. " Yes they do can speak from experience of being on the receiving end of it, I found ex wife was cheating. EX being the word
Something I have never done and proud of that even when was in years of sexless marriage. But that's only me everyone is different as are there situations. | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add..... "That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t  | |||
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"I've not cheated yet (if you don't count cam) but am considering it. Wife's just not interested in sex anymore " Do you know what my go to answer is when men say that? | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t "Face boffered ? | |||
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"Cant make my mind up if ur abusing them or want one sitting on ya willy "Trying to see who is actually up for playing with em haha not throwing abuse. I am a married man says so on my profile for those who harper on about people SHOULD BE STATING IT etc etc  | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t "Thought a constructive answer would be appreciated! | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet."  | |||
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"Yes that’s right fuck them cheating men. How many of you would? So after I have been reading another thread how many of you folks are happy to play with married men who are cheating? Maybe it would be easier to have a whole message board dedicated to those cheating and those who don’t mind?" why? Surely the blame if any blame is to be attached lies with the cheater not the cheatee?  | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t
Thought a constructive answer would be appreciated! "I’m just messing. I agree with you to be honest. Married men always looking at the clock. And rushed meets are not fun. Many of them won’t go out their way to make sure they have a good many hours free. Was hoping to find some folks who are interested in married men but this thread hasn’t gone to plan | |||
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"I've not cheated yet (if you don't count cam) but am considering it. Wife's just not interested in sex anymore Do you know what my go to answer is when men say that?" she's probably found a man who's hitting it better  | |||
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"Yes that’s right fuck them cheating men. How many of you would? So after I have been reading another thread how many of you folks are happy to play with married men who are cheating? Maybe it would be easier to have a whole message board dedicated to those cheating and those who don’t mind?why? Surely the blame if any blame is to be attached lies with the cheater not the cheatee? "I’m confused!! What i meant was, and probably should have put in hindsight, comment below if you dont mind playing with married men 
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t
Thought a constructive answer would be appreciated!
I’m just messing. I agree with you to be honest. Married men always looking at the clock. And rushed meets are not fun. Many of them won’t go out their way to make sure they have a good many hours free.
Was hoping to find some folks who are interested in married men but this thread hasn’t gone to plan ". These threads never go to plan! | |||
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"I've not cheated yet (if you don't count cam) but am considering it. Wife's just not interested in sex anymore Do you know what my go to answer is when men say that? she's probably found a man who's hitting it better "Nope | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t
Thought a constructive answer would be appreciated!
I’m just messing. I agree with you to be honest. Married men always looking at the clock. And rushed meets are not fun. Many of them won’t go out their way to make sure they have a good many hours free.
Was hoping to find some folks who are interested in married men but this thread hasn’t gone to plan "I’m not sure asking if anyone would meet you based JUST on the fact that you’re married is a good approach. It’s good to be honest, yes, and many women will appreciate that, but you got to put some effort in. I am sure there are some women on here that will meet you if you build a connection and get to know them, married or not! | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t
Thought a constructive answer would be appreciated!
I’m just messing. I agree with you to be honest. Married men always looking at the clock. And rushed meets are not fun. Many of them won’t go out their way to make sure they have a good many hours free.
Was hoping to find some folks who are interested in married men but this thread hasn’t gone to plan
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"That's something that often niggles me. We're aways given the impression that men cheat more than women. Well, last time I did it, admittedly a VERY long time ago, hetero sex involved a man AND a woman. So unless a few single women are VERY busy indeed, there must surely be as many women cheating as there are men. " It's either 50/50 or way more women than men cheating and I only say this due to women being capable of being a lot more sly and manipulative than men could ever want to be. That's just one females thoughts though. | |||
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"Cant make my mind up if ur abusing them or want one sitting on ya willy
Trying to see who is actually up for playing with em haha not throwing abuse. I am a married man says so on my profile for those who harper on about people SHOULD BE STATING IT etc etc "Ah go get em sunny jim | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t
Thought a constructive answer would be appreciated!
I’m just messing. I agree with you to be honest. Married men always looking at the clock. And rushed meets are not fun. Many of them won’t go out their way to make sure they have a good many hours free.
Was hoping to find some folks who are interested in married men but this thread hasn’t gone to plan
I’m not sure asking if anyone would meet you based JUST on the fact that you’re married is a good approach. It’s good to be honest, yes, and many women will appreciate that, but you got to put some effort in. I am sure there are some women on here that will meet you if you build a connection and get to know them, married or not!"Yep I agree with you. I never ask anyone just on that at all. I guess it’s the word “interested” which makes it sound that way. I mean i was hoping to find folk who don’t mind married men and are happy to chat to them | |||
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"Yes that’s right fuck them cheating men. How many of you would? So after I have been reading another thread how many of you folks are happy to play with married men who are cheating? Maybe it would be easier to have a whole message board dedicated to those cheating and those who don’t mind?why? Surely the blame if any blame is to be attached lies with the cheater not the cheatee?
I’m confused!!
What i meant was, and probably should have put in hindsight, comment below if you dont mind playing with married men
I’m not here to throw blame around "I definitely wouldn’t play with a married man | |||
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"I've not cheated yet (if you don't count cam) but am considering it. Wife's just not interested in sex anymore Do you know what my go to answer is when men say that? she's probably found a man who's hitting it better
Nope"Do you advise them they should leave their spouse? | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t
Thought a constructive answer would be appreciated!
I’m just messing. I agree with you to be honest. Married men always looking at the clock. And rushed meets are not fun. Many of them won’t go out their way to make sure they have a good many hours free.
Was hoping to find some folks who are interested in married men but this thread hasn’t gone to plan
. These threads never go to plan!
I read that thread which was a big debate and thought let me see if we can just have people who are cheating and people who don’t mind cheaters in one place. This just became like the other thread ffs! "Yep. People like to stick their oar in unfortunately. I often see threads I’m not interested in. I just move on. Not that difficult really. | |||
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"Yes that’s right fuck them cheating men. How many of you would? So after I have been reading another thread how many of you folks are happy to play with married men who are cheating? Maybe it would be easier to have a whole message board dedicated to those cheating and those who don’t mind?" Ok. I know this is going to be unpopular but I base it on the individual. I need to understand why they are doing what they are and if the reason makes sense to me, yes I will meet them. Clock watching? It’s not just married men who do that. I have a thing for single dads and they are the worst... | |||
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"Yes that’s right fuck them cheating men. How many of you would? So after I have been reading another thread how many of you folks are happy to play with married men who are cheating? Maybe it would be easier to have a whole message board dedicated to those cheating and those who don’t mind? Ok. I know this is going to be unpopular but I base it on the individual. I need to understand why they are doing what they are and if the reason makes sense to me, yes I will meet them. Clock watching? It’s not just married men who do that. I have a thing for single dads and they are the worst... "Totally agree. Fortunately I’m able to see more than just black and white. Not many can it seems. | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t
Thought a constructive answer would be appreciated!
I’m just messing. I agree with you to be honest. Married men always looking at the clock. And rushed meets are not fun. Many of them won’t go out their way to make sure they have a good many hours free.
Was hoping to find some folks who are interested in married men but this thread hasn’t gone to plan
. These threads never go to plan!
I read that thread which was a big debate and thought let me see if we can just have people who are cheating and people who don’t mind cheaters in one place. This just became like the other thread ffs!
Yep. People like to stick their oar in unfortunately. I often see threads I’m not interested in. I just move on. Not that difficult really. "But they are intrested in the thread and have vaild points. Its not sticking your oar in, in the slightest. | |||
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"Yes that’s right fuck them cheating men. How many of you would? So after I have been reading another thread how many of you folks are happy to play with married men who are cheating? Maybe it would be easier to have a whole message board dedicated to those cheating and those who don’t mind? Ok. I know this is going to be unpopular but I base it on the individual. I need to understand why they are doing what they are and if the reason makes sense to me, yes I will meet them. Clock watching? It’s not just married men who do that. I have a thing for single dads and they are the worst... "To be honest I’ve spoken to a fair few attached men, and like you tried to understand what their circumstances are, but if what they can offer doesn’t match up to what I’m looking for then it’s a polite no thank you and we move on. Oh and I know it’s not just attached men that clock watch, but I find it’s more likely with those that have someone waiting at home. | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t
Thought a constructive answer would be appreciated!
I’m just messing. I agree with you to be honest. Married men always looking at the clock. And rushed meets are not fun. Many of them won’t go out their way to make sure they have a good many hours free.
Was hoping to find some folks who are interested in married men but this thread hasn’t gone to plan
. These threads never go to plan!
I read that thread which was a big debate and thought let me see if we can just have people who are cheating and people who don’t mind cheaters in one place. This just became like the other thread ffs!
Yep. People like to stick their oar in unfortunately. I often see threads I’m not interested in. I just move on. Not that difficult really.
But they are intrested in the thread and have vaild points. Its not sticking your oar in, in the slightest. "If there was a thread saying who would like to piss on me I’d move on I wouldn’t start on about how wrong and disgusting it was. He’s asking who would not who wouldn’t. Don’t see the point in negative comments. | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t
Thought a constructive answer would be appreciated!
I’m just messing. I agree with you to be honest. Married men always looking at the clock. And rushed meets are not fun. Many of them won’t go out their way to make sure they have a good many hours free.
Was hoping to find some folks who are interested in married men but this thread hasn’t gone to plan
. These threads never go to plan!
I read that thread which was a big debate and thought let me see if we can just have people who are cheating and people who don’t mind cheaters in one place. This just became like the other thread ffs!
Yep. People like to stick their oar in unfortunately. I often see threads I’m not interested in. I just move on. Not that difficult really.
But they are intrested in the thread and have vaild points. Its not sticking your oar in, in the slightest. "They’re interested in something other than the thread. If I started another thread and titled it “cheaters and those who’ll play with them” I’d get the same result as this one. They could not stick their oar in, and make their own thread if they feel so passionately | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said.......most elegantly I might add.....
That’s why the thread is asking who would and not who wouldn’t
Thought a constructive answer would be appreciated!
I’m just messing. I agree with you to be honest. Married men always looking at the clock. And rushed meets are not fun. Many of them won’t go out their way to make sure they have a good many hours free.
Was hoping to find some folks who are interested in married men but this thread hasn’t gone to plan
. These threads never go to plan!
I read that thread which was a big debate and thought let me see if we can just have people who are cheating and people who don’t mind cheaters in one place. This just became like the other thread ffs!
Yep. People like to stick their oar in unfortunately. I often see threads I’m not interested in. I just move on. Not that difficult really.
But they are intrested in the thread and have vaild points. Its not sticking your oar in, in the slightest.
They’re interested in something other than the thread. If I started another thread and titled it “cheaters and those who’ll play with them” I’d get the same result as this one. They could not stick their oar in, and make their own thread if they feel so passionately "Exactly. But it’s a public forum and all that
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"Yes that’s right fuck them cheating men. How many of you would? So after I have been reading another thread how many of you folks are happy to play with married men who are cheating? Maybe it would be easier to have a whole message board dedicated to those cheating and those who don’t mind?" I have done. Same man over a few years, 3 different girlfriends. | |||
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"Yes that’s right fuck them cheating men. How many of you would? So after I have been reading another thread how many of you folks are happy to play with married men who are cheating? Maybe it would be easier to have a whole message board dedicated to those cheating and those who don’t mind? I have done. Same man over a few years, 3 different girlfriends. " why don't you become the girlfriend | |||
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"Don’t understand why people are throwing shade to those contributing to the forums just because they may not necessarily agree. This would have been a pretty boring thread if everyone just replied ‘yes me’. " People? I think it’s just me throwing the shade. | |||
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"Women cheat too. That is right, although it is more acceptable for them as there is different rules for men and women lol." Some will say you’re wrong. But i agree! Just look at the biguy vs biwoman debates that sometimes come up. Was talking to a lady who is a lesbian and she said she hated seeing gay men together and it was just not right I didn’t really know what to say and thought well if you’re that ignorant I’ll belt up and save my breath | |||
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"Women cheat too. That is right, although it is more acceptable for them as there is different rules for men and women lol. Some will say you’re wrong. But i agree! Just look at the biguy vs biwoman debates that sometimes come up. Was talking to a lady who is a lesbian and she said she hated seeing gay men together and it was just not right I didn’t really know what to say and thought well if you’re that ignorant I’ll belt up and save my breath "I I pressed the wrong button there, but yes that is right too lol. | |||
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"Women cheat too. " Here is my reply again. I pressed the wrong button there, that is right, although it is more acceptable for them as there is different rules for men and women lol. | |||
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"Don’t understand why people are throwing shade to those contributing to the forums just because they may not necessarily agree. This would have been a pretty boring thread if everyone just replied ‘yes me’. " Let’s say you went to town for a takeaway for a burger. But not all takeaways do burgers. So you said which of you takeaways do burgers. And then they all started discussing why you shouldn’t have a burger, their opinions on why pizza is better and whether or not donner kebab is real meat In the end you would still want to know where can you find the burger and not much care about the rest
P.s hope you’re not vegan
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"Yes that’s right fuck them cheating men. How many of you would? So after I have been reading another thread how many of you folks are happy to play with married men who are cheating? Maybe it would be easier to have a whole message board dedicated to those cheating and those who don’t mind? I have done. Same man over a few years, 3 different girlfriends. why don't you become the girlfriend" Hell no. He cheats. | |||
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"I've not cheated yet (if you don't count cam) but am considering it. Wife's just not interested in sex anymore Do you know what my go to answer is when men say that? she's probably found a man who's hitting it better
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet." What she said
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"I've never cheated and never would. If I'm unhappy and the relationship is dead then simply walk away. There's plenty of single women out there so rather know I'm having fun with someone without the potential of hurting someone else..." You make it sound so simple.... | |||
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"I steer away from attached/married men. I’ve chatted to a few and did meet one guy that was attached, but I wouldn’t do it again. I’m here mostly for drama free/no nonsense fun, and in my (limited) experience a meet which takes weeks of planning (which seems to be how most men who are attached do it) is never that fun. Also nothing less appealing than a man watching the clock during a meet. What she said
Attached guys make easy things complicated."Guess it depends on everyones own experiences. I find attached folks less complicated. They have their fun and go. Never been in any drama though I guess that would change my mind! | |||
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"Don’t understand why people are throwing shade to those contributing to the forums just because they may not necessarily agree. This would have been a pretty boring thread if everyone just replied ‘yes me’. Let’s say you went to town for a takeaway for a burger. But not all takeaways do burgers. So you said which of you takeaways do burgers. And then they all started discussing why you shouldn’t have a burger, their opinions on why pizza is better and whether or not donner kebab is real meat In the end you would still want to know where can you find the burger and not much care about the rest
P.s hope you’re not vegan
Pps hope that’s not taken as mansp_aining. Have to be cautious these days "You don’t have to care about my opinion or anyone else’s. However, I think it’s fair to say that anyone posting on here should expect a certain amount of debating and discussion. Makes things interesting after all. | |||
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"Don’t understand why people are throwing shade to those contributing to the forums just because they may not necessarily agree. This would have been a pretty boring thread if everyone just replied ‘yes me’. Let’s say you went to town for a takeaway for a burger. But not all takeaways do burgers. So you said which of you takeaways do burgers. And then they all started discussing why you shouldn’t have a burger, their opinions on why pizza is better and whether or not donner kebab is real meat In the end you would still want to know where can you find the burger and not much care about the rest
P.s hope you’re not vegan
Pps hope that’s not taken as mansp_aining. Have to be cautious these days
You don’t have to care about my opinion or anyone else’s. However, I think it’s fair to say that anyone posting on here should expect a certain amount of debating and discussion. Makes things interesting after all."Definitely. I’ve just seen so many of these threads and they all go the same way. The last man who posted something like this got judged and what I call bullied so much (even by PM) that he unlosed. This op hasn’t been on here that long that’s all. Just my opinion. I shall remove my oar now. I prefer the positive nice threads these days | |||
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"Don’t understand why people are throwing shade to those contributing to the forums just because they may not necessarily agree. This would have been a pretty boring thread if everyone just replied ‘yes me’. Let’s say you went to town for a takeaway for a burger. But not all takeaways do burgers. So you said which of you takeaways do burgers. And then they all started discussing why you shouldn’t have a burger, their opinions on why pizza is better and whether or not donner kebab is real meat In the end you would still want to know where can you find the burger and not much care about the rest
P.s hope you’re not vegan
Pps hope that’s not taken as mansp_aining. Have to be cautious these days
You don’t have to care about my opinion or anyone else’s. However, I think it’s fair to say that anyone posting on here should expect a certain amount of debating and discussion. Makes things interesting after all.
Definitely. I’ve just seen so many of these threads and they all go the same way. The last man who posted something like this got judged and what I call bullied so much (even by PM) that he unlosed. This op hasn’t been on here that long that’s all. Just my opinion. I shall remove my oar now. I prefer the positive nice threads these days "Who is PM??? Sounds important! | |||
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"I try and not meet married men as i believe cheating is wrong plus dont want any drama. But i did meet a guy off here who i later found out was married. I told his wife(anonymously)" Is that not quite vengeful? | |||
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"Don’t understand why people are throwing shade to those contributing to the forums just because they may not necessarily agree. This would have been a pretty boring thread if everyone just replied ‘yes me’. Let’s say you went to town for a takeaway for a burger. But not all takeaways do burgers. So you said which of you takeaways do burgers. And then they all started discussing why you shouldn’t have a burger, their opinions on why pizza is better and whether or not donner kebab is real meat In the end you would still want to know where can you find the burger and not much care about the rest
P.s hope you’re not vegan
Pps hope that’s not taken as mansp_aining. Have to be cautious these days
You don’t have to care about my opinion or anyone else’s. However, I think it’s fair to say that anyone posting on here should expect a certain amount of debating and discussion. Makes things interesting after all.
Definitely. I’ve just seen so many of these threads and they all go the same way. The last man who posted something like this got judged and what I call bullied so much (even by PM) that he unlosed. This op hasn’t been on here that long that’s all. Just my opinion. I shall remove my oar now. I prefer the positive nice threads these days
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"I try and not meet married men as i believe cheating is wrong plus dont want any drama. But i did meet a guy off here who i later found out was married. I told his wife(anonymously) Is that not quite vengeful?" OMG! Why would you do that? I just don’t understand people sometimes. | |||
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"Don’t understand why people are throwing shade to those contributing to the forums just because they may not necessarily agree. This would have been a pretty boring thread if everyone just replied ‘yes me’. Let’s say you went to town for a takeaway for a burger. But not all takeaways do burgers. So you said which of you takeaways do burgers. And then they all started discussing why you shouldn’t have a burger, their opinions on why pizza is better and whether or not donner kebab is real meat In the end you would still want to know where can you find the burger and not much care about the rest
P.s hope you’re not vegan
Pps hope that’s not taken as mansp_aining. Have to be cautious these days
You don’t have to care about my opinion or anyone else’s. However, I think it’s fair to say that anyone posting on here should expect a certain amount of debating and discussion. Makes things interesting after all.
Definitely. I’ve just seen so many of these threads and they all go the same way. The last man who posted something like this got judged and what I call bullied so much (even by PM) that he unlosed. This op hasn’t been on here that long that’s all. Just my opinion. I shall remove my oar now. I prefer the positive nice threads these days "doesn't surprise me with the amount of man bashing that goes on here. | |||
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"I try and not meet married men as i believe cheating is wrong plus dont want any drama. But i did meet a guy off here who i later found out was married. I told his wife(anonymously) Is that not quite vengeful?" I would say so but some folk don't care.... | |||
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"Don’t understand why people are throwing shade to those contributing to the forums just because they may not necessarily agree. This would have been a pretty boring thread if everyone just replied ‘yes me’. Let’s say you went to town for a takeaway for a burger. But not all takeaways do burgers. So you said which of you takeaways do burgers. And then they all started discussing why you shouldn’t have a burger, their opinions on why pizza is better and whether or not donner kebab is real meat In the end you would still want to know where can you find the burger and not much care about the rest
P.s hope you’re not vegan
Pps hope that’s not taken as mansp_aining. Have to be cautious these days
You don’t have to care about my opinion or anyone else’s. However, I think it’s fair to say that anyone posting on here should expect a certain amount of debating and discussion. Makes things interesting after all.
Definitely. I’ve just seen so many of these threads and they all go the same way. The last man who posted something like this got judged and what I call bullied so much (even by PM) that he unlosed. This op hasn’t been on here that long that’s all. Just my opinion. I shall remove my oar now. I prefer the positive nice threads these days doesn't surprise me with the amount of man bashing that goes on here."I know. I hate it. If people just worried about their lives and what they were doing it would be a much happier place! | |||
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"I try and not meet married men as i believe cheating is wrong plus dont want any drama. But i did meet a guy off here who i later found out was married. I told his wife(anonymously)" Just wrong. I don’t agree with “cheating” but would never ever do this. | |||
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"Yes...........Live and let live !!" Damn right! Life is a much happier place to be without bitterness, bitchiness, bullying and judging! | |||
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"My availability is too shit to try and take on board the limited availability of a married man. Plus there is usually always drama. I’ve had an angry email from the wife of a fella who i’d been chatting to years ago who’d given me a load of flannel when he was actually married and she’d saw an email he’d sent me. Her anger was vented at me, not him.... "It's not your fault if he lied and you didn't know. Of course, its always going to be the other womans fault, not their marital problems or his cheating to blame us it? | |||
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"I try and not meet married men as i believe cheating is wrong plus dont want any drama. But i did meet a guy off here who i later found out was married. I told his wife(anonymously) Is that not quite vengeful? OMG! Why would you do that? I just don’t understand people sometimes. " If a wife confronted me then I would tell her no regrets. I wouldn’t go out of my way but would hope someone else would for the cheating scumbag. | |||
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"Yes...........Live and let live !! Damn right! Life is a much happier place to be without bitterness, bitchiness, bullying and judging! " I agree but you are saying it’s ok to fuck an attached person without the other partners consent. How does that fit in with the above ‘happier place’ mantra. | |||
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"Yes...........Live and let live !! Damn right! Life is a much happier place to be without bitterness, bitchiness, bullying and judging! I agree but you are saying it’s ok to fuck an attached person without the other partners consent. How does that fit in with the above ‘happier place’ mantra. " I’m saying I concentrate on what I myself am doing without worrying about what everyone else is doing. Why should I care if Bob at number 12 is shagging Sheila at number 10? None of my business. Same on here. Let people do what they want. I believe people should be honest about their situation though therefore giving the other person the chance to make an informed choice. | |||
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"Yes...........Live and let live !! Damn right! Life is a much happier place to be without bitterness, bitchiness, bullying and judging! I agree but you are saying it’s ok to fuck an attached person without the other partners consent. How does that fit in with the above ‘happier place’ mantra. " “Fuck them” as in “have sex with them” | |||
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"Yes...........Live and let live !! Damn right! Life is a much happier place to be without bitterness, bitchiness, bullying and judging! I agree but you are saying it’s ok to fuck an attached person without the other partners consent. How does that fit in with the above ‘happier place’ mantra. I’m saying I concentrate on what I myself am doing without worrying about what everyone else is doing. Why should I care if Bob at number 12 is shagging Sheila at number 10? None of my business. Same on here. Let people do what they want. I believe people should be honest about their situation though therefore giving the other person the chance to make an informed choice. " Agreed. I’m just saying, me personally won’t meet such people. I don’t need to as I don’t need sex that badly that I need to meet attached people. I like to spend the night or longer with guys I connect with. | |||
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"Yes...........Live and let live !! Damn right! Life is a much happier place to be without bitterness, bitchiness, bullying and judging! I agree but you are saying it’s ok to fuck an attached person without the other partners consent. How does that fit in with the above ‘happier place’ mantra. “Fuck them” as in “have sex with them”" Yes | |||
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"Yes...........Live and let live !! Damn right! Life is a much happier place to be without bitterness, bitchiness, bullying and judging! I agree but you are saying it’s ok to fuck an attached person without the other partners consent. How does that fit in with the above ‘happier place’ mantra. I’m saying I concentrate on what I myself am doing without worrying about what everyone else is doing. Why should I care if Bob at number 12 is shagging Sheila at number 10? None of my business. Same on here. Let people do what they want. I believe people should be honest about their situation though therefore giving the other person the chance to make an informed choice. Agreed. I’m just saying, me personally won’t meet such people. I don’t need to as I don’t need sex that badly that I need to meet attached people. I like to spend the night or longer with guys I connect with. " Yes. I like nights and weekends | |||
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"Yes...........Live and let live !! Damn right! Life is a much happier place to be without bitterness, bitchiness, bullying and judging! I agree but you are saying it’s ok to fuck an attached person without the other partners consent. How does that fit in with the above ‘happier place’ mantra. I’m saying I concentrate on what I myself am doing without worrying about what everyone else is doing. Why should I care if Bob at number 12 is shagging Sheila at number 10? None of my business. Same on here. Let people do what they want. I believe people should be honest about their situation though therefore giving the other person the chance to make an informed choice. Agreed. I’m just saying, me personally won’t meet such people. I don’t need to as I don’t need sex that badly that I need to meet attached people. I like to spend the night or longer with guys I connect with. Yes. I like nights and weekends "Me too and maybe a week night thrown in. My work Life is all over the place so I need flexible men. Hehe | |||
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"Yes...........Live and let live !! Damn right! Life is a much happier place to be without bitterness, bitchiness, bullying and judging! I agree but you are saying it’s ok to fuck an attached person without the other partners consent. How does that fit in with the above ‘happier place’ mantra. I’m saying I concentrate on what I myself am doing without worrying about what everyone else is doing. Why should I care if Bob at number 12 is shagging Sheila at number 10? None of my business. Same on here. Let people do what they want. I believe people should be honest about their situation though therefore giving the other person the chance to make an informed choice. Agreed. I’m just saying, me personally won’t meet such people. I don’t need to as I don’t need sex that badly that I need to meet attached people. I like to spend the night or longer with guys I connect with. Yes. I like nights and weekends
Me too and maybe a week night thrown in. My work Life is all over the place so I need flexible men. Hehe"Flexible in more ways than one . | |||
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"Yes...........Live and let live !! Damn right! Life is a much happier place to be without bitterness, bitchiness, bullying and judging! I agree but you are saying it’s ok to fuck an attached person without the other partners consent. How does that fit in with the above ‘happier place’ mantra. I’m saying I concentrate on what I myself am doing without worrying about what everyone else is doing. Why should I care if Bob at number 12 is shagging Sheila at number 10? None of my business. Same on here. Let people do what they want. I believe people should be honest about their situation though therefore giving the other person the chance to make an informed choice. Agreed. I’m just saying, me personally won’t meet such people. I don’t need to as I don’t need sex that badly that I need to meet attached people. I like to spend the night or longer with guys I connect with. Yes. I like nights and weekends
Me too and maybe a week night thrown in. My work Life is all over the place so I need flexible men. Hehe
Flexible in more ways than one . "All the better. | |||
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"I like to spend the night or longer with guys I connect with. " Attached men can and do do that. I think there's this idea that married men are far more complicated, I quite like the planning ahead, the clarity in knowing where I stand. Not that I meet many married men at all. I think that relationships are incredibly nuanced and it's far too easy to generalise about the people involved.
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"Iv no moral issue about it...it’s their business, however, I have been on the receiving end of the screaming abuse on the phone at 3am when she’s caught him out...twat left messages on his phone. It’s happened twice to me now...the second one id seen a few times and had no clue he was married...I wasn’t the only lady who got caught out with the second one...his wife created a profile and messaged everybody on his veris...he had gotten away with it for 6 years...but it ALWAYS catches up in the end " No it doesnt ! | |||
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"I like to spend the night or longer with guys I connect with. Attached men can and do do that. I think there's this idea that married men are far more complicated, I quite like the planning ahead, the clarity in knowing where I stand. Not that I meet many married men at all. I think that relationships are incredibly nuanced and it's far too easy to generalise about the people involved.
And I'll stay out of these threads now "I like the potential for it to grow into more. I don’t like restrictions. Plus I could never live with myself for doing that. I have some bad morals but that’s not one of them. | |||
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"I don't really care. It's their life and it's only sex ffs. Not a relationship. I find people's attitudes on here really moralistic " This
I have been seeing a married guy from time to time for over 4 years now. My view is, if he doesn't have a problem with it, neither do I. He treats me well, i enjoy his company and we have fun so I certainly wouldn't do anything that would jeapordise his marriage. | |||
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"Have done in the past but doubt I would now! After many years as a singleton I’ve reached the wanting a man of my own stage (though I’d be more than willing to share nicely at times!) "awwww just one man peachy could you do that now? | |||
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"I try and not meet married men as i believe cheating is wrong plus dont want any drama. But i did meet a guy off here who i later found out was married. I told his wife(anonymously) Just wrong. I don’t agree with “cheating” but would never ever do this." Oh well He had been on and off here years and met lots of people privately,at a club etc. He was free for daytime meets as his wife worked and supported his "business". He left the site immediately and as far as im aware hasnt come back.  | |||
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"I try and not meet married men as i believe cheating is wrong plus dont want any drama. But i did meet a guy off here who i later found out was married. I told his wife(anonymously) Just wrong. I don’t agree with “cheating” but would never ever do this. Oh well He had been on and off here years and met lots of people privately,at a club etc. He was free for daytime meets as his wife worked and supported his "business". He left the site immediately and as far as im aware hasnt come back. "I don't imagine he'd announce his return to you | |||
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"I don't have any problem with sleeping with married or attached men. I've found both the sex and convo to be fab. I'm here for the sex and if it's good, I'm OK with it. " Winner | |||
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"I don't have any problem with sleeping with married or attached men. I've found both the sex and convo to be fab. I'm here for the sex and if it's good, I'm OK with it. Winner " | |||
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"Yes that’s right fuck them cheating men. How many of you would? So after I have been reading another thread how many of you folks are happy to play with married men who are cheating? Maybe it would be easier to have a whole message board dedicated to those cheating and those who don’t mind?" Not me. | |||
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"That's something that often niggles me. We're aways given the impression that men cheat more than women. Well, last time I did it, admittedly a VERY long time ago, hetero sex involved a man AND a woman. So unless a few single women are VERY busy indeed, there must surely be as many women cheating as there are men. Excellent insight! " | |||
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"I've not cheated yet (if you don't count cam) but am considering it. Wife's just not interested in sex anymore " No i wouldn't meet a cheating partner.. | |||
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