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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Inbox?

Do you just leave messages to pile up?

Do you delete read messages? Do you keep some? Do you delete them regardless of the message being in full flow?

I tend to have phases of it getting messed up.

Then have a good old trim of the dead convos and see if any can be brought back to life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Save one from people we are interested in, blitz the rest. Gets too much for Bubbles old brain....

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Erm, I tend to leave them. Although I have a habit of deleting sent messages that haven't been read as I will keep checking them otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep it tidying mostly but there are times I'm just not in a chatty mood so I take a while to reply.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's buzzing but that one person can damn well wait for me to reply,my time is precious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tidy this time around

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Very tidy ...don't really get much mail so never gets untidy

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

very tidy! once read either saved if its worth saving or deleted! (often unread if the muppet that messages hasnt read profile!!! )

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By *i explorer and steveMan
over a year ago

Boston and Higham Ferrers


"Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour "

May I ask why you don't read them?

I send msgs and they don't get read. I'd rather they were just deleted then I know there not interested or at least read and don't reply at least I know not to contact them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour

May I ask why you don't read them?

I send msgs and they don't get read. I'd rather they were just deleted then I know there not interested or at least read and don't reply at least I know not to contact them

"

I do when I get time. I’ve played a few games on here the past few days so just read those ones. Every now and then I go through them. Is that ok?

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling


"Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour

May I ask why you don't read them?

I send msgs and they don't get read. I'd rather they were just deleted then I know there not interested or at least read and don't reply at least I know not to contact them

"

No, don't turn it in to one of these!

The simple fact she has 400 messages. Think how time consuming that is,the vast majority will probably say the same thing accompanied by a pic of a dick.

It sucks yes, but I've seen the shit women end up getting in their inbox, especially over a small period of time too. If she were to clear her box, it would fill faster than she can get through them all.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I regularly delete but will save some I know there will be further conversation with

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Mine's a mess.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling


"I regularly delete but will save some I know there will be further conversation with"

This is generally me. Though with the added wait time to see how much of a conversation will unfold further.

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By *i explorer and steveMan
over a year ago

Boston and Higham Ferrers


"Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour

May I ask why you don't read them?

I send msgs and they don't get read. I'd rather they were just deleted then I know there not interested or at least read and don't reply at least I know not to contact them

No, don't turn it in to one of these!

The simple fact she has 400 messages. Think how time consuming that is,the vast majority will probably say the same thing accompanied by a pic of a dick.

It sucks yes, but I've seen the shit women end up getting in their inbox, especially over a small period of time too. If she were to clear her box, it would fill faster than she can get through them all. "

I understand that. Not moaning was just generally asking. I know how many msgs ladies get, my ex used to get loads every day.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I use the integrated mailbox so all messages from individual users are kept in one tidy thread.

People I chat to regularly I don't delete and some of those threads run into the several hundreds according to the message count on each of those.

Where a handful of messages are exchanged maybe as part of a forum game I'll delete as I go along.

Likewise messages from randoms or those I rarely chat to get deleted.

I still have messages in my inbox that were sent "Over a year ago"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to keep all mine.

I've had a couple of people change username and parts of their bio and message again and made out we have never spoken to see if I will meet. But my previous chat with them is still their to remind me of why I said no in the first place.

I use notes aswell but the previous convo is a good tool to use.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I wish it wasn't but it's a bit of a mess in truth.

Try to reply or delete all messages, but do end up with those maybes, ongoing conversations and forum threads we want to keep.

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I douche every now and again x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Not too bad atm.

I tend to answers friends and local people's messages first. Delete ones that aren't appealing or too far away etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have periods of being very messy and allow it to build up, currently in that period atm

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By *handraWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Very tidy, it's empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when I have my periods I can be very messy and allow it to build up, currently in that period atm"

I let you use my cock as a tampon

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Mines a little messy at the moment. Need to delete loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines a mess.

Just been replying to face pic Friday.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Delete every couple of days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to ignore everything that isn't either from a friend, off the back of a forum thread or from someone I'm interested in.

My other half has access though and he likes to whittle the rest down for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when I have my periods I can be very messy and allow it to build up, currently in that period atm

I let you use my cock as a tampon "

It will ease the cramps.... So im told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when I have my periods I can be very messy and allow it to build up, currently in that period atm

I let you use my cock as a tampon

It will ease the cramps.... So im told "

There you go. But I have PE at 5 o clock.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour "

It must be like someone sending you a copy of War and Peace everyday ....I could'nt cope with that many words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use the integrated mailbox so all messages from individual users are kept in one tidy thread.

People I chat to regularly I don't delete and some of those threads run into the several hundreds according to the message count on each of those.

Where a handful of messages are exchanged maybe as part of a forum game I'll delete as I go along.

Likewise messages from randoms or those I rarely chat to get deleted.

I still have messages in my inbox that were sent "Over a year ago""
im too cheap for all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit messy since I uploaded a pic the other day, mostly men offering me money. Unless its enough to pay my mortgage off and convince harry kane to play for birmingham city i'm not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 500 unread, I have the new integrated message thing so I just look for names I want to answer. Periodically when I’m in the mood for new blood, I scan the others and just bulk delete the rest.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It comes and goes, with occasional sorting out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empty.... Can probably guess why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine appears to be self deleting.. It is always empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep it tidy. I reply to all first messages and don't leave them for more than a day as unread. If I don't want to meet or chat then I tell them as I don't like leaving them wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour "

I couldn’t deal with that, it’d drive me crazy. Even if I didn’t read them I’d just have to mass delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 600 messages this morning....lots read and deleted as they was weird....and the others replied too....even if it's no thanks i always go though my messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour

I couldn’t deal with that, it’d drive me crazy. Even if I didn’t read them I’d just have to mass delete."

I do when I get time. When I come on here I always forget to look at messages tbh. I just go on the forum x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour

I couldn’t deal with that, it’d drive me crazy. Even if I didn’t read them I’d just have to mass delete.

I do when I get time. When I come on here I always forget to look at messages tbh. I just go on the forum x "

That makes sense. I’m just anal like that. I can’t bear having unread emails or notifications on my phone either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour

I couldn’t deal with that, it’d drive me crazy. Even if I didn’t read them I’d just have to mass delete.

I do when I get time. When I come on here I always forget to look at messages tbh. I just go on the forum x

That makes sense. I’m just anal like that. I can’t bear having unread emails or notifications on my phone either! "

God my phone would give you palpitations!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It's not particularly tidy currently, I've quite a few messages to get through. I need to up my filters probably and remove myself off the LF searches.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

I'm giving away secrets here but, I wait for the sender to go off line then delete

Don't read if no pic...

Or I see a cock smiling at me...

Usually wait til next morning then block delete....

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour

I couldn’t deal with that, it’d drive me crazy. Even if I didn’t read them I’d just have to mass delete.

I do when I get time. When I come on here I always forget to look at messages tbh. I just go on the forums

That makes sense. I’m just anal like that. I can’t bear having unread emails or notifications on my phone either!

God my phone would give you palpitations! "

Wow that's why you not sent face picture lol.

Mine is busy today with face picture swop thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour

I couldn’t deal with that, it’d drive me crazy. Even if I didn’t read them I’d just have to mass delete.

I do when I get time. When I come on here I always forget to look at messages tbh. I just go on the forums

That makes sense. I’m just anal like that. I can’t bear having unread emails or notifications on my phone either!

God my phone would give you palpitations!

Wow that's why you not sent face picture lol.

Mine is busy today with face picture swop thread. "

I’ve sent loads. I’ve been on and off as I’m working too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 400 unread. It’s a very yellow colour

I couldn’t deal with that, it’d drive me crazy. Even if I didn’t read them I’d just have to mass delete.

I do when I get time. When I come on here I always forget to look at messages tbh. I just go on the forum x

That makes sense. I’m just anal like that. I can’t bear having unread emails or notifications on my phone either!

God my phone would give you palpitations! "

I don’t doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete nearly straight away. I’m very much a ‘type A’ and can’t abide messy anything! Some take offence that I delete but they really shouldn’t, it’s just my OCD.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling


"I delete nearly straight away. I’m very much a ‘type A’ and can’t abide messy anything! Some take offence that I delete but they really shouldn’t, it’s just my OCD."

That's partially where my question came from. I've noticed this, and while I don't have an issue at all, the conversation will be strong and keep going but now and again when I check sent messages (usually to delete) I noticed they will have deleted the other end. And then I'm left confused how interested in the convo they are haha.

Obviously not a big deal but still makes me think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete nearly straight away. I’m very much a ‘type A’ and can’t abide messy anything! Some take offence that I delete but they really shouldn’t, it’s just my OCD.

That's partially where my question came from. I've noticed this, and while I don't have an issue at all, the conversation will be strong and keep going but now and again when I check sent messages (usually to delete) I noticed they will have deleted the other end. And then I'm left confused how interested in the convo they are haha.

Obviously not a big deal but still makes me think. "

Haha was it me?? If so, I do apologise!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I regularly delete but will save some I know there will be further conversation with

This is generally me. Though with the added wait time to see how much of a conversation will unfold further. "

Exactly

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Very tidy. I use my filters and reply as soon as practicable and then delete so messages aren’t hanging around festering up my box.

I don’t get many messages a day so it’s not hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have any of those messaging problems. Thank heaven's.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling


"I delete nearly straight away. I’m very much a ‘type A’ and can’t abide messy anything! Some take offence that I delete but they really shouldn’t, it’s just my OCD.

That's partially where my question came from. I've noticed this, and while I don't have an issue at all, the conversation will be strong and keep going but now and again when I check sent messages (usually to delete) I noticed they will have deleted the other end. And then I'm left confused how interested in the convo they are haha.

Obviously not a big deal but still makes me think.

Haha was it me?? If so, I do apologise!"

No! Seen lots do it haha I assume for similar reasons as you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hahahahahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaa

I'm a man. Is that a trick question?

Occasionally my inbox will fill a little if I'm saying something a lot of people feel the need to reply to me personally about.

Otherwise its relatively empty. 1-2 a day. 1-2 new people a week. My other Social Media pages are busier, rarely look at my emails as it's all junk.

I don't like ignoring people, so I usually clear it up quite quickly.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling


"I don't like ignoring people, so I usually clear it up quite quickly."

Same. Though from time to time messages get delayed or slip through like today with the face threads.

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