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"Everything will get clearer once you fuck your first ass " | |||
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"Me neither. I understand men much more. I often think I should have been a bloke. Women baffle me!" Both genders are just as confusing. People, use your words. Be clear. | |||
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"Everything will get clearer once you fuck your first ass " Are you volunteering ?? | |||
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"Everything will get clearer once you fuck your first ass Are you volunteering ?? " Can't your cock is too big dude | |||
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"Everything will get clearer once you fuck your first ass Are you volunteering ?? Can't your cock is too big dude " How to make a guy happy and sad all in one sentence. | |||
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"Everything will get clearer once you fuck your first ass Are you volunteering ?? Can't your cock is too big dude How to make a guy happy and sad all in one sentence. " I sure know how to talk to men | |||
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"I don't... is there a secret code I'm not priviledged to. Don't be pushy... Like to get to know you... I need a connection... Its not all about looks... So you message non pushy exchange pictures yep all good message a bit more to build a rappor and a connection .. .... it seems you have no interest .. Ladies please explain the code to me.. Confused.com.. I think I'll turn ghhey blokes seem less complicated. " What did you expect? Not all men will automatically like a woman who does everything right, either. There is also attraction. Or not. | |||
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"I also wonder... If you had not been told not to be pushy, would you be pushy? Do you really need to be told all those things? " Those things were in the ladies profile, why I thought we might get on.. I'm pretty sure any ladies I've messaged or chatted to will confirm I don't need to be told those things. | |||
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"Rapport seems to mean different thing to different people. A sweeping generalisation is that most guys seem to think a few short messages about the weather, what you like for breakfast (possibly with euphemisms) and if you've had 'any fun lately' constitutes a rapport.... It's not... That's exchanging pleasantries. A rapport is when someone has really engaged your mind, has drawn you deep into conversation, and you smile with anticipation when you see a message from them, because they stand out from the crowd. The conversation flows, and you never have to think about what you will write in response... It just comes naturally. Real responses... An indepth conversation... Not 'haha', 'lol' or a few emojis... That's a rapport.... That's a connection.... Know the difference and it's no longer a mystery " And post of the thread so far prize goes to....Kathleen Turner | |||
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"Not looking to play really, more about ego boosting. " Me too | |||
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"Chocolate cake seems to help sometimes .. they're not as eager to rip your head off if there's cake." Chocolate cake is my least favourite you see women like different things | |||
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"Rapport seems to mean different thing to different people. A sweeping generalisation is that most guys seem to think a few short messages about the weather, what you like for breakfast (possibly with euphemisms) and if you've had 'any fun lately' constitutes a rapport.... It's not... That's exchanging pleasantries. A rapport is when someone has really engaged your mind, has drawn you deep into conversation, and you smile with anticipation when you see a message from them, because they stand out from the crowd. The conversation flows, and you never have to think about what you will write in response... It just comes naturally. Real responses... An indepth conversation... Not 'haha', 'lol' or a few emojis... That's a rapport.... That's a connection.... Know the difference and it's no longer a mystery " Oh heck yeah! Hi How are you Nice weather I want to sink my hairy cheesy dick deep into your minge you horny slut | |||
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"Just because you can follow rules doesn't mean there will be an attraction. The fact she said looks aren't important means she has been judging you on personality which is why it's taken a few messages to decide you're not for her. " Yes. Not respecting my rules = get nowhere. After that, it's about I as an individual react to you as an individual. I don't think that's a man/woman thing. You might not like my nose. I might not like your eyebrows. Not personal. | |||
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"I don't... is there a secret code I'm not priviledged to. Don't be pushy... Like to get to know you... I need a connection... Its not all about looks... So you message non pushy exchange pictures yep all good message a bit more to build a rappor and a connection .. .... it seems you have no interest .. Ladies please explain the code to me.. Confused.com.. I think I'll turn ghhey blokes seem less complicated. " Do it you may enjoy it! | |||
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"Everything will get clearer once you fuck your first ass " | |||
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"I don't... is there a secret code I'm not priviledged to. Don't be pushy... Like to get to know you... I need a connection... Its not all about looks... So you message non pushy exchange pictures yep all good message a bit more to build a rappor and a connection .. .... it seems you have no interest .. Ladies please explain the code to me.. Confused.com.. I think I'll turn ghhey blokes seem less complicated. " too much choice is your main combatant you may be chatting to 4 or 5 women but they can be chatting to many more men and women one wrong word and you're filtered lol | |||
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"I don't... is there a secret code I'm not priviledged to. Don't be pushy... Like to get to know you... I need a connection... Its not all about looks... So you message non pushy exchange pictures yep all good message a bit more to build a rappor and a connection .. .... it seems you have no interest .. Ladies please explain the code to me.. Confused.com.. I think I'll turn ghhey blokes seem less complicated. Do it you may enjoy it!" I thought I had a volunteer... Apparently my cock is too big... he made me happy and sad in one sentence | |||
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"I don't... is there a secret code I'm not priviledged to. Don't be pushy... Like to get to know you... I need a connection... Its not all about looks... So you message non pushy exchange pictures yep all good message a bit more to build a rappor and a connection .. .... it seems you have no interest .. Ladies please explain the code to me.. Confused.com.. I think I'll turn ghhey blokes seem less complicated. Do it you may enjoy it! I thought I had a volunteer... Apparently my cock is too big... he made me happy and sad in one sentence" It was probably a woman.. Timewasters | |||
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"Soooo funny. I’ve been chatting to a newbie. It was going well. I kept asking, have you read my profile.... Yes he says. Tells me all the things he’d like to do to me. I listen patiently... Finally he asks, anything you’d like to do to me? So I tell him... Blocked me. It’s not just guys who get blocked. I’m really ready to put the anti-newbie filter on...." Did you tell him how you wanted to peg him whilst he wore his Ann summers knickers? | |||
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"Soooo funny. I’ve been chatting to a newbie. It was going well. I kept asking, have you read my profile.... Yes he says. Tells me all the things he’d like to do to me. I listen patiently... Finally he asks, anything you’d like to do to me? So I tell him... Blocked me. It’s not just guys who get blocked. I’m really ready to put the anti-newbie filter on...." you told him you wanted to pluck his eyebrows and make him up didn't you? | |||
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"Soooo funny. I’ve been chatting to a newbie. It was going well. I kept asking, have you read my profile.... Yes he says. Tells me all the things he’d like to do to me. I listen patiently... Finally he asks, anything you’d like to do to me? So I tell him... Blocked me. It’s not just guys who get blocked. I’m really ready to put the anti-newbie filter on....you told him you wanted to pluck his eyebrows and make him up didn't you? " Shhh. That was a special I did just for you | |||
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"Soooo funny. I’ve been chatting to a newbie. It was going well. I kept asking, have you read my profile.... Yes he says. Tells me all the things he’d like to do to me. I listen patiently... Finally he asks, anything you’d like to do to me? So I tell him... Blocked me. It’s not just guys who get blocked. I’m really ready to put the anti-newbie filter on....you told him you wanted to pluck his eyebrows and make him up didn't you? Shhh. That was a special I did just for you " I did like that eyeliner was it Rimmel? | |||
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"You don't need to understand all women you just need to understand individuals. Just like women only need to understand individual men. " Simply put and very well said. | |||
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"Yeah ive had comnents like.. Why do you leave the toilet seat up Where's the biscuits gone Whys my dildo covered in wet paint " | |||
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"What is so hard to understand? They are same as men. Maybd its other people in general that you don't get? Which is normal.. there are a trillion different variations of us walking around.. all unique." Well said. | |||
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"What is so hard to understand? They are same as men. Maybd its other people in general that you don't get? Which is normal.. there are a trillion different variations of us walking around.. all unique." . . I'm not | |||
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"Rapport seems to mean different thing to different people. A sweeping generalisation is that most guys seem to think a few short messages about the weather, what you like for breakfast (possibly with euphemisms) and if you've had 'any fun lately' constitutes a rapport.... It's not... That's exchanging pleasantries. A rapport is when someone has really engaged your mind, has drawn you deep into conversation, and you smile with anticipation when you see a message from them, because they stand out from the crowd. The conversation flows, and you never have to think about what you will write in response... It just comes naturally. Real responses... An indepth conversation... Not 'haha', 'lol' or a few emojis... That's a rapport.... That's a connection.... Know the difference and it's no longer a mystery " Exactly!!!It seems like many of us ladies think like you If somebody can't engage my mind I seriously prefer staying at home playing with my toys | |||
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"Rapport seems to mean different thing to different people. A sweeping generalisation is that most guys seem to think a few short messages about the weather, what you like for breakfast (possibly with euphemisms) and if you've had 'any fun lately' constitutes a rapport.... It's not... That's exchanging pleasantries. A rapport is when someone has really engaged your mind, has drawn you deep into conversation, and you smile with anticipation when you see a message from them, because they stand out from the crowd. The conversation flows, and you never have to think about what you will write in response... It just comes naturally. Real responses... An indepth conversation... Not 'haha', 'lol' or a few emojis... That's a rapport.... That's a connection.... Know the difference and it's no longer a mystery Exactly!!!It seems like many of us ladies think like you If somebody can't engage my mind I seriously prefer staying at home playing with my toys " Yep same I know if I'm going to have fun with someone and get naked I want to be able to enjoy myself and between the hot mindblowing sex we can chat and have a laugh | |||
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"This is why I'm bi instead of a lesbian. Too many hormones " Greedy | |||
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"Nah they all think there something special and believe they deserve anything they want. All on a high horse and when they don't get what they want.. my god you'll be the worst man alive! Crazy bitches " ...aaand 'block'. These threads sure can prove useful sometimes | |||
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"Nah they all think there something special and believe they deserve anything they want. All on a high horse and when they don't get what they want.. my god you'll be the worst man alive! Crazy bitches ...aaand 'block'. These threads sure can prove useful sometimes " They sure do | |||
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"Nah they all think there something special and believe they deserve anything they want. All on a high horse and when they don't get what they want.. my god you'll be the worst man alive! Crazy bitches " Is there irony in there somewhere? | |||
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"Women never mean what they say. Life tip, not just for here." Yes, when we ask does my bum look big in this? We don’t always want the honest answer. (Btw I know my bum is big anyway) | |||
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"I don't... is there a secret code I'm not priviledged to. Don't be pushy... Like to get to know you... I need a connection... Its not all about looks... So you message non pushy exchange pictures yep all good message a bit more to build a rappor and a connection .. .... it seems you have no interest .. Ladies please explain the code to me.. Confused.com.. I think I'll turn ghhey blokes seem less complicated. " As someone stated earlier it's more to do with the volume of men that message them. Had it loads of times when you are messaging and then all of a sudden they go quiet. Doesn't mean you've done anything wrong just that their attention has been shifted onto someone else. Also why you can put effort into messages then get a two word reply: They are talking to 10 men and don't have time to message anything meaningful. | |||
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"Bitches be cray! " I'm getting this as a bumper sticker | |||
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"I don't... is there a secret code I'm not priviledged to. Don't be pushy... Like to get to know you... I need a connection... Its not all about looks... So you message non pushy exchange pictures yep all good message a bit more to build a rappor and a connection .. .... it seems you have no interest .. Ladies please explain the code to me.. Confused.com.. I think I'll turn ghhey blokes seem less complicated. As someone stated earlier it's more to do with the volume of men that message them. Had it loads of times when you are messaging and then all of a sudden they go quiet. Doesn't mean you've done anything wrong just that their attention has been shifted onto someone else. Also why you can put effort into messages then get a two word reply: They are talking to 10 men and don't have time to message anything meaningful." Thats almost to say we have no attention span and our heads are just turned at every new pretty thing. If someone attracts my attention I am perfectly capabale of focusing on them and building on that. Key words again being attraction | |||
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"I don't... is there a secret code I'm not priviledged to. Don't be pushy... Like to get to know you... I need a connection... Its not all about looks... So you message non pushy exchange pictures yep all good message a bit more to build a rappor and a connection .. .... it seems you have no interest .. Ladies please explain the code to me.. Confused.com.. I think I'll turn ghhey blokes seem less complicated. As someone stated earlier it's more to do with the volume of men that message them. Had it loads of times when you are messaging and then all of a sudden they go quiet. Doesn't mean you've done anything wrong just that their attention has been shifted onto someone else. Also why you can put effort into messages then get a two word reply: They are talking to 10 men and don't have time to message anything meaningful. Thats almost to say we have no attention span and our heads are just turned at every new pretty thing. If someone attracts my attention I am perfectly capabale of focusing on them and building on that. Key words again being attraction " More hedging your bets than attention. As someone stated earlier, one slightly less interesting message from the man you are talking to gives the other 50 the opportunity to step up. | |||
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"Nah they all think there something special and believe they deserve anything they want. All on a high horse and when they don't get what they want.. my god you'll be the worst man alive! Crazy bitches " That sounds more like a lot of the men that message me and a lot of the ones that post in my local updates. | |||
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"I don't... is there a secret code I'm not priviledged to. Don't be pushy... Like to get to know you... I need a connection... Its not all about looks... So you message non pushy exchange pictures yep all good message a bit more to build a rappor and a connection .. .... it seems you have no interest .. Ladies please explain the code to me.. Confused.com.. I think I'll turn ghhey blokes seem less complicated. As someone stated earlier it's more to do with the volume of men that message them. Had it loads of times when you are messaging and then all of a sudden they go quiet. Doesn't mean you've done anything wrong just that their attention has been shifted onto someone else. Also why you can put effort into messages then get a two word reply: They are talking to 10 men and don't have time to message anything meaningful. Thats almost to say we have no attention span and our heads are just turned at every new pretty thing. If someone attracts my attention I am perfectly capabale of focusing on them and building on that. Key words again being attraction " yes obviously what you're saying is true for you but out of the people you chat to you will have favourites so you could be chatting away to guys or women if that's your bag then one of your favs turns up and you're gone all concentration on him, the same thing can be applied to the forums all attention shifts to the hottie that enters the thread, so if it's a woman the guys are all over her comments like nothing she can say is wrong and if it's a guy almost always it's his humour that's talked about | |||
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"I don't... is there a secret code I'm not priviledged to. Don't be pushy... Like to get to know you... I need a connection... Its not all about looks... So you message non pushy exchange pictures yep all good message a bit more to build a rappor and a connection .. .... it seems you have no interest .. Ladies please explain the code to me.. Confused.com.. I think I'll turn ghhey blokes seem less complicated. " Honestly I find most rather simple to fathom Normally I find if they like you and find you attractive they will want to chat and ease themselves into your pants and if they dont the wont ????? | |||
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"Bitches be cray! I'm getting this as a bumper sticker" . would you like to buy a lobster pot ? | |||
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"As someone stated earlier it's more to do with the volume of men that message them. Had it loads of times when you are messaging and then all of a sudden they go quiet. Doesn't mean you've done anything wrong just that their attention has been shifted onto someone else. Also why you can put effort into messages then get a two word reply: They are talking to 10 men and don't have time to message anything meaningful. Thats almost to say we have no attention span and our heads are just turned at every new pretty thing. If someone attracts my attention I am perfectly capabale of focusing on them and building on that. Key words again being attraction More hedging your bets than attention. As someone stated earlier, one slightly less interesting message from the man you are talking to gives the other 50 the opportunity to step up. " I think to say that women are hedging their bets is somewhat wide of the mark to be honest, not to mention a tad insulting - the good ladies of Fab are, for the most part, here for the same things that us men are, they look for attraction and connection, respect and consideration, just the same as we do - yes they may be chatting to others, that's the nature of the site but to expect them to give complete attention to you, is somewhat naive (and I'm talking generally here not aiming at any specific person). I chat to quite a few people (men and women), some of whom it's a constant ebb and flow of messages, some it's an occasional burst that comes to a natural conclusion until the next time, some it'll be a quick and lengthy catch up every now and then - at no point do I have any expectation around anything, including whether they'll reply or not. I guess it all comes down to whether your only reason for talking to others is with the ultimate endgame of meeting them to have sex in mind, or whether you just see it as chatting to them and seeing where those conversations lead but without necessarily seeing a meet as the aim. Personally I fall into the latter camp and find it serves me well to think that way, and hasn't hindered me in any way. Sure there are times when I might wonder why someone hasn't replied, but then remember they have lives they live, or that perhaps they weren't as invested in the conversation as I was, or any other number of reasons they may not have replied - ultimately if they don't then it really is no big deal just means the conversation has come to an end, and may or may not resume in the future. | |||
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"Don’t think there is a secret code. We are all different. I get bored easily so if you’ve not grabbed my attention quickly, I’m off. Trouble is, I can’t even tell you how to get my attention as it differs all the time. " Exactly lol, I only know it when I feel it! | |||
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