FabSwingers.com forum: Why do men bite?

By *ightkitty4u OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

Last night meet up with a fwb, today I am covered in bruises and have a massive bite mark in the middle of my shoulder blades...

Slapping of the boobs, tugging of the nipples and spanking I totally get, but to actually bite me... Do not understand the logic behind that, its in a random place too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t it be better to ask the man in question ?

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Oooh I love been bitten and inbetween the shoulder blades sounds so sexy as as if he was kissing and biting you across the back... Maybe just ask if he can be a bit more gentle if its too hard..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just men who bite

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By *ondonFreakMan
over a year ago

London

Yeah, sounds pretty specific to him, rather than being "men" in general..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a gremlin? Dont feed after midnight?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Last night meet up with a fwb, today I am covered in bruises and have a massive bite mark in the middle of my shoulder blades...

Slapping of the boobs, tugging of the nipples and spanking I totally get, but to actually bite me... Do not understand the logic behind that, its in a random place too

Did you bring it up with him after ?????

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It can be hot. But ffs you ask first.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

It's very easy to bite and not mark, but give the same effect. But that's a skill learned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we supposed to ask where ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same reason women bite too I suppose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last night meet up with a fwb, today I am covered in bruises and have a massive bite mark in the middle of my shoulder blades...

Slapping of the boobs, tugging of the nipples and spanking I totally get, but to actually bite me... Do not understand the logic behind that, its in a random place too

Surely its best to ask him ? If you dont like it then why let him ?

Personally if any guy slapped my boobs, tugged my nipples, spanked me or bit me he would be on his way out the door asap lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if he's your fwb you would have discussed boundaries before hand?!

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By *ightkitty4u OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

No I didn't ask him, will do though.

He is good, if I ask him to stop or be more gentle etc he obliges. He did put arnica on my bruises this morning and it is all consensual

Just wondered if it was a kink or had some logic behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last night meet up with a fwb, today I am covered in bruises and have a massive bite mark in the middle of my shoulder blades...

Slapping of the boobs, tugging of the nipples and spanking I totally get, but to actually bite me... Do not understand the logic behind that, its in a random place too

Was he wearing a Barcelona shirt by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slapping of boobs?

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By *ightkitty4u OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

He knows my boundaries and pushes them, which I like as I will never push them. If I say stop etc he obliges as anyone should so there is no issues there

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I nibble, never bitten anyone.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

The Kama sutra lists several types of bites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont meet hannibal then problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He knows my boundaries and pushes them, which I like as I will never push them. If I say stop etc he obliges as anyone should so there is no issues there "

He’s house trained then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He likes to mark his territory?

I don't know, ask him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aint just men i had one gal bite my cheek kissing me then my belly when she dropped to her knees i shit myself when she got my cock out

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

A way to a mans heart is through his stomach.. (I personally think thats about 3 inches too high).. maybe he was peckish.

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By *ightkitty4u OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

"Aint just men i had one gal bite my cheek kissing me then my belly when she dropped to her knees i shit myself when she got my cock out

even my eyes watered reading that...

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By *ightkitty4u OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

"He knows my boundaries and pushes them, which I like as I will never push them. If I say stop etc he obliges as anyone should so there is no issues there

He’s house trained then!

Off course, only took 3 years to get him trained up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby is a biter ...not too hard but enough to leave a mark. It turns me on so it’s not a problem to us

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey

"No I didn't ask him, will do though.

He is good, if I ask him to stop or be more gentle etc he obliges. He did put arnica on my bruises this morning and it is all consensual

Just wondered if it was a kink or had some logic behind it. "

Men don’t usually mean to harm, what we’re y doing to him at the time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last night meet up with a fwb, today I am covered in bruises and have a massive bite mark in the middle of my shoulder blades...

Slapping of the boobs, tugging of the nipples and spanking I totally get, but to actually bite me... Do not understand the logic behind that, its in a random place too

To show ownership

I hate bites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of men are naturally aggressive during sex. Slapping the backside and pulling hair etc. Generally quite inexperienced we find. Tend to find they’re the ones that aren’t getting any at all and single/divorced. We always discuss what we like prior to meeting and if they choose to get rough....they usually go home unable to speak or sit down for a few months

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I don't understand slapping tits personally. Biting I get. I love being bitten and biting. But slapping tits. Makes me cross my legs and wince!

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"Aint just men i had one gal bite my cheek kissing me then my belly when she dropped to her knees i shit myself when she got my cock out

did she bite it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marking his territory

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By *ightkitty4u OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

"No I didn't ask him, will do though.

He is good, if I ask him to stop or be more gentle etc he obliges. He did put arnica on my bruises this morning and it is all consensual

Just wondered if it was a kink or had some logic behind it.

Men don’t usually mean to harm, what we’re y doing to him at the time?"

Nothing... he was fucking me from behind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aint just men i had one gal bite my cheek kissing me then my belly when she dropped to her knees i shit myself when she got my cock out

did she bite it "
no thank the holy fuck another lass did but thats a whole nother story

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By *ightkitty4u OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

"Last night meet up with a fwb, today I am covered in bruises and have a massive bite mark in the middle of my shoulder blades...

Slapping of the boobs, tugging of the nipples and spanking I totally get, but to actually bite me... Do not understand the logic behind that, its in a random place too

To show ownership

I hate bites"

Hmm that is an interesting thought...

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Strangely I have never bitten anyone, nor have I any thoughts of doing so, am I odd ?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Last night meet up with a fwb, today I am covered in bruises and have a massive bite mark in the middle of my shoulder blades...

Slapping of the boobs, tugging of the nipples and spanking I totally get, but to actually bite me... Do not understand the logic behind that, its in a random place too

Most men don't.

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne

"Last night meet up with a fwb, today I am covered in bruises and have a massive bite mark in the middle of my shoulder blades...

Slapping of the boobs, tugging of the nipples and spanking I totally get, but to actually bite me... Do not understand the logic behind that, its in a random place too

I love being bitten

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I nibble, never bitten anyone."

I do like a nibble

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Bitten?

Lucky you.

I don't get bitten even when I insist them to bite. Hard !

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I don’t lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biting is very dangerous a rugby league player almost lost his arm after getting a tooth embedded in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Marking his territory

That was the wording lol

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

I do love a true biter who just do it

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I had an ex who did that. I didn't like it at all but never said anything.

These days I'd tell someone to quit it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hungry ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A previous fab meet left the biggest bite mark on my ribs.

I didn’t enjoy it at all. I couldn’t get out of the way quick enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to at least 15,000 profiles here, they don't

Unless asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heard of quite a lot of single women doing it to men. Apparently it’s a mark to make their life very difficult if the chap has a Mrs and not told them about her, what some people on here call cheaters. Sounds very vindictive and the person doing it must have serious anger and other emotional issues if that’s why they’re doing it. Weirdos!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"According to at least 15,000 profiles here, they don't

Unless asked

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm more of a nibbler than a biter tho I dont mind being bitten by the naughty ladies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like proper biting. Only time I’ve had that was from a woman! Had to tell her to stop. Had bruises all over me. Even my mouth!

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

I admit.. i am a biter.. and like passionate fun.. sometime ended with bites on both sides.. scratches in my back... sharp nails

... part of the game ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love biting and being bitten with the right person and believe me, there’s no need to leave marks. That’s just marking territory and is not acceptable unless you have agreed.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"A previous fab meet left the biggest bite mark on my ribs.

I didn’t enjoy it at all. I couldn’t get out of the way quick enough "

U should think positive at least it was your ribs and not something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Animal instinct?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah you fell for it.

you are marked.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like being bitten

He should have asked beforehand though

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Maybe he'd been watching Lions copulating on BBC 1 Serengeti

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so guilty of doing this and not asking first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do that after the application of some HP sauce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only bite the back or her neck as we do it lion style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this if I get carried away

I also quite like being nibbled

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I love biting and bein bitten. Something very animalistic and raw about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the urge to devour women sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last night meet up with a fwb, today I am covered in bruises and have a massive bite mark in the middle of my shoulder blades...

Slapping of the boobs, tugging of the nipples and spanking I totally get, but to actually bite me... Do not understand the logic behind that, its in a random place too

I’d bite your bum

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I had an ex girlfriend who used to bite me all over in bed, used to have little red perfect outlines of her teeth all over my neck, shoulders and stomach. I can't say I liked it if I'm honest, it hurt!

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I bite when I really enjoy what I do with the other participant. Obviously of late, I have had to curb the urge because not everyone enjoys displaying sex bites to colleagues at work...

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By *tarbuck007Man
over a year ago

up2no good

in one of my meets she liked her ass being bitten i didnt hesitate gently though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"in one of my meets she liked her ass being bitten i didnt hesitate gently though"

Yeah but that’s ok because she asked you to

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I quite like a good nip. It's not painful, it's a pleasurable different type of sensation for me. Heightens my sensitivity. Being marked though? Not cool, especially if not discussed before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was only me who liked biting.

I remember years ago, when I first got face to face with a booty, I felt this animal instinct urge to sink my teeth into it

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

It's quite a primal thing. Lots of mammals do it. I quite like it -both ways

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who else feels like sinking teeth into minge tonight

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Are we supposed to ask where ?"

Either Epsom, Bristol or somewhere in between would be my guess.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I love biting and bein bitten. Something very animalistic and raw about it"

Noted.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"It's not just men who bite

Zackly....s'fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fun

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

It's fun and or marking territory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pain from the bite whilst being fucked, makes the sex feel much more pleasurable.

The good ole pleasure and pain combo! Done right, can feel damn amazing!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm quite a nibbler and like to be nibbled during Sex.

It adds to the pleasure.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get out the water its jaws aaaaaaaaaaaagggggghhhhhh swim for it

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I only do that after the application of some HP sauce."

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By *ightkitty4u OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

"Are we supposed to ask where ?

Either Epsom, Bristol or somewhere in between would be my guess.

I see what you did there! Was N. London...

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I'm guilty of nipping a bit too hard in the throes. It feels like a better way to express the passion you're feeling, actions speaking louder than words. But I usually go for little test nibbles before going for anything serious.

Sharks do that because they don't have hands.

Ergo humans do it because their hands are busy.

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By *ightkitty4u OP Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

It’s quite amusing, told my bestie vanilla friend about sat nights antics. Showed her the photos, of said bite mark and other marks left...

Her response was... “is he some sort of animal”

I do love vanilla people and their innocence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to feed us first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe a gremlin? Dont feed after midnight?"
nothing to do with me

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Last night meet up with a fwb, today I am covered in bruises and have a massive bite mark in the middle of my shoulder blades...

Slapping of the boobs, tugging of the nipples and spanking I totally get, but to actually bite me... Do not understand the logic behind that, its in a random place too

I'm not into biting, especially when it's me being bitten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's an "all men" thing....I bite

and a lot of men don't.

Speak to him.

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Must admin I like it a little both ways but more of a hard suck than actual bite. Can be really erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you not like being bitten?

Maybe make him aware.. i never knew I liked it but now am pretty disappointed if I don’t come away with plenty of bruises to find hahah

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