FabSwingers.com forum: Just one Reply !!!

By *oxlad OP Man
over a year ago

WORKSOP

I would just like to have a little fun with one woman! I don’t want to meet all on the site!

However what am I doing wrong, as I hardly receive any replies ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno tell us what your doing first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not having a profile pic can be an instant no for people

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

The first impressions syart with your profile. Is it interesting and appealing?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You don't even have an avatar, start doing some research, look at successful guys on here and why they and their profiles stand out.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Profile

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I would just like to have a little fun with one woman! I don’t want to meet all on the site!

However what am I doing wrong, as I hardly receive any replies ?"

Getting arsey on a forum post is a sure fire winner, you'll be balls deep in no time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way you present yourself matters

Words matter

Real words, not catchphrases and soundbites

Readers want to know a bit about you

Interest them

Engage them

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By *oxlad OP Man
over a year ago

WORKSOP

Thanks, I can pick some positives out of the replies!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Profile pic.....shady man dsnt do it for most....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is almost exactly the same, word for word, as most blokes who reckon they have made an effort with their profile, no avatar either...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Thanks, I can pick some positives out of the replies!

Actions speak louder than words. Unless you’re blind. Then words speak louder than actions.

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By *oxlad OP Man
over a year ago

WORKSOP

I see your point!

Not that interesting is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks, I can pick some positives out of the replies!

Actions speak louder than words. Unless you’re blind. Then words speak louder than actions. "

Unless it's deaf/blind signing

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I see your point!

Not that interesting is it?"

Much better......nice torso

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By *oxlad OP Man
over a year ago

WORKSOP

"I see your point!

Not that interesting is it?

Much better......nice torso "

Many thanks

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I would just like to have a little fun with one woman! I don’t want to meet all on the site!

However what am I doing wrong, as I hardly receive any replies ?"

Depends on what your opening message or contact is, us fellow fabbers can critique your profile as much as you like, but until we know what message you send first, we really can't get the FULL picture.

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By *oxlad OP Man
over a year ago

WORKSOP

I use ask if the person is alright.?

Probably the wrong opening line.

However I don't want to be pushy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use ask if the person is alright.?

Probably the wrong opening line.

However I don't want to be pushy!"

That would probably be an instant delete for a fair few

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I use ask if the person is alright.?

Probably the wrong opening line.

However I don't want to be pushy!"

Join in the forum's that usually gets people chatting.....saves the angst over the first msg.....

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By *oxlad OP Man
over a year ago

WORKSOP

That sounds like a good idea!

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By *oxlad OP Man
over a year ago

WORKSOP

"I use ask if the person is alright.?

Probably the wrong opening line.

However I don't want to be pushy!

That would probably be an instant delete for a fair few"

It usually is!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"That sounds like a good idea!

Yeh you caught me on a good day , good luck Op

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