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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Real life friends.

Do you have many that you can never have enough time to spend time with

A few in your inner circle that you share everything with

Or a loner with very few.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a inner circle that we all see each other a few times a month and share everything

One best friend who isnt in the uk, i see few times a year and FaceTime and skype alot

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have a couple of very close friends. Don't see each other often but when we do it just picks up from where we left off and I know if I need them, or they me, all it takes is a call x

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I've learnt since my seperation I have very few friends that have actually bothered with me.. I have one true friend who has been there who knows everything including about fab... I do have other friends who I see and have also made some new friends too who I hope will stay friends x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have 6 best friends who weve been friends for 32 years and been through everything together. My other friends i dont see as often but still friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt since my seperation I have very few friends that have actually bothered with me.. I have one true friend who has been there who knows everything including about fab... I do have other friends who I see and have also made some new friends too who I hope will stay friends x"

Exactly ........ since I was widowed it becomes apparent who walks the walk and talks the talk, I am lucky to have a few close friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a small circle of three really good friends and one best friend who I spend as much time as I can with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 3 very best friends who luckily all live within 1 minute of me.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I have a few close friends, one i've known since we where both 4yr old . Dozens of loose friends and associates though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt since my seperation I have very few friends that have actually bothered with me.. I have one true friend who has been there who knows everything including about fab... I do have other friends who I see and have also made some new friends too who I hope will stay friends x

Exactly ........ since I was widowed it becomes apparent who walks the walk and talks the talk, I am lucky to have a few close friends "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt since my seperation I have very few friends that have actually bothered with me.. I have one true friend who has been there who knows everything including about fab... I do have other friends who I see and have also made some new friends too who I hope will stay friends x"

I have a similar situation

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Currently none. No close friends at all anymore.

It would be a push to say I have friends, however I have a lot of acquaintances and a select few I enjoy their company in small bursts, even fewer who are potential for promotion to "friend"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i have acquaintances i have no time for friends

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"Currently none. No close friends at all anymore.

It would be a push to say I have friends, however I have a lot of acquaintances and a select few I enjoy their company in small bursts, even fewer who are potential for promotion to "friend" "

You've got friends on here mate

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I have probably 4 real, close friends. One of whom I share everything with, she's suck an incredible friend and I consider myself blessed to have her.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own


"I have probably 4 real, close friends. One of whom I share everything with, she's suck an incredible friend and I consider myself blessed to have her."

Such* bastard phone

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I've learnt since my seperation I have very few friends that have actually bothered with me.. I have one true friend who has been there who knows everything including about fab... I do have other friends who I see and have also made some new friends too who I hope will stay friends x

I'm sorry to hear that... But as we say on fab it's not the quantity... I'm happy you have a few good friends. people are not good with bereavement unfortunately.. Hugs xx

Exactly ........ since I was widowed it becomes apparent who walks the walk and talks the talk, I am lucky to have a few close friends "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH is my best friend.

I also have a handful of very close friends, some who live closer than others, I speak to them all regularly and see those I can as often as I can.

Then I have a few mates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt since my seperation I have very few friends that have actually bothered with me.. I have one true friend who has been there who knows everything including about fab... I do have other friends who I see and have also made some new friends too who I hope will stay friends x"

You’ve got one right here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt since my seperation I have very few friends that have actually bothered with me.. I have one true friend who has been there who knows everything including about fab... I do have other friends who I see and have also made some new friends too who I hope will stay friends x"

Their loss sweetie!

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I've learnt since my seperation I have very few friends that have actually bothered with me.. I have one true friend who has been there who knows everything including about fab... I do have other friends who I see and have also made some new friends too who I hope will stay friends x

You’ve got one right here "

Your the new friend I was talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 5 girl best friends. We are tight as anything. Very lucky and don’t know where I’d be without them. Lots of other friends too but those is trust with my life. And 2 male very very good friends too (one is my ex)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt since my seperation I have very few friends that have actually bothered with me.. I have one true friend who has been there who knows everything including about fab... I do have other friends who I see and have also made some new friends too who I hope will stay friends x

You’ve got one right here

Your the new friend I was talking about "

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I've learnt since my seperation I have very few friends that have actually bothered with me.. I have one true friend who has been there who knows everything including about fab... I do have other friends who I see and have also made some new friends too who I hope will stay friends x

Their loss sweetie! "

Thank you, that's lovely of you to say so. It did hurt can't deny it.. But that's life xx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I can count my close friends on one hand and I've always thought that was a bit sad but reading this has made me realise it's normal!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had loads of friends then I suffered bereavement and had to move away. Very few put the effort in.

I have some wonderful friends I met through fab. Some are not even on it now yet we have maintained our friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i have acquaintances i have no time for friends "
in real life that is online friends thats a different story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have friends. Sometimes its awesome not to have any. Then sometimes I get lonely and wish I had some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know lots of people but I only class 4 people as my actual friends. I’ve known them all since school/college. We don’t see each other often but when we do it’s that instant thing of being able to do and say anything without them looking at you like you’re an absolute dick.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don’t have the close friends I used to have, some of that is due to me and some due to them having different interests now, c’est la vie

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I am not sure I really have "friends" as such, I spent most of my life working abroad and then settled in a quiet little village in Devon.

I have colleagues which have become kind of friends but I work short contracts so that doesn't tend to last. If people from my past contact me seeking help, I am happy to assist. But I don't have anyone to call on. That's my personality I guess (or lack of)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No i have acquaintances i have no time for friends in real life that is online friends thats a different story"

Dont get me started in acquaintances lol

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I find myself loner with very few close friends that live near me, most of them are back in my home town.I have made a few friends at work but not really close ones. Since my divorce I am very much on my own. Always looking for new people to chat too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One close friend I don’t see him often enough though and lots of acquaintances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many good acquaintances a handful of close friends

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve got the same friends I’ve had for over 30 years. Some I see now and again. Some I see once a year.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We was on about it at work yesterday. Its a good question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is Andy, Steven, Michael, Ian, Matthew and Chantelle

In terms of people that know me inside out, that's it

Everyone else is incidental at this point

I am not a particularly social person

I prefer days out to nights out

It's almost 15 years since I was any where near pissed

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By *ornycouple485Couple
over a year ago

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I have 1 very close I see a few times a year, the rest fucked off when I got pregnant young.. I'm awful at making new friends lol

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

My brothers and nephews are my best friends. I have a couple of close childhood friends.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I think the term friend is used to lightly in these Facebook days.

A girl who goes to our local is always claiming she has something like 1800 Facebook friends.

I bet her £100 if she could get 1% of those to come to the pub and pick her up if she put a status on Facebook that she needed help.

The £100 winnings paid for a curry for 5 of us

I don't need hundreds of friends but those I have I would trust with my life.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I am blessed in the friends department which is just as well since I am shit in the romance Department

I have so many different groups of friends who have been so supportive of me since I separated 8 years ago and they encourage me in everything I do.

Some are friends for over 40 year, some from school, work colleagues who are now friends, parents of my children’s friends and so on. Many a time I would have been feeling down and could message one of them and within an hour I was out enjoying myself. I value friendship as it got me through so much and I like to think I gave support to them when needed too

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t have any close friends.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

I have one true friend......no-one else I would trust, as they say knowledge is power.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently none. No close friends at all anymore.

It would be a push to say I have friends, however I have a lot of acquaintances and a select few I enjoy their company in small bursts, even fewer who are potential for promotion to "friend" "

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My closest friends are people I've know through fab, some I've never met.

My best female friend I've met 3 times in real life but we have spoken every day for over 2 years now.

I work unsociable hours and the only people I know where I live are.those I work with and fabsters I've met

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Only got 1 real friend and I married her 34 yrs ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only got 1 real friend and I married her 34 yrs ago. "

That’s lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't have any apart from my dog.Am boring I try not to integrate with humans or get to close to em incase they turn out to be nutters ,Apart from that am all chummy with chummy people.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I have a few circle of friends that I’ve collected over the years. My closest are my primary school friends and they know most about me. Others know aspects of me but don’t see them as often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You find out who are your true friends and there for you when things go tits up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my friends begin online and become real. Some live far and we speak almost daily on the phone, some a bit closer and we go months but pick back up again. I am friendly with most, but selective with friendships. I always think of them in tiers. Far more consider me their best friend than I consider my best friends.

Now I live rurally I see almost no one and rely on my online friendships to keep me sane and communicating with other humans.

(Mrs Cagey)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 5 besties who I see lots. We are all close and there for each other. I also have friends from various groups I'm in. Being married, I have lots of friends in couples who my hubby and I socialise with. I have a few Fab friends too. I'm doing okay

Oh and my very very special friend is my beautiful dog

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Since I split with my ex it made things rather awkward within my social circle. I found out who were my real friends actually are.

Most of my friends have all settled down with partners kids and mortgages. Seems that people these days are rather busy with very little free time...

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