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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On the back of the constant why can't I get a meet threads. Here is some theory!

This site ends up being the landing page for horny men after they have seen a link while watching porn.

Was it the hot young women or horny milfs in your area want to meet you that drew you in? Or was it watching an orgy and thinking you are a stud?

Regardless, you're now here and horny. Initially you're excited by limitless possibilities.

Then reality starts to kick in a touch and you realise it's not instashag.

At this point you might change your approach and start aiming for a social meet (after all who could resist your charm etc) however even that proves difficult.

Frustration kicks in and suddenly your cock takes over and you adopt the there must be someone up for a shag approach (this is where I'm usually emailed and looked upon as some sort of free escort.

I mean I've got my tits out I must be up for it...

That doesn't work either so you jump on the forums and plead pussy poverty.

Some will perhaps feel your pain, others will give helpful tips, others will just roll their eyes "another one"

You might refresh your profile or add another photo.

Either way the offers aren't flooding in and making any real effort seems pointless because A, your hardon and ego is deflating and B it's easier on other sites or down the pub.

You log out or delete the profile thinking we are all stuck up anyway.

In 3 or 6 months time the circle of fab begins again...

Am I correct in any of this?

Anyone want to add anything to my theory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

In 3 or 6 months time the circle of fab begins again...

"

Sometimes people even create a new profile minutes after they deleted it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

On the back of the constant why can't I get a meet threads. Here is some theory!

This site ends up being the landing page for horny men after they have seen a link while watching porn.

Was it the hot young women or horny milfs in your area want to meet you that drew you in? Or was it watching an orgy and thinking you are a stud?

Regardless, you're now here and horny. Initially you're excited by limitless possibilities.

Then reality starts to kick in a touch and you realise it's not instashag.

At this point you might change your approach and start aiming for a social meet (after all who could resist your charm etc) however even that proves difficult.

Frustration kicks in and suddenly your cock takes over and you adopt the there must be someone up for a shag approach (this is where I'm usually emailed and looked upon as some sort of free escort.

I mean I've got my tits out I must be up for it...

That doesn't work either so you jump on the forums and plead pussy poverty.

Some will perhaps feel your pain, others will give helpful tips, others will just roll their eyes "another one"

You might refresh your profile or add another photo.

Either way the offers aren't flooding in and making any real effort seems pointless because A, your hardon and ego is deflating and B it's easier on other sites or down the pub.

You log out or delete the profile thinking we are all stuck up anyway.

In 3 or 6 months time the circle of fab begins again...

Am I correct in any of this?

Anyone want to add anything to my theory? "

Wow that's brilliant pmsl, going to enjoy this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined to get a shag and got one then left cos i found it cold then returned to go on forum and anoy people on boring days then got shagged many times without chasing it my theory is some guys have it and know how to get what they want some dont and will witter about it

Survival of the fittest

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Thats so true some people have few profiles.....keep your head up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hakuna matata

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

I’m looking to meet someone who’s as up front about their sexual desires the same as me

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Even that is hard work either your too forward or too laid back cant win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even that is hard work either your too forward or too laid back cant win"
i always win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

On the back of the constant why can't I get a meet threads. Here is some theory!

This site ends up being the landing page for horny men after they have seen a link while watching porn.

Was it the hot young women or horny milfs in your area want to meet you that drew you in? Or was it watching an orgy and thinking you are a stud?

Regardless, you're now here and horny. Initially you're excited by limitless possibilities.

Then reality starts to kick in a touch and you realise it's not instashag.

At this point you might change your approach and start aiming for a social meet (after all who could resist your charm etc) however even that proves difficult.

Frustration kicks in and suddenly your cock takes over and you adopt the there must be someone up for a shag approach (this is where I'm usually emailed and looked upon as some sort of free escort.

I mean I've got my tits out I must be up for it...

That doesn't work either so you jump on the forums and plead pussy poverty.

Some will perhaps feel your pain, others will give helpful tips, others will just roll their eyes "another one"

You might refresh your profile or add another photo.

Either way the offers aren't flooding in and making any real effort seems pointless because A, your hardon and ego is deflating and B it's easier on other sites or down the pub.

You log out or delete the profile thinking we are all stuck up anyway.

In 3 or 6 months time the circle of fab begins again...

Am I correct in any of this?

Anyone want to add anything to my theory? "
No totally off the mark I don't watch porn, I'm never horny and I'm always polite

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By *nce a MinxWoman
over a year ago

near basingstoke

I think lots of new men seem to get carried away with being able to post pictures of their cock, so all of their photos become 18 pics of their cock from a different angle- or my most (un)favourite-cock over a toilet. Then they send a message to you, with 6 of these cock shots, not having thought through that a lot of women don't respond to a cock pic in the way they respond to a tits/pussy pic.... Then they get blocked and don't know why?

Just my thoughts

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

I hear you pal thats good its other people you might not have same values

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think lots of new men seem to get carried away with being able to post pictures of their cock, so all of their photos become 18 pics of their cock from a different angle- or my most (un)favourite-cock over a toilet. Then they send a message to you, with 6 of these cock shots, not having thought through that a lot of women don't respond to a cock pic in the way they respond to a tits/pussy pic.... Then they get blocked and don't know why?

Just my thoughts "

Yes!

It's a bit like the cat bringing home a dead mouse. They are clearly very proud of it and think we want it. When actually I really wish they hadn't...

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site

because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go "

Hit the nail on the head

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I joined to get a shag and got one then left cos i found it cold then returned to go on forum and anoy people on boring days then got shagged many times without chasing it my theory is some guys have it and know how to get what they want some dont and will witter about it

Survival of the fittest "

D.

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By *nce a MinxWoman
over a year ago

near basingstoke

Ha yes yes yes!!! Dead mouse lols

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go "

It definitely won't be everyone's experience and clearly I'm not a bloke so I can only judge on the messages I read and the constant why can't I get a meet threads on the forums.

Lots of people actually do very well on here. Mainly because they use the site in ways that work best for them. Everyone's fab journey will be different and that's the beauty of it .

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I'm @ "pussy poverty"

Fine work.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

In 3 or 6 months time the circle of fab begins again...

Sometimes people even create a new profile minutes after they deleted it"

Yup because surely no one can resist them for long

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Frustration kicks in and suddenly your cock takes over and you adopt the there must be someone up for a shag approach (this is where I'm usually emailed and looked upon as some sort of free escort.

I mean I've got my tits out I must be up for it..."

I've a theory formulating that this is where it's supposed to be stated that you should always be first choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm @ "pussy poverty"

Fine work....."
. Thanks I might trademark it and make t shirts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shagging alone isnt enough anymore

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I'm @ "pussy poverty"

Fine work......

Thanks I might trademark it and make t shirts "

DO IT!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shagging alone isnt enough anymore"

I barely remember what a shag is but in isolation it's never truly enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bang on and yeah we have our tits out so some do assume they will be getting ridden like a bmx, but when you aren’t actually interested, its like youve robbed their best slippers x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Great post OP, I’m sure that’s how it works for some. You will definitely have more experience of random men contacting you than I do. But it’s a familiar story from what I hear.

I guess it doesn’t help that the ratio of men to women on here is so out of balance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go "

Absolutely spot on.

And I have heard from ladies and couples who share the same sentiment concerning fabs addictiveness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go

It definitely won't be everyone's experience and clearly I'm not a bloke so I can only judge on the messages I read and the constant why can't I get a meet threads on the forums.

Lots of people actually do very well on here. Mainly because they use the site in ways that work best for them. Everyone's fab journey will be different and that's the beauty of it . "

... and with that in mind, I can't help but think that your OP is all a little bit judgey

There's room for us all, even the cock pests

We all know where the filters are for PM's

For the forum whingers, we just need a heightened ability to walk on by threads that seem to get regurgitated

I think however, that part of this circle is the seemingly endless digs at men that don't use the site how we'd like them to, the men that seemingly undervalue us, disrespect us, the men that 'don't get it' ... maybe that's why some of them leave, because rather than ignore or educate, we ridicule, mock, belittle and patronise?

I do also wonder how many guys come here and just leave, quietly, after realising that this site just isn't for them - and they just never, ever return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U need to also realise girls also do a similar thing tho some of them assume because your a guy on fab you will fuck anyone no matter who anytime just because they have a vagina and expect you to be grateful for even just a message its quite comical at times especially after all the read my profile bollox on there profile then they dont read yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go

It definitely won't be everyone's experience and clearly I'm not a bloke so I can only judge on the messages I read and the constant why can't I get a meet threads on the forums.

Lots of people actually do very well on here. Mainly because they use the site in ways that work best for them. Everyone's fab journey will be different and that's the beauty of it .

... and with that in mind, I can't help but think that your OP is all a little bit judgey

There's room for us all, even the cock pests

We all know where the filters are for PM's

For the forum whingers, we just need a heightened ability to walk on by threads that seem to get regurgitated

I think however, that part of this circle is the seemingly endless digs at men that don't use the site how we'd like them to, the men that seemingly undervalue us, disrespect us, the men that 'don't get it' ... maybe that's why some of them leave, because rather than ignore or educate, we ridicule, mock, belittle and patronise?

I do also wonder how many guys come here and just leave, quietly, after realising that this site just isn't for them - and they just never, ever return "

All that said, the site will attract some tosspots

They exist in all walks of life, there's no real escaping them

They just need dealing with one by one though

At times, a snipers rifle is a much more suitable weapon than a machine gun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go

It definitely won't be everyone's experience and clearly I'm not a bloke so I can only judge on the messages I read and the constant why can't I get a meet threads on the forums.

Lots of people actually do very well on here. Mainly because they use the site in ways that work best for them. Everyone's fab journey will be different and that's the beauty of it .

... and with that in mind, I can't help but think that your OP is all a little bit judgey

There's room for us all, even the cock pests

We all know where the filters are for PM's

For the forum whingers, we just need a heightened ability to walk on by threads that seem to get regurgitated

I think however, that part of this circle is the seemingly endless digs at men that don't use the site how we'd like them to, the men that seemingly undervalue us, disrespect us, the men that 'don't get it' ... maybe that's why some of them leave, because rather than ignore or educate, we ridicule, mock, belittle and patronise?

I do also wonder how many guys come here and just leave, quietly, after realising that this site just isn't for them - and they just never, ever return "

It's absolutely judgey. You're right a lot or it is stemming from the messages I receive on here.

I'm pretty sure most people will see the tongue and cheek mature of this thread but I also hope some are a bit offended by it. It means they are absolutely not doing these things or they will assist me in activating the block button.

I think everyone is open to ridicule on here, over the years I've had plenty of it.

If anything it's highlighting the need for resilience, patience and character.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U need to also realise girls also do a similar thing tho some of them assume because your a guy on fab you will fuck anyone no matter who anytime just because they have a vagina and expect you to be grateful for even just a message its quite comical at times especially after all the read my profile bollox on there profile then they dont read yours "

You mean my epic boobs aren't enough?! Perish the thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U need to also realise girls also do a similar thing tho some of them assume because your a guy on fab you will fuck anyone no matter who anytime just because they have a vagina and expect you to be grateful for even just a message its quite comical at times especially after all the read my profile bollox on there profile then they dont read yours

You mean my epic boobs aren't enough?! Perish the thought "

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Swinging site now turned it to advice for grown ups trying to get there leg over fml!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to be fair there are delusions of grandeur on all sides of the arena.

Some of the couples and ladies profiles are also full of biological photos and over inflated egos.

Not all single guys are desperados.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging site now turned it to advice for grown ups trying to get there leg over fml!!"

Swinging not slapper site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Swinging site now turned it to advice for grown ups trying to get there leg over fml!!"

Actually the forums at times can be a very supportive place

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I think lots of new men seem to get carried away with being able to post pictures of their cock, so all of their photos become 18 pics of their cock from a different angle- or my most (un)favourite-cock over a toilet. Then they send a message to you, with 6 of these cock shots, not having thought through that a lot of women don't respond to a cock pic in the way they respond to a tits/pussy pic.... Then they get blocked and don't know why?

Just my thoughts

Yes!

It's a bit like the cat bringing home a dead mouse. They are clearly very proud of it and think we want it. When actually I really wish they hadn't...

"

Are you calling my willy a dead mouse?!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why does the circle of FAB only apply to men ?

Someone did a similar and hilarious thread along these lines a month or two ago. That was also about men and how they begin FAB straight and then end up doing anything and being anything to get a meet.

Anyone remember who it was is was a T.V. I remember that much .....

Someone do a circle of FAB about women. For me their expectations and behaviour are at least as ridiculous as men's if not more so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does the circle of FAB only apply to men ?

Someone did a similar and hilarious thread along these lines a month or two ago. That was also about men and how they begin FAB straight and then end up doing anything and being anything to get a meet.

Anyone remember who it was is was a T.V. I remember that much .....

Someone do a circle of FAB about women. For me their expectations and behaviour are at least as ridiculous as men's if not more so. "

I will !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does the circle of FAB only apply to men ?

Someone did a similar and hilarious thread along these lines a month or two ago. That was also about men and how they begin FAB straight and then end up doing anything and being anything to get a meet.

Anyone remember who it was is was a T.V. I remember that much .....

Someone do a circle of FAB about women. For me their expectations and behaviour are at least as ridiculous as men's if not more so. "

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

Sounds pretty accurate.

Could perhaps seek a grant for further research. Hehe

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By *nce a MinxWoman
over a year ago

near basingstoke

Nooooooo, calling your dead mouse a willy

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"

On the back of the constant why can't I get a meet threads. Here is some theory!

This site ends up being the landing page for horny men after they have seen a link while watching porn.

Was it the hot young women or horny milfs in your area want to meet you that drew you in? Or was it watching an orgy and thinking you are a stud?

Regardless, you're now here and horny. Initially you're excited by limitless possibilities.

Then reality starts to kick in a touch and you realise it's not instashag.

At this point you might change your approach and start aiming for a social meet (after all who could resist your charm etc) however even that proves difficult.

Frustration kicks in and suddenly your cock takes over and you adopt the there must be someone up for a shag approach (this is where I'm usually emailed and looked upon as some sort of free escort.

I mean I've got my tits out I must be up for it...

That doesn't work either so you jump on the forums and plead pussy poverty.

Some will perhaps feel your pain, others will give helpful tips, others will just roll their eyes "another one"

You might refresh your profile or add another photo.

Either way the offers aren't flooding in and making any real effort seems pointless because A, your hardon and ego is deflating and B it's easier on other sites or down the pub.

You log out or delete the profile thinking we are all stuck up anyway.

In 3 or 6 months time the circle of fab begins again...

Am I correct in any of this?

Anyone want to add anything to my theory? "

You forgot some try the "white knight approach"..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bang on and yeah we have our tits out so some do assume they will be getting ridden like a bmx, but when you aren’t actually interested, its like youve robbed their best slippers x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think lots of new men seem to get carried away with being able to post pictures of their cock, so all of their photos become 18 pics of their cock from a different angle- or my most (un)favourite-cock over a toilet. Then they send a message to you, with 6 of these cock shots, not having thought through that a lot of women don't respond to a cock pic in the way they respond to a tits/pussy pic.... Then they get blocked and don't know why?

Just my thoughts "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go

It definitely won't be everyone's experience and clearly I'm not a bloke so I can only judge on the messages I read and the constant why can't I get a meet threads on the forums.

Lots of people actually do very well on here. Mainly because they use the site in ways that work best for them. Everyone's fab journey will be different and that's the beauty of it .

... and with that in mind, I can't help but think that your OP is all a little bit judgey

There's room for us all, even the cock pests

We all know where the filters are for PM's

For the forum whingers, we just need a heightened ability to walk on by threads that seem to get regurgitated

*** I think however, that part of this circle is the seemingly endless digs at men that don't use the site how we'd like them to, the men that seemingly undervalue us, disrespect us, the men that 'don't get it' ... maybe that's why some of them leave, because rather than ignore or educate, we ridicule, mock, belittle and patronise? ***

I do also wonder how many guys come here and just leave, quietly, after realising that this site just isn't for them - and they just never, ever return "

***

How many people reply to the disrespectful messages?

I have replied and told them why it's not acceptable (for me- some may like it) to be spoken to that way. The majority of the time they are appreciative of a reply and apologise.

They won't learn if no-one ever talks to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go

It definitely won't be everyone's experience and clearly I'm not a bloke so I can only judge on the messages I read and the constant why can't I get a meet threads on the forums.

Lots of people actually do very well on here. Mainly because they use the site in ways that work best for them. Everyone's fab journey will be different and that's the beauty of it .

... and with that in mind, I can't help but think that your OP is all a little bit judgey

There's room for us all, even the cock pests

We all know where the filters are for PM's

For the forum whingers, we just need a heightened ability to walk on by threads that seem to get regurgitated

*** I think however, that part of this circle is the seemingly endless digs at men that don't use the site how we'd like them to, the men that seemingly undervalue us, disrespect us, the men that 'don't get it' ... maybe that's why some of them leave, because rather than ignore or educate, we ridicule, mock, belittle and patronise? ***

I do also wonder how many guys come here and just leave, quietly, after realising that this site just isn't for them - and they just never, ever return

***

How many people reply to the disrespectful messages?

I have replied and told them why it's not acceptable (for me- some may like it) to be spoken to that way. The majority of the time they are appreciative of a reply and apologise.

They won't learn if no-one ever talks to them."

I have a few times too.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go

It definitely won't be everyone's experience and clearly I'm not a bloke so I can only judge on the messages I read and the constant why can't I get a meet threads on the forums.

Lots of people actually do very well on here. Mainly because they use the site in ways that work best for them. Everyone's fab journey will be different and that's the beauty of it .

... and with that in mind, I can't help but think that your OP is all a little bit judgey

There's room for us all, even the cock pests

We all know where the filters are for PM's

For the forum whingers, we just need a heightened ability to walk on by threads that seem to get regurgitated

I think however, that part of this circle is the seemingly endless digs at men that don't use the site how we'd like them to, the men that seemingly undervalue us, disrespect us, the men that 'don't get it' ... maybe that's why some of them leave, because rather than ignore or educate, we ridicule, mock, belittle and patronise?

I do also wonder how many guys come here and just leave, quietly, after realising that this site just isn't for them - and they just never, ever return "

Honestly on many occasions I've seen people try to give good advice to single men and it's just been met with responses like this saying everyone is out to get them. The thing is that most people don't care if you want to have a blank profile, 101 cock pictures, repeatedly send the same one liner message to everyone and post complaining statuses and forum posts about not getting meets. The part that is frustrating is that if you try to offer advice on how to gain more interest you are basically met with "fuck you, I'll use the site how I want" but then if you just don't respond to anyone who uses the site in a way you don't like then they get upset that everyone is ignoring them.

I actually recently read a post on Facebook where a girl told a story about a guy who she had met online and was really interested in started sending her unsolicited dick pics at work which put her off. She even said he actually had a really nice dick and prior to that she was genuinly keen to have sex with him if their date went well but after being sent that picture she wasn't interested. There was a comment that said "men are super good at cock blocking themselves" and I really relate to this myself as there have been so many occasions that I've been thinking about fucking a guy only to change my mind before having the chance due to his shitty behaviour. I've had messages on here from guys that are genuinly aattractive and local but the content of the message instantly puts me off. But if you try to say "men if you stop doing these things and try doing these things instead you might get more sex!" then you're just "another hater of single men". Which is funny to be told considering it's single men I'm mostly looking to meet on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go

It definitely won't be everyone's experience and clearly I'm not a bloke so I can only judge on the messages I read and the constant why can't I get a meet threads on the forums.

Lots of people actually do very well on here. Mainly because they use the site in ways that work best for them. Everyone's fab journey will be different and that's the beauty of it .

... and with that in mind, I can't help but think that your OP is all a little bit judgey

There's room for us all, even the cock pests

We all know where the filters are for PM's

For the forum whingers, we just need a heightened ability to walk on by threads that seem to get regurgitated

*** I think however, that part of this circle is the seemingly endless digs at men that don't use the site how we'd like them to, the men that seemingly undervalue us, disrespect us, the men that 'don't get it' ... maybe that's why some of them leave, because rather than ignore or educate, we ridicule, mock, belittle and patronise? ***

I do also wonder how many guys come here and just leave, quietly, after realising that this site just isn't for them - and they just never, ever return

***

How many people reply to the disrespectful messages?

I have replied and told them why it's not acceptable (for me- some may like it) to be spoken to that way. The majority of the time they are appreciative of a reply and apologise.

They won't learn if no-one ever talks to them.

I have a few times too. "

It's a drop in the ocean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go

It definitely won't be everyone's experience and clearly I'm not a bloke so I can only judge on the messages I read and the constant why can't I get a meet threads on the forums.

Lots of people actually do very well on here. Mainly because they use the site in ways that work best for them. Everyone's fab journey will be different and that's the beauty of it .

... and with that in mind, I can't help but think that your OP is all a little bit judgey

There's room for us all, even the cock pests

We all know where the filters are for PM's

For the forum whingers, we just need a heightened ability to walk on by threads that seem to get regurgitated

I think however, that part of this circle is the seemingly endless digs at men that don't use the site how we'd like them to, the men that seemingly undervalue us, disrespect us, the men that 'don't get it' ... maybe that's why some of them leave, because rather than ignore or educate, we ridicule, mock, belittle and patronise?

I do also wonder how many guys come here and just leave, quietly, after realising that this site just isn't for them - and they just never, ever return

Honestly on many occasions I've seen people try to give good advice to single men and it's just been met with responses like this saying everyone is out to get them. The thing is that most people don't care if you want to have a blank profile, 101 cock pictures, repeatedly send the same one liner message to everyone and post complaining statuses and forum posts about not getting meets. The part that is frustrating is that if you try to offer advice on how to gain more interest you are basically met with "fuck you, I'll use the site how I want" but then if you just don't respond to anyone who uses the site in a way you don't like then they get upset that everyone is ignoring them.

I actually recently read a post on Facebook where a girl told a story about a guy who she had met online and was really interested in started sending her unsolicited dick pics at work which put her off. She even said he actually had a really nice dick and prior to that she was genuinly keen to have sex with him if their date went well but after being sent that picture she wasn't interested. There was a comment that said "men are super good at cock blocking themselves" and I really relate to this myself as there have been so many occasions that I've been thinking about fucking a guy only to change my mind before having the chance due to his shitty behaviour. I've had messages on here from guys that are genuinly aattractive and local but the content of the message instantly puts me off. But if you try to say "men if you stop doing these things and try doing these things instead you might get more sex!" then you're just "another hater of single men". Which is funny to be told considering it's single men I'm mostly looking to meet on here. "

I totally agree with all of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go

It definitely won't be everyone's experience and clearly I'm not a bloke so I can only judge on the messages I read and the constant why can't I get a meet threads on the forums.

Lots of people actually do very well on here. Mainly because they use the site in ways that work best for them. Everyone's fab journey will be different and that's the beauty of it .

... and with that in mind, I can't help but think that your OP is all a little bit judgey

There's room for us all, even the cock pests

We all know where the filters are for PM's

For the forum whingers, we just need a heightened ability to walk on by threads that seem to get regurgitated

I think however, that part of this circle is the seemingly endless digs at men that don't use the site how we'd like them to, the men that seemingly undervalue us, disrespect us, the men that 'don't get it' ... maybe that's why some of them leave, because rather than ignore or educate, we ridicule, mock, belittle and patronise?

I do also wonder how many guys come here and just leave, quietly, after realising that this site just isn't for them - and they just never, ever return

Honestly on many occasions I've seen people try to give good advice to single men and it's just been met with responses like this saying everyone is out to get them. The thing is that most people don't care if you want to have a blank profile, 101 cock pictures, repeatedly send the same one liner message to everyone and post complaining statuses and forum posts about not getting meets. The part that is frustrating is that if you try to offer advice on how to gain more interest you are basically met with "fuck you, I'll use the site how I want" but then if you just don't respond to anyone who uses the site in a way you don't like then they get upset that everyone is ignoring them.

I actually recently read a post on Facebook where a girl told a story about a guy who she had met online and was really interested in started sending her unsolicited dick pics at work which put her off. She even said he actually had a really nice dick and prior to that she was genuinly keen to have sex with him if their date went well but after being sent that picture she wasn't interested. There was a comment that said "men are super good at cock blocking themselves" and I really relate to this myself as there have been so many occasions that I've been thinking about fucking a guy only to change my mind before having the chance due to his shitty behaviour. I've had messages on here from guys that are genuinly aattractive and local but the content of the message instantly puts me off. But if you try to say "men if you stop doing these things and try doing these things instead you might get more sex!" then you're just "another hater of single men". Which is funny to be told considering it's single men I'm mostly looking to meet on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined fab 7 years ago and was overwhelmed with the response. When I got pissed off with assholes and time wasters, even stalkers, I deleted my account. But few months later boredom brought me back. Plus my mates were still on here. I've had this current account for a few years now and if I feel I need a break, I just hide my profile or don't log on for a few days. It helps.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"U need to also realise girls also do a similar thing tho some of them assume because your a guy on fab you will fuck anyone no matter who anytime just because they have a vagina and expect you to be grateful for even just a message its quite comical at times especially after all the read my profile bollox on there profile then they dont read yours "

Really? Wow. I still go into a social nervous about if they're going to like me and still fancy me. I've been rejected on here so it's definitely not true that men on here will just fuck anyone who messages them.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I joined fab 7 years ago and was overwhelmed with the response. When I got pissed off with assholes and time wasters, even stalkers, I deleted my account. But few months later boredom brought me back. Plus my mates were still on here. I've had this current account for a few years now and if I feel I need a break, I just hide my profile or don't log on for a few days. It helps."

Me and my friend who is also on fab were talking about it yesterday. We said for every 1000 messages you get maybe 10 worth responding to and out of those 10, 1 worth meeting. That 1 person in every 1000 is very often worth sifting through the other 999 for! .

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"I joined fab 7 years ago and was overwhelmed with the response. When I got pissed off with assholes and time wasters, even stalkers, I deleted my account. But few months later boredom brought me back. Plus my mates were still on here. I've had this current account for a few years now and if I feel I need a break, I just hide my profile or don't log on for a few days. It helps.

Me and my friend who is also on fab were talking about it yesterday. We said for every 1000 messages you get maybe 10 worth responding to and out of those 10, 1 worth meeting. That 1 person in every 1000 is very often worth sifting through the other 999 for! ."

Phew! It’s a good job I’m one in a million! At least my mum says so. So I’ll take those odds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go

It definitely won't be everyone's experience and clearly I'm not a bloke so I can only judge on the messages I read and the constant why can't I get a meet threads on the forums.

Lots of people actually do very well on here. Mainly because they use the site in ways that work best for them. Everyone's fab journey will be different and that's the beauty of it .

... and with that in mind, I can't help but think that your OP is all a little bit judgey

There's room for us all, even the cock pests

We all know where the filters are for PM's

For the forum whingers, we just need a heightened ability to walk on by threads that seem to get regurgitated

I think however, that part of this circle is the seemingly endless digs at men that don't use the site how we'd like them to, the men that seemingly undervalue us, disrespect us, the men that 'don't get it' ... maybe that's why some of them leave, because rather than ignore or educate, we ridicule, mock, belittle and patronise?

I do also wonder how many guys come here and just leave, quietly, after realising that this site just isn't for them - and they just never, ever return

It's absolutely judgey. You're right a lot or it is stemming from the messages I receive on here.

I'm pretty sure most people will see the tongue and cheek mature of this thread but I also hope some are a bit offended by it. It means they are absolutely not doing these things or they will assist me in activating the block button.

I think everyone is open to ridicule on here, over the years I've had plenty of it.

If anything it's highlighting the need for resilience, patience and character. "

All points that stand on their own two feet

Those that the OP addresses though wouldn't necessarily be forum regulars though - they will skip blithly past looking for the next thrill

I think, by far and large, you're more likely to have an appreciative audience here for threads like this, the sympathisers, the pleasers and the appeasers

It's very rare that a side swipe at men goes without support

To that end, 'theories' tend to be proven as opposed to discredited

I'm not discrediting the OP, as I said above, it does have *some* validity, I just think it misses the mark in its content

I'm not going to second guess its intent (or if even there was any), it hasn't offended me, some of the terms used made me , I dunno Sinderella, thanks for helping me overthink on this lovely Sunday morning

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I joined fab 7 years ago and was overwhelmed with the response. When I got pissed off with assholes and time wasters, even stalkers, I deleted my account. But few months later boredom brought me back. Plus my mates were still on here. I've had this current account for a few years now and if I feel I need a break, I just hide my profile or don't log on for a few days. It helps.

Me and my friend who is also on fab were talking about it yesterday. We said for every 1000 messages you get maybe 10 worth responding to and out of those 10, 1 worth meeting. That 1 person in every 1000 is very often worth sifting through the other 999 for! .

Phew! It’s a good job I’m one in a million! At least my mum says so. So I’ll take those odds. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

On the back of the constant why can't I get a meet threads. Here is some theory!

This site ends up being the landing page for horny men after they have seen a link while watching porn.

Was it the hot young women or horny milfs in your area want to meet you that drew you in? Or was it watching an orgy and thinking you are a stud?

Regardless, you're now here and horny. Initially you're excited by limitless possibilities.

Then reality starts to kick in a touch and you realise it's not instashag.

At this point you might change your approach and start aiming for a social meet (after all who could resist your charm etc) however even that proves difficult.

Frustration kicks in and suddenly your cock takes over and you adopt the there must be someone up for a shag approach (this is where I'm usually emailed and looked upon as some sort of free escort.

I mean I've got my tits out I must be up for it...

That doesn't work either so you jump on the forums and plead pussy poverty.

Some will perhaps feel your pain, others will give helpful tips, others will just roll their eyes "another one"

You might refresh your profile or add another photo.

Either way the offers aren't flooding in and making any real effort seems pointless because A, your hardon and ego is deflating and B it's easier on other sites or down the pub.

You log out or delete the profile thinking we are all stuck up anyway.

In 3 or 6 months time the circle of fab begins again...

Am I correct in any of this?

Anyone want to add anything to my theory? "
This is brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds pretty accurate.

Could perhaps seek a grant for further research. Hehe"

Aren't Sydney University already doing this?

N

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think that's everyones experience, plus the way it's worded, it seems aimed at the already pre-judged; single men

There are elements of truth in your statement, but it is far from being the whole truth

I have previously left the site because I found it too immserive and absorbing - I lost sight of my reality

Hiding a profile is no use to me, I need to go full 'cold turkey'

I think we have to 'learn' how to use the site and how to make it work for us - for some, that takes more than one go

It definitely won't be everyone's experience and clearly I'm not a bloke so I can only judge on the messages I read and the constant why can't I get a meet threads on the forums.

Lots of people actually do very well on here. Mainly because they use the site in ways that work best for them. Everyone's fab journey will be different and that's the beauty of it .

... and with that in mind, I can't help but think that your OP is all a little bit judgey

There's room for us all, even the cock pests

We all know where the filters are for PM's

For the forum whingers, we just need a heightened ability to walk on by threads that seem to get regurgitated

I think however, that part of this circle is the seemingly endless digs at men that don't use the site how we'd like them to, the men that seemingly undervalue us, disrespect us, the men that 'don't get it' ... maybe that's why some of them leave, because rather than ignore or educate, we ridicule, mock, belittle and patronise?

I do also wonder how many guys come here and just leave, quietly, after realising that this site just isn't for them - and they just never, ever return

It's absolutely judgey. You're right a lot or it is stemming from the messages I receive on here.

I'm pretty sure most people will see the tongue and cheek mature of this thread but I also hope some are a bit offended by it. It means they are absolutely not doing these things or they will assist me in activating the block button.

I think everyone is open to ridicule on here, over the years I've had plenty of it.

If anything it's highlighting the need for resilience, patience and character.

All points that stand on their own two feet

Those that the OP addresses though wouldn't necessarily be forum regulars though - they will skip blithly past looking for the next thrill

I think, by far and large, you're more likely to have an appreciative audience here for threads like this, the sympathisers, the pleasers and the appeasers

It's very rare that a side swipe at men goes without support

To that end, 'theories' tend to be proven as opposed to discredited

I'm not discrediting the OP, as I said above, it does have *some* validity, I just think it misses the mark in its content

I'm not going to second guess its intent (or if even there was any), it hasn't offended me, some of the terms used made me , I dunno Sinderella, thanks for helping me overthink on this lovely Sunday morning "

Hey thinking is sexy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds pretty accurate.

Could perhaps seek a grant for further research. Hehe

Aren't Sydney University already doing this?

N"

I could take over and then people can write warning messages about me !

*This profile is not available for psychological analysis by Sinderella."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing I am not going to thank you for, however, is this constant Elton John head singing I've had for the last hour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One thing I am not going to thank you for, however, is this constant Elton John head singing I've had for the last hour "

I saw the lion king in the cinema last night. It was my inspiration

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"One thing I am not going to thank you for, however, is this constant Elton John head singing I've had for the last hour "

Its good timing! Lion king has just come out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined fab 7 years ago and was overwhelmed with the response. When I got pissed off with assholes and time wasters, even stalkers, I deleted my account. But few months later boredom brought me back. Plus my mates were still on here. I've had this current account for a few years now and if I feel I need a break, I just hide my profile or don't log on for a few days. It helps.

Me and my friend who is also on fab were talking about it yesterday. We said for every 1000 messages you get maybe 10 worth responding to and out of those 10, 1 worth meeting. That 1 person in every 1000 is very often worth sifting through the other 999 for! ."

Yes. I found him on fab 2 years ago and he is gonna visit me again next week when I'm back from holidays

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"

On the back of the constant why can't I get a meet threads. Here is some theory!

This site ends up being the landing page for horny men after they have seen a link while watching porn.

Was it the hot young women or horny milfs in your area want to meet you that drew you in? Or was it watching an orgy and thinking you are a stud?

Regardless, you're now here and horny. Initially you're excited by limitless possibilities.

Then reality starts to kick in a touch and you realise it's not instashag.

At this point you might change your approach and start aiming for a social meet (after all who could resist your charm etc) however even that proves difficult.

Frustration kicks in and suddenly your cock takes over and you adopt the there must be someone up for a shag approach (this is where I'm usually emailed and looked upon as some sort of free escort.

I mean I've got my tits out I must be up for it...

That doesn't work either so you jump on the forums and plead pussy poverty.

Some will perhaps feel your pain, others will give helpful tips, others will just roll their eyes "another one"

You might refresh your profile or add another photo.

Either way the offers aren't flooding in and making any real effort seems pointless because A, your hardon and ego is deflating and B it's easier on other sites or down the pub.

You log out or delete the profile thinking we are all stuck up anyway.

In 3 or 6 months time the circle of fab begins again...

Am I correct in any of this?

Anyone want to add anything to my theory? "

probably very close to the knuckle! A great summary!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Singles getting annoyed at a swinging site...... imagine my surprise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Singles getting annoyed at a swinging site...... imagine my surprise. "
or singles making fun of each other...

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 21/07/19 10:39:20]

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Location is a fabulous curse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing I am not going to thank you for, however, is this constant Elton John head singing I've had for the last hour

I saw the lion king in the cinema last night. It was my inspiration "

Little *ahem* confession

When the original came out, I went to a Saturday matinee with my bestie

We sat near the front, had all the treats; sweeties, nachos, popcorn, drinks, the lot

At the time we were both 24 and he had two kids who weren't invited

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One thing I am not going to thank you for, however, is this constant Elton John head singing I've had for the last hour

I saw the lion king in the cinema last night. It was my inspiration

Little *ahem* confession

When the original came out, I went to a Saturday matinee with my bestie

We sat near the front, had all the treats; sweeties, nachos, popcorn, drinks, the lot

At the time we were both 24 and he had two kids who weren't invited "

You're never too old for Disney xx

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over a year ago

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"

On the back of the constant why can't I get a meet threads. Here is some theory!

This site ends up being the landing page for horny men after they have seen a link while watching porn.

Was it the hot young women or horny milfs in your area want to meet you that drew you in? Or was it watching an orgy and thinking you are a stud?

Regardless, you're now here and horny. Initially you're excited by limitless possibilities.

Then reality starts to kick in a touch and you realise it's not instashag.

At this point you might change your approach and start aiming for a social meet (after all who could resist your charm etc) however even that proves difficult.

Frustration kicks in and suddenly your cock takes over and you adopt the there must be someone up for a shag approach (this is where I'm usually emailed and looked upon as some sort of free escort.

I mean I've got my tits out I must be up for it...

That doesn't work either so you jump on the forums and plead pussy poverty.

Some will perhaps feel your pain, others will give helpful tips, others will just roll their eyes "another one"

You might refresh your profile or add another photo.

Either way the offers aren't flooding in and making any real effort seems pointless because A, your hardon and ego is deflating and B it's easier on other sites or down the pub.

You log out or delete the profile thinking we are all stuck up anyway.

In 3 or 6 months time the circle of fab begins again...

Am I correct in any of this?

Anyone want to add anything to my theory? "

brilliant

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"One thing I am not going to thank you for, however, is this constant Elton John head singing I've had for the last hour

I saw the lion king in the cinema last night. It was my inspiration

Little *ahem* confession

When the original came out, I went to a Saturday matinee with my bestie

We sat near the front, had all the treats; sweeties, nachos, popcorn, drinks, the lot

At the time we were both 24 and he had two kids who weren't invited "

Sounds perfect to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Oh I was about to comment that the view from my ivory tower was just fine !

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over a year ago


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Oh I was about to comment that the view from my ivory tower was just fine !"

*waves from my yurt*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing I am not going to thank you for, however, is this constant Elton John head singing I've had for the last hour

I saw the lion king in the cinema last night. It was my inspiration

Little *ahem* confession

When the original came out, I went to a Saturday matinee with my bestie

We sat near the front, had all the treats; sweeties, nachos, popcorn, drinks, the lot

At the time we were both 24 and he had two kids who weren't invited "

I went to see Toy Story 4 the other week. It was 8pm and only adults there.

And I wasn't the only one with dust in my eyes.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Singles getting annoyed at a swinging site...... imagine my surprise. or singles making fun of each other..."

Laugh with folk not at folk.

Can't wait to see the reaction if you make fun of other single ladies.

Theres good and bad in all genders and demographics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Singles getting annoyed at a swinging site...... imagine my surprise. or singles making fun of each other...

Laugh with folk not at folk.

Can't wait to see the reaction if you make fun of other single ladies.

I did..

Theres good and bad in all genders and demographics. "

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Singles getting annoyed at a swinging site...... imagine my surprise. or singles making fun of each other...

Laugh with folk not at folk.

Can't wait to see the reaction if you make fun of other single ladies.

I did..

Theres good and bad in all genders and demographics. "

Not quite.. you said ^^^ you judge equally..

Part of Your opening sentence on your op from the other thread ..

"Please note I'm making fun of myself here!"..

if you were being equal you'd have made fun of the other ladies rather than poking fun at yourself.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Singles getting annoyed at a swinging site...... imagine my surprise. or singles making fun of each other...

Laugh with folk not at folk.

Can't wait to see the reaction if you make fun of other single ladies.

I did..

Theres good and bad in all genders and demographics.

Not quite.. you said ^^^ you judge equally..

Part of Your opening sentence on your op from the other thread ..

"Please note I'm making fun of myself here!"..

if you were being equal you'd have made fun of the other ladies rather than poking fun at yourself.

"

Erm... Last time I checked the OP was a woman. So therefore taking the piss out of women on here is taking the piss out of herself.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I joined to get a shag and got one then left cos i found it cold then returned to go on forum and anoy people on boring days then got shagged many times without chasing it my theory is some guys have it and know how to get what they want some dont and will witter about it

Survival of the fittest "

Theres a big difference between friend zone and shag zone

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By *ack Flash400Man
over a year ago

The Bat Cave

I've been here a few weeks and have no expectations at all! If I get a message I think myself lucky & reply. As for meets, well.....

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Singles getting annoyed at a swinging site...... imagine my surprise. or singles making fun of each other...

Laugh with folk not at folk.

Can't wait to see the reaction if you make fun of other single ladies.

I did..

Theres good and bad in all genders and demographics.

Not quite.. you said ^^^ you judge equally..

Part of Your opening sentence on your op from the other thread ..

"Please note I'm making fun of myself here!"..

if you were being equal you'd have made fun of the other ladies rather than poking fun at yourself.

Erm... Last time I checked the OP was a woman. So therefore taking the piss out of women on here is taking the piss out of herself. "

I don't know the op so I'll accept you've checked her gender.

Taking the piss out of yourself is totally different to taking the piss out of others of that gender.. one is poking fun at your failings or flaws others may see that trait in themselves and giggle with you...the other is taking the piss out of others failings or flaws..those traits flaws may not be seen in her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Singles getting annoyed at a swinging site...... imagine my surprise. or singles making fun of each other...

Laugh with folk not at folk.

Can't wait to see the reaction if you make fun of other single ladies.

I did..

Theres good and bad in all genders and demographics.

Not quite.. you said ^^^ you judge equally..

Part of Your opening sentence on your op from the other thread ..

"Please note I'm making fun of myself here!"..

if you were being equal you'd have made fun of the other ladies rather than poking fun at yourself.

Erm... Last time I checked the OP was a woman. So therefore taking the piss out of women on here is taking the piss out of herself.

I don't know the op so I'll accept you've checked her gender.

Taking the piss out of yourself is totally different to taking the piss out of others of that gender.. one is poking fun at your failings or flaws others may see that trait in themselves and giggle with you...the other is taking the piss out of others failings or flaws..those traits flaws may not be seen in her.

"

I have many flaws. And I think I've been at every number on my list. My post was tongue and cheek for both really but it does highlight the way experiences on the site differ.

Ultimately there's no singular right or wrong way to use this site and people should use it as they see fit.

It strikes me from your over analysis of my wording that perhaps I've either hit a nerve somewhere or you are having way too much time to over think.

If either of my posts have caused anyone offence then I absolutely apologise.

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By *sWyldWoman
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I wrote this thread a while ago on my old profile. Looking at the forum today reminded me of it.

Its tongue and cheek mainly so please don't take offence.

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

Pussy Poverty. Love it.

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By *imples24Man
6 weeks ago

tamworth


"I wrote this thread a while ago on my old profile. Looking at the forum today reminded me of it.

Its tongue and cheek mainly so please don't take offence. "

🤣👏🏻

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