FabSwingers.com forum: Is it true ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell. Run that by me again?! I’ll have another read in the morning when I’ve not had wine.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I would say all three are true !

Purely because each individual’s idea of what love is, is very different. So how can it be measured as equal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not sure it's as black and white as that, love isn't something you can measure.

It's an emotion and it's indescribable, it's also very personal so someone could love in a way which to them is all they can give and are capable of but if judged on actions and behaviour seems way less than their partner who is maybe only giving 50%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im going to go with yes but I am a little cynical these days

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ? "

Erm.....

Yes FB.

I think.....

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I think there's always one who loves more... Even though you may think you both love each other as much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ? "

Doesn’t it simply change between the two people from day to day and experience to experience? That’s the beauty of love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went cross eyed reading that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went cross eyed reading that.

Glad it wasn’t just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if he vows his passion infinite and undying, lady make a note of this one of you is lying

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We have always joked about who loves each other most but at the end of the day we have loved each other enough to have been in love for 23years and it still grows believe it or not.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ? "

The younger woman that i once was who still believed in fairytales would have said no that's not true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The greatest thing

You'll ever learn

Is just to love

And be loved

In return

-Nature Boy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ? "

No I don't think that in 'any' relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved although there are some relationships like that.

In many relationships the love people have for each other is equally as fierce but expressed differently.

There is not always one who loves more than the other but sometimes there is.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ? "

1. Not necessarily.

2. No.

3. No. You'd have to be able to reliably measure it which I doubt is possible. If each loves the oth "enough", that's really all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the risk of being a little cynical, just how does one measure love, given or received.

I must have missed the announcement of that particular metric....

Surely, love just is. It doesnt count cost or measure itself on some scale of loveliness.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ? "
No love is equal if it isn’t it's not love, it's infatuation on the behalf of the one who's infatuated

kapeeeesh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fucking hell !

Did someone hack into my account and started to post serious things on here ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be equal buddy , or it just become infatuation. Or unrequited which is never good ,

I think every one has been there at one time or another .

The important lesson it teaches , is how gently we move on and forward , how compassionate you can be to yourself .

If you figure that bit out, let me know how to do it

For every thing else there is Rhyl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it can be equal i think but we handle it differently so it may look like one does more than the other one could be more private than the other unless in there lovers presence

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Still reading the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess for it to last and succeed it has to be equal?... If its unequal then it will become unrequited, or potentially heart breaking and then you should probably walk away, if you can, to protect yourself!

I think the way people show love or think how love should be shown can be very different....doesn't mean it isn't equal though!

I'm not even sure that makes sense now I've written it down!!! Lol!! But hopefully you know what I mean!!

PT x

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ? "

This. ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got a headache now F&B

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I think it’s fluid. That on any given day that one person might be feeling it more than the other. Maybe you could average those and say that one person loves the other more.

I think that some people are also more open or guarded about how they express their emotions which can make it appear that one is more in love than the other, but may not be true.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i come back to u on that. Need at least 2 coffies and a pastry ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess for it to last and succeed it has to be equal?... If its unequal then it will become unrequited, or potentially heart breaking and then you should probably walk away, if you can, to protect yourself!

I think the way people show love or think how love should be shown can be very different....doesn't mean it isn't equal though!

I'm not even sure that makes sense now I've written it down!!! Lol!! But hopefully you know what I mean!!

PT x"

This

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ? "

bit early for my opinion I think... I'll just watch this thread

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Nah its swings like a pendulum to n fro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can i come back to u on that. Need at least 2 coffies and a pastry ..."

Frog x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something that can be measured precisely. Been together since we were 15 still both very happy enjoy each other’s company and love each other. Never wondered who loves who more.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

"The greatest thing

You'll ever learn

Is just to love

And be loved

In return

-Nature Boy "
nice bit of moulin rouge there lol.

I dont think you can ever truly measure love, some prove it with what they do and others with words. It also depends on how often someone expresses it. In terms of one loving more, think this is where it becomes infatuation or one sided x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ? "

All

Are true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The greatest thing

You'll ever learn

Is just to love

And be loved

In return

-Nature Boy nice bit of moulin rouge there lol.

It can't be measured. Perceptions are different.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Can love be quantified?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"We have always joked about who loves each other most but at the end of the day we have loved each other enough to have been in love for 23years and it still grows believe it or not.

Jo.Xx

That is so nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The greatest thing

You'll ever learn

Is just to love

And be loved

In return

-Nature Boy nice bit of moulin rouge there lol.

I'm gonna show my age now Tasha

I've never seen Moulin Rouge, but I do love a bit of Nat King Cole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ?

Doesn’t it simply change between the two people from day to day and experience to experience? That’s the beauty of love

I agree. Some days you need more than you give. You just have a good foundation that’s always there.

Connie

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Fucking hell !

Did someone hack into my account and started to post serious things on here ?! "

Haha was thinking that too or you was d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s fluid. That on any given day that one person might be feeling it more than the other. Maybe you could average those and say that one person loves the other more.

I think that some people are also more open or guarded about how they express their emotions which can make it appear that one is more in love than the other, but may not be true. "

You said fluid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ? "

I really don’t think so.

As the new radicals wrote ~ you get what you give

https://youtu.be/dD6il4cEEfs

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ?

I really don’t think so.

As the new radicals wrote ~ you get what you give

https://youtu.be/dD6il4cEEfs

As Paul Weller wrote;

"you're the best thing - that's ever happened to me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was going on late last night with you Rick? #deep

It's a really difficult question to answer because love can't be measured. I do think if you're really happy with someone then the love is equal. Ugh, I can't find the words to say what is making sense in my head. Screw you Rick!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

"Do you think that in any relationship there is one who loves and one who is loved ?

Is it true that the love that ones have for each other can't be equal?

Is there always one who loves more than the other ? "

The will always be a giver and taker but what is taken or given have different emotional or society valve attached to it. Example one of the partners might love to hear words of encouragement and the other spend quality time. so the giver encourages and the taker hears what is the value of either on the "love scale"?

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