FabSwingers.com forum: Am I being too suspicious?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So a couple of weeks ago I received a message off a woman. She was photo verified, had verifications which looked genuine etc. She was basically trying to pimp her male FB out who wasn’t on fab. Her profile stated very heavily that she only uses WhatsApp and if you wasn’t prepared to talk on WhatsApp then not to bother messaging her. Naturally I declined her offer.

Again tonight, a different woman on a newly created profile has messaged me asking along the same lines. Would I be willing to meet her Dom male friend. Again very insistent on talking on WhatsApp?

Is this me being super suspicious in thinking it is a man pretending to be a woman. Is this some kind of new trick men are using? Has anyone else been propositioned like this? I’ve been on fab a year now and never come across anything like this before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your instincts x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Well whether she's genuine or not I wouldn't go near that scenario with two ten foot barge poles.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"Trust your instincts x"

They’re rarely wrong!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

also if all your communication takes place via WhatsApp you have no redress via reporting to Fab

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It sounds a bit suspect to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well whether she's genuine or not I wouldn't go near that scenario with two ten foot barge poles. "

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So a couple of weeks ago I received a message off a woman. She was photo verified, had verifications which looked genuine etc. She was basically trying to pimp her male FB out who wasn’t on fab. Her profile stated very heavily that she only uses WhatsApp and if you wasn’t prepared to talk on WhatsApp then not to bother messaging her. Naturally I declined her offer.

Again tonight, a different woman on a newly created profile has messaged me asking along the same lines. Would I be willing to meet her Dom male friend. Again very insistent on talking on WhatsApp?

ask them to go on cam face to face

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’ve had a few of these, I just ignore and block

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Well whether she's genuine or not I wouldn't go near that scenario with two ten foot barge poles.

This!!"

Totally agree with everyone very dodgy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust your instincts x"

It sounds very dodgy! You're right to be suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldn’t go along with a situation like that either. I feel it’s a man pretending to be a woman who is really pimping himself out. Just never come across this before, find it really bizarre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does sound too much of a coincidence to me, probably the same person. I would be suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men are becoming so creative to get some flesh

100% creativity !

If only they'd use the same energy to save the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pimpin aint easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely trust your gut instinct! If it's making you feel suspicious, chances are it is suspicious!!

PT x

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Well whether she's genuine or not I wouldn't go near that scenario with two ten foot barge poles.

This!!

Totally agree with everyone very dodgy"

This

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Personally, if I have ANY doubt about anything I walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, if I have ANY doubt about anything I walk away. "

Hope you will never doubt of your feet

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Get her mobile number but don't reply. If they try again on a different profile you have the number to check. Yeh its probably fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it a lot and it's always from profiles with no pic verification. When a woman messages me who's not verified or pic verified I just assume its a guy and delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember, folks...most women on sites like this are GIRL’s

Guys

Real

Life

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I've had it a lot and it's always from profiles with no pic verification. When a woman messages me who's not verified or pic verified I just assume its a guy and delete "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get her mobile number but don't reply. If they try again on a different profile you have the number to check. Yeh its probably fake."

Good plan.

And I think it's a man too.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Trust your gut.

It's could possibly be a nasty trap.

Steer clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have also received messages like that and always delete. I won't communicate via WhatsApp anymore as it connects to many things and scares me if it's a stalker.

Delete/Block and trust your gut.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Get her mobile number but don't reply. If they try again on a different profile you have the number to check. Yeh its probably fake.

Good plan.

And I think it's a man too."

If the numbers are different I might be tempted to give the first one to the second messager. Hook two like minded individuals up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get her mobile number but don't reply. If they try again on a different profile you have the number to check. Yeh its probably fake.

Good plan.

And I think it's a man too.

If the numbers are different I might be tempted to give the first one to the second messager. Hook two like minded individuals up?

That would be lovely. Do it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Get her mobile number but don't reply. If they try again on a different profile you have the number to check. Yeh its probably fake.

Good plan.

And I think it's a man too.

If the numbers are different I might be tempted to give the first one to the second messager. Hook two like minded individuals up?

Or hook a psychopath up with someone who's genuine

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