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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all

I know not for all , but I have enjoyed

A having a regular fuck buddy for 4 years and just gets better each time.

Just wondering if anyone has got the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The friend charter of 1932 is the most important discovery of my life especially page 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one for many years but she has just moved abroad, it was great building up trust and lots of experimenting over the years

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive got more than one but the longest one ive been seeing is over 14 years now

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

No

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had one earlier in the year - I’m looking for another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not at mo. That's why I'm in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 4 for a couple of years.

The arrangement suited me well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all

I know not for all , but I have enjoyed

A having a regular fuck buddy for 4 years and just gets better each time.

Just wondering if anyone has got the same?

"

I had one for about a year, the sex was amazing,

I need another fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would suit me perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I've had a friend with benefits for about a year now we always have a great time be it sex, out to cinema or night at a pub.

Mind you we did not meet on this site. Only wish I'd had a friend with benefits years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m trying to find one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. That’s exactly what I want. I had that for 5 years and it worked perfectly. Not easy to find here though that’s for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m trying to find one "

Cough

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I have a few "

well jell....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need one of those but it’s like finding a unicorn on here

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

Looking for one

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I’m trying to find one "

Join the club! Just the one will do fine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. That’s exactly what I want. I had that for 5 years and it worked perfectly. Not easy to find here though that’s for sure. "

Aren’t I enough for you Nora

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I have a few .....Male and female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m trying to find one "

Cant believe you are struggling to find one !!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Nah, they always end up wanting more and more of my time. I have people I'll meet once every month or so but I don't think it falls into fwb territory.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"I’m trying to find one "

Waving from the back of the room

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I've struck lucky.

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By *orkshirefucktruck3Man
over a year ago

rotherham

I have a few,best friends u can have but always room for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 yrs on and off .....he knows me inside and out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a couple of fwbs to call on in Brum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m trying to find one

Cant believe you are struggling to find one !!"

Haha you’d be surprised! If there was a unicorn emoji I would most definitely insert it here

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Yes OP if regulars can be classified as fwb - travelled to Dublin annually just to meet them since 2014.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yes I do but he’s non fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m trying to find one

Cant believe you are struggling to find one !!

Haha you’d be surprised! If there was a unicorn emoji I would most definitely insert it here"

Nudge nudge wink wink

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"I have a few .....Male and female "

Nothing to do with here though

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Hello all

I know not for all , but I have enjoyed

A having a regular fuck buddy for 4 years and just gets better each time.

Just wondering if anyone has got the same?

"

For over a year I saw a guy very regularly and the sex was some of the best sex I've ever had. One of us caught feelings and it had to end...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mine has moved abroad I am also looking ! Meet about every couple of months or so seems about right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all

I know not for all , but I have enjoyed

A having a regular fuck buddy for 4 years and just gets better each time.

Just wondering if anyone has got the same?

"

Fuck buddy or fwb though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m trying to find one

Cant believe you are struggling to find one !!

Haha you’d be surprised! If there was a unicorn emoji I would most definitely insert it here

Nudge nudge wink wink "

Are you a unicorn?

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m trying to find one

Cant believe you are struggling to find one !!

Haha you’d be surprised! If there was a unicorn emoji I would most definitely insert it here

Nudge nudge wink wink

Are you a unicorn? "

I’ll be anything you want me to be

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Nope there is no one

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I've got friends on benefits, does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got friends on benefits, does that count? "

Was just about to post this word for word!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope there is no one"

Wow you can’t find one what is the world coming to lol

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By *r. Pepper...Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Been on here over 10 years looking for the same and still looking

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'd love to find one but not happened yet xx

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By *rygveMan
over a year ago

The Shires

I do but since jobs changed to different parts of the UK meets ups are not as frequent but when they are.....

It’s nice to just enjoy each other without normal day life stuff getting in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Balance is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got friends on benefits, does that count? "

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Ive got one newish one.. and one ive been seeing for 20 years...

I do have a few other's in the pipeline...

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I'm trying to find one

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

If i can't find you can you find me ,

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Not yet unfortunately. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one in Merseyside sure miss her hoping to go back next month for a catch-up and who knows still looking for a local Lass.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Fwb's are the best. I've had a couple and it worked really well. No one at the moment though

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne

I use to have a few but then I got into a relationship and ended them all

Now I'm single, I'm looking to have that connection with someone

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By *s ShalomWoman
over a year ago

RUSHDEN

Wishing I still had one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean my main problem is being able to play super obscure board games with a fwb. If we dont share one interest its just a fb right? So yeah tough to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we lived down south we had a lovely Fb for 4 years until she got married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all

I know not for all , but I have enjoyed

A having a regular fuck buddy for 4 years and just gets better each time.

Just wondering if anyone has got the same?

"

I want one. Or two. Or three?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I had one years ago lasted about 5 years. I'm open to another should the right guy come along but not in a rush

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By *eorgehomeMan
over a year ago

bolton

Wish I lived a bit closer suzuki your stunning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. That’s exactly what I want. I had that for 5 years and it worked perfectly. Not easy to find here though that’s for sure.

Aren’t I enough for you Nora "

Well as I am halfway between the two of you, you can both come to me and thrash it out. I can err......arbitrate....

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

I'd love one but sadly I don't seem to be able to attract one right now. Maybe she'll find me one day.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

1 FWB would be nice, hopefully it will come along soon

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Yes, I've had one for 3 years.....still good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, not at mo. That's why I'm in here."

Where? I cant see you

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I have a few, just not living close to me...

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol

None. It would seem im not friendly and have no benefits

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"None. It would seem im not friendly and have no benefits "

Nice suit ( coughs )

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol


"None. It would seem im not friendly and have no benefits

Nice suit ( coughs )"

Would you like some tixylix for that cough

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Ten years off and on ..she knows me outside and in

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"None. It would seem im not friendly and have no benefits

Nice suit ( coughs )

Would you like some tixylix for that cough "

I think I may have flu coming on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None. It would seem im not friendly and have no benefits

Nice suit ( coughs )

Would you like some tixylix for that cough

I think I may have flu coming on"

I have something you can rub on for that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all

I know not for all , but I have enjoyed

A having a regular fuck buddy for 4 years and just gets better each time.

Just wondering if anyone has got the same?

"

Not yet but looking for one... or two... or...

Better stop before I get too greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all

I know not for all , but I have enjoyed

A having a regular fuck buddy for 4 years and just gets better each time.

Just wondering if anyone has got the same?

"

I doubt it, one is probably enough for him.

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s great when you find one. Currently looking for new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I have never had a second meet so not experienced having an FWB

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I have, for 13 years pretty much to the day. He was my first and has been around since. Can’t help but think we should have been more

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No, not at mo. That's why I'm in here."
or not.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a few over the years 2 was long term.

One ended early June as the dynamics was getting really complex And feelings really really fucked up.

Since then a brief fling with someone we are back talking as friends

Fwbs can be awesome fun 98% the time

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By *ingcom76Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

I'd love to find another one. I've had a couple over the last few years. They are good if you manage to find a like minded person!

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

For the last 2 year, FB outside of fab. Great for exploring boundries and fantasies,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its the only way i do things. Dont do one night stands or short term... im in for the longhaul all going well.

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

I love the level of intimacy... both phsically and mentally of a fuck buddy... the friendship can be amazing... with no pressures and a lot of fun.

I had an FB for 2 years. She introduced me to Fabs. We had a lot of fun..

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Im still looking and hopefully i will find a regular friend with benefits ,

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) have had two in the past and it was a good arrangement for us. Now I have a romantic partner to explore this scene with which is wonderful but it still makes me slightly nervous. This is uncharted relationship territory for both of us.

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By *ocodoughnutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Sea of jelly and doughnuts

I have a fwb, met him here at around week 3 of joining fab. Going great so far.

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

I’ve had a few over the years, current one I’ve known 3 years now. Sex is amazing along with the trust levels etc.

I just need to find someone to date... that is impossible to find... where are the emotionally available men? I’ve looked on various dating apps and down the pub to no avail...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a few over the years, current one I’ve known 3 years now. Sex is amazing along with the trust levels etc.

Agree. I’ve realised now I can only do it that way. FWB more long term. Tried the other way and definitely not for me. "

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By *reeMan
over a year ago

Paisley


"I've got friends on benefits, does that count? "

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