FabSwingers.com forum: Are you sexy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Twice today I've had the "you're sexy" chat and it's weird.

I know I can portray sexy but it's not a natural thing for me, if I'm in the mood it's different but day to day I'm more of a wallflower.

I just wondered if anyone feels sexy the majority of the time? Do you have that confidence in your looks and demeanour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know"

Spend most of my day in a suit, infeel confident with it on, confidence makes me feel sexy......is it ok for a guy to refer to themselves as feeling sexy? Just doesnt sound right, but gonna say it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, but then I think I'm being delusional, it doesn't happen often

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

A wallflower who sits and eats crusty bread.

I don't think I'm sexy the majority of the time. Well, I know I'm not. But I can be sometimes. It's not so much how I look/what I am wearing (although that plays a part) but a particular frame of mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I feel sexy all the time, even if they don’t want me to I still feel them.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I don’t feel it, but it’s nice when others say it

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Day to day I don't really feel sexy at all. I have to make an effort to feel that way.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

When I’m in lingerie and makeup with my hair down - or a fitted dress - ie when I’m ‘Peachy ‘ - then yeah I feel sexy!

Day to day - when I’m just mum or a retail worker - with no makeup, my hair up and my glasses on - then I’m as far from sexy as it’s possible to get!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and I never have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im confident in my actions more than looks il leave others to call me sexy tho altho i do think im a catch and a half

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By *ornycouple485Couple
over a year ago

I feel sexy but then when I see my reflection and laugh and its over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty comfortable in my own skin. But I’m by far more geeky than I am sexy.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"When I’m in lingerie and makeup with my hair down - or a fitted dress - ie when I’m ‘Peachy ‘ - then yeah I feel sexy!

Day to day - when I’m just mum or a retail worker - with no makeup, my hair up and my glasses on - then I’m as far from sexy as it’s possible to get! "

Pretty much this.

When I'm dressed up with a nice outfit or sexy underwear I feel confident and sexy.

I certainly don't feel sexy in my work uniform that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never feel sexy. I'm really more adorable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very confident, always have been.

Am I sexy, err no I don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....but it depends on what they're beholding you by.

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

"Twice today I've had the "you're sexy" chat and it's weird.

I know I can portray sexy but it's not a natural thing for me, if I'm in the mood it's different but day to day I'm more of a wallflower.

I just wondered if anyone feels sexy the majority of the time? Do you have that confidence in your looks and demeanour? "

Yeah. Have to.

Those that contacted you are spot on btw.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I feel sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time I'm not conscious of it but around 5% of the time I think I look like a bag of shit and 5% of the time I think I look alright for a guy in his 50s.

Once in a blue moon I even think I catch women looking at me...but that's usally when I'm in Walsall town centre.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I used to assume that I was the opposite.

Now, I don't think about it the majority of the time. It's certainly not my aim. But occasionally I think, yeah, you're OK. Or sometimes more

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

It’s definitely a state of mind. There are some days no matter what I do, I’ve lost my sexy. I’m just not feeling it at all. It comes from within, deep deep within.

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8ve just got out the shower. I've got my old leggings on. My slippers and my bfs t-shirt that's about 200 times to big for me. So yes I'm really sexy like on the level of a complete mess sexy lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I've had the "you're sexy" chat and it's weird.

I know I can portray sexy but it's not a natural thing for me, if I'm in the mood it's different but day to day I'm more of a wallflower.

I just wondered if anyone feels sexy the majority of the time? Do you have that confidence in your looks and demeanour? "
Sexy is in the bedroom, you can look sexy and you do but as you say that doesn't mean you are

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I was twice, circa 1999.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been described as a crazy but incredibly sexy bitch before now

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont think it has anything to do with what you wear some people just ooze sex even if they where wearing a bin.liner

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

"When I’m in lingerie and makeup with my hair down - or a fitted dress - ie when I’m ‘Peachy ‘ - then yeah I feel sexy!

Day to day - when I’m just mum or a retail worker - with no makeup, my hair up and my glasses on - then I’m as far from sexy as it’s possible to get! "

"When I’m in lingerie and makeup with my hair down - or a fitted dress - ie when I’m ‘Peachy ‘ - then yeah I feel sexy!

Day to day - when I’m just mum or a retail worker - with no makeup, my hair up and my glasses on - then I’m as far from sexy as it’s possible to get! "

Mmmm...you might not feel it but the glances. The glances. Hair up? Glasses? Your profile? There must be glances/eye contact. xx

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Most of the time I'm not conscious of it but around 5% of the time I think I look like a bag of shit and 5% of the time I think I look alright for a guy in his 50s.

Once in a blue moon I even think I catch women looking at me...but that's usally when I'm in Walsall town centre. "

You caught my eye.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Feeling or believing you're sexy is a state of mind influenced by a multitude of factors. Some of them have already been touched on here.

Being well dressed certainly helps. As my role requires me to smartly dress several times a week, I suppose I do feel sexy on those occasions.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I like the way the ladies create a sexy persona

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pictures I put up on here feel like a totally different women. It isnt me at all. I am just 42 yo 'mum' and feel it too.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The pictures I put up on here feel like a totally different women. It isnt me at all. I am just 42 yo 'mum' and feel it too. "

My pictures are the least worst of me doing some really daft stuff with my phone propped up on self timer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The pictures I put up on here feel like a totally different women. It isnt me at all. I am just 42 yo 'mum' and feel it too. "

Trust me from another person's point of view. Your like a 10 sexy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The pictures I put up on here feel like a totally different women. It isnt me at all. I am just 42 yo 'mum' and feel it too.

My pictures are the least worst of me doing some really daft stuff with my phone propped up on self timer

Then the phone falls flat on its face when you reckon the pose is just right and you have to move

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The pictures I put up on here feel like a totally different women. It isnt me at all. I am just 42 yo 'mum' and feel it too.

My pictures are the least worst of me doing some really daft stuff with my phone propped up on self timer

Then the phone falls flat on its face when you reckon the pose is just right and you have to move

The bloopers are hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the difference between sexy and horny ?

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"When I’m in lingerie and makeup with my hair down - or a fitted dress - ie when I’m ‘Peachy ‘ - then yeah I feel sexy!

Day to day - when I’m just mum or a retail worker - with no makeup, my hair up and my glasses on - then I’m as far from sexy as it’s possible to get! "

Exactly this apart from being Lexi

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't *feel* I'm sexy myself but then I'm prone to self-deprecation anyway, so it's no surprise.

I guess a bit like beauty, sexy is something that is more in the eye of the beholder and for others to decide, and occasionally people will tell me they think I'm sexy which I struggle to accept or understand bit appreciate all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"No im not..."

Yes you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ooze sex appeal.

Fuck, I meant repel

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No I'm definitely not. Day to day I live in jeans and t shirts mostly and I definitely don't feel sexy. I'm just your average 46 year old really.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"What's the difference between sexy and horny ?

I guess there’s different opinions

For me

Sexy - more sensual, erotic, tempting, alluring

Horny - more just dirty and in need

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Hell yes I am!!

I feel confident in my own skin and good about myself. I'm just an average girl who's not afraid to be seen without makeup or with welly boots on or in my gym gear.

That in itself feels liberating and free from worrying what others think but that only came with age.

When I dress up actually I dont recognise myself but christ I feel good. So for me it's not about am I to others but I feel it...sexy and you know it.....

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Only feel sexy when fully dressed and wearing my stockings/suspenders and high heels.

I always feel so sexy but I suppose im putting effort into looking & feeling sexy so that maybe the answer

feel sexy when I put the effort in to be sexy lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Hell yes I am!!

I feel confident in my own skin and good about myself. I'm just an average girl who's not afraid to be seen without makeup or with welly boots on or in my gym gear.

That in itself feels liberating and free from worrying what others think but that only came with age.

When I dress up actually I dont recognise myself but christ I feel good. So for me it's not about am I to others but I feel it...sexy and you know it.....

I want to be you when I grow up

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Sexy is indefinable. Some women I find sexy my mates dont't think are sexy. Some women my mates find sexy I don't.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Sexy is indefinable. Some women I find sexy my mates dont't think are sexy. Some women my mates find sexy I don't. "

But this is about what you feel about yourself.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

I have my moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this post xx

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By *ulnade70sCouple
over a year ago

Up north

Never day to day but when I have made an effort with sexy lingerie/ heels etc people kindly comment that I am sexy. Its lovely to be flattered and it boosts my confidence x

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

D'uh, obvs

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Depends on how good I get my make up. Some days I look in the mirror and think "Oh my god I could shag her myself!", other days I look like Ronald Mcdonald in a dress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Welsh

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Don't know. You tell me!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I don't know

If you feel confident in your outer your inner will reflect that. Don’t suits feel great

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yes, but in different ways..

At work yes! I wear a suit so it’s all about power dressing - yep that’s sexy

Going out/meeting/club - definitely! I dress to achieve a desired effect - that’s Foxy sexy!

Hell yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some people I'm sexy.

To others, im not.

Confidence is key for me, so it goes without saying that if someone finds me sexy, I'm confident that I am

Well it made sense to me

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"To some people I'm sexy.

To others, im not.

Confidence is key for me, so it goes without saying that if someone finds me sexy, I'm confident that I am

Well it made sense to me

It does make sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To some people I'm sexy.

To others, im not.

Confidence is key for me, so it goes without saying that if someone finds me sexy, I'm confident that I am

Well it made sense to me

It does make sense

Thank god

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I don't know

If you feel confident in your outer your inner will reflect that. Don’t suits feel great

In my other life I'd wear a suit everyday theres something so empowering about a suit

maybe that's why my weakness is some men in some suits..flutters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I’m sexy. I ooze sexuality, in fact it’s dripping everywhere. Just call me a siren and if your name is Odysseus invest in some noise reducing headphones...

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't feel sexy. I'm not sure I even want to. I know that at certain times to certain people I am or have been. I know that because I wouldn't have had as much sex as I have. Luke

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I now feel I have to reply: "Damn Tooting"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of the time?... Hell no!!

Certain company can make that feeling come about though

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I feel sexy yes.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Not sure...I need telling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the lighting is good....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging from my lack of activity both here and out in the real world, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a frame of mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more likely to jump if I catch my reflection in the mirror lol

No seriously, I'm confident in my own skin but I wouldn't think of myself as sexy. Loveable maybe lol

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Damn right I am! I’m a woman in her late 30’s - proper sexy time of life. I am loving it actually!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m too sexy for this thread, to sexy for this thread. Time to get out of bed!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I must admit I feel dam sexy at times (or maybe delusional). Either way it's a great feeling and can become somewhat of a self fulfilling prophecy.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

No I’m not but I’m quite funny to compensate

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"No I’m not but I’m quite funny to compensate

Oh you have no need to compensate

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Lol no! Between a combination of low confidence and no self esteem, I genuinely dont think that anybody is particularly interested in me. I realise that statistically speaking I csnt be correct however it doesn't stop me feeling like it.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"No I’m not but I’m quite funny to compensate

You are sexy! You are completely sex on legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I’m not but I’m quite funny to compensate

You are sexy! You are completely sex on legs

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thankyou and so are you

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"No I’m not but I’m quite funny to compensate

Hah! You are just naturally sexy.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’ve had my moments I’m sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really embarrassing when people keep telling you how sexy you are when you don't feel it. Damn. I wish they wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had my moments I’m sure

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last Christmas?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

It's definitely a state of mind ... People can tell you, but if you don't feel it.....

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I’m definitely far from it and the older I get the less I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sexier than I ever did, although that doesn’t mean I feel sexy on an absolute scale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's definitely a state of mind ... People can tell you, but if you don't feel it....."
I feel it regularly

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

"Twice today I've had the "you're sexy" chat and it's weird.

I know I can portray sexy but it's not a natural thing for me, if I'm in the mood it's different but day to day I'm more of a wallflower.

I just wondered if anyone feels sexy the majority of the time? Do you have that confidence in your looks and demeanour? "

I rarely feel sexy, I try to pass of as confident and engaging, but only feel sexy when I'm in the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally day to day, not at all, I'm quite awkward, normally covered in mud or some kind of sauce, but when I'm in the zone, in the right company, the sexiness just takes over.. In a weird kind of way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I find myself sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who’s saying it and what there intentions are and compliments are good if they are innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I've had the "you're sexy" chat and it's weird.

I know I can portray sexy but it's not a natural thing for me, if I'm in the mood it's different but day to day I'm more of a wallflower.

I just wondered if anyone feels sexy the majority of the time? Do you have that confidence in your looks and demeanour? "

Sexy is used to describe something (clothes, music, words, you name it) that turns people on sexually. People who are sexy are attractive in a way that makes other people interested in them romantically or sexually.

This is sexy! I believe that we all are in our own little ways OP even if we do not feel it.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Been told a few times I am sexy but I never feel it myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I've had the "you're sexy" chat and it's weird.

I know I can portray sexy but it's not a natural thing for me, if I'm in the mood it's different but day to day I'm more of a wallflower.

I just wondered if anyone feels sexy the majority of the time? Do you have that confidence in your looks and demeanour? "

It's a strange one. I've always thought that sexiness is much more a state of mind than anything to do with aesthetics.

That said, the state of mind can be conveyed in body language and the way someone dresses.

Personally, I've never felt that comfortable with the way I look and feel to consider myself sexy, but that doesn't mean that someone else won't find me sexy.

Sexy is in the eye of the beholder I suppose.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Am I sexi. Am I fuck. I’m just a ginger haired cross dressing Dublin guy seeking reassurance that I’ve still got it despite having to wear very little of the Lacey kind

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

"It's really embarrassing when people keep telling you how sexy you are when you don't feel it. Damn. I wish they wouldn't

Afraid you can’t have pictures like you have on your profile without people saying your sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No man has ever felt sexy, it’s an emotion only women feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No man has ever felt sexy, it’s an emotion only women feel."

You look sexy today Tame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sexy at all, more like a baby hippo on ice skates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe not to look at but I’m told I can be very sexy

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I’m not sexy at all, more like a baby hippo on ice skates

That’s definitely a niche perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t day to day, perhaps when I’m in my nice underwear and dressed up I might feel something close to it. I’ve had one definite time recently when I felt sexy as I was doing a special someone a lap dance and his reaction to it gave me a boost x

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I'm naturally suspicious,if someone says I'm sexy I think theyysfter something. If I say I'm sexy then I'm d*unk ')

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I've had the "you're sexy" chat and it's weird.

I know I can portray sexy but it's not a natural thing for me, if I'm in the mood it's different but day to day I'm more of a wallflower.

I just wondered if anyone feels sexy the majority of the time? Do you have that confidence in your looks and demeanour? "

No and it makes me feel uncomfortable when people tell me I am.

Sexy for a woman always seems to be tied in with the outfit they are wearing (or barely wearing) so to me it's the outfit people find sexy....If someone told me I looked sexy in a onesie I might be more tempted to believe the spiel

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I don't know

If you feel confident in your outer your inner will reflect that. Don’t suits feel great

In my other life I'd wear a suit everyday theres something so empowering about a suit

maybe that's why my weakness is some men in some suits..flutters

I’d say that sounds about right

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I don't think I'm "sexy" but I don't think I'm bad looking. I'm just not someone women look at and go "phwooar" I think my looks and demeanour are more understated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No man has ever felt sexy, it’s an emotion only women feel.

You look sexy today Tame

I’m sat in my pants on the sofa, tucking into a bowl of Cheerios!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know

If you feel confident in your outer your inner will reflect that. Don’t suits feel great

In my other life I'd wear a suit everyday theres something so empowering about a suit

maybe that's why my weakness is some men in some suits..flutters

I’d say that sounds about right

"
you give me flutters he mutters as he splutters and butters my bagel with jam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sexy and I know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I've had the "you're sexy" chat and it's weird.

I know I can portray sexy but it's not a natural thing for me, if I'm in the mood it's different but day to day I'm more of a wallflower.

I just wondered if anyone feels sexy the majority of the time? Do you have that confidence in your looks and demeanour? "

Yeeees!

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

No oil painting but honest and respectfull of others

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

People may think I’m sexy, but I couldn’t possibly comment.

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By *neeyedpirateMan
over a year ago

ask!

I have never been called sexy or felt it lol

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By *V-AliceTV/TS
over a year ago

Ayr

I've been told I am, quite a few times - but I never believe the hype.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People may think I’m sexy, but I couldn’t possibly comment.

You just have commented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today = yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn't say so. Being sexy isn't a natural thing for me. I think I have a sexy side, but that's more inside than outside. I have felt sexy as a whole a few times, but I was a lot happier with my body and had much more confidence in myself back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Today = yes"

I think the Tesco banana in your pants is sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Quirky, but hardly sexy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Today = yes

I think the Tesco banana in your pants is sexy

Organic cucumber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still Welsh

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Parts of my body have been decribed as sexy (bum, eyes, legs) but as a complete package (body, attitude, voice...), I'm not sexy at all.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm fucking magnificent. I exude pure unadulterated sex like a vegan exudes farts.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Yes. I’m sexy. I ooze sexuality, in fact it’s dripping everywhere. Just call me a siren and if your name is Odysseus invest in some noise reducing headphones...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mr. thinks I'm sexy... I'd say I'm more flirty than sexy. Or maybe floozy?

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

"When I’m in lingerie and makeup with my hair down - or a fitted dress - ie when I’m ‘Peachy ‘ - then yeah I feel sexy!

Day to day - when I’m just mum or a retail worker - with no makeup, my hair up and my glasses on - then I’m as far from sexy as it’s possible to get! "
I bet you still look sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy M.F.

https://youtu.be/bfHsF6FKgb4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just told i am by someone who matters so yes i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not sexy at all, more like a baby hippo on ice skates

Hahaha. Yep. I’m too clumsy to be sexy

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I don't know

If you feel confident in your outer your inner will reflect that. Don’t suits feel great

In my other life I'd wear a suit everyday theres something so empowering about a suit

maybe that's why my weakness is some men in some suits..flutters

I’d say that sounds about right

you give me flutters he mutters as he splutters and butters my bagel with jam

Love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not sexy at all, more like a baby hippo on ice skates

Hahaha. Yep. I’m too clumsy to be sexy

Narr surely not x

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think sexy is an attitude. For me, if I am going out, makeup, hair and clothes all nice then yeah I feel sexy. Day to day though not so much x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"No I’m not but I’m quite funny to compensate

You are sexy! You are completely sex on legs

I echo this. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeeeee , No.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Twice today I've had the "you're sexy" chat and it's weird.

I know I can portray sexy but it's not a natural thing for me, if I'm in the mood it's different but day to day I'm more of a wallflower.

I just wondered if anyone feels sexy the majority of the time? Do you have that confidence in your looks and demeanour? "

I feel horny the majority of the time if that counts

But no I don't think I'm sexy at all, I'm just me and hopefully that's enough for someone to like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally... but not often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not sexy at all, more like a baby hippo on ice skates

Hahaha. Yep. I’m too clumsy to be sexy

Narr surely not x

Yep! It’s all very nice in the pics but once I try and sexily step away from that wall I’m likely to trip over a shoe fly across the room swearing in a very unladylike way and land on top of you, probably break your ribs and headbutt you and knock you right out. I do try though

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Sometimes... Not terribly often though... My 'real life' isn't very conducive to feeling sexy most of the time. I tend to take the 'hey sexy' stuff on here with a fistful of salt tbh... It gets thrown about far too much and too easily to have any value. Being told you're sexy by someone who is holding you in his arms though... That can make you feel like the sexiest woman alive

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By *ymBuff2019Man
over a year ago

colchester

Is sexy still a thing? I usually go for “hot” or “stunning”

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Is sexy still a thing? I usually go for “hot” or “stunning”"

We're old. We hang on to words

(I'm playfully ribbing not picking on you, hopefully obviously)

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I find even trying to be sexy rather embarrassing I’m obviously not good at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not sexy at all, more like a baby hippo on ice skates

Hahaha. Yep. I’m too clumsy to be sexy

Narr surely not x

I’m sure we are twins

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

For years I felt like the most unsexiest person alive.. Then in the last couple of years I've started to feel more sexy. Do I actually think I'm sexy do I exude that sexy look?? Im not sure.. People say I'm sexy on here but I just take that to be "fab compliments" and with a pinch of salt. I hope when I'm out sometimes I do look sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a word I associate with myself.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"When I’m in lingerie and makeup with my hair down - or a fitted dress - ie when I’m ‘Peachy ‘ - then yeah I feel sexy!

Day to day - when I’m just mum or a retail worker - with no makeup, my hair up and my glasses on - then I’m as far from sexy as it’s possible to get!

When I’m in lingerie and makeup with my hair down - or a fitted dress - ie when I’m ‘Peachy ‘ - then yeah I feel sexy!

Day to day - when I’m just mum or a retail worker - with no makeup, my hair up and my glasses on - then I’m as far from sexy as it’s possible to get!

Mmmm...you might not feel it but the glances. The glances. Hair up? Glasses? Your profile? There must be glances/eye contact. xx

Tbh I’ve no idea! I don’t feel attractive in ‘E’ mode - ergo if ten guys were ogling me (which is extremely unlikely) I’d be oblivious to it!

Tbh I kinda like being invisible day to day - I prefer to be able to decide when I do and don’t want attention!

I wouldn’t want guys to stare at me wherever I go! For example if I’m out for dinner with the kids - I deliberately dress ‘unsexily ‘ - I very much doubt my kids want to see their mum being ogled by random blokes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too deep for this time in the morning xx my brain cant cope.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I’m not sexy at all, more like a baby hippo on ice skates

Ah so you’re like me! Sexy as long as you can stand absolutely still and just ‘strike a pose!’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy is always defined by someone else really, to say you're sexy yourself is vain, I believe we all have sexy moments with the right person who creates sexy with you

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Physically, I don't think I am.

For me, it's a mental thing.

The thoughts in my head, the way someone affects me, the way I respond.

My brain needs to feel sexy before my body will

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By *eys00Man
over a year ago

have boots will travel

Yes

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

God no!!!!!!

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