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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s everyone’s views on meeting new members?

I mean like hours, sometimes days on the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s everyone’s views on meeting new members?

I mean like hours, sometimes days on the site?"
bit sceptical

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t meet new people - only at socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na i meet nobody new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s everyone’s views on meeting new members?

I mean like hours, sometimes days on the site?"
exactly the same as meeting anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most new people on here are 3 times removed new so I wouldn't worry about it.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Makes no difference if someone is only on here for a few hours or years, if they go to a club I'll meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done it before

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I think most new people on here are 3 times removed new so I wouldn't worry about it."

This

"Fab new"

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Depend if they have a decent profile and can hold a normal conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've all been new at some point.

I've had lots of chats with people that I ended up blocking as they were not willing to prove that they were real - just wanted photos. In my opinion, give the newbies a chance.

x N

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We have met new members in the past. Wasn't a problem to us.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I liked them I'd meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand that some of you have been here, for sometime and know the drill

But for people that are new, hence, me and and tons of others that are genuine, a closed door, with a lock, a password to get in and a bloody army ready to shoot you if you try to get 100 miles from it, isnt a good start, is it xD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So my point. Yes, a bit sceptic to trust someone and meet then, even myself as a newbie, but not cynical to not even initiate a convo on here xD

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've met new members and unverified too. Can normally, mostly, tell the genuine ones after chatting a bit x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Extremely new? No.

Recently joined and not meet verified? Sceptical but it's possible.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I met someone who had only been on site 40 minutes

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By *uma69Man
over a year ago

stockport

I'd meet everyone has to start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve done it AND THEY TURNED UP !!....I know...we were as shocked as you were...suppose it’s like eBay...at some point everyone has zero feedback...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't everyone new at some point when they sign up on here ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the people I’ve met for a social haven’t been verified and I’ve had no issues. I’m quite good at sussing people out through chatting though and I always make sure they are who the pics show they are before meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it's hard to believe, but I think once I actually met a person who wasn't even on fab! of course they could have been fibbing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have actually found that the oldies per se can't hold a descent conversation with me (a new be)

I give a good introduction and bit about us , what we into send face pic and get bloody one liners , not able to hold a conversation but want to meet straight away ?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have actually found that the oldies per se can't hold a descent conversation with me (a new be)

I give a good introduction and bit about us , what we into send face pic and get bloody one liners , not able to hold a conversation but want to meet straight away ?!?! "

Maybe is the spelling :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm highly educated nothing wrong with my spelling however my phone is illiterate at times especially when it can't keep up with fast typing speed.

And sometimes the text wording can sneak its way in . You know the shortened version that teenager kids use when txting and only understand parents if they txt bk n same txt . Get ma drift lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

S sneaked in to word decent there .was too late by time i hit enter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve done it before "

Met after just a few hours of them being on the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"S sneaked in to word decent there .was too late by time i hit enter "

Was just teasing xD

But I get "ya" point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm highly educated nothing wrong with my spelling however my phone is illiterate at times especially when it can't keep up with fast typing speed.

And sometimes the text wording can sneak its way in . You know the shortened version that teenager kids use when txting and only understand parents if they txt bk n same txt . Get ma drift lol

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Must be the samsung family, what a bunch of illiterate phone brand xD

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't everyone new at some point when they sign up on here ???

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Yes of course. But just asking as some users block ‘newbies’ from messaging

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes I love newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I love newbies "

Oh helloooo lol

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Jesus you sceptical bunch! Some of the best meets I have had were with people new to the site. One particular couple I met within an hour and a half of then joining and we're still meeting five years later!

If you won't give them a chance I will!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fresh meat. Get in fast before they've met someone and been tainted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s everyone’s views on meeting new members?

I mean like hours, sometimes days on the site?"
no hope on this site i think due to it being dam hard for single men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. They must earn that rite of passage lol. Socials, clubs, parties etc. Not hard to get verified at all.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Yes I love newbies

Oh helloooo lol"

Hello yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope. They must earn that rite of passage lol. Socials, clubs, parties etc. Not hard to get verified at all."

My point exactly tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I love newbies

Oh helloooo lol

Hello yourself "

I feel like Cupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I love newbies

Oh helloooo lol

Hello yourself

I feel like Cupid "

I sense an increased amount of verification coming this way xD

"0" won't be my worse enemy after all xD whose ready to get this virgin soul? XD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, have you had any luck yet?

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