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"How do you know they aren’t replying because of your age, if they aren’t replying to tell you that’s why they aren’t replying to you?" This^^. You’ve only been here for a short time. What were you expecting? | |||
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"You found it pretty good here last time, why not do what you did then? " Very true. What did you do different OP? | |||
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Be yourself. I’m sure you will find the one | |||
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"Very likey not your age (or not just your age) I'm 35 and in the exact same boat. Well I was until my attitude changed. I stopped giving a fuck and just let things play out (with a positive outlook) and it got better. " Agreed! Some single blokes expecting tinderesque responses and instant meets. As far as I can see, the 4/5 weeks as an a tive supoorter, this is a different ballgame; a lifestyle choice. | |||
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"Young & honry? Sounds like a floor cleaning business. " Ha haha | |||
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"How do you know they aren’t replying because of your age, if they aren’t replying to tell you that’s why they aren’t replying to you?" well because most people I message don't reply and those who do say too young so that why I assume it's cause of the age | |||
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"How do you know they aren’t replying because of your age, if they aren’t replying to tell you that’s why they aren’t replying to you? well because most people I message don't reply and those who do say too young so that why I assume it's cause of the age " Ah okay, makes sense I guess. Well there are plenty of men, your age and younger who are very successful on fab.   | |||
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"How do you know they aren’t replying because of your age, if they aren’t replying to tell you that’s why they aren’t replying to you? well because most people I message don't reply and those who do say too young so that why I assume it's cause of the age " A lot of people will look at a profile before replying to a message. That might be your problem. | |||
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"You found it pretty good here last time, why not do what you did then? " nah I only said that cause some people might not want to reply to people new to this so that why I wrote that hahaha | |||
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"You found it pretty good here last time, why not do what you did then? nah I only said that cause some people might not want to reply to people new to this so that why I wrote that hahaha" I wouldn’t want to meet a liar  | |||
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"You found it pretty good here last time, why not do what you did then? nah I only said that cause some people might not want to reply to people new to this so that why I wrote that hahaha" The reason they won't want to reply isn't because you are new. Bullshit isn't an attractive trait even though you seem to find it funny. Problem is, most people on here are a little older, and are used to some kind of maturity. | |||
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"You found it pretty good here last time, why not do what you did then? nah I only said that cause some people might not want to reply to people new to this so that why I wrote that hahaha The reason they won't want to reply isn't because you are new. Bullshit isn't an attractive trait even though you seem to find it funny. Problem is, most people on here are a little older, and are used to some kind of maturity." I’m younger and used to maturity  | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account " Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. | |||
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"You found it pretty good here last time, why not do what you did then? nah I only said that cause some people might not want to reply to people new to this so that why I wrote that hahaha The reason they won't want to reply isn't because you are new. Bullshit isn't an attractive trait even though you seem to find it funny. Problem is, most people on here are a little older, and are used to some kind of maturity. I’m younger and used to maturity "Thankfully, there are always exceptions!! Have fun. | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. " Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one " We would honestly say that the one that sounds better is totally irrelevant. What about just being honest and telling the truth? | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one " No need to mention being on fab before | |||
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"Hit you up is that like a pain sex fetish you have  "Emm no by hit me up i mean message me | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before "I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before "Why is there any need to mention it? | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one We would honestly say that the one that sounds better is totally irrelevant. What about just being honest and telling the truth?" Yeah you could | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before "So has it worked out better for you then?? | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before
Why is there any need to mention it? "Because people on fabs don't usually go for new people they prefer poeple who have already had meets and have been on fabs for long or at least that's what I think | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before "Well we know the truth now | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before
Why is there any need to mention it?
Because people on fabs don't usually go for new people they prefer poeple who have already had meets and have been on fabs for long or at least that's what I think "The first thing they look at is a decent profile which represents a decent amount of effort. | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before
So has it worked out better for you then??"Nope it has not I deleted fabs and didnt sign back up for months I decided to try again and by the looks of things I don't have better luck this time than last time | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before
Why is there any need to mention it?
Because people on fabs don't usually go for new people they prefer poeple who have already had meets and have been on fabs for long or at least that's what I think "I think you’re a wee bit mistaken to be honest! Most people don’t care. It’s all about the person, what they look like, what they can offer etc, rather than ‘oh have they been on fab before?’ I’d rather meet someone who was honest about being on fab and not being successful beforehand but was giving it another bash, rather than someone who lied. | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before
So has it worked out better for you then??
Nope it has not I deleted fabs and didnt sign back up for months I decided to try again and by the looks of things I don't have better luck this time than last time "Dude you have been back 7 days! It takes me that long to choose a sandwich... | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before
Well we know the truth now"What truth? the fact that I said I was on fabs before and had a good time when In reality I had terrible luck | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before
Well we know the truth now
What truth? the fact that I said I was on fabs before and had a good time when In reality I had terrible luck "Be honest from the start | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before
So has it worked out better for you then??
Nope it has not I deleted fabs and didnt sign back up for months I decided to try again and by the looks of things I don't have better luck this time than last time
Dude you have been back 7 days! It takes me that long to choose a sandwich... "Yeah but last time I was on fabs for I think 6 or 7 weeks and it was the exact same as now | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before
So has it worked out better for you then??
Nope it has not I deleted fabs and didnt sign back up for months I decided to try again and by the looks of things I don't have better luck this time than last time
Dude you have been back 7 days! It takes me that long to choose a sandwich...
Yeah but last time I was on fabs for I think 6 or 7 weeks and it was the exact same as now"That’s also absolutely no time at all in fab land
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before
So has it worked out better for you then??
Nope it has not I deleted fabs and didnt sign back up for months I decided to try again and by the looks of things I don't have better luck this time than last time
Dude you have been back 7 days! It takes me that long to choose a sandwich...
Yeah but last time I was on fabs for I think 6 or 7 weeks and it was the exact same as now
That’s also absolutely no time at all in fab land
What have you been doing this time to try and get chatting, secure meets etc?"Messaging people and it's not like I'm some idiot jus messaging wanna fuck I actually try to put something to do with the person profile in the message to show that I actually read there profile | |||
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"I'm straight horny fella so if you like what ya see hit me up cause I'm sick of messaging people and getting no reply cause of my age haha" I don't think it's your age. Haha. | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before
So has it worked out better for you then??
Nope it has not I deleted fabs and didnt sign back up for months I decided to try again and by the looks of things I don't have better luck this time than last time
Dude you have been back 7 days! It takes me that long to choose a sandwich...
Yeah but last time I was on fabs for I think 6 or 7 weeks and it was the exact same as now
That’s also absolutely no time at all in fab land
What have you been doing this time to try and get chatting, secure meets etc?
Messaging people and it's not like I'm some idiot jus messaging wanna fuck I actually try to put something to do with the person profile in the message to show that I actually read there profile"Brutal truth OP? You are 20 years old, you are a single man and you can't accommodate. There are literally tens of thousands of single men on this site, so ask yourself, "why would they choose me?". Not "why not?". When you have your answer to that question, you will have a meet. | |||
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"I'm straight horny fella so if you like what ya see hit me up cause I'm sick of messaging people and getting no reply cause of my age haha I don't think it's your age. Haha." Maybe it isn't but I don't think the problem is my look and I'm no creep either so I don't message weird or plain message so yeah I think it's my age but yeah it could be something else | |||
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"it ain't a lie but it ain't the full truth I did have another account jus I had the same problem as I do now no replys I got fed up and deleted the account Make your mind up, you either did, or you didn't. Well you tell me what sounds better saying I was on fabs before and had a shit time or I was on fabs and had a good time people who see my profile I think would rather go for someone who had a good time before rather than a shitty one No need to mention being on fab before
I think you do since it tells people even tho your profile is new you've been on fabs before
So has it worked out better for you then??
Nope it has not I deleted fabs and didnt sign back up for months I decided to try again and by the looks of things I don't have better luck this time than last time
Dude you have been back 7 days! It takes me that long to choose a sandwich...
Yeah but last time I was on fabs for I think 6 or 7 weeks and it was the exact same as now
That’s also absolutely no time at all in fab land
What have you been doing this time to try and get chatting, secure meets etc?
Messaging people and it's not like I'm some idiot jus messaging wanna fuck I actually try to put something to do with the person profile in the message to show that I actually read there profile
Brutal truth OP? You are 20 years old, you are a single man and you can't accommodate. There are literally tens of thousands of single men on this site, so ask yourself, "why would they choose me?". Not "why not?". When you have your answer to that question, you will have a meet. "True you do have a valid point there can't say I disagree with what ya said haha | |||
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"I'm straight horny fella so if you like what ya see hit me up cause I'm sick of messaging people and getting no reply cause of my age haha I don't think it's your age. Haha. Maybe it isn't but I don't think the problem is my look and I'm no creep either so I don't message weird or plain message so yeah I think it's my age but yeah it could be something else " You're right, it could be something else. Haha | |||
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"I'm straight horny fella so if you like what ya see hit me up cause I'm sick of messaging people and getting no reply cause of my age haha I don't think it's your age. Haha. Maybe it isn't but I don't think the problem is my look and I'm no creep either so I don't message weird or plain message so yeah I think it's my age but yeah it could be something else " But unless you’re sending everyone you message a face picture, no one knows what you look like. And even so; you might think ‘yeah okay, this women is totally describing me in her profile, I’d be perfect for her!’ She may disagree. One persons ‘gorgeous man’ is another’s ‘meh, not my type’
Honestly; there’s so many successful young men on here. Men younger than you in fact! It’s possible.
Stop blaming your age and make sure you’re messaging people who want to meet people your age. Then ‘it’s my age’ cannot be an excuse. | |||
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"Queen help the boy out before he needs to get an escort "Lol | |||
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"Queen help the boy out before he needs to get an escort "Ironically, he’s too young for me  | |||
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"Queen help the boy out before he needs to get an escort
Ironically, he’s too young for me "See was right was his age all along a knew it | |||
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"Well. Here goes. Your Profile is Crap. You say absolutely nothing about what you can bring to a Meet (And we don’t mean a bottle of Lambrusco) You are competing very badly with around 600000000 Trillion other Single Guys. You have absolutely nothing to make people want to meet you. Moaning and Bitching is most unattractive. Sorry. Did we say that out loud? "Brutal but spot on. | |||
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