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By *ondon lad 44 OP   Man
over a year ago

swindon

If ur wife , partner cheated on u would u forgive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If ur wife , partner cheated on u would u forgive? "

No never x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Have you been caught out OP?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

It would depend on the circumstances but most probably yes I would

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Nope

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By *ondon lad 44 OP   Man
over a year ago

swindon


"Have you been caught out OP? "

No I’m a single guy , just curious who would forgive lol x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

No

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Yes ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but then again he doesn’t have to cheat, just let me watch

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

No, I didn't when it happened.

Saying that depending on circumstances of it all I'd maybe at least be willing to listen to what she had to say and try to see if I could. Sometimes crazy shit makes people do crazy things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have told the wife bring any guy she wants home as long as I’m included in the fun that’s fine but would be deeply hurt if she fucked some guy behind my back.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

No. No excuses.

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By *unny ValentineCouple
over a year ago

Crewe

Mr - possibly depending on circumstance. Mrs - not a chance he's dead to me !

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By *ymBuff2019Man
over a year ago

colchester

Depends. If they cheated on me and ate my mars bar while I was out then no absolutely not!!

Then again I am single so the above probably suggests why.

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By *ymBuff2019Man
over a year ago

colchester

Depends. If they cheated on me and ate my mars bar while I was out then no absolutely not!!

Then again I am single so the above probably suggests why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me. I don't own husband - he's a free person to do what he wants. It's only sex. I'd say good on him.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have a partner....If I did and they cheated then I would never forgive them....To some forgiveness is like a free ticket to do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends doesn’t it...

To err is human, to forgive is divine

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Yes...Hence our username.

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

my first wife cheated on me, thats why she is now a ex wife. the first time she said it was a misstake, the second time was a pisstake!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if it was with a relative, no way never. Same goes for the relative

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

No if they cheat then they have lost respect for you.

If they cheat but you have let them know you don’t mind then that’s different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once nicked a £500 note from the monopoly bank to cover my debts.

He forgave me.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope,would never be able to trust him again,especially as we are here as a couple and we both have permission to meet separately .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not really any need to cheat if you are both in this lifestyle.

So although I might be able to forgive, I'm not sure I could ever forget - and that would ruin the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It would depend but I would need to understand first, as well as have trust rebuilt by their actions. I'm single and expect open communication and honesty.

That someone would risk disposing of such a valuable, priceless asset would really need complete evaluation. It potentially reflects aspects of their personality I didn't know or that could be serious cause for concern, akin to being anathema to sustaining a healthy relationship based on trust. It's not my job to fix him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to forgive her since i am also...

Being on here and the possibility

of getting caught is such a rush. Even the idea of her walking in onmee makes it better.

It turns me on to know that at any point the things i do could be found out. My last meet i timed it perfectly so as they where driving away she would pull up.

There was one time (i call it the danger fuck) where we did it right outside her office during working hours. The meet was set up so we could play in a secluded allyway during the day just before lunch. i then went and ate with the other half straight after. I was soo hard thinking she would notice the aftermath in my trousers i had to have another meet straight after. (Which i set up on here while at lunch.with the misses)

I had to..

Its such a rush.  

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kinda cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would. But I doubt she would cheat. As I've asked her to join in with me on here and I've told her as long as it's safe sex and she tells me. But just not interested. Even offered her threesomes but no. She knows I'm here and as long as I come home and it's all safe ,then that's all she wants to know. But wish she would join.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never been in that situation. I'd like to say no, I'd not forgive, but until I'm faced with it (hopefully i won't be), i don't know what my reaction would be. If our relationship were strained and there was neglect in the relationship on my part, i would take a look within myself as well as hear them out, before making such a final decision.

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't think I could forgive him. I wouldn't be able to let it go and it would play on my mind and have a really bad effect on our relationship if we continued on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cheated at cards once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have to forgive her since i am also...

Being on here and the possibility

of getting caught is such a rush. Even the idea of her walking in onmee makes it better.

It turns me on to know that at any point the things i do could be found out. My last meet i timed it perfectly so as they where driving away she would pull up.

There was one time (i call it the danger fuck) where we did it right outside her office during working hours. The meet was set up so we could play in a secluded allyway during the day just before lunch. i then went and ate with the other half straight after. I was soo hard thinking she would notice the aftermath in my trousers i had to have another meet straight after. (Which i set up on here while at lunch.with the misses)

I had to..

Its such a rush.  "

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did... He was an arsehole in many other ways tho...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have before yes

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I once nicked a £500 note from the monopoly bank to cover my debts.

He forgave me."

That’s despicable!!

Stealing to pay debts won’t help as you will run up more debt cause you haven’t learned to pay back what you owe.

He was a strong man that forgave that

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have to forgive her since i am also...

Being on here and the possibility

of getting caught is such a rush. Even the idea of her walking in onmee makes it better.

It turns me on to know that at any point the things i do could be found out. My last meet i timed it perfectly so as they where driving away she would pull up.

There was one time (i call it the danger fuck) where we did it right outside her office during working hours. The meet was set up so we could play in a secluded allyway during the day just before lunch. i then went and ate with the other half straight after. I was soo hard thinking she would notice the aftermath in my trousers i had to have another meet straight after. (Which i set up on here while at lunch.with the misses)

I had to..

Its such a rush.  "

What a bad man you are!

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By *asy markMan
over a year ago

rawtenstall

No never - loyalties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have to forgive her since i am also...

Being on here and the possibility

of getting caught is such a rush. Even the idea of her walking in onmee makes it better.

It turns me on to know that at any point the things i do could be found out. My last meet i timed it perfectly so as they where driving away she would pull up.

There was one time (i call it the danger fuck) where we did it right outside her office during working hours. The meet was set up so we could play in a secluded allyway during the day just before lunch. i then went and ate with the other half straight after. I was soo hard thinking she would notice the aftermath in my trousers i had to have another meet straight after. (Which i set up on here while at lunch.with the misses)

I had to..

Its such a rush.  

What a bad man you are! "

Well next time dont make it so damn exciting. You know i cant resist you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If ur wife , partner cheated on u would u forgive? "
yes because I love her final

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

No .

If you can’t trust your partner then what’s the point of being with them ?

If they are prepared to cheat on you they can’t really care that much for you can they ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If ur wife , partner cheated on u would u forgive? "

My good mate is, she openly admits to not getting sex at home, he is aware of it just doesn’t want to know.

I have an acquaintance that is cheating on here so obvious to the women on here, i sussed it out first week he came back on here!

I think cheating for whatever reason makes you a coward, no matter of the reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never been in that situation. I'd like to say no, I'd not forgive, but until I'm faced with it (hopefully i won't be), i don't know what my reaction would be. If our relationship were strained and there was neglect in the relationship on my part, i would take a look within myself as well as hear them out, before making such a final decision.

Holly"

You are gorgeous he would be mad if he ever did cheat on you .

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

People do what they do there own reasons don't allways make sense to others but to them nerveless they make sense good communication is needed but I'm v forgiving so guess I'd forgive but to fair also as others said if in this lifestyle together where's the need to cheat ? Maybe the thrill of it is a turn on in itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would massively depend on the circumstances and how I found out.

P

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By *ondon lad 44 OP   Man
over a year ago

swindon

Bit of a mixed bag. Very interesting comments. X

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"If ur wife , partner cheated on u would u forgive? "
Yes I would

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