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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How far is too far?

What are other fabbers distance preferences and would they chat/meet with people who are a few hundred miles away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelled for hours and miles to meet friends from here.

Depends how much I like them and how well we get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a road trip

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Clonmel

If the connection is there and the chance of a supersized bottle of whiskey , finger food and nibbles. I’m off

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Distance for "quality" time with someone isn't a problem .. with planning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 mile unless accomodating me overnight.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Within an hour for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How far is too far?

What are other fabbers distance preferences and would they chat/meet with people who are a few hundred miles away x"
all meets have some planning involved if the person comes to you what difference does it make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im down to travel for socials. Though i guess it depends on the groups. Im basically 2 hours from anywhere i need to be.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

All depends on who with, what to do,how long for and where we stay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replys! The general consensus seems to be depends who and what you are travelling for.

For us distance itself isn't an issue as we love to travel for a night or two a month when out babysitter allows it and as we all know it can be just as difficult to plan a meet with someone 15 mins away lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm for England later in the year, all being well, to meet someone for a coffee or 4 and a chat. If the other person is worth it then distance doesn't have to be as big a factor as it might seem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to regularly travel 3hours. Now it would be a maximum 1 hour. I would travel further if I got chatting to someone from the forum

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By *YC SausageMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

The furthest I’ve gone is Cockermouth but I try to keep it to within an hours drive now. Love driving.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are now of the opinion the forums the best feature on fab! It's more easygoing and always some drama in the Scottish section to keep you entertained lol x

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"The furthest I’ve gone is Cockermouth but I try to keep it to within an hours drive now. Love driving. "

She didn't go all the way then ... just oral?

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By *YC SausageMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"The furthest I’ve gone is Cockermouth but I try to keep it to within an hours drive now. Love driving.

She didn't go all the way then ... just oral? "

Haha the town name was part of the attraction! And did a lot more than just oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the reasons I love being here in the middle of the country is that most places are accessible within 90 minutes, that's generally my limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance is no issue. Time is the problem...

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By *avid1234555Man
over a year ago

Dfs and Galloway/Ayrshire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Distance is no issue. Time is the problem..."

Exactly this. And also responsibilities! I love travelling and I love driving long distance. I can and have arranged weekends away etc at times but it’s not that easy when you have children so on the occasions I do meet people for a social I prefer to keep it local.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Distance is no issue. Time is the problem..."

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Distance is no issue. Time is the problem..."

And cash for those that don't have it so readily available to get there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Time away due to having kids and also the money to do so is always the difficult part but we found that holiday homes rather than hotels offered better deals! Especially in places like the north of Scotland or lake district act. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to regularly travel 3hours. Now it would be a maximum 1 hour. I would travel further if I got chatting to someone from the forum "
yes and I could guess who lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 40 miles/an hours drive. Chance would be a fine thing at the moment !

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

For the right person I would happily travel longer distances and have done so in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right person we would travel..

We often go away on weekends away.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

spain

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

3400 miles.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Distance really isn't the deciding factor for the right person. Its the appreciation that time (because I work,like most of people on here) and have responsibilities, that's what get in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met some beautiful people after a toad trip.

I like to travel and explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fab gf is 130 miles away.... distance isnt a issue when she's concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly drive 100s of miles with work so I don’t see why I wouldn’t drive to meet someone I like. But that’s just me, I quite enjoy driving.

I suppose it comes down to the type of meet. Would I drive 100+ miles for a ten minute meet? Hell no, but I probably wouldn’t drive 10 miles for that either.

As someone else said it’s more about having the time. My job is fairly flexible so in that respect I guess I’m lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 1 hr if they are worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to regularly travel 3hours. Now it would be a maximum 1 hour. I would travel further if I got chatting to someone from the forum yes and I could guess who lol "

? I'm none the wiser? I met my previous fwb through forums who I travelled for.. I found out later that he was a lying shit bag. My current fwb I met through face pic Friday and I have met lots of forumites at the Manchester social. The only reason I would meet forumites further away is because I get a feel for their personalities in the forum. Random guys that message me I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regularly drive 100s of miles with work so I don’t see why I wouldn’t drive to meet someone I like. But that’s just me, I quite enjoy driving.

I suppose it comes down to the type of meet. Would I drive 100+ miles for a ten minute meet? Hell no, but I probably wouldn’t drive 10 miles for that either.

As someone else said it’s more about having the time. My job is fairly flexible so in that respect I guess I’m lucky."
. Or the lady in question is lucky that your willing to social with her

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If it’s a club visit 50 miles. Hotel and stay over club visit 100 miles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, due to Vamp’s mobility issues, more than twenty miles stuck in a car, means very little chance of play.

We Malay travel during day, and have some fun in the evening, if we are really interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regularly drive 100s of miles with work so I don’t see why I wouldn’t drive to meet someone I like. But that’s just me, I quite enjoy driving.

I suppose it comes down to the type of meet. Would I drive 100+ miles for a ten minute meet? Hell no, but I probably wouldn’t drive 10 miles for that either.

As someone else said it’s more about having the time. My job is fairly flexible so in that respect I guess I’m lucky.. Or the lady in question is lucky that your willing to social with her "

Oh, I have a feeling this particular lady is worth the journey

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By *isterPepperMan
over a year ago

SN1

I too cover a lot of miles for work, so 2 and a half hours seems a reasonable cutoff - a particularly exciting offer could entice a longer journey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well 2500 miles away so that not happening Lol

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Did 5 hours one way before, would do again

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I have been known to travel 7hrs to meet a fabster for a social. She was very much worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is too far if they're worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing is too far if they're worth it. "

True! I would travel as far as I had to if I thought they were worthy quite fun to have a road trip as well.

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