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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there certian people on here that sticks to a group like they are back at school and just never grown up to embrace all kinds of people. Or do you believe it your choice who you play with and just to sick with the click. And are you the ring leader of such a click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am getting the pop corn , lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no hard Hat , lol xx post about clicks always gos tits up , lol

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West


"I am getting the pop corn , lol xx "

I'll get the Drinks then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no clique on here cos they say they're not in one

I'll just stick the kettle on for this one, anyone want to buy a cuppa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am getting the pop corn , lol xx

I'll get the Drinks then "
tea one suger white , lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there certian people on here that sticks to a group like they are back at school and just never grown up to embrace all kinds of people. Or do you believe it your choice who you play with and just to sick with the click. And are you the ring leader of such a click"

What's your opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Hob Nobs ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'll hold my hands up, its is I who is the leader of the clique.

*the clique DO NOT take lightly to clique being spelt wrongly, please spell check all posts in future.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Just gonna make sausage sarni's, anyone want one

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We are not leaders or followers of a clique.....nor do we want to be.

Meet and chat to who we want, when we want.

Think that could be said for most people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no clique on here cos they say they're not in one

I'll just stick the kettle on for this one, anyone want to buy a cuppa? "

tea, white no sugar please.. and pay.. whats the going rate???

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a debate I am curious about peoples _iews on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just gonna make sausage sarni's, anyone want one "

Are they free or are you selling them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just gonna make sausage sarni's, anyone want one "

brown sauce please, should be able to squezze a couple of butties in, any bacon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a debate I am curious about peoples _iews on this."

We're all mass debators on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in a clique of one ..... that's how exclusive it gets here.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Just gonna make sausage sarni's, anyone want one

Are they free or are you selling them? "

Free, but delivery is extra, unless you want to collect

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I didn't follow people at school

I didn't follow people in business

I don't follow anyone in here

I express my own opinions, it will differ from others and that I respect.

Because it is my opinion, doesn't make it right, JUST my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a debate I am curious about peoples _iews on this.

We're all mass debators on here "

You wan't sauce on that sausage Dogger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a debate I am curious about peoples _iews on this."

So am I, what's your _iew?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Just gonna make sausage sarni's, anyone want one

brown sauce please, should be able to squezze a couple of butties in, any bacon?"

brown sauce AND bacon, don't want much do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

okay.. On anywhere.. be it a real life group, online you get groups of people that are on the same wavelengths.. So they will perhaps all get into certain threads.

For example.. the bdsm ones there are about 10 of us that will all say our piece in defence.. and there are just as many that will post against.. its because we all feel strongly on those points..

On the cheating and being on here.. you get a group that is against..and a group that thinks that its not our business .. you get the ones that think its nothing to judge but wont play.. etc etc...

I woudlnt say its clicks.. just that over time you will notice the same people posting on certain threads.. but there are things I wont comment on.. things I wont get involved in because I feel I have nothing to add..

I think it tends to be same.. and I am certainly no different on here to in real life.. actually no.. I am a little more held back on here.

Cali

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I am in a clique of one ..... that's how exclusive it gets here. "

I've got a clique, think it's me dodgy knee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a debate I am curious about peoples _iews on this.

We're all mass debators on here

You wan't sauce on that sausage Dogger? "

No thanks I've got plenty as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Or do you believe it your choice who you play"

Eerrrrm obviously its everyone's personal choice who they play with.

As for the click, are we talking click's on fab's in general or are we talking about the famous hush hush forum click?

Kat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a debate I am curious about peoples _iews on this."

we couldnt possibly discus it with someone outside of the clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a debate I am curious about peoples _iews on this."

What are your thoughts on this op?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Is there certian people on here that sticks to a group like they are back at school and just never grown up to embrace all kinds of people. Or do you believe it your choice who you play with and just to sick with the click. And are you the ring leader of such a click"
explain what you mean by "a certain group" explain what you mean by "embrace all kinds of people" explain " sick with the click" and explain what you mean by "ring leader", then il answer...fankoo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"okay.. On anywhere.. be it a real life group, online you get groups of people that are on the same wavelengths.. So they will perhaps all get into certain threads.

For example.. the bdsm ones there are about 10 of us that will all say our piece in defence.. and there are just as many that will post against.. its because we all feel strongly on those points..

On the cheating and being on here.. you get a group that is against..and a group that thinks that its not our business .. you get the ones that think its nothing to judge but wont play.. etc etc...

I woudlnt say its clicks.. just that over time you will notice the same people posting on certain threads.. but there are things I wont comment on.. things I wont get involved in because I feel I have nothing to add..

I think it tends to be same.. and I am certainly no different on here to in real life.. actually no.. I am a little more held back on here.

Cali "

Well said thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just gonna make sausage sarni's, anyone want one

brown sauce please, should be able to squezze a couple of butties in, any bacon?

brown sauce AND bacon, don't want much do you"

go on then, stick an egg on it aswell

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"This is a debate I am curious about peoples _iews on this.

we couldnt possibly discus it with someone outside of the clique "

That made me chuckle

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By *littylikka69Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

a clique on here?,

nah!,never ever!,surely that is just a fallacy?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't follow people at school

I didn't follow people in business

I don't follow anyone in here

I express my own opinions, it will differ from others and that I respect.

Because it is my opinion, doesn't make it right, JUST my opinion."

Thank you for your opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a debate I am curious about peoples _iews on this.

What are your thoughts on this op?

"

Yes it is a debate, but op seems to avoid giving her opinion.

kat

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I didn't follow people at school

I didn't follow people in business

I don't follow anyone in here

I express my own opinions, it will differ from others and that I respect.

Because it is my opinion, doesn't make it right, JUST my opinion.

Thank you for your opinion"

you are welcome

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

First rule of the clique is there is no clique!!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 06/03/12 11:58:08]

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

but what you will find

the same people will post there is no clique

the same people will post there is a clique

both are a grouping of people with similar thoughts on a certain subject...

groupings/clique: whatever..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So there are two cliques, the inies and the outies?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my _iew here it goes i am from a counrty of seven official languages and cutures embracing one another with our differences and all i do not believe in cliques or any form of excluding people. it does not matter how diffrent you are from me. I love the human race including the idiots in it lol therefore a clique just wont work for me. that is my _iew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So who do op think are the ring leaders ?? Some have strong _iews .. but it is a forum. I think 3 or 4 years ago on fab it was war of words not so much respect.. i look back and read some of the old posts its alot better now i feel . You will always get people being friends as meet each other at clubs and partys and are friends .

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"my _iew here it goes i am from a counrty of seven official languages and cutures embracing one another with our differences and all i do not believe in cliques or any form of excluding people. it does not matter how diffrent you are from me. I love the human race including the idiots in it lol therefore a clique just wont work for me. that is my _iew "
you exclude small minded people and timewasters though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thing is.. is it a clique when friends that perhaps know each other off the site stick together.. No its just friends..

Newbies do tend to have to fight their way in to be accepted..and there seems to be hidden acceptance rules.. but I wouldnt say it was a clique..

I can be guilty of upsetting a certain group.. but yet sometimes I say something.. get backlash, and its those very same people suddenly defending me..

The thing with forums like this is that a lot of the time its not just faceless internet strangers.. people have often met the people they are being accused of being clique with...

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there certian people on here that sticks to a group like they are back at school and just never grown up to embrace all kinds of people. Or do you believe it your choice who you play with and just to sick with the click. And are you the ring leader of such a click"

What do you class/consider a clique OP?

If there was such a thing on here would you want to be part of it?

What assumptions do you have to think there is a clique?

My oppinion.

We all have our own ideals, comments and oppinions, some are shared with others some disregard them as rubbish.

When someone makes a comment it can ruffle feathers and maybe that was the intention or it could have been taken out of context and misread.

Sometimes (rarely) most people will agree to someones thoughts that they openly share.

At the end of the day we are all different and all _iews on here will be different, it's up to the individual reading how they interperet things.

Some people on here know each other personally and some don't and their comments between each other may seem 'cliquey'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"my _iew here it goes i am from a counrty of seven official languages and cutures embracing one another with our differences and all i do not believe in cliques or any form of excluding people. it does not matter how diffrent you are from me. I love the human race including the idiots in it lol therefore a clique just wont work for me. that is my _iew you exclude small minded people and timewasters though "

yes i did my mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your just on about forums well most forums busy or not are like this, theres always people who come on and spend maybe too much time on here chatting and getting into all sorts of topics, and others that are much more part time or occassional posters

regulars eventually talk to each other and get along and become friendly, its just how foruns go. if you want like that then you will get there with regular posting.

if you mean a clique to get meets well it probs depends on who you trying to get meets, sure some couples and groups may clique up and talk about others between each other etc but they more people who arnt all linked together as well.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"my _iew here it goes i am from a counrty of seven official languages and cutures embracing one another with our differences and all i do not believe in cliques or any form of excluding people. it does not matter how diffrent you are from me. I love the human race including the idiots in it lol therefore a clique just wont work for me. that is my _iew you exclude small minded people and timewasters though

yes i did my mistake "
and people you dont like...so you do believe in excluding people then....ok now im confused

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


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We all have our own ideals, comments and oppinions, some are shared with others some disregard them as rubbish.

When someone makes a comment it can ruffle feathers and maybe that was the intention or it could have been taken out of context and misread.

Sometimes (rarely) most people will agree to someones thoughts that they openly share.

At the end of the day we are all different and all _iews on here will be different, it's up to the individual reading how they interperet things.

Some people on here know each other personally and some don't and their comments between each other may seem 'cliquey'.

"

Very well put

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"my _iew here it goes i am from a counrty of seven official languages and cutures embracing one another with our differences and all i do not believe in cliques or any form of excluding people. it does not matter how diffrent you are from me. I love the human race including the idiots in it lol therefore a clique just wont work for me. that is my _iew you exclude small minded people and timewasters though

yes i did my mistake and people you dont like...so you do believe in excluding people then....ok now im confused "

as you can see its a joint profile my _iews and domanders is diffrent hunny lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cliques are everywhere not just here. doesnt affect me tho so doesnt really bother me

ill stick up for someone i thinks being singled out and bullied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cliques are everywhere not just here. doesnt affect me tho so doesnt really bother me

ill stick up for someone i thinks being singled out and bullied "
because your a lovely soul xxx thats the things not everyone is . xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"cliques are everywhere not just here. doesnt affect me tho so doesnt really bother me

ill stick up for someone i thinks being singled out and bullied "

well said thank you

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

See the word clique banded about forums and chatrooms , what i fail to understand is why people feel the need to class a group of friends as a clique , is it jealousy ?

Forums and chatrooms alike have regular people posting or chatting in them and those said people form friendships .

Equally there are people from the site who actually meet each other regularly now far be it from me to think it is only right to speak to your friends , after all if it was real life and u were in a pub , would u pass ur friends to go chat to the strangers sitting at the table behind ?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"my _iew here it goes i am from a counrty of seven official languages and cutures embracing one another with our differences and all i do not believe in cliques or any form of excluding people. it does not matter how diffrent you are from me. I love the human race including the idiots in it lol therefore a clique just wont work for me. that is my _iew you exclude small minded people and timewasters though

yes i did my mistake and people you dont like...so you do believe in excluding people then....ok now im confused

as you can see its a joint profile my _iews and domanders is diffrent hunny lmao"
well you post with one profile thats the one i have commented on as you stated one thing but mean another..lmao

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"cliques are everywhere not just here. doesnt affect me tho so doesnt really bother me

ill stick up for someone i thinks being singled out and bullied "
i totally agree with that, its interesting some peoples definition of being bullied though...some do it on here, some do stuff by pm, i hate bullies with avengeance, and especially the ones that hide behind a keyboard in their fab bubble ...so sbay..well said!!

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By *irty_bhamMan
over a year ago

birmingham

ooh really ???

i'm not in the clique nor am i cliquey,

i don't care what anyone else thinks about my posts because believe it or not i'm an adult and i don't playground etiquette.

they are only cliques if you allow them to be, otherwise they are pervs like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ooh really ???

i'm not in the clique nor am i cliquey,

i don't care what anyone else thinks about my posts because believe it or not i'm an adult and i don't playground etiquette.

they are only cliques if you allow them to be, otherwise they are pervs like me"

better to be a perve I reckon...

Wolf

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"Just gonna make sausage sarni's, anyone want one

brown sauce please, should be able to squezze a couple of butties in, any bacon?"
Take it 'squezze' was a typo !

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I would have said, reading this thread and the way everyone followed on with the first two posts from Game... There is what is perceived to be the clique! Always the same people, posting irrelevance on a thread that was, after all a reasonable one.

Funny thing is, as I posted on another thread, the clique deniers in any cross section of people are the ones that are perceived to be in that clique by others. Normally no one leader, but once one posts something, they all follow suit because they want to be “in”. No one wants to be “out”.

Of course everyone will say that they are not worried if they are in or out, but human nature being what it is, we all want to be loved…

What is a clique? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clique

“In the social sciences, the word "clique" is used to describe a group of 2 to 12 (averaging 5 or 6) “persons who interact with each other more regularly and intensely than others in the same setting.”

It is normal behaviour and denying it doesn’t mean it isn’t there. We all do it and we all want to belong to a group of some sort, be it religion, swinging, the cycling club etc.. Nowt wrong with that at all and although people will deny, they do exist here as everywhere else! Maybe not so prominent on here because we only spend a small amount of time in the forums, but I am in a number of cliques in my life!

Nothing wrong with them at all…

But this is just my _iew and others may yadda yadda yadda...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

by having one profile it does not mean it includes my personal _iews so what you read and what i say and mean is diffrent thought comman sense migh help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ooh really ???

i'm not in the clique nor am i cliquey,

i don't care what anyone else thinks about my posts because believe it or not i'm an adult and i don't playground etiquette.

they are only cliques if you allow them to be, otherwise they are pervs like me"
your right xxx only cliques if you allow them to be,

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By *irty_bhamMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"ooh really ???

i'm not in the clique nor am i cliquey,

i don't care what anyone else thinks about my posts because believe it or not i'm an adult and i don't playground etiquette.

they are only cliques if you allow them to be, otherwise they are pervs like me

better to be a perve I reckon...

Wolf "

i don't blame you,

you've a sexy devil to perv so why wouldn't you

i would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there certian people on here that sticks to a group like they are back at school and just never grown up to embrace all kinds of people.

If by sticking to a group you mean having a laugh, a banter and can agree with those who share similar thoughts sense of humour and sexual practices then Yes.

Or do you believe it your choice who you play with

... it has always been my choice who I play with, no-one chooses or forces another on me.

and just to sick with the click.

I take it you mean continue to meet with regulars? That sometimes is the case yes.

And are you the ring leader of such a click"

I can be the life and soul when out with friends so could that class me as a ring-leader?

I am definitely head of my household ( another clique I'm in?) therefore the ring-leader there.

I am a member of many groups/collections of people/cliques, call them what you like.

I've yet to understand what posters mean when they come onto the forums or into the chatrooms and talk about 'THE clique's' though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would have said, reading this thread and the way everyone followed on with the first two posts from Game... There is what is perceived to be the clique! Always the same people, posting irrelevance on a thread that was, after all a reasonable one.

Funny thing is, as I posted on another thread, the clique deniers in any cross section of people are the ones that are perceived to be in that clique by others. Normally no one leader, but once one posts something, they all follow suit because they want to be “in”. No one wants to be “out”.

Of course everyone will say that they are not worried if they are in or out, but human nature being what it is, we all want to be loved…

What is a clique? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clique

“In the social sciences, the word "clique" is used to describe a group of 2 to 12 (averaging 5 or 6) “persons who interact with each other more regularly and intensely than others in the same setting.”

It is normal behaviour and denying it doesn’t mean it isn’t there. We all do it and we all want to belong to a group of some sort, be it religion, swinging, the cycling club etc.. Nowt wrong with that at all and although people will deny, they do exist here as everywhere else! Maybe not so prominent on here because we only spend a small amount of time in the forums, but I am in a number of cliques in my life!

Nothing wrong with them at all…

But this is just my _iew and others may yadda yadda yadda... "

Thank you very much for your comment much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often the perception of a 'clique' comes from a coalition of people with the same idea or opinion; on occasion it could be mis-interpreted as something more, especially if a minority disagrees with a majority _iew.

Or as Obi Wan said - "What I told you was true, from a certain point of _iew"

There are people that know each other very well, probably outside of the forums and often the occasional posters or those who don't (or haven't) got together socially may feel that they are "missing the joke", so to speak.

At the end of the day, its all a game of perception and opinion. To some it can be seen as a 'clique', to others not. Its all in your own opinion.

To quote the great Harry Callahan : Opinions are like assholes - Everybody's got one.

But then again, what would I know, Im just an opinionated asshole.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I've never understood why people think Cliques are a bad thing, or is that just me

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"This is a debate I am curious about peoples _iews on this.

we couldnt possibly discus it with someone outside of the clique "
Why bring field events into the debate !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am Spartacus

Thats the sort of thing you mean, isn't it OP?

I am the ringleader, and intend to take over Fab, then the World

MWAHAHAHA

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I've never understood why people think Cliques are a bad thing, or is that just me "

it's not a bad thing, it is the behaviours that they/we evidence that are a cause for concern at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't follow people at school

I didn't follow people in business

I don't follow anyone in here

I express my own opinions, it will differ from others and that I respect.

Because it is my opinion, doesn't make it right, JUST my opinion."

Right! That's it! You're out!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"I've never understood why people think Cliques are a bad thing, or is that just me "

Exactly!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I didn't follow people at school

I didn't follow people in business

I don't follow anyone in here

I express my own opinions, it will differ from others and that I respect.

Because it is my opinion, doesn't make it right, JUST my opinion.

Right! That's it! You're out! "

I have been out for the longest time.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am Spartacus

Thats the sort of thing you mean, isn't it OP?

I am the ringleader, and intend to take over Fab, then the World

MWAHAHAHA "

The problem with world domination is what do you do once you've achieved it? Where do you go from there?

Plus, I can only imagine the administrative overhead of keeping the world running just wouldn't make it worth it! Imagine all the paperwork!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am getting the pop corn , lol xx "

OI .. i have the popcorn franchise on here now

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By *irty_bhamMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"I am Spartacus

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i am shortacus

but wank like a bonobo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"I am Spartacus

Thats the sort of thing you mean, isn't it OP?

I am the ringleader, and intend to take over Fab, then the World

MWAHAHAHA

The problem with world domination is what do you do once you've achieved it? Where do you go from there?

Plus, I can only imagine the administrative overhead of keeping the world running just wouldn't make it worth it! Imagine all the paperwork!"

AND.. You would have to have someone to stoke the boilers!! They don't stoke themselves, you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am Spartacus

Thats the sort of thing you mean, isn't it OP?

I am the ringleader, and intend to take over Fab, then the World

MWAHAHAHA "
I am sure last time i looked at you ..... was all woman , lol he is a man ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood why people think Cliques are a bad thing, or is that just me

"

I think its the feeling of social exclusion.

Whereas I know I smell and dont play nice with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A group of people in a pub who know each other will group together to chat. You won't see them standing in different parts of a pub unable to hear or be heard by the rest of the group. Unknown persons standing nearby may overhear the conversation and join in, but if what they say is irrelevant to what's being discussed, or if they come across as facetious or quarrelsome to the rest of the group they'll be ignored.

Is that a clique?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am Spartacus

he problem with world domination is what do you do once you've achieved it? Where do you go from there?

Plus, I can only imagine the administrative overhead of keeping the world running just wouldn't make it worth it! Imagine all the paperwork!"

No last time _aceytop was a wonderful secretary/ organiser/henchperson!

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By *irty_bhamMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"A group of people in a pub who know each other will group together to chat. You won't see them standing in different parts of a pub unable to hear or be heard by the rest of the group. Unknown persons standing nearby may overhear the conversation and join in, but if what they say is irrelevant to what's being discussed, or if they come across as facetious or quarrelsome to the rest of the group they'll be ignored.

Is that a clique?

"

exactly,

some people feel that just by standing there they should be included,

participate and make your voice heard.

just not on the karakoe as the mic is mine it'll take a bigger man/woman than you to take it off me

i'm fast as fuck and you'll never catch me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its just something the online world creates the illusion of and it's unique for it.

If you went for a swim at the swimming baths you wouldn't expect everyone to stop and shake your hand. Over time you might get to know some regulars and then interact more..

There is no substitute for getting among it, contributing and making a difference.

and dirty.... yeah so wrong (in a good way), but so right... lol

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ring leaders no one could be here on fab. As we all have our own _iews . No ones telling me what to think i am my own person ....like most here. I would hate it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, is this anything to do with the responses you got to your yesterdays post about men paying for sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my _iew here it goes i am from a counrty of seven official languages and cutures embracing one another with our differences and all i do not believe in cliques or any form of excluding people. it does not matter how diffrent you are from me. I love the human race including the idiots in it lol therefore a clique just wont work for me. that is my _iew you exclude small minded people and timewasters though

yes i did my mistake and people you dont like...so you do believe in excluding people then....ok now im confused "
. Confused me a while ago, I was ready to put in an order for a sausage sandwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show me your ring and I'll lead it folks!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Just gonna make sausage sarni's, anyone want one "

yes pls..

if not too late..

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


" OP, is this anything to do with the responses you got to your yesterdays post about men paying for sex ?"

Is there a problem if it is? If there is no problem, why bring it up?

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By *irty_bhamMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"I think its just something the online world creates the illusion of and it's unique for it.

If you went for a swim at the swimming baths you wouldn't expect everyone to stop and shake your hand. Over time you might get to know some regulars and then interact more..

There is no substitute for getting among it, contributing and making a difference.

and dirty.... yeah so wrong (in a good way), but so right... lol

Wolf

"

erm i beg to differ,

i stopped swimming as every time i went they wanted to shake something ................. and it wasn't my hand

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Starting a thread that looks like it is a critisim of forum posters will get certain reactions from people......just the same as it seems to depend on the first few posts after an OP as to how a thread will go.

There is nothing wrong with people answering their own friends on the forums and there is nothing wrong with people disagreeing with others on a forum.

No one is saying the forums is a fluffy place 24 hours a day and sometimes there is nastiness too, but if people can't accept that some will disagree with your posts and it isn't always personal...then maybe forums are not for them.

On the subject of bullying....we have had many mails accusing most people of bullying at some time or another, and that includes people who have in the past complained there is bullying on the forums....it just shows you how people look at things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" OP, is this anything to do with the responses you got to your yesterdays post about men paying for sex ?

Is there a problem if it is? If there is no problem, why bring it up? "

no, not a problem here, legitimate question i thought, wondering if the op thought that after the amount of opposition from yesterdays post that they were working out if there was a clique in here or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to play devils advocate maybe the op feels like what he says is always wrong no matter how correct or incorrect it is. Maybe they feel I un welcomed when a comment is posted? As if their opinion may not be heard of acknowledged? There are numbers of ways to see this. If this is how they feel like there is a clique culture then that's how the op feels. Then again I maybe totally wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show me your ring and I'll lead it folks! "

can i be in your ring laine plz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its just something the online world creates the illusion of and it's unique for it.

If you went for a swim at the swimming baths you wouldn't expect everyone to stop and shake your hand. Over time you might get to know some regulars and then interact more..

There is no substitute for getting among it, contributing and making a difference.

and dirty.... yeah so wrong (in a good way), but so right... lol

Wolf

erm i beg to differ,

i stopped swimming as every time i went they wanted to shake something ................. and it wasn't my hand

"

I'd leave the budgie at home next time then... PMSL

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show me your ring and I'll lead it folks!

can i be in your ring laine plz "

..... I was lubing up my strap-on ..... but okay, hop on.

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By *irty_bhamMan
over a year ago

birmingham

op

look, it's simple. i am who i am, be it online, in tesco's or in the pub so forums i love as i give it "jonny big spuds" no matter what.

are you the type to sit in the corner and think everyone is talking about you for no reason, the one having fun no matter what or do you want to be the one making a scene and hoping you get the attention i crave ??

be yourself and you will find that sooner or later we'll shine to your personality.

i don't perv the forum posters for their pics but their brains(tits)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are... a few "brady bunch's" of cliques here and in the cam world... Nothing wrong with it, people are attracted to who ever they feel comfortable and stronger around, and some like myself shy away from it.

I have see some instances where people talk one anthers business to other members of their clique and it gets around.

As we all know, it has its pro's and cons... but i know my own stance...

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By *irty_bhamMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Show me your ring and I'll lead it folks!

can i be in your ring laine plz

..... I was lubing up my strap-on ..... but okay, hop on. "

can i watch and offer words of encouragement and mockery ???

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you


"I am Spartacus

he problem with world domination is what do you do once you've achieved it? Where do you go from there?

Plus, I can only imagine the administrative overhead of keeping the world running just wouldn't make it worth it! Imagine all the paperwork!

No last time _aceytop was a wonderful secretary/ organiser/henchperson! "
did someone mention world domination,ooowheres me lists

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

and a sausage sandwich please brown sauce,no popcorn im on a diet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" OP, is this anything to do with the responses you got to your yesterdays post about men paying for sex ?"

Not at all i really enjoyed yesterdays post today i ask another question and i will keep asking questions as i enjoy hearing about peoples _iews and opinions therefore a debate can be very educational

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" OP, is this anything to do with the responses you got to your yesterdays post about men paying for sex ?

Not at all i really enjoyed yesterdays post today i ask another question and i will keep asking questions as i enjoy hearing about peoples _iews and opinions therefore a debate can be very educational "

thank you for clearing that one up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will get friends backing each other up now and again .. thats just life .. I think if i am true to myself no one can get to me ... its how i cope here. I dont take things to heart as know its not life here .. its just a forum and a site . Words can cutt like a knife but only if you let them get to you .

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West

OK i'm putting the kettle back on before the next lot of posts ........ who wants a brew ???

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"OK i'm putting the kettle back on before the next lot of posts ........ who wants a brew ??? "

Milk, no sugar please, still got sausages and bacon left

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


" OP, is this anything to do with the responses you got to your yesterdays post about men paying for sex ?

Is there a problem if it is? If there is no problem, why bring it up?

no, not a problem here, legitimate question i thought, wondering if the op thought that after the amount of opposition from yesterdays post that they were working out if there was a clique in here or not "

Fair comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just gonna make sausage sarni's, anyone want one

brown sauce please, should be able to squezze a couple of butties in, any bacon? Take it 'squezze' was a typo !"

ha, yeah . . . . . forgot to use my spellchecker

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West


"OK i'm putting the kettle back on before the next lot of posts ........ who wants a brew ???

Milk, no sugar please, still got sausages and bacon left"

Ok No problem are we delivering or you want to collect??? and i'll have a sausage TA xx

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I suppose what is one persons Clique is anothers group of frineds using chat rooms to keep in touch, swap gossip, arrange meets and socials etc.

As an outsider to that group it can come over as being a closed shop.

But then is that any different to any other site / chat room or the local pub ?

I have never yet found a group or room that total ignores or excludes me or anyone else.

the only people that i have seen turned on by any group are the 'look at me i am gods gift' types.

or the 'get you kit off' types the first time they go in a room.

is it me, perhaps i am to tolerant ...

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

wonders if this post is as quick to get to the limit as yesterdays one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK i'm putting the kettle back on before the next lot of posts ........ who wants a brew ??? "
. Could I have tea white no sugar please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK i'm putting the kettle back on before the next lot of posts ........ who wants a brew ???

Milk, no sugar please, still got sausages and bacon left"

what happened to the eggs?? runny yolk please

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West


"OK i'm putting the kettle back on before the next lot of posts ........ who wants a brew ??? . Could I have tea white no sugar please "

Sure you can .............. delivery or collection

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"OK i'm putting the kettle back on before the next lot of posts ........ who wants a brew ???

Milk, no sugar please, still got sausages and bacon left

Ok No problem are we delivering or you want to collect??? and i'll have a sausage TA xx "

WARNING!!!!!

Cliques,cause weight gain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK i'm putting the kettle back on before the next lot of posts ........ who wants a brew ??? . Could I have tea white no sugar please

Sure you can .............. delivery or collection "
. Mmmmm I'm thinking collection, I like to see new people and places, tho I fear it mite be cold by the time the train gets there

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West


"wonders if this post is as quick to get to the limit as yesterdays one "

Just glad im not on a water meter for all these brews im making

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West


"OK i'm putting the kettle back on before the next lot of posts ........ who wants a brew ??? . Could I have tea white no sugar please

Sure you can .............. delivery or collection . Mmmmm I'm thinking collection, I like to see new people and places, tho I fear it mite be cold by the time the train gets there "

Can make u a fresh one don't go worrying yourself xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a good discussion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"a good discussion."

Thank you very much it was educational

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are groups of people who share a similar outlook. Some people do know each other personally, though I don't believe just because you've met people you need to be agreeing with their _iewpoint all the time.

It could be that someone posts something that a lot of people on the forum disagree with. We all have different opinions, likes, dislikes, life experiences etc. if you truly believe what you've typed and that is your opinion then stand by it. It could be that someone offers a differing point that you hadn't thought of. The ability to listen as well as talk is key.

There are people that you don't warm to, there are people you know haven't warmed to you, there are often pm's flying around about posters on here. Its not important though, people on fab are not really important in the grand scheme of life, one switch off the pc and they're gone, that's how I look at it.

There are things all of us dislike and this will differ. I don't like comments, as seen on this thread, about popcorn and cups of tea etc. I dislike fence sitters, its not debate its often belittling of an opening post and I see no point in typing irrelevant comments, but that's just me, other people will see it as having fun and being friendly

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows


"Just gonna make sausage sarni's, anyone want one "

you can sandwich my sausage tween your ladybits if you like xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Just gonna make sausage sarni's, anyone want one

you can sandwich my sausage tween your ladybits if you like xx"

Careful what you ask for

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"OK i'm putting the kettle back on before the next lot of posts ........ who wants a brew ??? . Could I have tea white no sugar please

Sure you can .............. delivery or collection "

Collection, if I'm not too late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iconic just wrote my post !!!

I was half way through writing it when I realised she had said it all for me. Totally agree with her

And no I am not in a clique !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are groups of people who share a similar outlook. Some people do know each other personally, though I don't believe just because you've met people you need to be agreeing with their _iewpoint all the time.

It could be that someone posts something that a lot of people on the forum disagree with. We all have different opinions, likes, dislikes, life experiences etc. if you truly believe what you've typed and that is your opinion then stand by it. It could be that someone offers a differing point that you hadn't thought of. The ability to listen as well as talk is key.

There are people that you don't warm to, there are people you know haven't warmed to you, there are often pm's flying around about posters on here. Its not important though, people on fab are not really important in the grand scheme of life, one switch off the pc and they're gone, that's how I look at it.

There are things all of us dislike and this will differ. I don't like comments, as seen on this thread, about popcorn and cups of tea etc. I dislike fence sitters, its not debate its often belittling of an opening post and I see no point in typing irrelevant comments, but that's just me, other people will see it as having fun and being friendly "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have said, reading this thread and the way everyone followed on with the first two posts from Game... There is what is perceived to be the clique! Always the same people, posting irrelevance on a thread that was, after all a reasonable one."

Couldn't agree more, the irony was obviously lost on those claiming there isn't a clique here.

I don't personally think a clique necessarily has to be a bad thing, but when mentioned on these forums it always comes across as a negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like comments, as seen on this thread, about popcorn and cups of tea etc. I dislike fence sitters, its not debate its often belittling of an opening post and I see no point in typing irrelevant comments, but that's just me, other people will see it as having fun and being friendly "

I don't like it either and it comes across as rather infantile - but that's my opinion, and as you said others will just see it as having a laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have said, reading this thread and the way everyone followed on with the first two posts from Game... There is what is perceived to be the clique! Always the same people, posting irrelevance on a thread that was, after all a reasonable one.

Couldn't agree more, the irony was obviously lost on those claiming there isn't a clique here.

I don't personally think a clique necessarily has to be a bad thing, but when mentioned on these forums it always comes across as a negative.

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well most of you have seen posts about clicks here .. i know i have ...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"okay.. On anywhere.. be it a real life group, online you get groups of people that are on the same wavelengths.. So they will perhaps all get into certain threads.

For example.. the bdsm ones there are about 10 of us that will all say our piece in defence.. and there are just as many that will post against.. its because we all feel strongly on those points..

On the cheating and being on here.. you get a group that is against..and a group that thinks that its not our business .. you get the ones that think its nothing to judge but wont play.. etc etc...

I woudlnt say its clicks.. just that over time you will notice the same people posting on certain threads.. but there are things I wont comment on.. things I wont get involved in because I feel I have nothing to add..

I think it tends to be same.. and I am certainly no different on here to in real life.. actually no.. I am a little more held back on here.

Cali "

What Miss Cali said

People often read more into the fact people are into the same things or share _iews than exists...i hope cali doesnt mind me sying we have never met, however i would love too...but a few people have asked how long we have been friends and if assumed we know each off site...

The fact certain people will have stuff in common and agree on certain subjects doesnt make them a clique...i cannot think of one subject all regular posters agree on except timewasting... where the advice comes with the wisdom of swinging experience.

Which is another point that those who cry clique should consider. i remember pointing out to the dear departed soapy that we had 50 years of swining experience behind us...

Doesnt make us right, does mean we have seen most questions before and have experience of what works and doesnt...if a group of people are agreeing on something it might be worth thinking, well they have seen more of this than i have, perhaps it is worth taking on board what they are saying.

The c word is normally used by 2 groups...those who dont use other forums, because they all have regulars and an element of group think, and those who do not like the answers that have been given to a thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In any community there is an under tone of a clique culture Im speaking from my own experience when I came to England 13 years ago I didn't have a decent friend till my 5-6 year of living here. I don't understand why there is a clique culture. How I see it let's enjoy the difference and embrace the variety of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In any community there is an under tone of a clique culture Im speaking from my own experience when I came to England 13 years ago I didn't have a decent friend till my 5-6 year of living here. I don't understand why there is a clique culture. How I see it let's enjoy the difference and embrace the variety of life."
well i would be happy to be your friend xx people are not the same your right and i like forums and some lovely people here .

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I just see friends and people I chat with regularly, not a clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In any community there is an under tone of a clique culture Im speaking from my own experience when I came to England 13 years ago I didn't have a decent friend till my 5-6 year of living here. I don't understand why there is a clique culture. How I see it let's enjoy the difference and embrace the variety of life."

I'dve been ur best friend ever E...mainly for sex....in a friendly manner of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In any community there is an under tone of a clique culture Im speaking from my own experience when I came to England 13 years ago I didn't have a decent friend till my 5-6 year of living here. I don't understand why there is a clique culture. How I see it let's enjoy the difference and embrace the variety of life.

I'dve been ur best friend ever E...mainly for sex....in a friendly manner of course"

Yes I know you would be my best sex friend if I gave you a chance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In any community there is an under tone of a clique culture Im speaking from my own experience when I came to England 13 years ago I didn't have a decent friend till my 5-6 year of living here. I don't understand why there is a clique culture. How I see it let's enjoy the difference and embrace the variety of life.

I'dve been ur best friend ever E...mainly for sex....in a friendly manner of course

Yes I know you would be my best sex friend if I gave you a chance lol"

wait in line FFS...I'm booked up for a bit!!!!!...jump ahead of the queue if u give multiple daily bjs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In any community there is an under tone of a clique culture Im speaking from my own experience when I came to England 13 years ago I didn't have a decent friend till my 5-6 year of living here. I don't understand why there is a clique culture. How I see it let's enjoy the difference and embrace the variety of life.well i would be happy to be your friend xx people are not the same your right and i like forums and some lovely people here ."

Thats very sweet of you! I see forums as something where minds meet and opinions are shared and it's varied. I belong to other forums (not sex ones believe it or not) and everyone has something great to add wether it be good or bad x

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over a year ago


"In any community there is an under tone of a clique culture Im speaking from my own experience when I came to England 13 years ago I didn't have a decent friend till my 5-6 year of living here. I don't understand why there is a clique culture. How I see it let's enjoy the difference and embrace the variety of life.

I'dve been ur best friend ever E...mainly for sex....in a friendly manner of course

Yes I know you would be my best sex friend if I gave you a chance lol

wait in line FFS...I'm booked up for a bit!!!!!...jump ahead of the queue if u give multiple daily bjs!"

Lol you made the first offer? #justsaying

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Is there certian people on here that sticks to a group like they are back at school and just never grown up to embrace all kinds of people. Or do you believe it your choice who you play with and just to sick with the click. And are you the ring leader of such a click"

I think it can sometimes be perceived as a clique, especially if you are new or an irregular poster on forums. From what I've seen on forums, not just here, it comes across as a clique when its regular posters whether they know eachother off here or not.

Some have similar (not identical) _iews, others have totally opposite opinions.

As I was told, just post, because you'll be damned if you do damned if you dont.

I only post on threads that I feel I can contribute to, but will try and avoid threads about certain contentious subjects. Maybe that makes me a fence sitter, but at least my ass is cushioned

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"In any community there is an under tone of a clique culture Im speaking from my own experience when I came to England 13 years ago I didn't have a decent friend till my 5-6 year of living here. I don't understand why there is a clique culture. How I see it let's enjoy the difference and embrace the variety of life.well i would be happy to be your friend xx people are not the same your right and i like forums and some lovely people here .

Thats very sweet of you! I see forums as something where minds meet and opinions are shared and it's varied. I belong to other forums (not sex ones believe it or not) and everyone has something great to add wether it be good or bad x"

And I would expect that on every forum, whatever kind, there are reports of cliques.

Personally I don't think people know what else to say, so assume a conspiracy theory and call it a clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In any community there is an under tone of a clique culture Im speaking from my own experience when I came to England 13 years ago I didn't have a decent friend till my 5-6 year of living here. I don't understand why there is a clique culture. How I see it let's enjoy the difference and embrace the variety of life.

I'dve been ur best friend ever E...mainly for sex....in a friendly manner of course

Yes I know you would be my best sex friend if I gave you a chance lol

wait in line FFS...I'm booked up for a bit!!!!!...jump ahead of the queue if u give multiple daily bjs!

Lol you made the first offer? #justsaying "

yeah, 5 or 6 yrs ago when u came here, but I've moved on!...u made other friends,got married, had sex with others...it was gutting...but I never gave up on u xxxx hehehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.......... "and those who do not like the answers that have been given to a thread."

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over a year ago


"In any community there is an under tone of a clique culture Im speaking from my own experience when I came to England 13 years ago I didn't have a decent friend till my 5-6 year of living here. I don't understand why there is a clique culture. How I see it let's enjoy the difference and embrace the variety of life.well i would be happy to be your friend xx people are not the same your right and i like forums and some lovely people here .

Thats very sweet of you! I see forums as something where minds meet and opinions are shared and it's varied. I belong to other forums (not sex ones believe it or not) and everyone has something great to add wether it be good or bad x

And I would expect that on every forum, whatever kind, there are reports of cliques.

Personally I don't think people know what else to say, so assume a conspiracy theory and call it a clique"

It happens on life and in forums there will always be something like a clique or an actual one. It's not conspiracy theory it's just how it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In any community there is an under tone of a clique culture Im speaking from my own experience when I came to England 13 years ago I didn't have a decent friend till my 5-6 year of living here. I don't understand why there is a clique culture. How I see it let's enjoy the difference and embrace the variety of life.

I'dve been ur best friend ever E...mainly for sex....in a friendly manner of course

Yes I know you would be my best sex friend if I gave you a chance lol

wait in line FFS...I'm booked up for a bit!!!!!...jump ahead of the queue if u give multiple daily bjs!

Lol you made the first offer? #justsaying

yeah, 5 or 6 yrs ago when u came here, but I've moved on!...u made other friends,got married, had sex with others...it was gutting...but I never gave up on u xxxx hehehe x"

Lol wow, obsessed much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In any community there is an under tone of a clique culture Im speaking from my own experience when I came to England 13 years ago I didn't have a decent friend till my 5-6 year of living here. I don't understand why there is a clique culture. How I see it let's enjoy the difference and embrace the variety of life.

I'dve been ur best friend ever E...mainly for sex....in a friendly manner of course

Yes I know you would be my best sex friend if I gave you a chance lol

wait in line FFS...I'm booked up for a bit!!!!!...jump ahead of the queue if u give multiple daily bjs!

Lol you made the first offer? #justsaying

yeah, 5 or 6 yrs ago when u came here, but I've moved on!...u made other friends,got married, had sex with others...it was gutting...but I never gave up on u xxxx hehehe x

Lol wow, obsessed much "

obsessed????...sakes I've only been stealing ur knickers from the washing line for a sniff n wank...get over urself!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my _iew here it goes i am from a counrty of seven official languages and cutures embracing one another with our differences and all i do not believe in cliques or any form of excluding people. it does not matter how diffrent you are from me. I love the human race including the idiots in it lol therefore a clique just wont work for me. that is my _iew you exclude small minded people and timewasters though

yes i did my mistake and people you dont like...so you do believe in excluding people then....ok now im confused

as you can see its a joint profile my _iews and domanders is diffrent hunny lmao"

Does he wanna join the cleek then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pssssst! Wanna buy some tickets to 'The Clique's' Masquerade Ball?

All tickets will fund the next Clique's meet.

Only those in 'The Clique' need apply.

All terms and conditions are subject to 'The Clique's discretion' and anyone not in 'The Clique' need not apply.

'The Clique' have the right to change any details and comments to suit whatever it is needs suiting.

Those not in 'The Clique' please refrain from trying to get in 'The Clique' and need not read any further.

Signed... mein Fuhrer ov 'Ze Clique' esq, MBE, OBE (Phd) knick knack paddy whack, somebody answer the phone, (ret)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pssssst! Wanna buy some tickets to 'The Clique's' Masquerade Ball?

All tickets will fund the next Clique's meet.

Only those in 'The Clique' need apply.

All terms and conditions are subject to 'The Clique's discretion' and anyone not in 'The Clique' need not apply.

'The Clique' have the right to change any details and comments to suit whatever it is needs suiting.

Those not in 'The Clique' please refrain from trying to get in 'The Clique' and need not read any further.

Signed... mein Fuhrer ov 'Ze Clique' esq, MBE, OBE (Phd) knick knack paddy whack, somebody answer the phone, (ret)

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oi, where'd i come into this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pssssst! Wanna buy some tickets to 'The Clique's' Masquerade Ball?

All tickets will fund the next Clique's meet.

Only those in 'The Clique' need apply.

All terms and conditions are subject to 'The Clique's discretion' and anyone not in 'The Clique' need not apply.

'The Clique' have the right to change any details and comments to suit whatever it is needs suiting.

Those not in 'The Clique' please refrain from trying to get in 'The Clique' and need not read any further.

Signed... mein Fuhrer ov 'Ze Clique' esq, MBE, OBE (Phd) knick knack paddy whack, somebody answer the phone, (ret)

"

Is that the same clique as The Cirque Du Clique? Will there be any clowns?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pssssst! Wanna buy some tickets to 'The Clique's' Masquerade Ball?

All tickets will fund the next Clique's meet.

Only those in 'The Clique' need apply.

All terms and conditions are subject to 'The Clique's discretion' and anyone not in 'The Clique' need not apply.

'The Clique' have the right to change any details and comments to suit whatever it is needs suiting.

Those not in 'The Clique' please refrain from trying to get in 'The Clique' and need not read any further.

Signed... mein Fuhrer ov 'Ze Clique' esq, MBE, OBE (Phd) knick knack paddy whack, somebody answer the phone, (ret)

oi, where'd i come into this!"

Bend over Paddy and I'll whack you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only allowed in if you can spell it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're only allowed in if you can spell it! "

i t - am I in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're only allowed in if you can spell it!

i t - am I in?"

C-l-e-e-k..... no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is a leader of a clique, is that a clique within a clique? Or click-click? Is this the masons?

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

If its a masquerade ball, you wont know who else is in the clique though? Will you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is a leader of a clique, is that a clique within a clique? Or click-click? Is this the masons? "

and the leader is .............

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiJaNSXlYuQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is a leader of a clique, is that a clique within a clique? Or click-click? Is this the masons?

and the leader is .............

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiJaNSXlYuQ"
I love this song xx JUST FAB XX

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over a year ago


"If there is a leader of a clique, is that a clique within a clique? Or click-click? Is this the masons?

and the leader is .............

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiJaNSXlYuQ I love this song xx JUST FAB XX"

Whats with the face of the guy on bike looks like he pulling a cum face

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"If there is a leader of a clique, is that a clique within a clique? Or click-click? Is this the masons?

and the leader is .............

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiJaNSXlYuQ"

Look out, look out, look out, look out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh cum all ye unfaithful, toyful and vicarious ...................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is a leader of a clique, is that a clique within a clique? Or click-click? Is this the masons?

and the leader is .............

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiJaNSXlYuQ I love this song xx JUST FAB XX"

he he, I can play it on my recorder!

....... tempted?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I don't get the comments about 'followers' and 'ring leaders'. You don't have to be a 'follower' to be in a clique/group, you just have to get on with the other members or agree on a common cause.

To avoid being in a clique or group under some of the definitions above you would have to take an alternative _iew on everything purely to be contrary which is absurd and virtually impossible.

Clique is just a word, you have cliques/groups inside these forums, also I would describe the forum users inside of Fab a clique to the rest of the site users. I would then go on to say Swingers are a clique within society, you can extrapolate it out as far as you want. Snore.

Humans will always group.

I will guarantee as sure as shit that some perceived members of a clique don't even know they are in one. It's all about perception and dare I say, paranoia.

What the OP really wants to know is why some people are cunts and some people are not. That my friend is a mystery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its a masquerade ball, you wont know who else is in the clique though? Will you

"

Only the 'The Clique' will know where it's being held

Does the 'The Clique' know how to hold balls or what!!

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over a year ago


"If there is a leader of a clique, is that a clique within a clique? Or click-click? Is this the masons?

and the leader is .............

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiJaNSXlYuQ

Look out, look out, look out, look out "
felt so helpess, what could I do

Remembering all the things we’d been through ... I Will now have this song on my mind all night thanks to this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So lets have a look at the facts.

A clique could be a family, a group of friends or a gathereing of some kind.

So OP (or anyone), next time you have a get together with friends for a bit of fun or you have a family gathering you are in a clique.

That's it in a nutshell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't get the comments about 'followers' and 'ring leaders'. You don't have to be a 'follower' to be in a clique/group, you just have to get on with the other members or agree on a common cause.

To avoid being in a clique or group under some of the definitions above you would have to take an alternative _iew on everything purely to be contrary which is absurd and virtually impossible.

Clique is just a word, you have cliques/groups inside these forums, also I would describe the forum users inside of Fab a clique to the rest of the site users. I would then go on to say Swingers are a clique within society, you can extrapolate it out as far as you want. Snore.

Humans will always group.

I will guarantee as sure as shit that some perceived members of a clique don't even know they are in one. It's all about perception and dare I say, paranoia.

What the OP really wants to know is why some people are cunts and some people are not. That my friend is a mystery."

Awesome might be my next post why you such a cunt if you don't know me lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get the comments about 'followers' and 'ring leaders'. You don't have to be a 'follower' to be in a clique/group, you just have to get on with the other members or agree on a common cause.

To avoid being in a clique or group under some of the definitions above you would have to take an alternative _iew on everything purely to be contrary which is absurd and virtually impossible.

Clique is just a word, you have cliques/groups inside these forums, also I would describe the forum users inside of Fab a clique to the rest of the site users. I would then go on to say Swingers are a clique within society, you can extrapolate it out as far as you want. Snore.

Humans will always group.

I will guarantee as sure as shit that some perceived members of a clique don't even know they are in one. It's all about perception and dare I say, paranoia.

What the OP really wants to know is why some people are cunts and some people are not. That my friend is a mystery."

yaaaa yer just talking a lot of words yersel!

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over a year ago

And as if by magic the thread disappeared!!

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