FabSwingers.com forum: Ogling?

By *anther81 OP Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

Ladies do you like to be ogled or does it depend on who is doing the ogling?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I like to perve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one ogles me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Ogling sounds kind of lecherous and creepy... no, I don't care for it. I like good attention from people. Well meaning compliments. Not a man addressing my tits with my name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It gives me the heebies & I feel like I need a shower to wash the creepiness off me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ogling sounds kind of lecherous and creepy... no, I don't care for it. I like good attention from people. Well meaning compliments. Not a man addressing my tits with my name."

I would prefer they called lurking on here ogling instead though, in that respect I think it doesn't sound as creepy lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Ogling in real life is just creepy imo dont get me wrong a quick admiring glance we'll all do at some point, but to sit n ogle is just down right disrespectful

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"No one ogles me

Can I be your professional stalker then Kelly?

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By *anther81 OP Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

Suppose checking somebody out is more acceptable than ogling. Just when does a checking out turn into an ogle

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By *anther81 OP Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

"No one ogles me

Can be arranged Kelly lol

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Suppose checking somebody out is more acceptable than ogling. Just when does a checking out turn into an ogle "

When it's more than a passing glance.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suppose checking somebody out is more acceptable than ogling. Just when does a checking out turn into an ogle "

When people can notice it I guess. Its easy to check someone out when your out and about without being obvious about it. When the person or others around can see what your doing it means its prolonged or unsubtle and moves into creepyville

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"No one ogles me

Let me tell you guys ...they do

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By *anther81 OP Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

"Suppose checking somebody out is more acceptable than ogling. Just when does a checking out turn into an ogle

When it's more than a passing glance.

Jo.Xx "

Had to check you out Jo promise no ogling but close to more than just a passing glance hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one ogles me

Can I be your professional stalker then Kelly?

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please do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one ogles me

Can be arranged Kelly lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one ogles me

Let me tell you guys ...they do "
sod off they dont x

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

"No one ogles me

Let me tell you guys ...they do sod off they dont x"

I would be happy to ogle you Kelly just let me know whenever you wish to be ogled

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

At my age positive attention from anyone is always welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one ogles me

Let me tell you guys ...they do sod off they dont x

I would be happy to ogle you Kelly just let me know whenever you wish to be ogled

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woo hoo im feeling all flustered thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one ogles me

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I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one ogles me

I do

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oh thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one ogles me

Oh yes we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies do you like to be ogled or does it depend on who is doing the ogling?"

No, I don’t like it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Randomly in public? No, I hate it, whatever you call it. I'm off to Boots to buy something embarrassing (not now), please stop being so obvious thinking about banging me. (or just, I'm a person being a person with things to do)

It can be awesome with a bit of context though. A look that lingers a bit too long during a Fab social (that isn't just about sex), the appreciative look when I'm meeting a Fab friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Creeps me out!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Worse are when comments happen. "oh baby you look too pretty to be sad, smile for me!" a) my natural resting face looks unhappy. Deal. b) This has a funny way of happening more after I've had bad news or a shitty day. I'm sorry I'm concentrating more on the awful doctor's appointment I've been to, or the pain I'm in, and not your penis

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over a year ago

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's natural to take notice of people around you but generally an unpleasant behaviour when people decide instead to stare, without responsibility for someone's care. Let your noticing of others just remain close to the subconscious levels that we have for everybody around us.

It can be frightening for some, who may have also had men objectify and attack them. There are plenty of models who are happy for you to enjoy their work and qualities. And, if you have what it takes, engage appropriately with and attract people to you, instead of repulsing or scaring others.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I look. Everyone does! But there's a difference between a 1-2 second glance and where you know they're looking (and for that reason).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay... yes.. but not every ogle is an ogle... i generally realise too late that ive looked for too long. Or at least i feel like i have.

The woes of being both a daydreamer and on the spectrum.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Okay... yes.. but not every ogle is an ogle... i generally realise too late that ive looked for too long. Or at least i feel like i have.

The woes of being both a daydreamer and on the spectrum."

I appreciate that, although on the other end I still don't like it, you know?

I don't say anything unless they engage with me. I know mistakes happen.

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By *ilkylicker007Man
over a year ago

Suffolk Mid-ish

"No one ogles me

What the hell is the matter with people in Herne Bay??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one ogles me

Oh yes we do.

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thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one ogles me

What the hell is the matter with people in Herne Bay??

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They have seen my face

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By *EBCAMandKNICKERSMan
over a year ago

Bristol

i had a gd ogle in yours, yum yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one ogles me

In what context are you saying that Are you lacking attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When does a second glance become an ogle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suppose checking somebody out is more acceptable than ogling. Just when does a checking out turn into an ogle

When it's more than a passing glance.

Jo.Xx "

Then we have definitely ogled you !!! xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"When does a second glance become an ogle?"

When it turns into a fixated stare

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