FabSwingers.com forum: Message ratio men to women

By *utlerman OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Evening everyone. I just want to do a quick straw poll on the subject of messages on Fab. I read quite often that women are wading through hundreds of messages in their inbox. I'm curious to know the average number that men receive? So....can you tell me your daily average and if you're male or female please. Be honest....i'll post results on my profile. X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

563

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 75 messages from women, but it's more because my inbox can only take 75

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 100 a day. I forget to read them though and end up bulk deleting every few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 100 a day. I forget to read them though and end up bulk deleting every few days

My filters are really tight though so it may not be good for your survey. I imagine the other women get a lot more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 20 per day maybe recieved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had 6 today from new people. I am off all the 'looking for' lists, however, they can still winkle you out somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 5 to 10 if I'm involved in a particular forum thread that requires private messages, otherwise usually 0. Thank God I still have both my hand though cause this dick ain't gonna wank itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 5 to 10 if I'm involved in a particular forum thread that requires private messages, otherwise usually 0. Thank God I still have both my hand though cause this dick ain't gonna wank itself

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By *utlerman OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Amen to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None.

Hiding seems to help.

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By *utlerman OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"None.

Hiding seems to help.

I guess that would do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None.

Hiding seems to help.

I guess that would do it"

It’s working for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages from friends - 4

New messages from anyone else 0.005 a day.

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By *utlerman OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Ok so currently it seems that Men average about 20 percent or less, of the number of messages that women get.

I'd love to know now how many men there are on here compared to women. Statistically i'd imagine it's 5 men to every 1 woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Females are like an endangered species on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 1 per day. ("Unsolicited"....LOL OJ)

Off people relating to forums I get more. Thats more than 80% is just genral conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 1 a week on average. So like 0.15 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t get the millions a day that guys seems to assume (and some women probably do tbf) we do

Maybe between 60-70 new messages but sporadically throughout the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lot of filters on and have also blocked anyone who’s rude. I get about 145-180 messages a day.

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By *unscot44Man
over a year ago

Stepps (Glasgow)

I know the feeling lol

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By *utlerman OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm loving the input guys and girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 messages..we never get many ss we have blocked single guys

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

30-300 a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had about 10 messages in a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evening everyone. I just want to do a quick straw poll on the subject of messages on Fab. I read quite often that women are wading through hundreds of messages in their inbox. I'm curious to know the average number that men receive? So....can you tell me your daily average and if you're male or female please. Be honest....i'll post results on my profile. X"
just done a quick count 60 a day

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I can’t tell. I can only see the last 75 messages and they are all from today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had about 4 from forums an 0 replays to inboxs iv sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of that reminds me.

I have to dust out the cobwebs in my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had about 10 messages in a year"

Wow what is your secret to success!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 3 per day. Not as many as I’d hoped but it’s difficult to stand out sometimes. Especially when the ladies are being bombarded by messages. Mine just get lost in the mix. I’m so glad that I don’t have to put up with dudes on this site though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey obviously no-one likes our profile as most of you get a lot more than us

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It depends if I've put new pictures up, commented on the forums, been on cam, put up a new status, what time of day I'm active online....if in the perfect storm of all those things then it's about 200 to 400

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Blimey obviously no-one likes our profile as most of you get a lot more than us"

It's the single guy factor

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

A daily average !!!! You having a laugh ?

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm evidently on the bloke end of the scale

I get maybe 10-12 new messages a day, sometimes more if I've just posted a pic. Plus maybe the same again in conversations.

Tho my filters are pretty tight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

29 .. today then again I have been on the forums a bit today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find you do get more attention if you post on the forums and get involved with the community. But not many of them of local so the possibility of a meet is very limited.

Still fun though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m reading the forum then look back ive about 10 messages but it’s about 10-15 a day . I could be chatting to someone an my inbox is inundated

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"I'm evidently on the bloke end of the scale

I get maybe 10-12 new messages a day, sometimes more if I've just posted a pic. Plus maybe the same again in conversations.

Tho my filters are pretty tight.

Ffs I get about 10-12 A year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lot of filters and get good 150+ a day....I guess the other ladies with less filters get way more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so currently it seems that Men average about 20 percent or less, of the number of messages that women get.

I'd love to know now how many men there are on here compared to women. Statistically i'd imagine it's 5 men to every 1 woman."

I read somewhere it’s about a 60/40 split men to women. That doesn’t count those women looking for women though.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so currently it seems that Men average about 20 percent or less, of the number of messages that women get.

I'd love to know now how many men there are on here compared to women. Statistically i'd imagine it's 5 men to every 1 woman.

I read somewhere it’s about a 60/40 split men to women. That doesn’t count those women looking for women though.

Lol the fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted my messages this afternoon....I went out for a few hours and came back on to another 634 new messages ready to be read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're not counting ongoing conversations. Then I'd say, on average, 3-4 women will message me first.. a month. Though it's ENTIRELY Forum dependant.

I thought I was doing outstandingly till I read this thread

Fuck it. I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"0"
but then again there's no woman left in Newcastle too message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we're not counting ongoing conversations. Then I'd say, on average, 3-4 women will message me first.. a month. Though it's ENTIRELY Forum dependant.

I thought I was doing outstandingly till I read this thread

Fuck it. I'm happy."

Genghis Khan , considering that you get mentioned by ladies quite a fair bit in the forum,I would say those naughty eyes are doing quite well

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

From a Tgirl perspective I get about 50 per day - most saying either "nice pics" or "fuck now" or "hi" or "hey" or "what you up to" - who says the art of conversation is dead!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I have quite strict filters so not as many as some people, depending if I've put new pics or a status up it can be anything upwards of 20 a day.

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By *exy mature ladyWoman
over a year ago

Newport

I have filters on mine...but still get an average of 100 a day am sure the younger women get more

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Messages fall into two categories, friends I chat to and people who are interested in my profile and might want a shag.

I've had 3 of the first this week.

I've never had any of the second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messages fall into two categories, friends I chat to and people who are interested in my profile and might want a shag.

I've had 3 of the first this week.

I've never had any of the second."
awwww it'll fall off if you don't use it........ That's a true story whoever told me their was a tooth fairy said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe 20 a day sometimes less

Never had to bulk delete

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Tsk ... this is so non-exclusive

What about couples .. trans etc ...

I'm outraged!!!

Incidentally ... I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm evidently on the bloke end of the scale

I get maybe 10-12 new messages a day, sometimes more if I've just posted a pic. Plus maybe the same again in conversations.

Tho my filters are pretty tight.

Why on the bloke side you are a good looker wouldn't be on my bloke list

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

"I'm evidently on the bloke end of the scale

I get maybe 10-12 new messages a day, sometimes more if I've just posted a pic. Plus maybe the same again in conversations.

Tho my filters are pretty tight.

Why on the bloke side you are a good looker wouldn't be on my bloke list

I meant in terms of volume of messages.

I sincerely hope I don't look like a bloke..

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Iv had 156 messages today, over half from " straight men, and I'm a bloke in a dress, work the maths out on that one !!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv had 156 messages today, over half from " straight men, and I'm a bloke in a dress, work the maths out on that one !!! X "

I can't work it out

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"From a Tgirl perspective I get about 50 per day - most saying either "nice pics" or "fuck now" or "hi" or "hey" or "what you up to" - who says the art of conversation is dead! "

She forgot to mention, they're all from me

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By *ondonFreakMan
over a year ago

London

In the last month, about 30 messages, from 3 women & 1 man. And that's an unusually busy month for me on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

638 today

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over a year ago

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

"From a Tgirl perspective I get about 50 per day - most saying either "nice pics" or "fuck now" or "hi" or "hey" or "what you up to" - who says the art of conversation is dead!

She forgot to mention, they're all from me

No, only 49 of them!

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