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Turmoil of fancying someone....

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Advice please...

I,m sure this is common to a lot of fabbers.

I see a work colleague ( female) on a daily basis.

Just makes me smile, not overly sexually attractive either . Very much spoken for and she seems happy with her fella.

I,m pretty sure she does,nt find me remotely attractive.

Yet still does,nt stop me thinking of her, wondering what it would be like to spend time together.

Not necessarily in a sexual way....

Is this healthy, normal or even right?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

No it's creepy and sad and if she finds out I see a steel door slamming shut behind you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfectly normal. Very unhealthy to dwell upon. Close it off and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say it was pretty normal. As long as you didn’t attempt to take it further.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Maybe try using apostrophe's to impress her?

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By *abyBrunelWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Harsh guys. He has a crush we all get them. He isn’t acting on it. He likes her is all. Chill...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe try using apostrophe's to impress her?

"

OP,

It’s a crush, it happens. But don’t say anything. Really nothing to be gained by doing that with someone who is happy in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feelings are feelings, you can't help those. You are only in control of your behaviour so since you're not doing anything untoward then it's fine.

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Feelings are feelings, you can't help those. You are only in control of your behaviour so since you're not doing anything untoward then it's fine. "

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Maybe try using apostrophe's to impress her?

OP,

It’s a crush, it happens. But don’t say anything. Really nothing to be gained by doing that with someone who is happy in a relationship."

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Harsh guys. He has a crush we all get them. He isn’t acting on it. He likes her is all. Chill..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a crush on some one I work with. It’s perfectly normal to crush on some one you spend so much time with.

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