FabSwingers.com forum: One bit of advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you could go back and visit yourself your teens and offer one bit of advice to yourself what would it be?

Mine would be ask the questions now as you never know if there’s a tomorrow to ask them?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Take the blue pill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't drink

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Do not marry that one

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Don’t open your heart to anyone you’ve not really know they will break it

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

That opportunity I had, 15 years ago, to leave him. Take it x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Make the most of opportunities presented to you.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Ask Alison out and sod what your mates think about her being as tall as you and a bit gobby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take that job offer abroad.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Ask Alison out and sod what your mates think about her being as tall as you and a bit gobby. "

You definitely should have done, Alison was fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trouble is if we changed our past would we be the person we are now without those experiences ? Lots of things we would like to change but it would make us different today would we be here on the forums asking this question ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On X date. That will be the last day you get to spend with the love of your life. Appreciate every second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See a doctor sooner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t marry her, it’ll all end in tears. Also stay single and enjoy sex. Buy that house you wanted with the hot tub for yourself and relax more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine would be live life as though each day is your last

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Dont get married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have listened to my parents and not married so young

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Mine would be live life as though each day is your last

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and learn to love tea

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

Don’t do anything different - you’ll have a few bad times, but they’ll soon be forgotten and the rest of time will be a blast!

Makes me wish I could go back and do it all over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay as you are

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Take the blue pill"

No ... the red one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do not marry that one

Yep, definitely that advice

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Make informed choices ... and never regret those choices ... mistakes will be made ... lessons will be learned ... but regret is a pointless self defeating emotion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get that degree

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Don't drink pernod and black, you will be sick!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t use that sun in in your hair. It won’t go the colour it shows on the bottle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably go back and tell myself that I know it feels like the worst thing in the world, but it really isn't and to just let it go over my head rather than have it consume me.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Wish I hadn’t been so shy and stood up for myself and I wish I could’ve said no more but that could be misinterpreted on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish I hadn’t been so shy and stood up for myself and I wish I could’ve said no more but that could be misinterpreted on here..

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just be a yes yes yes woman, it works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could go back and visit yourself your teens and offer one bit of advice to yourself what would it be?

Mine would be ask the questions now as you never know if there’s a tomorrow to ask them?

Don't buy beer, buy property.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could go back and visit yourself your teens and offer one bit of advice to yourself what would it be?

Mine would be ask the questions now as you never know if there’s a tomorrow to ask them?

Don't buy beer, buy property."

- can you pop in on the teenage me and tell me that too!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Give myself a list of sporting event results for the next 20 or so years... Wait that sounds familiar...

Give myself a list of names of people that I should definitely chat to, get to know and hang around with, and a list of names of people that I'd not waste my time and energy with.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Believe in yourself.

Don't be so scared to open your mouth, your opinions matter.

You're gorgeous and intelligent,make the most of the opportunities that come your way.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Dont start smoking

Dont date your best friend

Dont othwr with university and if you do, focus spending more time working and less time drinking and fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To my teenage self:

You are enough. You are who you are. If people don't like it, that's their loss. And don't worry so much, just have fun.

N x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont start smoking

Dont date your best friend

Dont othwr with university and if you do, focus spending more time working and less time drinking and fucking"

Yes! Don’t start smoking. That would be my main one I think.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"Dont start smoking

Dont date your best friend

Dont othwr with university and if you do, focus spending more time working and less time drinking and fucking"

Bother*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen more

Say less

Do more

Regret less

Oh.. And don't marry her, she's nuts.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I would earn him away from the person I married.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't tell her a thing, she wouldn't listen if I did.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I would earn him away from the person I married."

Earn him???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's worse to regret not doing something than it is to make a mistake.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

No ... try not .. do or do not ... there is no try

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Not to be afraid everything will be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't buy that Charles & Di mug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could go back and visit yourself your teens and offer one bit of advice to yourself what would it be?

Mine would be ask the questions now as you never know if there’s a tomorrow to ask them?

Don't buy beer, buy property.

- can you pop in on the teenage me and tell me that too!"

But if I popped in on the teenage you....aah forget it, sounds too creepy.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"It's worse to regret not doing something than it is to make a mistake. "

That is entirely dependant on the size of the mistake lol

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

"Don’t use that sun in in your hair. It won’t go the colour it shows on the bottle. "

Get you posh bird - we used lemon juice! This has reminded of something I would tell my younger self - don’t get a perm! you look (even more of) a dick, and your mum will use any opportunity to show ‘that’ photo of you with it

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It's worse to regret not doing something than it is to make a mistake. "

We regret the things we haven't done more than the things we have x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take the blue pill"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a salad once in a while

Oh and spend more time with your mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never screen a call....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

make the effort and visit my grandma more

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Never trust a fart

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