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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feel nervous before and during meeting someone for the first time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. If I wasn't nervous it means I'm not excited so I wouldn't be going.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses


"Yes. If I wasn't nervous it means I'm not excited so I wouldn't be going. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before yes, during no. The first kiss normally calms the nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First couple of minutes I think everyone gets nervous but when I get the ball rolling I lose the nervousness and get really confident and easily get on with the person I'm seeing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always...i always worry if they will actually like what they see

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes but much like the wise old woman Rubi, my nerves are a sign of positive adrenaline. Almost a giddiness to see the other person. I quite enjoy them. They usually disappear after a few minutes but I do laugh a lot and stay... not giddy. But... excited.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had my first fab meet on Saturday and I didn't feel myself.

She seemed very confident and relaxed about it.. But I felt like a little shy school girl Lol.

It went well though and we since chatted and she told me I was nervous.

She could sense it.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I always get nervous and prefer to meet outside a venue so I know they are there rather than walk in alone

Never had a bad meet, a couple of them I won’t meet again but they were nice enough so not a waste of time or nerves.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yes of course. First meet is nearly always social and in a public place.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"Feel nervous before and during meeting someone for the first time? "
yes allways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For sure. Most times I get so nervous I want to back out because I think I must be off my head for believing someone genuinely wants to meet me, and if they do then they must have something wrong with them.

Then I wonder if they're a murderer or something as I'm on my way and I imagine all the bad things that could happen.

After a few minutes I'm sound.

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For sure. Most times I get so nervous I want to back out because I think I must be off my head for believing someone genuinely wants to meet me, and if they do then they must have something wrong with them.

Then I wonder if they're a murderer or something as I'm on my way and I imagine all the bad things that could happen.

After a few minutes I'm sound.

P"

Sounds like me

I think to myself, why do someone want to meet me, out of all the men on fab.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes of course. First meet is nearly always social and in a public place. "

Can I just say, your profile pic is gorgeous!

Same here re meets. The nerves are good, it means I like them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes always nervous with anyone new. With my fwb I've been seeing him so long that it's just excitement instead

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I get excited, but I don’t get nervous at all.

By the time I meet someone it’s like meeting a friend so what’s nervous to be about

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's excitement for me and possibly a little nervous - It's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never. I suppose it's because I accept the outcome could be miss rather than hit. That happens. That's life. It's no biggie. It's hard to explain, but I kinda know beforehand that everything will be cool. I've got a certain way of taking control of a situation and making people feel comfortable. A lot of people tell me as soon as they meet me they feel they've known me forever. And I've got confidence in that. So no, I don't get nervous.

I used to though. Terribly. But I got over it over the years.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Yes

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Anxious sometimes, but never nervous.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Yes, the little bit of nervousness that edges into excitement as the adrenalin kicks in.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

If I didn't get those butterflies in my tummy before each meet I'd seriously consider knocking it on the head for a while

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Nervous, oh yes!

On a couple of occasions, I've been an absolute gibbering wreck.

I still get silly giggly butterflies even when I've met someone dozens of times.

If I didn't feel that way, I wouldn't want to see them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes all the time. Very nervous. After about 10 minutes though I’m totally fine.

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