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A question for all the swinging couples...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Off the back of another thread, I'm curious. And this question is for couples who swing.

Do you kiss anyone other than your partner?

It's a non judgemental question, I'm just intrigued at what people's response is. Because I think kissing is a massive part of sex.

What's your opinions?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'll try that again lol as it made no sense

I do when i meet with Jack,its all part or the build up for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tbh anyone can answer, but it's mainly a question for couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who the man is...

I had a fuck buddy for a year and we never kissed

But I met a man three times and we kissed so much every time.

So...probably yes. But it depends. And for some reason I find it such an intimate act, that I get the giggles and need to be really comfortable with a man before doing it. (I was suuuuuper comfortable with the year long fuck buddy, it just became a ‘thing’ that we never kissed).

But I totally understand why some couples don’t kiss, and maybe if I start meeting again I won’t kiss anyone.

It’s really shitty when people judge folk for not kissing (no, not you op)

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Yes, totally. I can't imagine sex without kissing. We live lots of sensual kisses.

Why do you think it might be omitted?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, we don't kiss anyone but each other.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

We both don’t actively kiss others, but if it happens in the heat of the moment it’s not a problem, but we prefer to keep proper snogging as ‘our thing’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll try that again lol as it made no sense

I do when i meet with Jack,its all part or the build up for me."

I think that it's really important in the build up to the act itself

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon

We kiss it’s a must for me, you can tell a lot from a kiss.

Molly

XX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends who the man is...

I had a fuck buddy for a year and we never kissed

But I met a man three times and we kissed so much every time.

So...probably yes. But it depends. And for some reason I find it such an intimate act, that I get the giggles and need to be really comfortable with a man before doing it. (I was suuuuuper comfortable with the year long fuck buddy, it just became a ‘thing’ that we never kissed).

But I totally understand why some couples don’t kiss, and maybe if I start meeting again I won’t kiss anyone.

It’s really shitty when people judge folk for not kissing (no, not you op) "

I don't judge anyone, apart from out of 10

I'm kidding. But there is no point and everyone has their own opinion and choice. I was just curious about people's thoughts.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Altho this is a single profile I'm also here with Mrs on our couples profile ...i don't think I could meet anyone if kissing was a no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends who the man is...

I had a fuck buddy for a year and we never kissed

But I met a man three times and we kissed so much every time.

So...probably yes. But it depends. And for some reason I find it such an intimate act, that I get the giggles and need to be really comfortable with a man before doing it. (I was suuuuuper comfortable with the year long fuck buddy, it just became a ‘thing’ that we never kissed).

But I totally understand why some couples don’t kiss, and maybe if I start meeting again I won’t kiss anyone.

It’s really shitty when people judge folk for not kissing (no, not you op)

I don't judge anyone, apart from out of 10

I'm kidding. But there is no point and everyone has their own opinion and choice. I was just curious about people's thoughts."

Folk tend to come onto these threads and say how daft it is that people won’t kiss...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, totally. I can't imagine sex without kissing. We live lots of sensual kisses.

Why do you think it might be omitted?"

Because to some it can be seen as a personal act. And more sensual than the actual sex itself.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

We both kiss other people as to us it’s an intimate part of sex that we enjoy but I understand that for the same reason others might want to keep it within their couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve done both kissing and not kissing. Depends on the couple we meet, sometimes the not kissing seems right x

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By *urious couple999Couple
over a year ago

worcestershire

We both kiss as long as it feels right and we want to kiss the other person and really enjoy it, but totally respect others who don’t want to share that intimate side.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Have to kiss and be kissed, passionately

We only meet single straight males so hubby just gets me.

Talked about it and it works for us.

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both kiss as long as it feels right and we want to kiss the other person and really enjoy it, but totally respect others who don’t want to share that intimate side. "

See that's what I was intrigued about. Surely it must seem strange being with someone and actually caring about them, then kissing someone else?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We both kiss as long as it feels right and we want to kiss the other person and really enjoy it, but totally respect others who don’t want to share that intimate side.

See that's what I was intrigued about. Surely it must seem strange being with someone and actually caring about them, then kissing someone else?"

Most swinging couples have talked about their boundaries for a very long time and learned along the way which ones can be pushed and which are set in stone. If they're comfortable with seeing their partner kiss someone else they'll know and have no problem. If like us its something neither of us wants they'll know that too. It's because they care about each other that they know if it's something they will or won't do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could happily and would happily not kiss another bloke ever. I think kissing can feel more intimate than sex, yet I could happily kiss other women and it not have that same sensation about it. It's a gentle, sensual intimacy that's just different.

People can fall in love with that first kiss, and that frightens me.

P

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

To me and my hubby kissing is our thing and we don't instigate it, but if it happens it isn't a problem as things happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This came up before our first meet. I wasn’t sure I wanted my wife to kiss other guys it felt too intimate. However after couple of meets one guy wanted to kiss her I said go ahead and it was very erotic to watch so anyone she wants to kiss now she does. But as with all things on fab it is done to individuals preference

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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

It's a strange one for us. Mrs doesn't like to see me kissing anyone else but I love to watch her kissing when we're playing. I try hard not to but it's quite difficult, in the moment, to not kiss someone when we're playing.

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yes, frequently

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I wouldn't arrange to meet anyone if they said kissing wouldn't happen, At a club/party if they said no kissing I would decide then if I wanted to go through with it, Kissing is a big thing for me and would feel strange not doing it

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

For me personally on a sexual meet it’s an essential part of the meet.

I’ve engaged in meets that have been geared towards BDSM much more than sex and not kissed, not felt the desire or the need.

Kissing is definitely a sensual, erotic act, itself an actual part of sex

Lex

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Definitely

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Yes it's all part of the flirting, build up and during the fun xx

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

For me kissing is a personal thing between me and hubby

Sex is what we invite someone over for to enhance our sex life

Xx

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes kissing is a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some couples prefer to keep kissing just for them selfs which of course is perfectly fine, but for us it's all part of the fun xxx

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Off the back of another thread, I'm curious. And this question is for couples who swing.

Do you kiss anyone other than your partner?

It's a non judgemental question, I'm just intrigued at what people's response is. Because I think kissing is a massive part of sex.

What's your opinions?"

Yes we do. It’s not the be all and end all. We’re just kinda no pain no anal and safesex always!

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