FabSwingers.com forum: What kind of sexual partner are you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I have met this girl, not off here.

And met her a few times and she has said never has anyone made me cum the way you have before. And she wants to meet me for more, yet she is very selfish in bed. And I like her, she is a good laugh but everytime I try and suggest something, she doesn't want to know and isn't very "giving"

I do like the girl, but feel like this is a one way street. Has anyone had a similar experience and any advice on the subject?

Thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’m what the kids call a ‘pillow princess’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual if I like the face of the girl

Rough If I don't but need to empty my sack

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah I’m what the kids call a ‘pillow princess’"

You mean you just bury your head in the pillow with your arse sticking up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I’m what the kids call a ‘pillow princess’"

I had to google what that meant. I think I’d like to be one of those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I’m what the kids call a ‘pillow princess’

I had to google what that meant. I think I’d like to be one of those "

It’s fun. The men I meet are just grateful for a fuck and put up with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I’m the other way round. Nothing turns me on more than turning someone else on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I’m what the kids call a ‘pillow princess’

You mean you just bury your head in the pillow with your arse sticking up?"

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’ve chosen them, I’ll be whatever they need

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

"Yeah I’m what the kids call a ‘pillow princess’"

My wife can be like that at times, but I’m a very giving person so it works for us - opposites attract blah blah blah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah I’m what the kids call a ‘pillow princess’

I had to google what that meant. I think I’d like to be one of those "

Good point. I googled too and this describes her to a T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I have met this girl, not off here.

I do like the girl, but feel like this is a one way street. Has anyone had a similar experience and any advice on the subject?

Thanks in advance.

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yes occasionally you get a woman that wants to take but it's not been a common thing

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

So OP basically what your saying is it’s like shagging a sack off spuds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so I’m not actually a ‘pillow princess’ but if I’ve had that much fun, then there comes a point where yes I’m exhausted so good luck getting another handjob from me. I need a break lads, just fuck me so I can recover!

I loooooove turning on the men I meet and pleasuring them

But also depending on my mood I could be a 90% pillow princess in one fuck-sesh, or I could be 10% pillow princess. Totally depends. Sometimes it’s fun being selfish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nah I’m the other way round. Nothing turns me on more than turning someone else on

See I'm like that, but I like them to appreciate what I'm doing and get some stimulation back too. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I have met this girl, not off here.

I do like the girl, but feel like this is a one way street. Has anyone had a similar experience and any advice on the subject?

Thanks in advance.

Ive been with a 'pillow princess' for too long, sex was boring, her way, she just lies there... so so unforfilling..

Since being on here ive been meeting with someone that blown my mind... shes the total opposite and i absolutely love it.

Personally If i was in your position id walk away... id not settle now, i know what i want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may just need you to give her some confidence. She may lack it in that department.

Maybe make up a scenario to play out where she will be in charge and do a bit more.

I dont know if shes being selfish.

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm very agreeable, I like to try anything that's suggested. I like to give pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So OP basically what your saying is it’s like shagging a sack off spuds?"

Not at all. She just has to have everything her way and also if I am going down on her, she doesn't like returning the favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah I’m the other way round. Nothing turns me on more than turning someone else on

See I'm like that, but I like them to appreciate what I'm doing and get some stimulation back too. Lol"

Oh I do also appreciate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So OP basically what your saying is it’s like shagging a sack off spuds?

Not at all. She just has to have everything her way and also if I am going down on her, she doesn't like returning the favour."

But if you know that, and you’re still going down on her, you can’t bloody complain

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I’ve chosen them, I’ll be whatever they need

Choose me please? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t have your bread and eat it OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can’t have your bread and eat it OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So OP basically what your saying is it’s like shagging a sack off spuds?

Not at all. She just has to have everything her way and also if I am going down on her, she doesn't like returning the favour.

But if you know that, and you’re still going down on her, you can’t bloody complain

It would be rude to stop lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can’t have your bread and eat it OP

I see what you did there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very agreeable, I like to try anything that's suggested. I like to give pleasure."

Me too it’s has to be a shared pleasure it can't be all one way

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

All about mutual play and pleasure for me, with the control switching when necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So OP basically what your saying is it’s like shagging a sack off spuds?

Not at all. She just has to have everything her way and also if I am going down on her, she doesn't like returning the favour.

But if you know that, and you’re still going down on her, you can’t bloody complain

It would be rude to stop lol"

Aye...but don’t do it again if you’re that bothered

I met with a guy who never once went down on me, I wasn’t bothered whatsoever. I love sucking so it was perfect. Never complained. If I was annoyed by it, I wouldn’t suck his cock....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So OP basically what your saying is it’s like shagging a sack off spuds?

Not at all. She just has to have everything her way and also if I am going down on her, she doesn't like returning the favour.

But if you know that, and you’re still going down on her, you can’t bloody complain

It would be rude to stop lol

Aye...but don’t do it again if you’re that bothered

I met with a guy who never once went down on me, I wasn’t bothered whatsoever. I love sucking so it was perfect. Never complained. If I was annoyed by it, I wouldn’t suck his cock...."

Good point. I may just not do anything next time and see what she does. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned my princess into a pillow the way i like it

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Give it time OP - see how it progresses. It can be a concern for us guys that are sensational in the sack. Giving so much pleasure that they just don’t give a thought to reciprocating. We are literally ‘fucking their brains out’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give it time OP - see how it progresses. It can be a concern for us guys that are sensational in the sack. Giving so much pleasure that they just don’t give a thought to reciprocating. We are literally ‘fucking their brains out’. "

It genuinely happens

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've had selfish lovers before, but the only ones I continued with were the ones I was in a relationship with. If they were just hook ups they would be ditched.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Well I have met this girl, not off here.

I do like the girl, but feel like this is a one way street. Has anyone had a similar experience and any advice on the subject?

Thanks in advance.

I think if you have to ask you have already made you mind up tbh

Sex has to be a two way thing as far as I am concerned...or three....

Jo x

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

"If I’ve chosen them, I’ll be whatever they need

That is so amazingly hot!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I've had selfish lovers before, but the only ones I continued with were the ones I was in a relationship with. If they were just hook ups they would be ditched."

This

In the past i have met someone who just wanted to please himself,I declined any further meet requests from him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I have met this girl, not off here.

I do like the girl, but feel like this is a one way street. Has anyone had a similar experience and any advice on the subject?

Thanks in advance.

I think if you have to ask you have already made you mind up tbh

Sex has to be a two way thing as far as I am concerned...or three....

Jo x

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I’ve chosen them, I’ll be whatever they need

Choose me please? Lol

Your bread’s already buttered...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im what they call as dry as Gandhi's flip flop....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im what they call as dry as Gandhi's flip flop....

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only until hour 6 tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im what they call as dry as Gandhi's flip flop....

only until hour 6 tho

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By *annyP1987Man
over a year ago

croydon

Part of my enjoyment is pleasing the woman so what ever does it for them I’m happy to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A responsive one. It totally depends on the mood.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Yes my ex husband was completely selfish...... put up with it for so long then we barely had sex. Hence now he’s the ex. As soon as I’m not compatible with someone now it’s over. I will not fall into that trap again.

#makingupforlostime

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I’ve chosen them, I’ll be whatever they need

Choose me please? Lol

Your bread’s already buttered...

Have you not read what I wrote?

It's not buttered lol

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bingley

Definitely more of a giver.. seeing hearing and feeling the woman enjoying it turns me on more than anything and I love to give oral

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

So it's early days with this woman then? She may not feel relaxed enough with you to let go.

I'm a pleaser, and I expect the same in return. If a guy just lays back, hands behind his head kind of thing I lose interest quickly. I think you will to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah I’m the other way round. Nothing turns me on more than turning someone else on

Turn me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm Switch, but naturally more Dominant than I am Submissive. I dont mind a submissive who wants me to ravishing them and let me do what I want.

Sounds like shes a bit of a bratty submissive though. Wants EVERYTHING on her terms. Not putting in the effort back that you give to her.

I'd take a step back, if she's telling the truth and you've given her the best orgasms shes had, she'll be in touch.

When she asks to hook up, tell her the truth, she's a lazy bitch that wants something for nothing. That if she wants another orgasm, she'd better work for it this time.

Depends how much you like her really, but my advice to anyone would be "Don't waste your time on ANYONE who doesn't give as much as they take from you".

I don't have much patience or interest in lazy lovers though. My cock starts to flop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I have met this girl, not off here.

I do like the girl, but feel like this is a one way street. Has anyone had a similar experience and any advice on the subject?

Thanks in advance.

Useless apparently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't you get off on getting her off?

I am quite giving but my major turn on is getting my fwb off, when I make him cum I get satisfaction from that. Him sighing that I'm something else well that gets me off even more and in turn I have more orgasms even though I do more of the work

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Give her some space and make yourself unavailable for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a very pro active lover and I absolutely love to please and tease. I do have a few hard limits though.

I wouldn't tolerate any guy that gave nothing back, it would be too frustrating for me. I'd bloody well tell him as well!!

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