FabSwingers.com forum: Lashing out in temper

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you lash out not with fists, your mouth or do something mad/crazy as your upset/hurt/angry

I admit i can do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd don't get angry, like proper angry, it's happened once in my life and I felt amazing, the words that came out were so on point, so irrefutable, I was like a hyper logical machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too indifferent to get angry these days. I just don't care enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im angry it’s 100% too late... not been a problem now that I’m old..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not an angry person, I think my lack of reaction probably annoys people more but I just don't see the point.

I only remember being angry once and it took a lot of goading to get there. I slammed the door so hard the pictures fell off the wall and I cried

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I used to in my 20s.

It rarely made things better and I generally felt shit afterwards.

I've learned to be more reasonable and rational now.

Tends to get better results, without the drama

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If im angry it’s 100% too late... not been a problem now that I’m old..

Same

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I try not to. I used to be a lot more firey years ago now I try and be rational and matter of fact. If that does not work I'll usually walk away. I can't be bothered dealing with agro anymore. But I do have a bad temper when someone really pushes me and sometimes I do just want to let rip but in the end it's not worth it.

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

"Do you lash out not with fists, your mouth or do something mad/crazy as your upset/hurt/angry

I admit i can do!"

Not got time for unspecatacular! Only time my fists lash out is in the ring. My mouth is rarely in proximity of trash therefore never do mad/crazy stuff and I'll reserve emotions only when me and I are together. Alone!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not since I was a silly lad no. Don't get me wrong piss me off and you'll no it but I put my fists out to pasture a long time ago. I realise the damage I'm capable of and no matter what or who's pissing me off my liberty is more important.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My mouth always engages before brain

And when shits going on I should think before but never learn

I walk away from drama though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never..... I wouldn’t let a person get me to that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you lash out not with fists, your mouth or do something mad/crazy as your upset/hurt/angry

I admit i can do!"

Yeh.

I yell at people and slam things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you lash out not with fists, your mouth or do something mad/crazy as your upset/hurt/angry

I admit i can do!"
naaaa I'm very controlled always, it's a mind thing but I know what you mean about people a blue mist surrounds them and nothing can affect the target of their anger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a Newcastle United fan I'm currently on television screen number 4247 , only 4233 remotes though , some survived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only after noticing that a woman didn't douche properly for anal.

Hate that moment when a corn get stucked into my urethra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only after noticing that a woman didn't douche properly for anal.

Hate that moment when a corn get stucked into my urethra "
omg tmi and yes corn doesn't break down it comes out as it went in........ Tasty

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Only after noticing that a woman didn't douche properly for anal.

Hate that moment when a corn get stucked into my urethra "
You would know about it if something was stuck down there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only after noticing that a woman didn't douche properly for anal.

Hate that moment when a corn get stucked into my urethra You would know about it if something was stuck down there."

Not really cause I use a lidocaine cream on my bellend to be able to pound Karen's ass for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope, don’t even raise my voice when angry.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Only after noticing that a woman didn't douche properly for anal.

Hate that moment when a corn get stucked into my urethra You would know about it if something was stuck down there.

Not really cause I use a lidocaine cream on my bellend to be able to pound Karen's ass for hours"
lucky Karen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only after noticing that a woman didn't douche properly for anal.

Hate that moment when a corn get stucked into my urethra You would know about it if something was stuck down there.

Not really cause I use a lidocaine cream on my bellend to be able to pound Karen's ass for hourslucky Karen"

#sheknowssheis

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Only after noticing that a woman didn't douche properly for anal.

Hate that moment when a corn get stucked into my urethra You would know about it if something was stuck down there.

Not really cause I use a lidocaine cream on my bellend to be able to pound Karen's ass for hourslucky Karen

#sheknowssheis"

Shhhhhhh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did until 2 year ago then figured out the root cause and faced it.. Now I m so laid back I m bleddy horizontal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Angry? I cry. Although I’ve been known to throw things.

Frustration? Pull my hair out. Literally. Had therapy for that though (amongst other things) so I don’t really do it anymore. It used to be awful. Sometimes if it gets bad I just grab my hair and hold it, I don’t tend to pull hard enough to yank it out anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t look back in anger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try not too but lazy,selfish and rude people do seem to irritate me quite easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not since I grew up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely get angry but when I do I usually just cry or go quiet.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I thought it said lashing out a tenner .. sometimes I can't help myself..I try to stick to fivers lol

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

If someone has upset me they definitely know about it. Yes sometimes I can regret what I say. But I also am able to apologise if needed.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Do you lash out not with fists, your mouth or do something mad/crazy as your upset/hurt/angry

I admit i can do!"

I may shout a little ... then usually take the dogs for a walk on the Downs to calm down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can get irritated easy enough but that passes. Anger is dealt with in a cold logical manner. I plot my revenge and have an incredibly long memory for being wronged.

I also help karma along the way...

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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I've run pubs. There's no room to get angry in that environment, it could go disastrous. Remain calm is the best and don't pour petrol on the fire

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I do get angry, but it takes a lot to get me there. When I'm really angry I'm not loud at all, which is apparently quite scary...not least because it doesn't happen often.

I was much more fiery in my teens and 20s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I've seen how much anger can hurt and destroy.

So I either go very quiet, or usually just walk away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've run pubs. There's no room to get angry in that environment, it could go disastrous. Remain calm is the best and don't pour petrol on the fire"

This im learning fast

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Do you lash out not with fists, your mouth or do something mad/crazy as your upset/hurt/angry

I admit i can do!"

None of the above. If anything I become withdrawn, quiet and go in a shell. I can't stand confrontation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you lash out not with fists, your mouth or do something mad/crazy as your upset/hurt/angry

I admit i can do!

None of the above. If anything I become withdrawn, quiet and go in a shell. I can't stand confrontation "

My temper isn’t that bad, but when pissed off i lash out with my tongue and sometimes lack tact,

Im starting to get better with age

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

It's rare the I physically lash out in anger, unless it's against inanimate objects. My kitchen door took a punch on Friday but that's long been coming.

It's unusual that I'll lash out with my tongue but in my defence I pretty much always apologise afterwards.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

My neighbour sounds like she's losing it with her son. Both parents scream at their kids

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

Can’t remember ever getting properly angry, mildly annoyed is about my max.

I can get frustrated easily but that’s normally at myself when working on a creative project or trying to learn a new tune on the guitar

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Do you lash out not with fists, your mouth or do something mad/crazy as your upset/hurt/angry

I admit i can do!

None of the above. If anything I become withdrawn, quiet and go in a shell. I can't stand confrontation

My temper isn’t that bad, but when pissed off i lash out with my tongue and sometimes lack tact,

Im starting to get better with age

I've had to learn that lesson in previous years. Plus I'm even more laid back now.

I suppose I've become one of the quiet ones you should look out for that I used to be warned about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you lash out not with fists, your mouth or do something mad/crazy as your upset/hurt/angry

I admit i can do!"

working with Autistic spectrum disorders I see a lot of pent up anger I am trained to difuse it. I have a very calm nature about me. Life is after all too short. If I was angry all the time think I would have to shoot myself! Even when things happen in my life I should be angry I have taught myself to be calm and serene. I see a lot of anger outside of fab and I grimace because I spent years training myself not to be like that. Seeing ill people with anger made me calm and sad. Working with angry people has made me the complete opposite

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you lash out not with fists, your mouth or do something mad/crazy as your upset/hurt/angry

I admit i can do!

None of the above. If anything I become withdrawn, quiet and go in a shell. I can't stand confrontation

My temper isn’t that bad, but when pissed off i lash out with my tongue and sometimes lack tact,

Im starting to get better with age

I've had to learn that lesson in previous years. Plus I'm even more laid back now.

I suppose I've become one of the quiet ones you should look out for that I used to be warned about."

Everything and everyone was getting to me last week and i was so just temperamental. Seeing a good friend Saturday helped me calm down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you lash out not with fists, your mouth or do something mad/crazy as your upset/hurt/angry

I admit i can do!

I think this is so refreshing to read

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I reserve the right to lash out as appropriate - it may be noisy. I generally speak my mind but will consider what I'm going to say. I'd only use physical force if there was absolute need, perhaps due to someone trying to hit me etc.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

no. Im quite in control of anger. I wouldnt be with an angry person

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"no. Im quite in control of anger. I wouldnt be with an angry person"

SEZ WHO??

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"no. Im quite in control of anger. I wouldnt be with an angry person

SEZ WHO??

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shut the fuck up

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