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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

So grab you small violins and get ready to play that sad tune.

The past few months I have had low confidence, in all aspects of my life. I've felt down and extremely isolated from all but a few people. At times I have been ashamed of how I acted and regret a few things and how I have been.

I have been to therapy over it all, yesterday I had an amazing boost to my confidence. Not through a person in particular but just through myself. Suddenly coming to the realisation that I'm good. Took a few pictures and normally I'd just be meh about them. Honestly I'm thinking I look pretty damn good. I'm far from a vain person, I'll add.

Anyway other than being a bit boastful I wanted to just share, mostly with those that feel similar, that you don't need others to like you or approve of you. You just need you, and that self confidence will grow stronger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shit with words but...

Glad you are finding some confidence within yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So grab you small violins and get ready to play that sad tune.

The past few months I have had low confidence, in all aspects of my life. I've felt down and extremely isolated from all but a few people. At times I have been ashamed of how I acted and regret a few things and how I have been.

I have been to therapy over it all, yesterday I had an amazing boost to my confidence. Not through a person in particular but just through myself. Suddenly coming to the realisation that I'm good. Took a few pictures and normally I'd just be meh about them. Honestly I'm thinking I look pretty damn good. I'm far from a vain person, I'll add.

Anyway other than being a bit boastful I wanted to just share, mostly with those that feel similar, that you don't need others to like you or approve of you. You just need you, and that self confidence will grow stronger. "

So glad to read this sweetheart. You sobered up now?

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"So glad to read this sweetheart. You sobered up now? "

Thank you. Yes I have, I even have a huge burst of energy too.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Welcome back the new you, although I liked you anyway

Pleased to hear you feel a little better about life xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can relate

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Welcome back the new you, although I liked you anyway

Pleased to hear you feel a little better about life xx"

Thabk you. Haha the confident me is much better anyway.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Aww OP.

Sometimes it's fucking tough to find self confidence in yourself. I hope you continue your journey of liking yourself and realising how great you are. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So glad to read this sweetheart. You sobered up now?

Thank you. Yes I have, I even have a huge burst of energy too. "

Oh dear. Lock up your daughters mums and nans!

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I can relate "

Great feeling isn't it!

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"So glad to read this sweetheart. You sobered up now?

Thank you. Yes I have, I even have a huge burst of energy too.

Oh dear. Lock up your daughters mums and nans! "

Don't forget sisters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a great place to be hun, took me a long time to get there myself, im 41 now and feel so much more confident now than when i was in my 20's x

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Fabulous news xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s great news. It’s a good feeling when it happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So glad to read this sweetheart. You sobered up now?

Thank you. Yes I have, I even have a huge burst of energy too.

Oh dear. Lock up your daughters mums and nans!

Don't forget sisters. "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Aww OP.

Sometimes it's fucking tough to find self confidence in yourself. I hope you continue your journey of liking yourself and realising how great you are. x"

Very tough. For a while I was just coasting by with a neutral or numb view of it all. With a few low points mixed in. I did have a short lived boost a few weeks ago.

Its a different feeling this time though so I hope it should last.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Wise words Kietonel...

“mostly with those that feel similar, that you don't need others to like you or approve of you. You just need you, and that self confidence will grow stronger”

because until you believe in yourself, people can’t believe in you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So grab you small violins and get ready to play that sad tune.

The past few months I have had low confidence, in all aspects of my life. I've felt down and extremely isolated from all but a few people. At times I have been ashamed of how I acted and regret a few things and how I have been.

I have been to therapy over it all, yesterday I had an amazing boost to my confidence. Not through a person in particular but just through myself. Suddenly coming to the realisation that I'm good. Took a few pictures and normally I'd just be meh about them. Honestly I'm thinking I look pretty damn good. I'm far from a vain person, I'll add.

Anyway other than being a bit boastful I wanted to just share, mostly with those that feel similar, that you don't need others to like you or approve of you. You just need you, and that self confidence will grow stronger. "

Good to hear you are regaining the confidence. Build on it each day

I was there, now I'm getting there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww OP.

Sometimes it's fucking tough to find self confidence in yourself. I hope you continue your journey of liking yourself and realising how great you are. x

Very tough. For a while I was just coasting by with a neutral or numb view of it all. With a few low points mixed in. I did have a short lived boost a few weeks ago.

Its a different feeling this time though so I hope it should last. "

Be honest.. live true.. be good.. what's not to like about someone like that? Other people spot the sincerity.. hang around with them.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Be honest.. live true.. be good.. what's not to like about someone like that? Other people spot the sincerity.. hang around with them."

Finding them is the tricky part. Not as common as you would think.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Also as a "bonus" boost to the confidence I rejoined tinder for a laugh and to pass the time.

So many matches this time around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live it well man, live it well

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Bless you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well what ever it is that you have worked on the improve within has clearly work on the outside too... I hardly recognised you, looking great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do look great tbf! You give me a lovely lob on Everytime I look at your pics x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So grab you small violins and get ready to play that sad tune.

The past few months I have had low confidence, in all aspects of my life. I've felt down and extremely isolated from all but a few people. At times I have been ashamed of how I acted and regret a few things and how I have been.

I have been to therapy over it all, yesterday I had an amazing boost to my confidence. Not through a person in particular but just through myself. Suddenly coming to the realisation that I'm good. Took a few pictures and normally I'd just be meh about them. Honestly I'm thinking I look pretty damn good. I'm far from a vain person, I'll add.

Anyway other than being a bit boastful I wanted to just share, mostly with those that feel similar, that you don't need others to like you or approve of you. You just need you, and that self confidence will grow stronger. "

It sounds like you have been through a growing period in your life and are coming out the other side a better person, well done K!!!

There is a difference between being full of pride and full of self worth.

I read your post as a man who is finding his self worth.

Keep doing what you are doing buddy and take it one day at a time.

LJ

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


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You do look great tbf! You give me a lovely lob on Everytime I look at your pics x "

I feel the exact same way about you man!

Did we just become best friends?

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


" It sounds like you have been through a growing period in your life and are coming out the other side a better person, well done K!!!

There is a difference between being full of pride and full of self worth.

I read your post as a man who is finding his self worth.

Keep doing what you are doing buddy and take it one day at a time.

LJ"

Thank you.

I'd say I'm a bit of both.

Mostly the latter but am full of pride in myself for starting to feel the way I do.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Well what ever it is that you have worked on the improve within has clearly work on the outside too... I hardly recognised you, looking great! "

I shall thank you, again

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Good to hear

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