FabSwingers.com forum: Ermm...what!?!?!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A girl in cut video just said if you sleep with another girl behind your boyfriend's back that's not cheating

So basically sleeping with people opposite sex of your partner is not cheating?

By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

What counts as cheating is up to the couple to decide. Hannah has had sex with a female friend of hers a couple of times since we've been together and it's absolutely fine with me. I've even talked to them both about it. If she did the same with a man I would definitely not feel the same.

I don't consider her with another woman cheating. They have both been completely up-front about it before and since it happened. I knew they wanted it, Hannah made sure I was OK if it happened and they went for it. It hasn't in any way damaged our relationship. That's our call whether we class that as cheating isn't it?

If she had done it behind my back, which I suspect you may be thinking, it still wouldn't have bothered me even though technically it would be cheating.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What counts as cheating is up to the couple to decide. Hannah has had sex with a female friend of hers a couple of times since we've been together and it's absolutely fine with me. I've even talked to them both about it. If she did the same with a man I would definitely not feel the same.

If she had done it behind my back, which I suspect you may be thinking, it still wouldn't have bothered me even though technically it would be cheating."

Interesting.

I would be okay with my partner (if I ever find one) sleeping with other women but she would have to be 100% honest with me about it. If she were to do it behind my back that would be a deal breaker. Because to me it's not the physical part of cheating that makes it bad it's the lack of trust in relationship.