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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person" ![]() | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person" That's a very interesting point | |||
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" That's a very interesting point" You do play on it don't you? Admit it? I would. | |||
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"That's today's look at my penis thread then ![]() Yep here we go | |||
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"I ask the question because I don't class myself as a BBC! I'm 7" with an upwards curve (I'll most probably get ridiculed now lol). So it just goes to show that not every black guy has a 8" + monster cock. What are your thoughts? I ask because I've spoken to women who say big cocks are nice (asian, black or white) but they can be uncomfortable and sometimes hurt the lady." Hey bud , i,ve attended a few naughty events where there has been a mix of races. I,m white on the smaller end of the spectrum. My observations have been not a lot of difference bewtween white and black dicks in size stakes,and yes not all black guys are larger. Also you have to get things into perspective. Just like guys dicks and body shapes they come in all shapes and sizes. It makes sense equally that ladies vaginas vome in different shapes and sizes. The ladies at these events are beautiful but when asked in own admission normally prefer the biggers guys . Only reason because they don,t like other ladies feel discomfort when a larger guy enters her. More importantly they seek these events because larger guys despite what porn makes you think big dicks are rarer. And in there normal every day life they find it hard to find these guys or they just wish to be stretched out to which there normal partners can not provide. I,ve often stratched my head at the guys that attend these events. Why? Cos there normally big dicked guys good looking , and truely nice decent guys. Yet these guys confide that finding a lass who,s comfortable with there size is a chore. When they do they are all to aware that they cannot be to assertive cos lady does not like it ,then in time find partners begin to make excuses not to have sex because its just to much. | |||
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" That's a very interesting point You do play on it don't you? Admit it? I would." I don't. | |||
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"That's today's look at my penis thread then ![]() There’s none on his profile so how does that work? | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person" "some" of us don't..... but life aint changing till couples realise they are putting off some of the very people they may be after..... and black guys stop using it as a substitute for them not selling personality! but neither is happening anytime soon | |||
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"To be honest I've always thought the question or even belief is borderline racist." Don't think there's anything 'borderline' about it. | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person "some" of us don't..... but life aint changing till couples realise they are putting off some of the very people they may be after..... and black guys stop using it as a substitute for them not selling personality! but neither is happening anytime soon" I know I was right to point it out the other day. I blame liberal media. | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person "some" of us don't..... but life aint changing till couples realise they are putting off some of the very people they may be after..... and black guys stop using it as a substitute for them not selling personality! but neither is happening anytime soon" ![]() | |||
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"Definitely a myth!" Probably not a myth But it's like if I was to say: "I don't like skinny flat white woman arse and tits" When statisticly some healthy white women have nice curves. Then ignore all aspects of treating the black woman like a human being and just using her as my bit on the side because I only fetishise her arse and tits. You could do the same with Asian women and their skimpy youthfull looks. I tried exposing this shit to some really shallow superficial people who still don't realize. | |||
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"Hm... Are you for real, OP? Everyone is different. You are not just an attachment to a penis - you are a man. There are more important things about being a man than your sexual statistics. And it is only painful if the lady is not attracted to you or unwilling to use lube. Next question. ![]() Wrong! Every woman's fanny is different. Not all women like the same stuff. | |||
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"Hm... Are you for real, OP? Everyone is different. You are not just an attachment to a penis - you are a man. There are more important things about being a man than your sexual statistics. And it is only painful if the lady is not attracted to you or unwilling to use lube. Next question. ![]() Absolutely. Everyone is different. We will be much better off if we accept that. Signed: not a liberal. ![]() | |||
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"I am well-endowed for a white man." Wonderful. Just wonderful. ![]() | |||
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"Had a black girlfriend years ago what said that it's not true all black guys had BBCs. She'd plenty of experience and said many were, but not all, and some white men had BWCs. " Nothing beats experience, right? ![]() | |||
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"I am well-endowed for a white man. Wonderful. Just wonderful. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person" I’d sooner be objectified as a black guy with a big cock than a white guy with a wonky eye and a very average sized cock any day ![]() | |||
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"I am well-endowed for a white man." Love a nice formed member ....girth for me but a good length is also appreciated ![]() | |||
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"I ask the question because I don't class myself as a BBC! I'm 7" with an upwards curve (I'll most probably get ridiculed now lol). So it just goes to show that not every black guy has a 8" + monster cock. What are your thoughts? I ask because I've spoken to women who say big cocks are nice (asian, black or white) but they can be uncomfortable and sometimes hurt the lady." As you're not you've answered your own question! | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person" But this is fantasy, people are not looking for life mates. Some want bbws to play with, some pregnant women etc. If might seem like objectification to some but to those involved it's their choice. | |||
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"No just like not every mother is not a milf, older woman a cougar, larger woman a BBW. People like labels and uniformity though" ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person" Absolutely this! Totally understand people being into black guys, white guys, thin women, big beautiful women, redheads etc etc but I can imagine the consternation (rightly) if say white women were generically known as big white cunts for example! | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person But this is fantasy, people are not looking for life mates. Some want bbws to play with, some pregnant women etc. If might seem like objectification to some but to those involved it's their choice." You may be missing the point, it's not the skin colour reference that might rankle, it's the reduction in a human being to the lowest denominator ie 'cock', rather than big, black 'man'. | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person But this is fantasy, people are not looking for life mates. Some want bbws to play with, some pregnant women etc. If might seem like objectification to some but to those involved it's their choice. You may be missing the point, it's not the skin colour reference that might rankle, it's the reduction in a human being to the lowest denominator ie 'cock', rather than big, black 'man'." This seems to be a difficult concept for many people, unfortunately. | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person But this is fantasy, people are not looking for life mates. Some want bbws to play with, some pregnant women etc. If might seem like objectification to some but to those involved it's their choice." Ah , so refreshing to read the voice of reason . If a black guy calls himself a BBC ( and plenty do on here ) he’s advertising himself as he sees fit . And as the op says , it gets him fucks . If a woman is looking to satisfy her desire for a well hung black guy to fuck her , when she sees the guy is a BBC it saves her the trouble of looking through endless profiles to find a black guy , and then asking if he’s well endowed . It really isn’t a big deal , but in today’s world of appeasing those who love to be offended , I’m not surprised there are plenty who don’t like the terminology . That’s a given these days ![]() | |||
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"I ask the question because I don't class myself as a BBC! I'm 7" with an upwards curve (I'll most probably get ridiculed now lol). So it just goes to show that not every black guy has a 8" + monster cock. What are your thoughts? I ask because I've spoken to women who say big cocks are nice (asian, black or white) but they can be uncomfortable and sometimes hurt the lady." No some are skinny black chaps ![]() | |||
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"Simple answer : no Bbc can also be Big Brown Cock. And as a comment above refers , calling coloured people Bbc is so degrading. How would the women feel if it was the other way round? Hypocritical ![]() "coloured people"???????? | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person But this is fantasy, people are not looking for life mates. Some want bbws to play with, some pregnant women etc. If might seem like objectification to some but to those involved it's their choice. Ah , so refreshing to read the voice of reason . If a black guy calls himself a BBC ( and plenty do on here ) he’s advertising himself as he sees fit . And as the op says , it gets him fucks . If a woman is looking to satisfy her desire for a well hung black guy to fuck her , when she sees the guy is a BBC it saves her the trouble of looking through endless profiles to find a black guy , and then asking if he’s well endowed . It really isn’t a big deal , but in today’s world of appeasing those who love to be offended , I’m not surprised there are plenty who don’t like the terminology . That’s a given these days ![]() Hm... I call black men black men and still don't have to go through endless profiles. ![]() | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person But this is fantasy, people are not looking for life mates. Some want bbws to play with, some pregnant women etc. If might seem like objectification to some but to those involved it's their choice. Ah , so refreshing to read the voice of reason . If a black guy calls himself a BBC ( and plenty do on here ) he’s advertising himself as he sees fit . And as the op says , it gets him fucks . If a woman is looking to satisfy her desire for a well hung black guy to fuck her , when she sees the guy is a BBC it saves her the trouble of looking through endless profiles to find a black guy , and then asking if he’s well endowed . It really isn’t a big deal , but in today’s world of appeasing those who love to be offended , I’m not surprised there are plenty who don’t like the terminology . That’s a given these days ![]() ![]() Yeah but are you looking for a well hung black man ? | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person But this is fantasy, people are not looking for life mates. Some want bbws to play with, some pregnant women etc. If might seem like objectification to some but to those involved it's their choice. Ah , so refreshing to read the voice of reason . If a black guy calls himself a BBC ( and plenty do on here ) he’s advertising himself as he sees fit . And as the op says , it gets him fucks . If a woman is looking to satisfy her desire for a well hung black guy to fuck her , when she sees the guy is a BBC it saves her the trouble of looking through endless profiles to find a black guy , and then asking if he’s well endowed . It really isn’t a big deal , but in today’s world of appeasing those who love to be offended , I’m not surprised there are plenty who don’t like the terminology . That’s a given these days ![]() ![]() Does a woman even have to look? It all floats into our hands! ![]() | |||
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"BBC is the epitome of objectification I know it gets guys fucks, but I do wonder if I was black, would I want to be objectified and fetishised in such a way, as opposed to just being taken on my merits as a person But this is fantasy, people are not looking for life mates. Some want bbws to play with, some pregnant women etc. If might seem like objectification to some but to those involved it's their choice. Ah , so refreshing to read the voice of reason . If a black guy calls himself a BBC ( and plenty do on here ) he’s advertising himself as he sees fit . And as the op says , it gets him fucks . If a woman is looking to satisfy her desire for a well hung black guy to fuck her , when she sees the guy is a BBC it saves her the trouble of looking through endless profiles to find a black guy , and then asking if he’s well endowed . It really isn’t a big deal , but in today’s world of appeasing those who love to be offended , I’m not surprised there are plenty who don’t like the terminology . That’s a given these days ![]() Sometimes we need labels. When you see bbw I doubt people really believe the women think themselves as beautiful per se, but you see it and you know the woman will be over a size 18 say. If you prefer women under that size you know it's not for you. Some make it their life's work to come on every bbw thread stating that fat women are not beautiful - the offened come in all sorts! | |||
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