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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

So you find someone you really like and think I'll drop them a message but you get the dreaded

STOP THINK !

You've already sent xxxxxxxxxxx a message and not received a reply back.

I don't mean if you messaged them recently more that it could have been ages ago and you forgot

So the question is do you send a polite message and try again because you know they are likely to receive hundreds of messages and might not have seen yours

Or do you assume they read it and didn't reply so best not to try again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One message is usually enough for me

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Most won't. They will send the exact copy paste message as last time that obviously didn't work.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've sent again. Only because, rationalizing it in my head, I may have sent a previous message as part of a forum game/challenge x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pointless trying to assume anything where a woman's concerned it really depends which side of the hammock she got out of, send another message, I would

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Depends when you last sent a message and what the nature of that message was I guess - if it was recent (within a few weeks) and was a message with a view to meeting, then sending another one is probably not a good idea.

If it was months ago then I don't see the harm so long as your approach is respectful.

The longer ago it was the more acceptable it is I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only send one. Any woman who doesnt reply is either a fake or a lesbian.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

You ignore & send half a dozen more messages until they get fed up & just block you

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"I only send one. Any woman who doesnt reply is either a fake or a lesbian."

I'm stealing this philosophy

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Most won't. They will send the exact copy paste message as last time that obviously didn't work. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only send one. Any woman who doesnt reply is either a fake or a lesbian."

Obviously

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Lord, cut n paste MSG's......I love replying to them........."you do know I'm a man" hahahaha....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lord, cut n paste MSG's......I love replying to them........."you do know I'm a man" hahahaha.... "
you're not...... Bloody great tits for a guy..... Vroooooom

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Lord, cut n paste MSG's......I love replying to them........."you do know I'm a man" hahahaha.... you're not...... Bloody great tits for a guy..... Vroooooom "

Stop bloody looking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lord, cut n paste MSG's......I love replying to them........."you do know I'm a man" hahahaha.... you're not...... Bloody great tits for a guy..... Vroooooom

Stop bloody looking! "
can't help it I'm like a homing pigeon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only send one. Any woman who doesnt reply is either a fake or a lesbian.

I'm stealing this philosophy "

It's a good philosophy to stand by

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Lord, cut n paste MSG's......I love replying to them........."you do know I'm a man" hahahaha.... you're not...... Bloody great tits for a guy..... Vroooooom

Stop bloody looking! can't help it I'm like a homing pigeon "

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Most won't. They will send the exact copy paste message as last time that obviously didn't work. "

Oh so true. If I’m in a playful mood I will write back saying “thanks for the cut and paste message”, the best bit is when they respond saying “oh no that’s all unique to you and freshly written”...... normally sending them a screenshot of their previous word for word messages shuts them up

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

For me no replay, no interest.o point messaging again.

Easy as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lord, cut n paste MSG's......I love replying to them........."you do know I'm a man" hahahaha.... you're not...... Bloody great tits for a guy..... Vroooooom

Stop bloody looking! can't help it I'm like a homing pigeon

"
I saw two guys letting loose a whole gaggle of homing pigeons near the beach a few days ago, pigeons don't like seagulls much thankfully

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"I only send one. Any woman who doesnt reply is either a fake or a lesbian."

Hahaha is that after you’ve sent 100 messages

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Let’s say I’m grateful to someone who did send a second message, as I missed their first one in a bulk delete clear up.

Now good friends and that wouldn’t have happened if he didn’t send that second one

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Lord, cut n paste MSG's......I love replying to them........."you do know I'm a man" hahahaha.... you're not...... Bloody great tits for a guy..... Vroooooom

Stop bloody looking! can't help it I'm like a homing pigeon

I saw two guys letting loose a whole gaggle of homing pigeons near the beach a few days ago, pigeons don't like seagulls much thankfully "

Gaggle? I think it's flock..

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