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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

You have to be one or the other so the question is.

Would you rather be super intelligent but a huge asshole or insanely kind but also incredibly stupid ?

Your decision is with you for ever so you've got to factor in job, love life, time on fab etc etc

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

It's a no brainer...

Super intelligent, albeit an asshole

I couldn't possibly be a thicko

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid people don't realise they're stupid right? Ignorance is bliss kinda thing, so I'll go with stupid. I don't think I could sleep at night being a full on arsehole

P

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Possibly super intelligent? And then I could put it to good use. I might be an arsehole but I eradicated some awful disease/world hunger. So for the greater good, I'd take the burden of being an arse and super intelligent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither

Incredibly thick ?? Define please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to go with the intelligence. So many people say ‘seduce my mind and you can have me’ so I should be ok..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I'm stupid as fuck and an arsehole so that puts paid to that one

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"You have to be one or the other so the question is.

Would you rather be super intelligent but a huge asshole or insanely kind but also incredibly stupid ?

Your decision is with you for ever so you've got to factor in job, love life, time on fab etc etc

"

Lol I am the later

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"Possibly super intelligent? And then I could put it to good use. I might be an arsehole but I eradicated some awful disease/world hunger. So for the greater good, I'd take the burden of being an arse and super intelligent."

Very well thought out answer, I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to be one or the other so the question is.

Would you rather be super intelligent but a huge asshole or insanely kind but also incredibly stupid ?

Your decision is with you for ever so you've got to factor in job, love life, time on fab etc etc

"
Some choices just can't be made but club SX tonight can

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Stupid people don't realise they're stupid right? Ignorance is bliss kinda thing, so I'll go with stupid. I don't think I could sleep at night being a full on arsehole

P"

I'm with ED on this - being an arsehole doesn't sit well with me, there are enough of those in the world as it is.

Having a lower level of intelligence doesn't mean you can't live a happy and fulfilling life either - sometimes the simpler things in life ARE the happiest, besides have you ever seen a happy arsehole?

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm stupid anyway but nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm stupid anyway but nice "
hangover?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm.. Intelligence, I would go for every time. It could come across at times as an asshole, but that could be a mix of how the other perceive your intelligence along with how straightforward and firm the intelligent person can be/act like.

If you tell someone they’re doing s* at something, even though they truly are. They’ll call you an asshole anyway. Might as well he one intelligent asshole

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Some of the things I do would have you believe I'm stupid anyway so I guess I'll stick with being stupid but kind

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I couldn’t be an arsehole!

What is the definition of intelligent? To many I know have pieces of paper saying I’ve got this degree, this masters etc. They might be intelligent in their field but damn they are stupid outside of their comfort zone and lack basic life skills

So for me it would have to be kind and stupid, as definitely a more fun way to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the things I do would have you believe I'm stupid anyway so I guess I'll stick with being stupid but kind "
Awww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm relatively intelligent and already very kind. Which one could I do without?

Sometimes I think the assholes of this world do better for themselves...

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Hmm.. Intelligence, I would go for every time. It could come across at times as an asshole, but that could be a mix of how the other perceive your intelligence along with how straightforward and firm the intelligent person can be/act like. "

Guilty! I did that ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn’t be an arsehole!

What is the definition of intelligent? To many I know have pieces of paper saying I’ve got this degree, this masters etc. They might be intelligent in their field but damn they are stupid outside of their comfort zone and lack basic life skills

So for me it would have to be kind and stupid, as definitely a more fun way to be "

I agree with ‘what is the definition of intelligence’ as this would take on the whole thread to go through. But I may challenge the thought of having a piece of paper ‘degree, masters..’ as relating to comfort zone. Key to intelligence is self reflection, identifying areas of improvements and taking the correct steps to action. Being in a comfort zone and lacking skills, is not intelligence. If you do one task so frequent, you become very efficient performing it. I don’t consider this intelligence, rather a good practiced habit. A degree doesn’t constitute intelligence, and kindness does not always reflect stupid.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I couldn’t be an arsehole!

What is the definition of intelligent? To many I know have pieces of paper saying I’ve got this degree, this masters etc. They might be intelligent in their field but damn they are stupid outside of their comfort zone and lack basic life skills

So for me it would have to be kind and stupid, as definitely a more fun way to be

I agree with ‘what is the definition of intelligence’ as this would take on the whole thread to go through. But I may challenge the thought of having a piece of paper ‘degree, masters..’ as relating to comfort zone. Key to intelligence is self reflection, identifying areas of improvements and taking the correct steps to action. Being in a comfort zone and lacking skills, is not intelligence. If you do one task so frequent, you become very efficient performing it. I don’t consider this intelligence, rather a good practiced habit. A degree doesn’t constitute intelligence, and kindness does not always reflect stupid. "

Love this and totally agree

I’m going to borrow this, photocopy it and place it on some people’s desks for their Monday reflection haha

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